Izinkinga ezinqwabelene ziyimbangela enkulu yokuhlakazeka komndeni, okungaholela esinqumweni esinzima, okuwukuhlukana noma isehlukaniso, okuholela ekuweni kwenhlangano yomndeni.
Kunzima kwelinye lamaqembu ukuthwala umphumela walesi sinqumo, ngakho-ke siphendukela ekufuneni usizo kwabanengqondo ehluzekile, kepha ukudideka akupheli ngaphandle kwecala elilodwa, elisebenzisa nokufuna usizo kuYe. onakho konke okuhle esandleni Sakhe, okunguMvelinqangi (uMninimandla Onke noKhulu), nomkhuleko we-istikharah uyisixazululo esingcono kakhulu.
Ingabe i-istikharah ivumelekile ngesehlukaniso?
UNkulunkulu usishayele umthetho wedivosi futhi wasibekela umthetho we-istikharah kuzo zonke izindaba zethu inqobo nje uma lezi zinto zivumelekile ukwenziwa ngomthetho noma lapho sikhetha phakathi kwezinto ezimbili bese siyadideka ekukhetheni okuhle kakhulu phakathi kwazo, nezinto okufanele sizenze. ukungaceli yizinto ezizondwayo noma ezenqatshelwe, ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka futhi akuvumelekile ukwenza istikharah kuzo.
Kubikwa kubantu bomthetho kanye nezifundiswa zesizwe ukuthi istikharah asihlangene nemisebenzi, izithiyo, noma izinengiso.
Futhi kusezindabeni ezivumelekile kuphela nasezindabeni ze-halal kanye nokukhetha phakathi kwezinto ezimbili, zombili ezivumelekile.
Doaa istikhaarah ngesehlukaniso
Kuningi ukunxusa okuye kwamukelwe mayelana nokunxusela istikharah jikelele, futhi lokhu kunxusa kuwukuphendukela kuNkulunkulu futhi sicela Yena ukuthi asiqondise kokuhle kuzo zombili lezi zindaba, noma ngabe ukunxusa kwe-istikharah ukubuyela endodeni noma ukwenza isinqumo sokuhlukana noma ukwehlukana, njengoba kungeyona neze into elula kunoma yimuphi wabashadile.
Umthandazo umi kanje:
“O Nkulunkulu, ngifuna isiqondiso saKho ngolwazi Lwakho, ngifuna isiqondiso Sakho ngamandla Akho, futhi ngicela umusa Wakho omkhulu, ngokuba Wena Unamandla, futhi angikwazi, futhi Uyazi, futhi angazi, futhi Wena bangowazi okungabonwayo. O Nkulunkulu, uma Wazi ukuthi loludaba (futhi usho udaba) luhle enkolweni yami, ukuphila kwami, kanye nomphumela wezindaba zami, bese-ke ungimisele lona futhi ulwenze lube lula kimi, bese ungibusisa lona. Futhi uma nazi ukuthi lolu daba (futhi niphinde nilusho udaba) luyimbi enkolweni yami, ukuphila kwami, kanye nomphumela wezindaba zami, ngakho-ke lususe kimi futhi ungisuse kulo, futhi ungimisele lokho okuyikona. okuhle nomaphi lapho kungaba khona, bese ungithokozisa ngakho.”
Lokhu kunxusa kushiwo ngemva kwamaraka amabili ngaphandle komkhuleko oyisibopho, futhi kungcono ukuthi uthandaze ngaphambi kokulala, futhi kufanele uhlanze futhi uphendukele kuNkulunkulu, futhi uthandaze amaraka amabili futhi ekukhulekeleni kwakho usho. lokhu kunxusa okungokwesiprofetho noma ngemva kokuqeda ukuthula.
Ukubaluleka komthandazo we-istikharah e-Islam
Okokuqala, kufanele wazi ukuthi yini i-istikharah? Kusho ukuncika kuNkulunkulu (s.w.t.) nokudlulisela lonke udaba Kuye futhi uphendukele kuYe njengoba bonke ubuhle busezandleni Zakhe, nokwaneliseka ngomthetho nesiphetho Sakhe.
Ukubaluleka kokukhuleka kwe-istikharah kuvela ekukholweni kwethu kuNkulunkulu nasemandleni Akhe okusikhethela, futhi ukubaluleka kwakho kulele ngezizathu eziningana:
- Isiza umuntu ukuba aqhubekele phambili, imnqumele indlela yobuhle, futhi abeke ithemba lakhe kuNkulunkulu futhi ahambise izindaba zakhe kuYe.
- Izithelo zawo zinkulu futhi ziningi, okubaluleke kakhulu kukho ukuhlonipha, ukuhlonipha, nobuqotho benhloso kuNkulunkulu (uMninimandla onke Nobukhosi).
- Ukuzola kwenhliziyo nokuthembela kuNkulunkulu nokuthi ukukhetha okufanele kusesandleni Sakhe kuphela.
- Susa ukudideka bese udlulisela lonke udaba kuNkulunkulu.
- Ukulandela abalungile ababendulele ekubaqhubeleni phambili nasekubandiseni kuzo zonke izindaba zabo.
Isinqumo ngesehlukaniso emthethweni wamaSulumane
Isehlukaniso sithathwa njengenye yezindaba zomthetho, futhi akukho mpikiswano ngalokho, kodwa uNkulunkulu (Udumo malube kuYe) uyakuzonda phakathi kwabantu, futhi lokho kithina kubangela ukubhidlika komndeni wamaMuslim, futhi kuveza izingane zamaSulumane kwabaningi ngokwengqondo. kanye nezinkinga zomphakathi, kodwa akunqatshelwe ngumthetho, futhi yilokhu okwabikwa kuMprofethi (Sengathi uNkulunkulu ambusise futhi amphumlise) “Into esemthethweni ezondwa kakhulu emehlweni kaNkulunkulu isehlukaniso.” Naphezu kobuthakathaka i-hadith, incazelo yayo ilungile.
Inkolo yethu yeqiniso isinxuse ukuthi sibekezele futhi sibekezele ebunzimeni bempilo ukuze izinto ziqonde futhi bobabili abashadile bajwayele ukuphila kwabo, futhi ukuze singakhohlisi.
Inkosikazi kufanele ihloniphe umyeni wayo, imnakekele, futhi imsize, futhi indoda kufanele imnike amalungelo akhe angokomthetho uNkulunkulu ayalile futhi amsekele ngokwezimali, njengoba owesifazane ongamlaleli umyeni wakhe, isehlukaniso sifaneleka kakhudlwana. ngemva kokuzama naye okuningi futhi wazama ukumqondisa ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene futhi wabuyela kubantu abanengqondo nezeluleko.
Okhethiweyo wethu othandekayo (uNkulunkulu angambusisa futhi amnikeze ukuthula) wasincoma ukuba sibe nomusa kunkosikazi, ngoba ibuthakathaka futhi ibuthakathaka futhi idinga ukunakekelwa nokunakwa, njengoba naye (ukuthula nezibusiso zikaNkulunkulu kube kuye) asho: “ Yiba nomusa emabhodleleni.” Wafanisa owesifazane nebhodlela nokuthi untekenteke kangakanani futhi udinga ukunakwa nokunakekelwa, kodwa uma kungenjalo Kukhona ukuphunyuka esahlukaniso, ngakho-ke kuchithwa ngomusa, njengoba iNkosi yasiyala.
Imibandela yesehlukaniso kwabesifazane
Okokuqala: Kuvunyelwe uma kudingeka.
Okwesibili: Uzonda ngoba akadingeki.
Okwesithathu: Uma kumlimaza.
Okwesine: Kuyisibopho sokwethembeka futhi kwenqatshelwe ukuhlubuka.
Kwabikwa futhi ngegunya likaSheikh wethu u-Ibn Uthaymien - sengathi uNkulunkulu angamhawukela - lapho ethi:
“Kuvunyelwe isidingo ngomqondo wesidingo somyeni, futhi uma ekudinga, kuvumelekile kuye, njengokuthi akakwazi ukubekezela kumkakhe, futhi kufanele afune isiqondiso ngaphambi kokuqeda indaba. , futhi baphendukele kuNkulunkulu futhi bacele umusa Kuye kulokhu kukhetha.”
Kwaphinde kwashiwo ukuthi uma inkosikazi ifakazelwa ukuthi ilinyazwe, unelungelo lokudivosa ngenxa yokulimala komyeni wakhe, noma ngenxa yokuntuleka kwemali, ukungaphathwa kahle, ukuziphatha, noma ubuthakathaka benkolo yakhe, nezinye izizathu eziningi, futhi kumele akhulekele istikhaarah kulolu daba.
Kumele kwaziwe ukuthi uma indoda iqotho futhi ilungile, noma okuphambene nalokho, futhi owesifazane eqotho futhi elungile, futhi noma yiliphi iqembu lifuna isehlukaniso, akuvumelekile lapha ukwenza istikharah, njengoba kwashiwo ngegunya lesiThunywa. kaNkulunkulu (uNkulunkulu angambusisa futhi amnike ukuthula), okusho ukuthi uma inkosikazi icela isehlukaniso ngaphandle kokulimala, lokho kwenqatshelwe kuye futhi kwenqatshelwe ukuhogela. IPharadesi, njengoba kushiwo kuhadith ye- Prophet, okuyinto ugunyazwe Al-Albani.
Sithemba kuNkulunkulu ukuthi sikwazile ukuqeda lesi sihloko kuzo zonke izici zaso, futhi sicela uNkulunkulu ukuthi azuze amaSulumane kuso, futhi sicela kuYe ukuqina, futhi sithemba ukuthi sizohlangana kwesinye isihloko maduze.
