Umthandazo obhaliwe osebenzayo kakhulu wabafileyo ukuze bamkhululele ukuhlushwa

Ukufa kuyinhlekelele enkulu kakhulu eyehlela umuntu kuyena, nomndeni wakhe, abafowabo kanye nabathandiweyo bakhe.INkosi yethu yakubiza ngenhlekelele eQur'an eNgcwele, lapho Ithi (Inkazimulo mayibe kuYo): “Uma umhlaba, khona-ke inhlekelele yokufa yehlela phezu kwakho.” Kusukela evesini: 106 of Surat Al-Maeda

Ngoba zonke izinhlekelele zinganxeshezelwa ngaphandle kokufa, ngakho-ke noma ubani ofayo akasoze abuya, futhi uma ukufa kwehlela, iphephandaba lakhe lizovalwa futhi umsebenzi wakhe unqanyulwe, futhi maduze nje ukukhulunywa kwakhe kuzophela, futhi abantu abaningi bayomkhohlwa ngemva kwalokho. isikhashana sengathi wayengelutho.

Umthandazo wabafileyo

Ukunxusela abafileyo kuwumyalelo ovela kuNkulunkulu nomyalo ovela kuSithunywa saKhe (uNkulunkulu angasibusisa futhi asinike ukuthula) Ngakho-ke, ukunxusa okuhle kakhulu kwabafileyo kweza kuQur'an eNgcwele ngesisho sakhe (oPhezukonke): “Labo abeza emva kwabo bathi: ‘Nkosi yethu, Sithethelele kanye nabafowethu abangaphambi kwethu ngokholo. Isiqephu: 10

Ukunxusa ngobusuku bokuqala ethuneni

KuyiSunnah futhi ukunxusela ofileyo ngesikhathi sokungcwatshwa, futhi lokho kungobusuku bokuqala ethuneni.Kungukunxusela ukuqiniswa kwakhe.Ngegunya lika-Uthman bin Affan (kwangathi uNkulunkulu angajabula ngaye), wathi: UmProfethi (ukuthula nezibusiso zika Allah kube kuye) kwathi uma eqeda ukungcwaba abangasekho wema phezu kwakhe wathi: “Cela umfowenu intethelelo.” Futhi mcelele isiqiniseko, ngoba manje usebuzwa. Sahih Sunan Abi Dawood

Umthandazo wokulangazelela abangasekho

Umkhuleko uwukuqinisekisa lokhu kunxusa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungcwatshwa noma lapho ulangazelela ofile noma nini.

O Allah, mthethelele futhi ube nomusa kuye, umnike impilo futhi umthethelele, uhloniphe indawo yakhe yokuhlala, wandise ukungena kwakhe, uhloniphe indawo yakhe yokuhlala, umgeze ngamanzi, iqhwa nesichotho, futhi umhlanze ezonweni naseziphambekweni njengengubo emhlophe. “Qinisekisa ukulinganisa kwakhe, ulungise incwadi yakhe, wenze ithuna lakhe libe yinsimu yezivande zasePharadesi, futhi umhlanganise nabaProfethi, nabafel’ ukholo, nabalungile, futhi ube ngumngane omuhle walabo.”

Umthandazo wabafileyo eRamadan

• Kwashiwo ku-Sunnah ukuthi kunezikhathi ezinhle lapho uNkulunkulu ephendula khona ukunxusa, okuhlanganisa nokunxusa lapho ephula inzilo eRamadan.
• فعن أبي هريرة عن النبي (صلى الله عليه وسلم) قال: “ثَلَاثٌ لَا تُرَدُّ دَعْوَتُهُمْ، الإِمَامُ العَادِلُ، وَالصَّائِمُ حِينَ يُفْطِرُ، وَدَعْوَةُ المَظْلُومِ يَرْفَعُهَا فَوْقَ الغَمَامِ، وَتُفَتَّحُ لَهَا أَبْوَابُ السَّمَاءِ، وَيَقُولُ الرَّبُّ (عَزَّ وَجَلَّ): وَعِزَّتِي لَأَنْصُرَنَّكِ وَلَوْ بَعْدَ حِينٍ. ” Sahih Al-Tirmidhi
• Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthandazela oshonile eRamadan, ukuze usebenzise lesi sikhathi esihle.

Imithandazo yomndeni wabafileyo

Amazwi enduduzo aphuma kuSunnah ngoba isigameko sokufa siyindaba ebucayi enyakazisa imiphefumulo, ngakho-ke kuyafuneka ukuthi abaseduze nabo badlulise amazwi enduduzo emndenini kamufi futhi bancome ukubekezela.

Umkhuleko wokubekezela emndenini kamufi

• Enye yezicelo ezisiza umndeni kamufi ukuthi ubekezele ilokho isiThunywa sikaMvelinqangi (izibusiso zika-Allah amphuzise) uma sivakashela umndeni kamufi noma siwuthumela lezi. amazwi, okungalawa aduduza ngawo indodakazi yakhe uZainab (kwangathi uNkulunkulu angajabula ngayo) ngokufa kwendodana kuyona, ethi: “UNkulunkulu unalokho Akuthathile, futhi Unakho Akunikayo, futhi ngamunye unakho isikhathi esimisiwe, ngakho yiba nesineke futhi ufune umvuzo.” Bukhari kanye Muslim
• Izazi zathi akukho lutho olungalungile nganoma iyiphi indlela yokwakheka okushiwo emndenini kamufi, njengokuthi: “Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angakwandisa umvuzo wenu, aniduduze, anithethelele ngokufa kwenu, anikhuthaze ukuba nibekezele, futhi asivuze thina kanye nani. ngokubekezela.”

Umkhuleko kababa ongasekho

Amalungelo amakhulu kunawo wonke onawo empilweni yakho yilungelo labazali bakho, futhi noma bayaphila noma bafile, kufanele wenze umsebenzi wabo kuwe.

Esandleni sika-Abu Usaid Malik bin Rabia Al-Saedi (uNkulunkulu angajabula ngaye), wathi: “Ngesikhathi sihlezi nesiThunywa sika Allah (ukuthula makube kuye), kwafika indoda evela kuBanu Salamah. wathi kuye: “O siThunywa sikaAllah, ngabe kukhona yini okusele ekulungeni kwabazali bami engingabahlonipha ngakho emva kokufa kwabo na? Wathi: Yebo, ukubakhulekela, ukubacelela intethelelo, nokufeza isivumelwano sabo emva kwabo, nokusekela ubuhlobo obungefinyelelwe ngaphandle kwabo, nokuhlonipha umngane wabo. Ilandiswa ngu-Abu Dawood

Umthandazo wokuthandazela abangasekho ngoLwesihlanu

• Futhi, kunehora lokuphendula ngoLwesihlanu, ngokuba u-Abu Hurairah wathi: U-Abu al-Qasim wathi (sengathi imikhuleko kaNkulunkulu nokuthula makube kuye): “Eqenjini ihora angavumelani nalo. Bukhari kanye Muslim
• Kuyenzeka iSulumane ligcine ukunxusela abangasekho ngoLwesihlanu bese limkhulekela ngakho konke okuhle elikufunayo, futhi izifundiswa zahlukana mayelana nokunquma leli hora, zaphakamisa ukuthi kube yihora elilandela umkhuleko wase-Asr kuze kufike eMaghrib.
• واستدلوا بما جاء عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ (صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ) قَالَ: “يَوْمُ الْجُمُعَةِ اثْنَتَا عَشْرَةَ سَاعَةً، لَا يُوجَدُ فِيهَا عَبْدٌ مُسْلِمٌ يَسْأَلُ اللَّهَ شَيْئًا إِلَّا آتَاهُ إِيَّاهُ فَالْتَمِسُوهَا آخِرَ سَاعَةٍ بَعْدَ الْعَصْرِ.” U-Al-Albani ukuqinisekisile

Bakhulekele abangasekho

• Futhi siphetha ngalesi sihloko, okuwukunxusela abafileyo, ngakho-ke uma umuntu wenziwa ukungalungi komunye umuntu, bese wafa umcindezeli esaphila, ingabe kuvumelekile ukuthi amnxusele?
• Yebo, lesi yisihloko esinzima kwabacindezelwe, njengoba ebona umcindezeli wakhe eshiya umhlaba, futhi akazange alithole ilungelo lakhe kuye, nomcindezeli akazange acabange ukushweleza labo ababecindezelwe.
• Iqiniso liwukuthi kulesi simo ngiyamzwela umcindezeli, ngoba washona futhi impilo yakhe yaphela ngaphandle kokuxazulula izikhalo zakhe, futhi akawazi umphumela wokucindezelwa kwakhe kwabanye uma ocindezelwe engamxoleli.Izenzo zakhe ezinhle?
• Ngabe umcindezeli akazi ngale Hadith ephuma ku-Abu Hurairah ukuthi isiThunywa sikaNkulunkulu (uNkulunkulu ambusise futhi asinike ukuthula) sabuza abaHlengi: “Niyakwazi yini lokho okonakalayo? Bathi: “Owohlokile phakathi kwethu yilowo ongenayo i-dirham nampahla, ngakho wathi: “Oseqile esizweni sami uyofika ngoSuku lokuvuka ngomkhuleko, ngokuzila ukudla, nange-zakat, futhi uyofika esedelile lo, ehlambalaza lokhu. omunye, wadla imali yalona, ​​wachitha igazi lalo, wamshaya lo, khona uzophiwa le yemisebenzi yakhe emihle, lo aphiwe imisebenzi yakhe emihle, uma imisebenzi yakhe emihle iphelile. engakaqedi lokho akukweletayo, uzakususwa ezonweni zabo, aphonswe emlilweni. ilandiswa nguMuslim
• Ngokwenza okubi ezincekwini, ikakhulukazi uma engazilulazi, angalahlekelwa yizo zonke izenzo ezinhle, futhi aze asuse izenzo zazo ezimbi kuzo futhi, ukuze ziphonswe phezu kwakhe futhi aphonswe emlilweni.
• Kodwa kungashiwo kwabacindezelwe ukuthi leli yilungelo lenu, njengoba ukunxusa komcindezeli kuvumelekile.Impela ukunxusa kocindezelwe akunasimbozo phakathi kwakho noNkulunkulu, futhi uNkulunkulu wanethembisa ukuthi Uyokweseka ngisho nangemva kwalokho. isikhashana, futhi izazi azizange zihlukanise phakathi kokuthi umcindezeli uyaphila noma ufile, ngakho kuyilungelo locindezelwe ukunxusa kuNkulunkulu nganoma yini ayifunayo.Yini eyanele ukungalungi kwakhe kini.
• Kepha ukuxolela kuyisici sabantu abahloniphekile, ikakhulukazi uma umenzi wobubi esondelene nezihlobo zakho, ngokuba uAllah (uMninimandla onke) unifisela umvuzo wokuthethelela nokuthethelela, ngakho Uthi (Inkazimulo mayibe Kuye):
• “وَلَا يَأْتَلِ أُولُو الْفَضْلِ مِنكُمْ وَالسَّعَةِ أَن يُؤْتُوا أُولِي الْقُرْبَىٰ وَالْمَسَاكِينَ وَالْمُهَاجِرِينَ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ ۖ وَلْيَعْفُوا وَلْيَصْفَحُوا ۗ أَلَا تُحِبُّونَ أَن يَغْفِرَ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ.” Ukukhanya: 22
• Ngakho-ke intethelelo noxolelo kuseduze kini kuMvelinqangi (udumo malube kuYe), kunalokho uNkulunkulu uzokuphakamisa isikhundla senu ngokuthethelelwa kwenu, njengoba uMprofethi wenu kanye nesithandwa sakho uMuhammad (ukuthula kube kuye) bathi kuwe: “Umusa anganciphisi ingcebo, futhi uNkulunkulu akakhulisi inceku ngokuthethelela ngaphandle kokuhlonipha, futhi akekho ozithoba kuNkulunkulu ngaphandle kokuthi uNkulunkulu uyamphakamisa.” ilandiswa nguMuslim
• Uma nakhuleka ngokumelene nomcindezeli wenu futhi ningamxoleli, khona-ke lokhu kuyilungelo lenu, futhi uma nathethelela futhi nathethelela, kungukuziphatha kwenu okuhle kanye nesicelo senu sokwanelisa iNkosi yenu, ngokuba Yathi: “Ngakho-ke noma ubani othethelela futhi eguqulayo, umvuzo wakhe ukuNkulunkulu, ngokuba akabathandi abenzi bokubi.” Isiqephu: 40

Khuleka umfowethu ongasekho

Umzalwane, noma engumfowabo wokubethelwa esiphambanweni noma umfowabo wabazalwane abanothando, uma efa, usuke esesikhathini esikudinga kakhulu, khona-ke ngemva kwesikhathi esifushane uzomfica futhi Khohlwa, ngakho-ke kuyilungelo lakhe ukuthi ukhulume ngaye ekunxuseni kwakho, mhlawumbe uNkulunkulu uzothola ozokukhumbula ekunxuseni kwakhe ngemva kokufa kwakho.

Futhi ngithanda ukunanzelela udaba olubalulekile, akudingekile ukuthi ukhulekele ofile ethuneni lakhe, noma kuphi lapho uthandazela umfowenu uzofika kuye, akudingi ukuthi uye ethuneni ngokuhlelekile. ukumthandazela.

Akhulekele ingane efile

Uma ingane ishonile akumele ithweswe icala, ukubala kuqala kumuntu lapho esethombile, ngoba isiThunywa (ukuthula makube kuye) sathi: “Usiba lususiwe kwabathathu: olalayo aze avuke, kusukela kumfana aze afinyelele ukuthomba, futhi kusukela kohlanya aze abe nengqondo.” Ilandiswa ngu-Imam Ahmed

Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, inqobo nje uma ingane ingekho ukubala noma isijeziso, esikhundleni sokumnxusela phakathi nomthandazo womngcwabo esikhundleni sokunxusela abazali bayo, ngakho umceli uthi: “O Nkulunkulu, menze abe-yimpahla kubazali bakhe, abamkhulekeli. (Ukuthula nezibusiso makube phezu kwakho), sindisa ngesihawu sakho, ukuhlushwa esihogweni.

Kwabikwa ngokweqiniso ngegunya lomProfethi (uNkulunkulu ambusise futhi amnikeze ukuthula) ukuthi wathi: “Ingane iyathandazelwa futhi ibizelwe abazali bayo.” Ilandiswa ngu-Imam Ahmad.

Umkhuleko wabafileyo uma lina

Kukhona futhi isikhathi esikahle sokuphendulwa kwezicelo, okuyilapho lina imvula, ngoba isiThunywa (sengathi imikhuleko kaMvelinqangi nokuthula makube phezu kwaso) sathi: “Funani izimpendulo zokunxusa lapho amabutho ehlangene, lapho imikhuleko isimisiwe, futhi uma lina.” Ibekwe njenge-hasan nguSheikh Al-Albani, nakwenye ukulandisa: "Izinto ezimbili azikwenqabi ukunxusa: ngesikhathi sokubizelwa emthandazweni nalapho lina." U-Hassan Al-Albani eSahih Al-Jami

Kuyenzeka uthandazele umufi nganoma iyiphi indlela ngesikhathi lina imvula, ngoba kuyisikhathi lapho uNkulunkulu ephendula khona imithandazo.

Umthandazo wabafileyo ngosuku lwe-Eid

Ukunxusela abafileyo ngezinsuku ze-Eid kufana nokunxusa ngezinye izinsuku, ngakho-ke akukho lutho olufakazelwe yisiThunywa sika Allah (sengathi imikhuleko ka Nkulunkulu nokuthula kube phezu kwakhe), ngaphandle kokuthi ukunxusela abafileyo kusemthethweni zonke izikhathi.

Futhi ofileyo uyajabula ngokunxusa uma kufinyelela kuye kuvela kwabaphilayo, futhi kuyafiseleka ukuthi usuku lwe-Eid lufike lapho uletha injabulo emndenini wakho, abafowenu kanye nobathandayo, ukuletha injabulo kulabo abanqunywa izenzo zabo kulo mhlaba. , ngakho ungabakhohlwa ekunxuseni kwakho kokulunga kulezi zinsuku.

Izithombe zomthandazo wabafileyo