Funda kabanzi mayelana nencazelo yokubona amasokisi ephusheni ngu-Al-Osaimi

Amaphupho ngomunye umhlaba, okuholela nomaphi lapho ethanda khona ngesifiso sakhe, kwathiwa ayizifinyezo ze-subconscious, futhi kuthiwa yimiyalezo evela kwelinye izwe eliza emhlabeni ngendlela ehlukene. izigcawu, futhi ingqikithi yazo ihlala ingacacile, nolwandle lwazo lubanzi, naphezu kwenani elikhulu labahumushi, incazelo ngayinye iyahluka noma nini lapho umbono uhluka Masihlale ngokuningiliziwe ekuboneni amasokisi ephusheni.

Ukuhunyushwa amaphupho Amasokisi

• Amasokisi ayingxenye yezingubo, futhi umuntu uwagqoka ukuze azizwe efudumele futhi agcine izinyawo zakhe zingabomi. Ngaleso sizathu abahlaziyi baveze ukuthi isokisi lisho imali kanti ukugqoka isokisi kukhomba ukubambelela emalini nokulangazelela kakhulu ukuyithola.  
• Uma kuphuma iphunga elimnandi esokisini, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi imali yakhe isemthethweni futhi ibusiswe ngayo, futhi uma iphunga elibi liphuma kuyo, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi le mali inqatshelwe, futhi umthombo uyasolisa. khombisa introversion kanye nobuntu obuthaka ngezinye izikhathi.

Uphawu lwamasokisi ephusheni i-Al-Osaimi

• Ukuchazwa kwe-Al-Osaimi kwakufana nezincazelo zika-Ibn Sirin no-Al-Nabulsi mayelana namasokisi ephusheni, kodwa wanezela into elula futhi wathi isimo kanye nokucaciswa kwamasokisi ephusheni kunesici esikhulu ekuchazeni. , ngakho uma isimo sakhe singcono, kulapho ekhomba khona ukuthi imali ezotholwa umboni izoba ningi kakhulu noma izoqashwa endaweni Unika abasebenzi abasebenza kuyo amaholo amakhulu, futhi lokhu kusho ukufika kwesiteji esikhulu. empilweni yomboni, ngoba izomsusa esigabeni sokubuza abantu ngemali nezikweletu aze afike esigabeni sokumboza nokuthatha inzuzo. 
• Amasokisi amade angcono kunamafushane ephusheni (ngokuvumelana nokunambitheka komphuphi ngesikhathi ephapheme), futhi amasokisi angekho esimweni esihle asho imali encane noma indlela yokuziphilisa engahlali unomphela.
• Amasokisi amadala ephusheni lika-Al-Osaimi kuwuphawu lwesidingo sokukhanyisa insika yenkolo empilweni yomboni futhi azisindise ekuhlushweni kokunganaki ilungelo likaNkulunkulu.

Amasokisi amnyama ephusheni

• Ukubona amasokisi anemibala akuthwali incazelo yokuhle ngokuphelele, kodwa uma umbala wamasokisi ujwayele imibala ekhanyayo, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokuphila okuseduze kanye nesimo esichichimayo.
• Ngokuqondene nemibala emnyama yazo, ibonisa ukwenzeka kwezinkinga zezimali, futhi ingase iholele ekulahlekelweni imali, kodwa uma amasokisi ezingane, lowo mbono uyancomeka, futhi uhunyushwa njengokufika kobuhle nesibusiso esiningi. kumboni, futhi imibala engcono kakhulu yamasokisi imhlophe futhi iluhlaza, njengoba kokubili kubonisa isibusiso nobuhle obuningi.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana namasokisi owesifazane oshadile

• Ukubona amasokisi ahlanzekile ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kuyisibonakaliso esihle, njengoba kuchaza ukufika kokuziphilisa okuningi maduzane yena nomndeni wakhe, futhi uma ebona amasokisi ezingane, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa inzalo enhle, futhi kumemezela ukuzalwa kwezingane. labo abalindele izingane.
• Uma ebona amasokisi omyeni wakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokwanda kwendlela aziphilisa ngayo, noma isikhundla sakhe emsebenzini, okuzuzisa umndeni wonke, futhi uma ebona ukuthi wenza amasokisi, kusho ukuthi ulungile. unkosikazi futhi usiza umyeni wakhe emisebenzini ehlukahlukene. ukuvikela umndeni wakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona amasokisi ephusheni

• Isokisi liyimali, futhi uma umboni wayengumuntu, futhi elungisa isokisi lakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokulunga kokuphila kwakhe futhi ngemva kwenhlekelele, futhi kubonisa ukuchichima kwezenzo zakhe ezinhle.
• Amasokisi ephusheni le-bachelor abonisa ukuthi usuku lwakhe lomshado lusondela, nokuthi uzohlangana nomfazi omuhle.
• Amasokisi angase abonise ukufika komsebenzi omusha, onenzuzo, futhi kwathiwa noma ubani ozibona egqoke amasokisi, khona-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uvikela imali yakhe enkohlakalo, futhi uma ebona isokisi lakhe lidabukile, khona-ke lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uyasilela emalungelweni kaNkulunkulu, futhi uma othile emnika isokisi, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukufika kwenzuzo yemali ngokushesha.

Ukugqoka amasokisi ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugqoka isiphuzo kwabesifazane abangashadile

Izincazelo ziye zahluka kulesi simo:

• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ezibona ethenga amasokisi amhlophe, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi usendleleni efanele, futhi uthathwa njengommemezeli wokufeza lokho akufisayo ezifundweni zakhe, emsebenzini, ngisho nasemshadweni wakhe, futhi lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ubhekene nezingozi ezithile. , bese ebanqoba emva kwesikhathi esithile.
• Kodwa uma ethenga amasokisi amnyama, lokhu kubonisa ukuzimisela namandla, nokuthi angakwazi ukuthwala okuningi. Ukuze ukwazi ukufeza umgomo oyifunayo, njengoba kubonisa ukuhlupheka ekufezeni lokho okufisayo.
• Futhi uma ebona ukuthi isokisi lakhe lidabukile, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ubhekene nesimo sobuthakathaka ngenxa yezinkinga ezenzeke ngaphambili, ngakho-ke kufanele anqobe imizwa yakhe futhi aqine.Ukungazinzi kwakhe kwengqondo, futhi kungase kubonise ukuthi uzosuka endaweni akuyo maduzane, futhi ahlale endaweni entsha ngaphandle komndeni wakhe.
• Futhi uma egqoke amasokisi aphukile, khona-ke ukuhumusha kubuyela emuva ekuziphatheni kwaleyo ntombazane nomphakathi, ngakho-ke kufanele athuthukise lezo zici, futhi ngokuphambene nalokho, uma egqoke amasokisi ahlanzekile, lokhu kubonisa ukucasha nokuziphatha okuhle. , futhi uma ebona ukuthi ushintshanisa amasokisi nothile, lokho kuyinkomba yokuntula kwakhe umthwalo wemfanelo, nokuthi uncike kwabanye ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuthenga amasokisi

• Ukuthenga amasokisi ephusheni kungenye yemibono encomekayo, njengoba iningi labahumushi lithe amasokisi abhekisela emalini, ngakho-ke ukutholwa kwamasokisi ephusheni kubonisa ukwanda kokuziphilisa, ukuthola izinzuzo ezingalindelekile, futhi kuzohambisana ne isibusiso, noma kungase kuhunyushwe ukuthi umboni uzozuza u-Ballester uzohlala enempilo enhle isikhathi eside.
• Umbono wokuthenga amasokisi ungomunye wemibono encomekayo, ikakhulukazi uma lowo ophuphayo ezizwa enelisekile ngesikhathi esithenga, okusho ukuthi ngeke aphoqeleke ukuthi asithenge ephusheni, futhi umbala nokuthungwa kwesiphuzo ephusheni kune ithonya elikhulu ekuchazeni.
• Sesike sahumusha izinkomba eziningi zemibala kwezinye izihloko eziningi, futhi sizozibala ezinye zazo ukuze umbono ucace kubafundi abaningi. Umbala omnyama ephusheni uwusizi, ikakhulukazi uma umphuphi ethukuthele ephapheme futhi ephenduka. kude nayo ngoba akayithandi, nombala ophuzi uhunyushwa ngokuthi isifo, nokunye Imibala encomekayo yokuthenga amasokisi noma izingubo ngokujwayelekile imibala ekhanyayo, ikakhulukazi emhlophe, yasezulwini, eluhlaza ngokukhanyayo, nepinki, ngoba yonke le mibala bonisa isimo esihle, umsebenzi omusha, noma ukukhululwa enhlekeleleni.
• Ukuthungwa kwamasokisi kunezincazelo eziningi; Obona ukuthi uthenge amasokisi kakotini noma kasilika, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi usezohamba, futhi lolu hambo luzomjabulisa, njengoba engase ashade nezwe azohambela kulo, noma athole imali enkulu. futhi kuyoba isizathu sokushintsha inkambo yokuphila kwakhe.
• Amasokisi, uma ayenziwe ngelineni noma ngoboya, khona-ke lokhu kuhle kakhulu, futhi kwashiwo ephusheni ukuthi uma umboni ethenga ephusheni futhi enemali eyanele yalokho afuna ukukuthenga, khona-ke umbono wawuyoba uphawu lokucasha, njengoba nje uNkulunkulu ezokwenza ukuba akuthole akufisayo, kodwa uma emi phambi kwaleyo nto eyayikhona ufuna ukuyithenga, kodwa athole ukuthi imali yakhe incane. ukuswela isikhathi esithile, futhi maduze nje kuzophela ngokwanda kokunxusa nokwethembela kuSihawu Kakhulu, lobo bunzima buzophenduka ukuchuma nokukhululeka.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuthenga amasokisi owesifazane oshadile

• Uma owesifazane oshadile ngesikhathi sokuvuka ewela ezinkingeni zezimali ezamenza wazizwa engenalutho futhi engenalutho, futhi ngolunye usuku ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uthenga amasokisi, khona-ke lo mbono ubonisa ukuvala iminyango yobumpofu nokuvula iminyango yenjabulo nokunethezeka. .Zonke izinkinga zakhe zezimali ukwazi ukuthi owesifazane oshadile angabona ukuthi uthenge amasokisi futhi uma ebuyela ekhaya athole egugile noma edabukile futhi enezimbobo ezimosha ukubonakala kwakhe, ngakho-ke leliphupho lingase libe yisixwayiso kulo wesifazane ngokukhetha kwakhe. kokuthile, futhi iphupho libonisa ukuthi lona wesifazane udinga amandla okugxila nokunemba Empilweni yakhe ukuze akwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokungena enkingeni.
• Umfazi oshadile angaba unina wamadodakazi amaningi, wabona ukuthi wabathengela amasokisi amahle, intombazane ngayinye yathatha amasokisi alingana nobukhulu bezinyawo zayo.Yiyona ndlela yokuziphilisa, futhi uma bengashadile, lokhu kuwumshado ojabulisayo kubo.
• Amasokisi amnyama ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile amahle futhi abonisa injabulo, ikakhulukazi uma ekhetha lo mbala wamasitokisi ephusheni.

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Ukuhunyushwa kokukhipha amasokisi ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Kwesinye isikhathi umuntu uphupha ekhumula izingubo zakhe noma ekhumula ingxenye yazo, kuthi uma owesifazane ongashadile ephupha ekhumula amasokisi akhe noma awakhumule womabili bese eba nezicathulo ephusheni, lokhu kuwuphawu lokwesaba. , njengoba ukwesaba kungase kungene enhliziyweni yakhe ngenxa yesimo esibucayi maduzane, kanye nokwenzeka kwaleyo nhlekelele kunoma yini esikhathini esizayo.Impilo yakhe, futhi njengoba ukuphila kwethu kugcwele izici ezihlukahlukene, le nkinga ezomenza esabe futhi isikhathi singase sihlotshaniswe nokuqhubeka komsebenzi emsebenzini, noma ingxabano ebukhali nomunye wabazali noma udadewabo, futhi omunye wabahumushi wathi lokhu kwesaba okuza kuye kuzoba ngenxa yephrojekthi yokuxhumana, futhi kufanelekile. ukucacisa ukuthi Izizathu zokwesaba amantombazane angashadile angena ebuhlotsheni ziningi futhi zihlukahlukene, futhi umphuphi angase awele komunye wabo. Angase ahlupheke ngenxa yokukhathazeka ngokuhlukana nabazali bakhe, okusho ukuthi usondelene kakhulu nabo ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo futhi akakwazi ukushiya umuzi wakhe ayoziphilisa yedwa nomyeni wakhe.Lokhu kubabangela inkinga enkulu ngoba abanalo ikhono. ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo womyeni, ikhaya, nabantwana.
• Ngokuqondene nokuthi uma ebona ukuthi wayisusa ezinyaweni zakhe wabe eseyigeza, khona-ke leli phupho liyamangalisa ekuchazeni kwalo, ngoba iningi lezazi zezomthetho, eliholwa ngu-Ibn Sirin, u-Al-Nabulsi kanye no-Imam Al-Sadiq baqinisekisa ukuthi ukuwasha izingubo kuyaqala. kusukela emahembeni, ebhulukweni, emasokisini, noma yini egqokwayo emzimbeni isho ukususwa kokukhathazeka nokufa.. Usizi, nokucaca kwamanzi ayesetshenziswa ephusheni ukuwasha amasokisi, kulapho incazelo iholela enjabulweni futhi isikhathi sokukhululeka nenduduzo esisondelayo.Ngokuqondene nowesifazane ongashadile, uma ebona ukuthi lapho ewasha kakhulu amasokisi, yilapho engcola kakhulu, khona-ke lo mbono uyingozi futhi usho iphutha elikhulu ezingeni lakhe lokubhekana nezinkinga. .Iphupho likhomba ukuthi uma esekwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga nezinkinga zakhe, udaba luba nzima kakhulu.
• Uma amasokisi enganuki kahle nomphuphi ezwa enengeka waze wawakhumula wabe esezizwa ekhululekile ngoba esewakhiphile, lombono uyancomeka ngoba iphunga elibi ephusheni liyibika elibi, impumelelo yakhe ekuthatheni. ukukhumula noma iyiphi ingubo enephunga elibi kuwuphawu lwento embi noma inkinga enamandla ebingavela, lapho iNkosi yesihlalo sobukhosi izomsindisa kuyo.
• Uma ebona ephusheni ukuthi amasokisi abewagqokile awafani noma aklebhukile nokuma kwawo akufanelekile, wabe esewakhumula ephusheni, khona-ke leli phupho lilungile, ngoba lizokhipha ukukhathazeka okukhulu. ekuvukeni ukuphila, uNkulunkulu ethanda.
• Kodwa uma ephupha ukuthi ugqoke amasokisi akhe, khona-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lokuqina ezinyathelweni zakhe ekufezeni isifiso sakhe, futhi umbono ubonisa ukuthi ubambelele emigomeni yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kokulahlekelwa amasokisi ephusheni

• Lapho izazi zezomthetho zinquma ukuhumusha ukulahlekelwa ngokujwayelekile, kungakhathaliseki ukulahlekelwa izingubo, izinto, izinto zomuntu siqu, noma ubucwebe nemali, baqinisekisa ukuthi akukuhle kuzo zonke izinhlobo zabo ephusheni, ikakhulukazi uma umphuphi ngesikhathi ephupha ezwa. ukwethuka nokudabuka ngenxa yento elahlekile kuye, futhi njengoba amasokisi ephusheni abhekwa njengezimpawu zemali nokuyigcina ephapheme, khona-ke ukulahlekelwa yiyo ephusheni kuwuphawu losizi lwalowo obonayo ngokulahlekelwa ingxenye yemali yakhe, ekhumbula ukuthi izizathu zokulahlekelwa yimali zizoba ziningi ngokuphaphama, ngakho-ke uma umthengisi ephuphe lombono esebenza ekuhwebeni kwezitshalo noma ekuhwebeni ngezimpahla ezikhiqiziwe, kusho ukuthi uhlelo lwakhe lwebhizinisi lungase lwehluleke.Kulo nyaka, kanye nalo. , uzolahlekelwa yimali eningi, futhi inhloko yomndeni, uma iphupha lo mbono, ingase iphazamise umsebenzi wayo futhi ingase imshiye iyofuna omunye umsebenzi.
• Kodwa kuthiwani ngabantu abangenawo imali enkulu uma bebona lowo mbono? Ngendlela yokuthi kwesinye isikhathi umfundi wesikole noma yimuphi umuntu ongenawo umthombo wokuziphilisa angaphupha ngakho, ngakho-ke lo mbono ngeke uncomeke ngaphandle kokuthi elahlekelwe amasokisi ephusheni futhi elokhu ewafuna futhi. wawathola ngaphambi kokuphela kwephupho, ukuze umbono ubonise ukulahlekelwa isikhathi somphuphi noma ukulahlekelwa okuthile okukhulu ephusheni, impilo yakhe, kodwa uzoyithola, futhi kufanele sicacise enye yezinto ezibalulekile ngamaphupho. , okusho ukuthi amaphupho okulahleka angase asuke e-subconscious, okusho ukuthi umuntu angase esabe into ethile ngokoqobo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi impahla noma imali, ngakho-ke uzobona ephusheni ukuthi ilahlekile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi The umphuphi ubona ephusheni imibono yokulahlekelwa kuzo zonke izinhlobo zako, kangangokuthi uNkulunkulu umxwayisa ngokuthile okungokoqobo; Okusho ukuthi, indoda eshadile ingase iphuphe ukuthi amasokisi ayo alahlekile kuze kube yilapho uNkulunkulu emxwayisa ngokuthi uma engagwemi umkhuba othile empilweni yakhe, uzolahlekelwa yimali yakhe eningi, ngakho-ke lowo ophuphayo kufanele aqonde futhi athathe konke. imininingwane kanye nezikhala zephupho lakhe ukuze achaze lokho akubona ngokucacile nangendlela efanele.

Egqoke amasokisi abangasekho ephusheni

• Abahumushi bathi njalo uma kuqhamuka umuntu ofile ephusheni egqoke izingubo ezintsha nezihlanzekile lokhu kuwuphawu lobude bakhe, futhi njengoba amasokisi engenye yezinhlobo zezimpahla ezigqokwa umuntu uma ofile ebonakala egqoke amasokisi. enemibala ekhanyayo efana nohlaza, ngakho-ke lo mbono uyancomeka, futhi uma ofile ecela amasokisi kumphuphi Uyawagqoka ngoba ezwa amakhaza futhi udinga amasokisi ukuze azizwe efudumele, ngakho-ke lezi zipho ezifunwa abangasekho nomphuphi. kumele abanike ukuze kube yisizathu sokusindisa abafileyo emlilweni, ngakho-ke lo mbono uzohunyushwa ngencazelo efanayo yephupho eliphathelene nabafileyo njengokucela ukudla noma okuphuzwayo kwabaphilayo, ngakho-ke umbono wabafileyo iphupho liyohlukaniswa izigaba ezimbili; isigaba sokuQala Uma umuntu ophilayo embona ejabule, futhi zonke izingubo zakhe zilingana nomzimba wakhe futhi zingammpintshi kakhulu, khona-ke lo mbono muhle. Isigaba sesibili: Uma umufi eshoda okuthile ezingutsheni zakhe, njengehembe noma ibhulukwe, futhi angase aswele amasokisi afanele okugqoka, khona-ke zonke lezi zimo ziyisibonakaliso sokuhluleka komphuphi nalowo oshonile.

Ukucaphuna kwakusekelwe: 1- The Book of Muntakhab al-Kalam fi Tafsir al-Ahlam, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, Dar al-Ma'rifah edition, Beirut 2000. 2- The Dictionary of Ukuhunyushwa Amaphupho, Ibn Sirin kanye Sheikh Abd al-Ghani al-Nabulsi, uphenyo ngu-Basil Baridi, uhlelo lwe-Al-Safaa Library, Abu Dhabi 2008. 3- Incwadi yokuqhola i-Al-Anam ekuchazeni iphupho, uSheikh Abdul Ghani Al-Nabulsi.