Incazelo enembile kakhulu yephupho mayelana nokubamba isandla ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

Iphupho kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo livusa ukudideka nokungaqondakali, futhi yilokhu okusikhathazayo nokusenza sifune incazelo yephupho, futhi omunye wezazi zokuqala ezazama ukuchaza amaphupho kwakungu-Ibn Sirin, futhi lokhu wabhala encwadini yakhe ethi Interpretation. of Amaphupho, kanye nokuchazwa kwamaphupho kwaqala eNtshonalanga nguSigmund Freud, lapho abona khona ukuthi amaphupho ayinto ayilutho kodwa amaphupho acindezelwe eqinisweni, futhi ngokuhamba kwezinsuku aphenduka amaphupho ephusheni, futhi isihloko sethu namuhla izobhekana ngokuningiliziwe nencazelo yombono wokubamba isandla ephusheni.

 Bebambene ngezandla ephusheni

• Ukuhlanganiswa kwezandla ephusheni kuye kwahunyushwa njengokuzalana okuzayo noma ukuhlangana komndeni okuqinile, njengomshado kanye nobunye ubudlelwano obusondelene.
• Uma omunye wethu ephupha ukuthi isandla sakhe singcolile, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ungumnikazi wezinqumo ezingalungile, futhi akakwazi ukuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo, futhi kwahunyushwa njengokulahlekelwa imali.
• Noma ubani obona ephusheni ukuthi ubambe insizwa esandleni sakhe futhi uyazi ukuthi ungubani, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokusondela kwakhe umshado noma umshado.
• Uma umphuphi ephupha ukuthi ubambe isandla somuntu bese eyeka, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi ushiya lowo ocele usizo lwakhe, usizo lwakhe ezimweni ezinzima, noma ukusekela kwakhe, futhi uNkulunkulu uyazi kangcono. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ebambe isandla sika-Ibn Sirin   

U-Ibn Sirin ungomunye wezazi ezinkulu zokuhumusha ezazabalaza futhi zaphikelela kule sayensi enkulukazi, futhi wacebisa izimpilo zethu ngokuhlaziya nezisho eziningi ezahlukene, ngezihloko ezahlukahlukene.

• Ukubona umuntu ebambe isandla somunye umuntu kukhomba ukuthi lo muntu uzokuqondisa noma akuholele endleleni efanele, nokunqoba ubunzima esibhekana nabo empilweni.
• Kodwa uma umuntu esimbona ebambe izandla zethu ephusheni ngumfazi, okungukuthi inkosikazi noma isihlobo, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ubuhlobo bomndeni, nokuthi ubuhlobo bomphakathi busesimweni esihle.
• Kodwa uma umuntu ebona ukuthi omunye wabazali bakhe umbambe ngesandla, kusho ukuthi ubhekene nezinkinga ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi udinga ukubonisana noyise noma umama ngezinkinga abhekene nazo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokubamba izandla kwabesifazane abangashadile

Ososayensi bahluke ekuchazeni iphupho lokubamba isandla sowesifazane ongashadile, ngokwesimo sakhe sengqondo noma obambe izandla zakhe njengabazali bakhe noma insizwa, noma ukubamba umuntu othandekayo kuye, neminye imibono ehlukene: 

• Uma intombazane engashadile ibona ukuthi ibambe isandla somuntu angamazi, lokho kusho ukuthi kukhona ozoma nayo ebunzimeni ebhekene nabo.
• Ukumbona ebambe isandla sensizwa kungase kufanekisele ukuhlanganyela kwakhe okuseduze, ukunamathela kwakhe kumuntu osondelene naye, nokuthola umlingani wokuphila.
• Kodwa uma lo muntu obambe isoka lakhe ekhombisa amandla emizwa nezinga lenjabulo yakhe ngokumataniswa nalo muntu.
• Futhi uma ibona ukuthi ibambe isandla sikayise noma sikanina, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi izwa imfudumalo yomkhaya, noma ibhekene nezinkinga futhi idinga ukusekelwa kukayise nomama ukuze ibhekane nalezi zinkinga.
• Ngokusho kwencazelo ka-Ibn Sirin, noma ubani obambe isandla sentombazane engashadile, lokhu kuwubufakazi besidingo sakhe sosizo, kanye nesidingo sakhe sokuthi othile amsize anqobe izinkinga nobunzima.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubamba isandla somthandi ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Ngokufanayo, incazelo yombono wowesifazane ongashadile ephusheni ukuthi ubambe umuntu amthandayo, njengoba kubonisa uthando lwakhe ngalo muntu, kanye nokuxhumana okuseduze naye kanye nesidingo sakhe sokuba ame eduze kwakhe. wakhe.
• Uma ebambe isandla somuntu ongamazi, kusho ukuthi ubuhlobo busondela, njengokuthembisana umshado noma umshado.
• Ukubamba isandla sowesifazane ongashadile ovela kumthandi kuye kwahunyushwa njengobufakazi bokunqoba ubunzima nezimo ezinzima, nokufeza amaphupho akhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho elibambe isandla somuntu owaziwayo ngabesifazane abangashadile

• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ephusheni ukuthi ubambe isandla somuntu amaziyo, njengoyise, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi udinga ukuba ame eduze kwakhe, kanye nesidingo sakhe sokubonisana naye kwezinye izinkinga abhekana nazo.
• Kodwa uma lo muntu eyingoduso yakhe, isibonelo, lokho kubonisa ukusondelana kwakhe nalo muntu, ukunamathela kwakhe kuye, nokwaneliseka kwakhe ngalobu buhlobo.
• Futhi uma isandla abambelele kuso siyisandla sikanina, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuntula kwakhe ububele nothando, okuyinto sonke esiyidingayo ukuze sinqobe ubunzima nezinkinga zokuphila.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokubamba isandla kowesifazane oshadile       

• Ukubamba isandla sowesifazane oshadile kwakuhunyushwa njengobufakazi bokunyamalala kwezinkathazo nobunzima owesifazane adlula kubo ekuphileni kwakhe, nezinkinga zomshado eziphazamisa ukuphila kwakhe.
•  Uma ephupha ukuthi ubambe isandla esinqunyiwe, lokhu kubonisa ukuphela kobudlelwane phakathi kwabashadile, noma ukuxabana isikhathi eside.
• Uma othile ebambe isandla sakhe ngokumelene naye, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzowela ezinkingeni nasezinkingeni, futhi kungase kube inkinga yezezimali ukuthi yena nomyeni wakhe bazodlula.
• Uma uphupha izandla ezinde obambelele kuzo, lokhu kusho imisebenzi yakhe emihle nesisa emi eduze kwakhe.
• Ukubona isandla esinsundu ephusheni futhi ubambelele kuso kuye kwahunyushwa njengophawu lwezinkinga eziningi.
• Uma ephupha ukuthi ubambe isandla somuntu angamazi, lokhu kubonisa ukwenzeka kwezono, izenzo ezimbi, nezithiyo eziwela kuye.
• Ukuqabula isandla kuhunyushwe njengobufakazi bezinto ezimbili:
  Uma isandla sokudla esiqatshulwayo siwubufakazi bokucasha, ukwaneliseka nokwaneliseka.
  Okwesobunxele kubonisa ukuwela emigomeni noma ekuhahabeni.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ebambe okhulelwe ngesandla

• Ukubamba isandla sowesifazane okhulelwe kubonisa ukuthi usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa selusondele.
• Ukuqabula isandla sowesifazane okhulelwe ekuchazeni okuningi kubonisa ukuphepha kwakhe nosana olusanda kuzalwa.
• Uma uphuphe isandla esishisiwe sibambelele kuso, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokubeletha okunzima futhi okunzima.
• Uma lesi sandla sisifushane, khona-ke lokhu kungase kubonise ukufushane noma ukuntuleka kokuphila.
• Uma isandla asiphethe simhlophe, lokhu kukhombisa injabulo nenjabulo ezongena empilweni yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ebambe isandla somuntu engimaziyo

Ukubamba isandla kwahunyushwa ngokuthi Umuntu owaziwa ngomboni njengobufakazi bokuganana nokusondela kwenjabulo kulo muzi.

Ukukubona ubambe isandla somuntu omaziyo kuyinkomba yomndeni nesibopho somphakathi phakathi kwakho.

Umbono wowesifazane ongashadile ukuthi ubambe isandla somunye wabo futhi uyamazi, kuyinkomba yokuthi impilo yombono igcwele uthando nothando.

Ukubamba isandla ephusheni ngokujwayelekile kuwuphawu lobudlelwane obuhle bomphakathi nomndeni.

Ebambe isandla somuntu angamazi ephusheni   

• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ephupha ukuthi ubambe isandla somfokazi, lapho esemncane, lokhu kungase kubonise ukwazi indoda nokumthembisa umshado noma ukumshada.
• Uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi ubambe isandla sentombazane encane, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ujwayele intombazane futhi uhlela ubuhlobo bomshado phakathi kwabo. 
• Ukubona owesifazane okhulelwe ebambe isandla somuntu omaziyo kuwubufakazi bokuzalwa kwakhe osekuseduze.
• Ukubambana ngezandla kowesifazane oshadile kuyisingathekiso sokuphela kwezinkinga zomshado kanye nezinkinga abhekene nazo.
• Ukubamba isandla somuntu bese uyasishiya kuhunyushwe njengobufakazi bokwehluleka komuntu nawe, nokulahla ukwesekwa kwakho ngesikhathi sesidingo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ebambe isandla sentombazane engiyaziyo   

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Ukubamba izandla ephusheni nentombazane oyaziyo kubonisa ukuthi le ntombazane iyakusekela futhi ikusiza ukuba unqobe ubunzima.

Ukubamba isandla sentombazane oyaziyo kubonisa ubungane nothando, ubuhlobo bomndeni nokuhlobana, nokwenqaba inzondo. Lokhu kukhomba ukuthi umboni ubhangqwe naye futhi kukhona uthando phakathi kwabo futhi uzoshada naye maduze nje.

Kodwa uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi akanaso isandla, kusho ukuthi le nsizwa ithanda intombazane ize ifike ezingeni lokusangana, futhi izama ngazo zonke izindlela ukuyifinyelela, okusho ukuthi isebenza kanzima ukuze ikwazi ukuyishela. .

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngibambe isandla sentombi yami

Ukubamba isandla ngokuvamile kuye kwahunyushwa njengosizo nokusekelwa okuvela kwelinye iqembu kuwe, futhi uma ubambe isandla sentombazane ongayazi, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa umshado oseduze, futhi uma umazi, khona-ke kubonisa umndeni. ubudlelwano nokuzalana.

Kodwa uma ekhulelwe, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa usuku olusondelayo lokubeletha, futhi uma eshadile, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukunqoba ubunzima nezinkinga zokuphila, futhi ukuhumusha okufanayo uma indoda ibambe isandla sentombazane, noma intombazane. intombazane ibambe isandla sowesilisa.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ebambe isandla wasishiya

Izazi zokutolika ezifana no-Ibn Sirin, u-Ibn Katheer, nabanye abahlaziyi abakhulu basichazele ukuthi ukubamba isandla nokusishiya ephusheni kukhomba ukulahlwa komphuphi, okumshiye ebhekana nobunzima nezinkinga zempilo eyedwa, futhi kungase kuholela ekubeni nomuzwa wokuphelelwa ithemba nokudumazeka kumuntu ngenxa yezenzo ezingalindelekile.

Incazelo yokubamba ingalo ephusheni

Ukubamba ingalo kwehlukile kwabesilisa noma kwabesifazane, futhi ngokomehluko ezimeni zabo kusukela ekubambeni isandla, lokhu kusho ezinye izincazelo:

• Mayelana nendoda, incazelo yokubamba ingalo ikhomba ukugula noma izinkinga abhekene nazo.
• Uma owesilisa ephupha ukuthi ubambe ingalo yowesifazane onqunu, lokhu kubonisa ubumnandi bokuphila.
•  Uma ephupha ukuthi enye yezingalo zakhe ilahlekile ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukushona kwesinye sezihlobo zakhe.
• Uma ephuphe ephethe ingalo engcolile noma engcolile ephusheni, kuchazwa njengokuziphatha okubi noma ukwehluleka emsebenzini wakhe.
• Ingalo ephusheni isingathekiso sokugcwaliseka kwezifiso zombonisi azifuna maduze.
• Uma ebona ukuthi ingalo iphukile, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bamanga nenkohliso empilweni yomboni.