Ukuhunyushwa kokubona ukukhala ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin no-Ibn Shaheen

Ukuklabalasa kungenye yezindlela umuntu obonayo eveza ngayo intukuthelo yakhe noma ukudabuka kwakhe okujulile ngento emehlele, kodwa kuthiwani ngokubona ukuklabalasa ephusheni, okuqukethe izinkomba nezincazelo eziningi ezahlukene ezihluke kakhulu ngokwesimo sezwe. ukuklabalasa, kanye nesimo esasikuso.Umuntu osephusheni lakhe, kanye nokuthi umuntu obonayo ungowesilisa, owesifazane, noma intombazane engashadile.

Ememeza ephusheni

• Ukuchazwa kwephupho lokuklabalasa lifanekisela ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa, ukunqwabelana kwezenzakalo empilweni yomuntu, nobunzima bokufinyelela umgomo.
• Ukuklabalasa ephusheni kungase kube isixwayiso kumbukeli mayelana nento ebalulekile ayehlela ukuyenza ngesikhathi esithile.
• Ukubona ukukhala ephusheni kubonisa ukungakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi eyabelwe umuntu noma ubunzima bokuzibonakalisa ezimweni ezidingayo.
• Uma ebona ukuthi uklabalasa kakhulu, lokhu kubonisa isifiso sakhe sokukhulula imizwa yokucindezelwa ecashile ngaphakathi kuye, kanye nemizamo yakhe eminingi yokuthola umzila angenza ngawo futhi adlule kukho konke okwenzeka ngaphakathi kuye.
• Futhi uma ubona ukuthi umemeza kakhulu, futhi akekho osabelayo kuwe, lokhu kubonisa ukulahlekelwa ikhono lokulawula nokuhola, noma ukuntuleka kobudlelwane bomphakathi, kanye nohlobo lokungakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye.
• Futhi uma kwenzeka ukukhala kuhambisana nezinyembezi, lokhu kubonisa ukuzwa izindaba ezinhle ngemva kwesikhathi sokuhlupheka nokukhathala.
• Ukuklabalasa nakho kungomunye wemibono eveza ingqondo engaphansi esebenza ngokushesha lapho ezwa ukuthi umuntu ubhekene nezimo ezinzima nezinzima noma izingcindezi ezingokwengqondo nezemizwa.Uma kunjalo, uqala ukukhulula lezi zingcindezi namandla amabi ukuze asuse umzimba wabo.
• Kodwa uma ubona ilungu lomndeni wakho likhala, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi othile wezihlobo zakho uyeza, noma kuzovela inhlekelele enkulu.
• Ukubona ukukhala kuwukubonakaliswa kwabantu abakhetha ukuthula kunokukhala nokuklabalasa, njengokucindezelwa unomphela kwemizwa yomuntu, okubathinta kabi.
• Ukuklabalasa lapha kubangelwa ukulawula okuphelele komuntu imizwa nemizwa yakhe, ukushuba okungapheli, nokuchayeka ezimweni eziningi zansuku zonke ezingenangqondo.

Ememeza ephusheni nguNabulsi

• U-Al-Nabulsi uhamba acabangele ukubona ukukhala njengomunye wemibono efanekisela ukucindezeleka nokudabuka okukhulu, nokudlula ezikhathini ezinzima nobuhlungu obukhulu.
• Noma ubani obona ukuthi uyaklabalasa, uklebhula izingubo zakhe, noma ushaya ikhanda lakhe ngesandla, khona-ke lokhu kuveza ukwamukela izindaba ezidabukisayo noma inhlekelele okungekho ndlela yokuphunyuka kuyo.
• Futhi umbono wokuklabalasa ungase ube uphawu lokuzisola okujulile ngokulahlekelwa ukuphila ezindabeni ezingenamsebenzi, nokuphenduka okuqotho nokubuyela kuNkulunkulu.
• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi uyakhala ephusheni futhi ekhala, futhi izinyembezi zakhe zehla, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi impilo yakhe izoshintsha ibe ngcono esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, futhi izindaba ezinhle kakhulu ziyofika kuye, okuyoba isizathu sokuphila kwakhe. ushintsho kungazelelwe ezindabeni zakhe.
• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi omunye wabangane bakhe uyakhala futhi uyaklabalasa, lokho kubonisa ukuthi usenkingeni enkulu, futhi ufuna usizo kuye.
• Futhi uma ukumemeza kwakulandelwa ukukhumbula uNkulunkulu, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa injabulo, ukuziphatha okuphezulu, ukuphela kosizi nokudabuka, nomuzwa wokuthula kwengqondo nenhliziyo.
• Futhi noma ubani obona ukuthi uyamemeza, futhi akekho ongabelana naye ngalokho, noma ukuthi ukhala kanzima futhi yedwa, lokhu kubonisa ukuntula kwakhe usizo, umuzwa wokululazeka nobuthakathaka, nesifiso sokushintsha inkambo ye izinto.
• Futhi uma kwenzeka ukuthi ukumemeza kuqondiswe kumuntu othile, sengathi umuntu umemeza ebusweni besazi, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yemikhuba emibi kanye nesifiso sokushintshanisa iqiniso ngamanga, nokwenza izono.
• Futhi uma ubona ukuthi umemeza endaweni yomphakathi, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokufika kwezindaba ezidabukisayo, noma ukuchayeka enhlekeleleni enkulu noma ukuvukela umbuso okunzima.
• Kodwa uma unomuzwa wokuthi ukuklabalasa ngokuvamile kuwumsindo omkhulu, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa idumela eliphezulu nesimo phakathi kwabantu.
• Ukuphakamisa izwi kubantu kuyinkomba yamandla nekhono lomuntu lokulawula nokubeka imiyalo.
• U-Al-Nabulsi uyanezela, ekuchazeni kwakhe ukuklabalasa noma ukukhala lapho efunda i-Qur'an noma lapho ecabanga ngezinqumo zayo, ukuthi umbono uwukubonakaliswa kobuqotho bokuphenduka, kanye nenhloso yokushiya impilo edlule nakho konke okukuyo, bese ubuyela emuva. kuNkulunkulu.
• Ngakho-ke umbono ovela kule portmanteau uyinkomba yenjabulo, ukuphela kokukhathazeka, ukuphela kosizi, ukwamukela izimvula zesihe, nokuguqulwa kokuphila entwasahlobo, njengoba umbono ubonisa impilo ende nempilo enhle.

Incazelo yokungakwazi ukumemeza ephusheni

• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi akakwazi ukuklabalasa, lokhu kubonisa ukuqoqwa kwemithwalo kuye, nokuchayeka ekucindezelweni okukhulu okungokwengqondo nekwemizwa okumenza angakwazi ukuqhubeka nezinsuku zakhe ngokuthula.
• U-Imam Al-Nabulsi uthi uma umuntu ebona ephusheni ukuthi umemeza kakhulu, kodwa akekho ozwa izwi lakhe, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi lo muntu ubhekene nobunzima nezinselele ezinkulu futhi akekho ongameseka empilweni.
• Iphupho lokungakwazi ukuklabalasa libhekisela ezikhathini ezinzima lapho umuntu ezilahlekelwa khona ngaphambi kokuba alahlekelwe abanye, futhi ukuchayeka njalo lapho ethemba ukuthi othile uzophoxeka futhi ukudumazeka kumphuca ukuphila kwakhe.
• Futhi uma ukukhala komuntu kuphazamisekile, lokhu kusho ukubekezela nokubekezela, kanye nezimfanelo nezici okungekho muntu ongaba nazo, kanye nesikhundla sakhe esiphakeme noNkulunkulu.
• Ngakho umbono uyinkomba yoshintsho ezimweni zakhe ngokuphazima kweso, nokusakazwa kwesiqinisekiso enhliziyweni yakhe, nokufika kwezindaba ezikude eziyobuyisela inhliziyo yakhe ekuphileni futhi.
• Umbono ungase ube inkomba yokuchayeka kokungabi nabulungisa kwabanye, noma ukuba khona komuntu omsola ngokuthile okungekho kuye.

Ememeza ephusheni

• Ukumemeza ephusheni kubonisa isifiso sakhe sokuzikhulula emandleni nasekulawuleni abanye phezu kwakhe.
• Uma ebona ukuthi umemeza ngobudlova, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi ubiza amalungelo akhe, nokufuna kwakhe njalo ukuthi athole izinga elincane lenkululeko yakhe.
• Kodwa uma ukuklolodela kuqondiswe kumuntu omdala kunaye ngeminyaka nangesiqu, khona-ke lowo mbono ufanekisela izenzo ezingalungile azenzayo futhi akayazi imiphumela yazo.
• Uma umphuphi esemncane noma ebusheni, khona-ke lo mbono ubonisa isidingo sokucindezela intukuthelo, hhayi ukunganaki, nesidingo sokuzithiba, ikakhulukazi ezindabeni lapho abantu abadala bemeluleka khona, ngoba ukuntula kwakhe isipiliyoni nokushesha isizathu sokudlula kwakhe ezikhathini ezinzima zokuphila kwakhe.
• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi ukhalela phezulu futhi egqoke izingubo ezimnyama, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi lowo ombonayo uzothola inkathi yosizi olungase lwande.
• Uma ukukhala kubangelwa ukwesaba okuthile, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuqeda izinkathazo, izinkinga nosizi, nokubhekana nokwesaba kwakhe. 

Ukumemeza ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukubona ukuklabalasa kubonisa ukuphakamisa izwi ngendlela engafanele noma ngendlela engahambisani nesiko elikhona kanye nomthetho owamukelekayo.
• Noma ubani obona ukuthi uklabalasa kakhulu, angase angamukeleki, ngoba uNkulunkulu uSomandla uthi: “Yehlisa izwi lakho.”
• U-Ibn Sirin uthi futhi ukubona ukukhala ephusheni kubonisa ukuhlupheka komboni ngenxa yokucindezeleka okukhulu kwengqondo nokukhathazeka ngokweqile, futhi umbono ubonisa ukubhekana nokucindezeleka okukhulu ekuphileni.
• Ngokuqondene nokubona omunye wabantu abaseduze kwakho ekhala kakhulu, lokhu kubonisa ukufa kwesihlobo noma ukudlula kwenhlekelele enkulu emndenini womphuphi.
• Futhi uma ubona ephusheni ukuthi omunye wabangane bakho ukhala kanzima, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi kunezinkinga eziningi empilweni yakhe noma ukuthi usekucindezelekeni okudinga ukuba aqaphele amaphutha esikhathi esidlule futhi asebenze ukuwalungisa.
• Uma ubona ephusheni umuntu onobutha obukhulu ememeza, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga eziningi nalo muntu, futhi angase azame izikhathi eziningi ukukulimaza ngokwengqondo.
•  Ukumemeza ebusweni bomphuphi kubonisa ukuthi kukhona umuntu oseduze nawe onemizwa eminingi emihle ngawe, owesaba imizwa yakho, futhi ufuna okuhle kuwe.
• Ngokuqondene nokubona ukukhala ephusheni ngezinyembezi, kusho ukuzwa izindaba eziningi ezinhle nezijabulisayo ozozizwa maduzane.
• Kodwa uma ebona ukuklabalasa ngokukhala ngaphandle kwezinyembezi, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi umboni uzofeza amaphupho amaningi nezifiso azihlosile ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi ngeke kube lula, kodwa kunalokho kuzomdinga ukuba asebenze kanzima futhi abhekane nabantu abaningi. abangenandaba nalutho kodwa ukumvimba ekuqhubekeleni phambili.
• Ukubona ukukhala okukhulu ephusheni, kodwa kungekho muntu ophendulayo kulokhu kumemeza okuvela kumbono, kuyinkomba yesizungu, ukuncipha kobudlelwane bomphakathi, noma ubunzima kanye nokungakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye ngokuqondile.
• Ngokuqondene nokubona indodana imemeza kumama ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa amandla engqondo yakhe yemvelo kamama, futhi umbono usho futhi ukukhathazeka kwakhe okukhulu ngendodana yakhe ngokuqhubekayo.
• Ukuklabalasa kungase kube uphawu lokuhlushwa kuleli zwe noma isijeziso esisheshayo lowo obonayo ayosithola ngezenzo zakhe.
• Uma ekhala, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi isijeziso sizoncipha, ukuhlushwa kwakhe kuzophela, futhi kancane kancane isimo sakhe siyoshintsha size simenze kube sengathi uzelwe kabusha.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuklabalasa ngu-Ibn Shaheen

• U-Ibn Shaheen ukholelwa ukuthi uma umuntu ebona ukuthi ukhalela phezulu futhi ekhala, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuhlukaniswa komuntu othandekayo kuye noma ukuchayeka osizini olukhulu oludinga ukuba abekezele.
• Ngokuqondene nokukhala ngaphandle kokuklabalasa, kuyinkomba yokukhululeka okuseduze, ukuvela kwezimanga ezingalindelekile, nokuphela kwesigaba esinzima empilweni yomuntu.
• Futhi uma intukuthelo ilandelwa ukuklabalasa, lokhu kubonisa isikhundla esibuthakathaka, ukulahlekelwa ukuhlonishwa, nokulahlekelwa yikho konke umuntu akuzuzile ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Futhi uma kwenzeka ubaba ethethisa izingane zakhe, lokhu kuyinkomba yokwesaba okwedlulele kuzo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuthatha izindlela ezingalungile emfundweni.
• Futhi uma ubona ukuthi ukhala ngobuhlungu, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi obekusesandleni sakho bekulahlekile, njengoba ungakwazanga ukukwazisa kahle futhi ubonge uNkulunkulu ngakho.
• Kodwa uma ukumemeza kuhambisana nokushaywa ngempama, lokhu kubonisa izinkinga ezilandelanayo, nobunzima bokuphuma lapho umuntu ebekwe khona.
• U-Ibn Shaheen uthi uma umuntu ephupha ekhala kanzima, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi impumuzo iseduze, nokuthi uzothola injabulo ngemva kwezikhathi zokucindezeleka nobunzima.
• Uma izinyembezi zibanda, lokhu kubonisa insindiso kukho konke okuhlala engqondweni yomboni, futhi kumkhiphe ekukhathazekeni nasekucindezelekeni.
• Uma izinyembezi zingaphumi emehlweni akhe, lokhu kubonisa lokho akufihla kuye futhi engakuvezi kunoma ubani, futhi kufanekisela ukuthola imali eningi enhle, esemthethweni.
• Uma kwenzeka indoda ibona ephusheni iklabalasa kakhulu ehambisana nokushaywa ngempama ebusweni, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi umuntu ombonayo uphethwe yisifo esibi esizomenza angawunaki umsebenzi wakhe noma aphuthelwe amathuba amaningi asuke ewatholile. kudala elindile.
• Kodwa uma ebona ukuthi ushaya kakhulu izihlathi, lokhu kubonisa ukuchayeka ekucindezelweni okukhulu nasekucindezelweni.

Ukumemeza ephusheni ku-Imam al-Sadiq

• U-Imam al-Sadiq ukholelwa ukuthi ukubona ukuklabalasa kukhomba ukuthi umuntu uyazi ngemiphumela yezenzo zakhe, nokuqaphela kwakhe ukuthi ubesendleleni engalungile kwasekuqaleni.
• Uma ebona ukuthi uyamemeza ebuthongweni bakhe, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela imiphumela emibi azoyivuna, kanye nesifiso sakhe sokubuyisela okwedlule, lapho isinqumo singenziwanga okwamanje.
• Lo mbono ubuye ukhombise ukuphenduka, umzamo wokulungisa lokho okusele, nokuphishekela ngokungaphezi ukuqeda isimo sesiphithiphithi abhekene naso.
• Umbono wokuklabalasa ubhekisela ezintweni umboni akholelwa ukuthi zimlethela injabulo nenhlanhla, kodwa empeleni ziyimbangela yobuhlungu nokuhlushwa kwakhe.
• Futhi uma ubona ukuthi othile uvela kude futhi ememeza kuwe, lokho kusho ukuthi unesifiso sokumsiza futhi amsize asuse izinkinga abhekene nazo.
• Ukuklabalasa kungase kube inkomba yokuthola izindaba ezidabukisayo kodwa ezidlulayo, okungukuthi, zizokuthinta ngesikhathi esifanayo kuphela.
• Endabeni yokuzwa ukukhala kwesinye sezilwane, lokhu kufanekisela ukwanda konya ezinhliziyweni zabantu, nokuba khona kwenhlekelele enkulu ezokwehlela abantu.
• Kodwa ukukhala kwezihlobo kubonisa ukuthi bacindezeleke kakhulu, noma omunye wabo uyagula, noma ukufa kothile omthandayo kuseduze.
• Futhi noma ubani obona ukuthi uyaklabalasa futhi uyakhala abese ehleka, lokhu kufanekisela izinkomba ezimbili. Inkomba yokuqala: Ukuthi emva kobunzima kuba lula, futhi ngemva kokucindezeleka kuba impumuzo, futhi ukuthi izinkinga zizodlula ngokushesha noma kamuva.
• Inkomba yesibili: Umbono ubonisa ukufa nokuphela kokuphila, ngokusho kukaSomandla: “Nguye ohlekayo futhi akhale, futhi ungofileyo nabaphilayo.”

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokumemeza ukuze uthole usizo

• Umbono wokukhalela usizo ungomunye wemibono eveza ukuphila okubi, ukuwohloka kwezimo, nokungakwazi ukufeza izinhloso ezifiswayo.
• Uma ucebile, futhi ubona ukuthi uyamemeza futhi ukhalela usizo kumuntu, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukwehla kwesimo, ukuvezwa kwemali yakho kuncipha, kanye nesidingo sabanye.
• Lapho umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthi ukhala kanzima futhi ememeza, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuguqula impilo yakhe ibe ngcono esikhathini esiseduze.
• Futhi uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi omunye wabangane bakhe uyakhala futhi eklabalasa, ngokunamandla, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ufuna usizo kuye, futhi isifiso sakhe sokuma eduze kwakhe, khona-ke ukuphila kwakhe kungase kube sengozini ngenxa yezinkinga eziningi futhi izinkinga abhekene nazo.
• Kodwa uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi ugqoke iyunifomu emnyama futhi ekhala futhi eklabalasa kakhulu, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi lo mphuphi uzophila isikhathi eside, esidabukisayo sokuphila kwakhe.
• Futhi ukuklabalasa ngaphandle kokukwazi ukucela usizo kukhombisa ukuhlukana okwakuvame ukuboniswa umboni lapho esebenzelana nabanye, ukuchayeka ekuphenduleni okufanayo.
• Futhi uma umbono ukhala ephusheni ngenxa yokwesaba indaba ethile, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzosusa izinkinga nokukhathazeka okwamthinta.
• Futhi ukubona umuntu oseduze nawe ephusheni ememeza futhi ekhala kabi, lokhu kusho ukufa komngane noma isihlobo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho kumemeza abangasekho

• Ukubona abantu bekhala kwabafileyo kungenye yemibono enecala, ngakho-ke noma ngabe umuntu ukhala kumuntu oshonile ngokweqiniso noma ngephupho, lokhu akulona inkomba enhle.
• Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umbono ufanekisela izinga lokunamathela komboni kulo muntu, uthando lwakhe olujulile ngaye, nesifiso sakhe sokuba uNkulunkulu ambuyisele ekuphileni futhi.
• Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthi uyakhala futhi ememeza kakhulu kumuntu oshonile, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi ubhekene nesifo esingelapheki, noma omunye wabantu abaseduze naye uvezwa, noma ukufa.
• Kodwa uma kwenzeka iphupho libona ukuthi ukhalela umuntu oshonile ngezwi elibuthakathaka nelingezwakali, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa imali echichimayo nobuhle.
• Futhi uma lo mphuphi egula futhi ebona iphupho elifanayo, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukululama kwakhe kulesi sifo.
• Futhi uma ebona ofileyo ephinda efa ephusheni futhi amklabalase, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukufa kwenye yamadodana alo muntu uNkulunkulu asedlulile.
• Umbono ungase ubhekisele emshadweni ovela endlini yalo muntu kanye nokuganiselana nomndeni wakhe.

Ukukhala kwabangasekho ephusheni

• Ukubona abafileyo bekhala ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokuthi umboni wenze izono, ukucwiliswa kwakhe ezweni lezifiso, nokuqhelelana kwakhe noNkulunkulu.
• Umbono uyisixwayiso kuye ngesidingo sokuphenduka futhi abuyele kuNkulunkulu ngaphambi kokuba kwephuze kakhulu.
• Futhi ukuklabalasa endaweni yokufa kuwubufakazi bokuhlushwa okunzima.
• Uma umuntu ebona lo mbono, futhi emazi oshonile, lokhu kukhombisa ukubaluleka kokumthandazela ngesihe nentethelelo, nokuthi uNkulunkulu uzomthethelela, kanye nesidingo sokunikeza izipho emphefumulweni wakhe futhi enze izenzo ezilungile egameni lakhe. .
• Kodwa uma umufi ekhala futhi emamatheka ngokuzumayo, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ukuphenduka komboni kwamukelwe.
• Lo mbono wangaphambili ukhombisa ukuthi ukunxusa komboni nokukholwa kwakhe kuye sekufinyelele kwabafileyo, nokuthi uNkulunkulu usemphendulile.
• Ukukhala kukamufi ngokulila nokusika izingubo kuwubufakazi bokugula komboni noma ukushona komunye wezihlobo zakhe noma izihlobo zomufi ngokwakhe.
• Kodwa uma umufi wayeklabalasa futhi ubuso bakhe bumnyama, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi akazange afele endleleni ye-Islam.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhala ngokuzwakalayo

• Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi umemeza ngezwi elikhulu, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi uzokhipha ubunzima nezingcindezi ezingokwengqondo.
• Mayelana nendaba yowesifazane oshadile eklabalasa kakhulu futhi ehleka ngesikhathi esifanayo, lokhu kubhekisela ekugcwalisekeni kwesifiso abelokhu esifuna kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe.
• Kodwa uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi othile omaziyo umemeza ngezwi elikhulu, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa okuhle nenjabulo okuzomehlela, kanye nokukhululeka kokukhathazeka kwakhe esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
• Futhi uma umuntu ebona isitha sakhe siklabalasa kakhulu, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa impi nokungqubuzana okuzovela phakathi kwabo, kodwa umboni uzosebenza kanzima ukugwema lokho, futhi ukunqoba kuyoba umngane wakhe ekugcineni.
• Futhi uma intombazane engashadile ibona ukuthi ikhala ngokuzwakalayo ephusheni layo, lokhu kubonisa ukufika kokuhle nenjabulo kuye, nokunqoba imizabalazo yakhe engokwengqondo.
• Futhi ukumemeza kakhulu kumuntu ophakeme kuyinkomba yokuntula ukunambitheka nokungahloniphi ngesiqu, nokwenza isono esikhulu noma ukuzama ukuthethelela amaphutha.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu omemeza kuwe

• Uma ubona ukuthi kukhona okuthethisayo, lokhu kuyinkomba yokungezwani phakathi kwenu nobabili eqinisweni.
• Uma wazi lo muntu, umbono ubonisa lokho akweluleka ngakho, kanye nesifiso sakhe sokuthi yini enhle kuwe.
• Futhi uma umuntu okuthethisayo kunguyihlo, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukukuqondisa endleleni efanele.
• Kodwa uma ubona umuntu ekuthethisa kakhulu futhi kabuhlungu, lokhu kusho ukuthi lo muntu uyakuthanda futhi ukufunela okuhle, kodwa wena awukwazi lokho.
• Futhi noma ubani obona umkakhe emthethisa, lokhu kungase kusho ukuvukela noma ukuphuca umuntu amalungelo akhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho elimemeza ngaphandle komsindo

• Ukubona umphuphi ephusheni ukuthi uyamemeza, kodwa ngaphandle komsindo, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokubala kwezenzo, kanye nenkolelo yakhe yokuthi uNkulunkulu akawuthwali umphefumulo ngaphezu kwamandla awo.
• Futhi umbono uyinkomba yokufika kokuziphilisa nokuhle kulo mboni.
• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi uzwa ukuphazamiseka ngokomzimba futhi ememeza ebuthongweni bakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokuphela kobunzima nokukhathazeka, kanye nokwelulama ekuguleni okukhathele umzimba wakhe.
• Ukukhala komboni ngaphandle komsindo oqondiswe kumuntu othize ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi lo mboni wenza okuhle ekusithekeni.
• Ukungakwazi ukuklabalasa ephusheni kuyinkomba yezinkinga eziningi noma izinkathazo abhekana nazo futhi ezimbangela ukudabuka.
• Lapho owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi akakwazi ukuklabalasa, lokhu kusho ukuthi uzozwa izindaba ezimbi noma athwale imithwalo yemfanelo ngaphandle kokuba nokwazisa okudingekayo.

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Ukulwa nokuklabalasa ephusheni

Endabeni yokubona izingxabano nokuklabalasa ngesikhathi sokulala, kuholela ekushabalaleni kwemali kanye nokuwohloka kwempilo, futhi uma umuntu ezithola eklabalasa ephusheni, kusho ukuthi lokhu kukhomba ukuthi isikhathi sesikhundla sakhe esiphezulu sesiphelile.

Uma umuntu ekhala ezinganeni zakhe ephusheni, kubonisa ukuthi akathambile kwezinye izimo zokuphila, futhi uma owesifazane ebona ukuthi umemeza izingane zakhe ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa isidingo sakhe sosizo kubo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuthethisa othile engimaziyo

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lokumemeza kumuntu owaziwayo ngenkathi elele ukuzwa izindaba ezinhle nezijabulisayo ezenza lowo ophuphayo afune ukushintsha impilo yakhe ibe ngcono, futhi lapho umuntu eqaphela ukuba khona komuntu amaziyo emmemeza ephusheni nalapho. bekuyingxabano phakathi kwabo ngokweqiniso, kukhomba ukuphela kwale ngxabano maduzane.

Uma umuntu emthola ethethisa umuntu ayemazi ephusheni, lokhu kusho ukuthi uzothola izinzuzo nezithakazelo eziningi kulo muntu.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzwa owesifazane ememeza

Uma umuntu eqaphela ukuba khona kowesifazane ephusheni lakhe omemezayo futhi izwi lakhe likhulu futhi elikhulu, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa imizwa yakhe yokudabuka, yokuphelelwa ithemba, nokuwela ezinhlekeleleni eziningi.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokumemeza othile

Uma othile ethethisa umphuphi ngesikhathi elele, kufanekisela umuzwa wakhe wothando nothando phakathi kwabo, futhi lokhu kusesimweni lapho ayejwayelene khona nomuntu, kodwa uma wayengajwayelene nowangaphambili, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa isimo sakhe sengqondo. isifiso esinamandla sokushada nokwazana nentombazane enesimilo esihle.

Lapho umuntu ethola othile emthethisa ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa izenzakalo ezinhle ezizofika kuye maduze.

Enye izazi zomthetho iveza ukuthi ukubona owesilisa eklabalasa ebusweni bowesifazane okhulelwe ngesikhathi elele kufakazela ukuthi uzozala umfana ozohlonishwa futhi athathe ezinye zezimpawu zikayise.

Uvalo nokuklabalasa ephusheni

Iphupho lokwesaba nokuklabalasa liyinkomba yesifiso sokuzizwa ephephile, futhi uma umuntu ezithola ememeza ephusheni ngenxa yokwesaba kwakhe, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukwenza kwakhe izenzo eziningi ezinhle azifunayo ukuze ajabulise uJehova (Udumo makube kuYe) kukho konke okuzungezile.

IncazeloUkuphupha ukwethuka nokuklabalasa

Uma umuntu ethuka ngesikhathi elele ngenxa yokuklabalasa komuntu, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi kukhona okukhulu okuzokwenzeka kuye futhi kumenze adideke, futhi uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ukwesaba kwakhe futhi eklabalasa ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa isidingo sakhe sokuzwa ukuzinza, ukuphepha. nothando, futhi lapho umphuphi ethola ukwesaba kwakhe ephusheni kanye nokuklabalasa kwakhe okukhulu, khona-ke kuholela ekuhambeni kwakhe endleleni yeqiniso nesiqondiso.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomama eklabalasa endodakazini yakhe

Ukuphupha umama ethethisa intombazane ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle empilweni yomuntu ophuphayo kumele aqaphe ukuthi wenzani ukuze akwazi ukulungisa indlela yakhe uyaphenduka kulesisenzo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokumemeza ukuze uthole usizo ngaphandle komsindo

Uma umuntu ebona ukuklabalasa kwakhe ephusheni efuna usizo, kodwa izwi lakhe alizwakali, khona-ke libonisa ukulahlekelwa umzamo aye wawenza izikhathi eziningi entweni engenamsebenzi, futhi uma umuntu ebona ukuthi uyaklabalasa ngesikhathi elele, kodwa akakwazanga ukwenza lutho futhi akazange amenzele umsindo, khona-ke lokhu kukhomba ukuba khona kokuthile okumbusayo nokumenza Angazimisele.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuklabalasa nokucela usizo

Uma umuntu eklabalasa ephusheni lakhe, kubonisa umuzwa wakhe wokunethezeka ngokwengqondo nenjabulo ephelele umuntu afuna ukuyithola, futhi lapho indoda ibona ukucindezeleka okungokwengqondo ayevame ukukuzwa, kubonisa ikhono lakhe lokujabulela ukuphila, ukuzwa injabulo yako, futhi kude nezinkinga.

Uma umuntu ezithola ezama ukucela usizo, khona-ke uyamemeza ngenkathi elele, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa izinga lomthwalo wakhe wemfanelo kanye nobuntu bakhe obuqinile obumenza anqobe noma yibuphi ubunzima abenzayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokumemeza igama lomuntu

Uma umuntu ephupha ezwa igama lomuntu futhi umsindo uzwakala kakhulu, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uthole ingxenye yegama, njengokungathi wezwa igama elithi Muhammad noma uMahmoud ephusheni, khona-ke libonisa ukwenzeka kwezinto ezinhle ephusheni. ukuphila kwakhe enkathini ezayo, futhi lapho umuntu ezwa ukumemeza kwakhe ngenxa yegama lomuntu, kodwa kwakungelinye lamagama anezincazelo ezimbi, khona-ke kubonisa ngokuvela kwezinye izinto ezimbi ekuphileni kwakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ememeza ngenxa yokwesaba

Lapho umuntu embona eklabalasa ephusheni ngenxa yokwesaba kwakhe, kufanekisela ukwethuka kwakhe kokungaziwa. umphuphi ubona ukuklabalasa nokwesaba ndawonye ephusheni, libonisa isidingo sokusondela eNkosini uNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke) kanye nesifiso sokulandela indlela yeqiniso.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngabafileyo bememeza abaphilayo

Uma umphuphi efakaza abafileyo bekhala kwabaphilayo ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa isifiso sokulawula kanye nesifiso sokufihla imizwa enamandla eqoqa ngaphakathi kwakhe.

Ukumemeza ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Ukuchazwa kwephupho lokumemeza kowesifazane ongashadile lifanekisela izinsuku ezinzima kuye, izimo ezinzima, nokuhlala esigabeni esinzima sokuphila kwakhe.
• Uma ebona ukuthi uyahayiza, lokhu kusuke kukhomba ukuthi uhlangabezana nezinto ezingahambisani neminyaka yakhe, futhi ubhekana nezinhlekelele ezimenza aguge ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
• Ukubona ukukhala kuyinkomba yokukhathala kwengqondo nokukhathala ngokomzimba, nokuqhubeka kosizi okwenza kungenzeki ukuhamba endleleni yayo.
• Lo mbono ubuye ube nezici ezinhle, njengoba ukuklabalasa kuvame ukukhombisa ukuphela kwesiteji esinzima, iziqalo ezintsha, kanye nokunyamalala kancane kancane kwemikhondo yesikhathi esedlule.
• Ngokuqondene nokubona intombazane engashadile iklabalasa kakhulu, ibonisa amandla obuntu bayo, ukuqina kwayo okweqa uhlangothi lwayo lomzwelo, namandla ayo okuzimisela.
• Kodwa ukubona ukukhala okukhulu kuwuphawu lobuhle nokuhlinzekwa okuvela kuNkulunkulu, futhi kubonisa injabulo maduze nokuthi uzoshada esikhathini esizayo.
• Ngokubona ukukhala kuphinde kuhleke kusho ukufa komboni njengokusho kwabaningi abahlaziyi.
• Futhi uma ebona umuntu angamazi emthethisa, lokhu kuwuphawu lwesidingo sokugwema izinsolo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nezwi elingaphumi

• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi izwi layo aliphumi, lokho kukhomba ukuthi ifihla izinto eziningi enhliziyweni yayo, futhi ayikuvezi okuyihluphayo.
• Umbono futhi uyinkomba yezinkinga zansuku zonke, nezenzakalo ezivusa ukunganeliseki kwakhe, kodwa akakwazi ukwenza lutho ngazo.
• Kodwa uma intombazane engashadile ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi imemeza kakhulu, kodwa akekho oyizwayo, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi le ntombazane ibhekene nokungabi nabulungisa okunzima ngabantu abaseduze nayo.
• Lo mbono ukhomba nokuthi insizwa izomshela, angeke avume kodwa izozisola kakhulu emva kwalokho, noma kuvele ithuba jikelele angeke alisebenzise ngoba ekholelwa ukuthi kukhona amathuba angcono.
• Futhi ukuklabalasa uma engakwazi ukumkhipha kukhomba ezinye zezinto ezimthintayo, njengombono wokuhlehlisa umshado, kodwa angeke atshele muntu ngalokho ukuze angabonakali ngendlela emphoxayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokumemeza nokukhala kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi ikhala kakhulu, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi izinguquko eziningi zenziwe empilweni yakhe, futhi izinguquko ezinkulu zenzeke, okuhloswe ngazo ukubuyisela impilo yakhe nendlela yayo evamile.
• Futhi uma ebona ukuthi uyaklabalasa futhi ekhala, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokuphela kwezimo ezingezinhle kuye, kanye nokushintshela kwesinye isimo ayesifuna kakhulu.
• Kodwa lapho owesifazane ongashadile ebona ukuthi uklabalasa ngezwi elikhulu nelikhulu, lokhu kubonisa amandla akhe nokuqina kwesikhundla sakhe ezindabeni eziningi anganelisekile ngazo.
• Ngokubona ukuthi usedazuluka kakhulu futhi ekhala, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi maduze uzozwa izindaba ezimnandi ezizoshintsha impilo yakhe.
• Futhi uma ukuklabalasa nokukhala kungezwakali, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukufa kwengane ngaphakathi kwakhe noma ukubulawa kohlangothi lomzwelo ngaphakathi kwakhe, nokubhekana nobunzima obukhulu.

Ukuhunyushwa kokuzwa ukukhala ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile

Uma owesifazane ongashadile ezwa ukuklabalasa ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa izimo ezinzima ahlala kuzo kulesi sigaba.

Uma intombazane izwa ukuklabalasa ephusheni, khona-ke kuphakamisa ukuba khona kokungqubuzana kwengqondo endabeni engakwazi ukuyifinyelela, futhi ngezinye izikhathi lowo mbono ufanekisela usizi oluqhubekayo naye isikhathi eside.

Ukulwa nokuklabalasa ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile

Endabeni yokubona ukuklabalasa ephusheni, kuyinkomba yokuba khona kokuthile okumkhathazayo futhi kubangele ukwethuka kwakhe, futhi uma owesifazane ongashadile ethola umuntu ofile ekhala ngesikhathi elele ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kufakazela isidingo sokuthatha. akhiphe iminikelo yakhe futhi aqale ukuthandaza.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lokuthuthumela nokumemeza kwabesifazane abangashadile

Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona iphupho lokuthuthumela ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke kuphakamisa ukuthi izinguquko ezinhle zizokwenzeka empilweni yakhe yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi.

Uma intombazane ithola uyise engakwazi ukubekezela ngesikhathi sokulala, lokho kufanekisela ukusebenzelana kwayo okubi noyise, futhi kufanele ibuyekeze ukuziphatha kwayo naye ukuze angamthukutheleli.

Intombazane ephuphayo imemeza kakhulu ephusheni ibonisa ukudla okuchichimayo nezibusiso ekuphileni, futhi uma umphuphi ebona othile ekhala kakhulu ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi usuku lwakhe lomshado lusondela.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuklabalasa kumama ongayedwa

Uma kwenzeka ebona ukuklabalasa ngesikhathi elele, futhi umbonisi eqaphela ukuthi umemeza unina, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa umonakalo ozokwenzeka kuye maduze.

Ukuhunyushwa kokuklabalasa ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile

• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi uyaklabalasa futhi ekhala kumyeni wakhe, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngombono wokuba nomlingani.
• Ukubona ukuklabalasa ephusheni lakhe nakho kuveza imithwalo yemfanelo eminingi nemisebenzi aphathiswe yona, nokuqoqwa kwemithwalo ngendlela emphusha ukuba akhale futhi aklabalase kungekho muntu oqaphelayo.
• Lokhu kuklabalasa akubona emaphusheni kungase kubonise ukuthi akakwazi ukuklabalasa ngokweqiniso, njengoba engase abe uhlobo olungafuni ukukhombisa ubuthakathaka bakhe phambi kwezingane zakhe ukuze zingazizwa zibuthakathaka ngokulandelana.
• Izazi zengcazelo yamaphupho zithi ukubona ukukhala nokumemeza ephusheni ngowesifazane oshadile, kodwa ukuhayiza okungahambisani nokukhala, kuwubufakazi bokusindiswa ezinkingeni abhekene nazo empilweni yakhe nokukhululwa ebuhlungwini abuzwayo. iyahlangabezana.
• Uma ebona ukuthi ukhala kakhulu lokho kukhomba ukuthi uzokhulelwa ngemuva kwesikhathi eside eshadile.
• Ukumemeza kakhulu ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile ngokushaywa kanzima kusho ukuzwa izindaba ezingemnandi, futhi kungase kube ukufa komyeni wakhe.
• Kodwa uma wayehleka ngokuklabalasa, khona-ke uqondiswa ukuze afinyelele imigomo nezifiso futhi afeze yonke imigomo ayifunayo.
• Ngokombono wengqondo, umbono ofanayo odlule ubonisa ukuthi inobuso obubili ngesikhathi esisodwa, ubuso obumomothekayo, obusho amahlaya, futhi bufihle ngemuva kobunye ubuso obubhekene nemizabalazo engabonakali muntu.
• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lezwi kumuntu wesifazane oshadile nokuthi udazuluka kakhulu, kuyinkomba yokuthi unamaphupho nezifiso eziningi afisa ukuzifeza kodwa akakwazi ukufeza lokho, nokubona ukukhala kukhomba ukufezeka kwenhloso yakhe. .

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nendoda ememeza umkakhe

Iphupho lomyeni eklabalasa kumkakhe ngesikhathi sokulala liyinkomba yezinga lokuqonda nothando olukhona phakathi kwabo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi umbono wendoda wokuklabalasa kwakhe kumkakhe ngesikhathi sokulala ubonisa izinga lesibopho phakathi kwabo.

Uma umuntu ezibona ethukuthela futhi ethethisa umkakhe ephusheni futhi ezizwa enganaki, lokho kuholela ekuveleni kwezinkinga eziningi nokungezwani phakathi kwabo, futhi kungcono ukuthi afune ukuxazulula le ngxabano ukuze ingenzeki. kubi kakhulu.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuklabalasa nokukhalela owesifazane oshadile

Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukuklabalasa nokukhala ngesikhathi sokulala, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa umuzwa wakhe wenjabulo, injabulo, kanye nekhono lokufeza izifiso namaphupho ayelokhu efuna.

Uma owesifazane ezwa ingxenye yeQur’an, wabe esekhala futhi wakhala ephusheni, khona-ke kuholela ekuphendukeni esonweni futhi usizi luyashabalala empilweni yakhe.

Incazelo yokuklabalasa ephusheni kwabakhulelwe

• Ukubona eklabalasa ephusheni lakhe kuyinkomba yokwesaba anakho ngalesi sikhathi mayelana nokuzalwa kwakhe kanye nokukhathazeka kwakhe okuyihaba kokuthi ingane yakhe izolimala.
• Futhi uma ebona ukuthi uyaklabalasa futhi ekhala ecela usizo, noma ecela othile ukuba amsize, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa usuku olusondelayo lokubeletha, ukusiza kulo, nokunqoba zonke izinkinga nezinsizi.
• Mayelana nokuklabalasa ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe, nakho kuwubufakazi bobulili bomntwana, njengoba ezozala owesilisa, futhi abanye bacabanga ukuthi ngokuthi ukubeletha umfana kunzima kakhulu kunokubeletha. intombazane, nokuthi intombazane embonweni ingcono kunomfana.
• Ukuklabalasa okumphelezela ephusheni kubonisa ukuklabalasa kwakhe empeleni lapho ebeletha ingane yakhe yowesilisa.
• Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubona ukuklabalasa ukukhipha amacala amabi azungeza ngaphakathi kuye futhi aphazamise ukulala kwakhe.
• Futhi umbono uwonke awukhombisi ukwenzeka kweshwa.

Izwi elikhulu ephusheni

• Izazi zencazelo yamaphupho zithi uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona elele ukuthi ukhale kakhulu, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi usuku lwakhe lokuzala selusondele.
• Izwi elikhulu libuye lifanekise injabulo yokufika kwengane yakhe, kanye nenjabulo enkulu yokuthola lokho akufunayo ngemva kwezikhathi zokuhlupheka nokukhathazeka.
• Futhi uma ebona ukuthi izwi lakhe liphakeme ngenjabulo, lokhu kubonisa izindaba ezijabulisayo nezikhathi ezijabulisayo azozithola ngemva kokudlula isikhathi sokubeletha.

Ukuhunyushwa kwezwi ephusheni lowesifazane ohlukanisile

• Uma inkosikazi ehlukanisile empilweni yayo ibona ukuthi iklabalasa kakhulu, khona-ke lo mbono ubonisa ukuthi uzoshada maduze, futhi uzojabula kakhulu ngalo mshado, futhi uNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke uzomnxephezela ngesehlukaniso sakhe sokuqala.
• Ukubona izwi ephusheni lakhe lifanekisela isifiso sangempela soshintsho, futhi umsebenzi onzima walokho, futhi isizathu sokuvimbela indlela yakhe kungase kube izinkumbulo ezimkhathazayo zonke izinyathelo azithathayo.
• Lo mbono ubuye ubhekisele ekukhumbuleni izinsuku ezinzima edlule kuzo kamuva nje, nokuzisola ngokuphila okumoshakele ize.
• Futhi uma ebona ukuthi ukhala kakhulu, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi impilo yakhe izobuyela esimweni esiseduze, ngoba lesi sigaba adlula kuso njengamanje sithathwa njengesigaba sezinguquko.
• Ngokwaleli phuzu lombono, umbono uyinkomba yesiphetho esiseduze salenqola, ukubuyiselwa komoya wayo olahlekile, nokubheka phambili ngaphandle kokunaka okwedlule.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nentukuthelo nokumemeza kowesifazane ohlukanisile

Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ebona owayengumyeni wakhe ephusheni futhi emthukuthelela, khona-ke uveza isifiso sakhe sokubuyela kuye, futhi kungcono ukuba alinganise inhliziyo yakhe nengqondo ukuze angenzi lutho aluthandayo. ngizozisola kamuva.

Uma owesifazane ezithola ekhala kakhulu ephusheni ngenxa yentukuthelo yakhe, kusho ukuthi usizi luzobamba inhliziyo yakhe futhi uzongena ekucindezelekeni. iphupho ke lifanekisela ukushintsha impilo yakhe nganoma iyiphi indlela.

Uma umphuphi ezizwa ethukuthele, wabe esekhala futhi ekhala ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa amandla akhe okunqoba usizi nokubhekana nazo zonke izinkinga zakhe, futhi lapho umphuphi ezibona eklabalasa futhi ethukuthele ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubonisa isidingo sakhe. ukuzizwa uphephile.

Top 10 izincazelo zokubona ukuklabalasa ephusheni

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokumemeza othile

• Ukuklabalasa kumuntu ephusheni kubonisa ukungakwazi ukulawula kwezinye izimo lapho kudingeka khona ukuhlukanisa imizwa yakhe neqiniso lokuphila.
• Futhi uma umuntu aziwa kuwe, lo mbono ubonisa ukungezwani ebuhlotsheni, kodwa lokhu kushuba ngeke kuholele ekuqedweni kwalobu buhlobo.
• Kodwa uma umuntu aziwa phakathi kwabantu ngokulunga kwakhe nolwazi lwakhe, futhi ubona ukuthi uyamthethisa, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuphathwa kabi nokuzihlambalaza phambi kwabanye.
• Futhi uma ubona ephusheni ukuthi umemeza kumuntu ongamazi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzoba nobuhlobo obuhle naye ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
• Umbono ofanayo wangaphambili ungase ube inkomba yokulahlekelwa yilokho osuvele ukuzuzile.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lokuthuthumela nokuklabalasa

• Uma umbonisi eklabalasa ngempela lapho eshiseka ngokweqile, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuba nomqondo omncane, ukungakwazi kwakhe ukuzithiba, nokuthambekela kwakhe ukuphazamisa ukuthula kwabantu ngenxa yezinto ezingasho lutho nezinto ezikha phezulu.
• Umbono ofanayo odlule futhi ubonisa izikhalazo eziqhubekayo ngaphandle kokufuna izixazululo ezinengqondo.
• Kodwa uma umuntu ecindezela ukukhala kwakhe ngokwemvelo, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukulinganisela ekuziphatheni kwakhe, ukulinganisela kwezindaba zakhe, nokubekezelela kwakhe okukhulu lokho abanye abangenakukuthwala.
• Ngokuvamile, umbono uwumyalezo kumboni ukuthi impilo yakhe izowohloka uma ephikelela ukuthi angayisusi imikhuba emibi egxilile ebuntwini bakhe.

Ukuzwa ukukhala ephusheni

• Uma umuntu ezwa ukuklabalasa ebuthongweni bakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzofakaza esikhathini esizayo indaba ebaluleke kakhulu futhi eyingozi.
• Lo mbono futhi ufanekisela labo abafuna usizo lwakho ukuze bamsize, ngakho ungawushayi indiva lo mbono uma uphindaphindwa emaphusheni akho izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa.
• Futhi uma ukuklabalasa bekuya kumuntu ongaziwa noma endaweni engaziwa, khona-ke lokhu kuwumlayezo oyisixwayiso kuwe, ngakho-ke zibheke wena nezenzo zakho futhi ulungise indlela yakho.
• Futhi noma ubani okhalela usizo, futhi uzwe ukukhala kwakhe ngokucacile, lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi ulahliwe noma uwele enhlekeleleni enkulu.
• Ukuzwa ukuklabalasa kwabantu abavamile kubonisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu uzobajezisa ngenxa yezenzo zabo ezimbi.
• Ukuzibona uklabalasa, kodwa izwi elimemezayo akulona izwi lakho elivamile, lifanekisela labo abakuncengelayo phambi kwejaji.

Imithombo:-

1- Incwadi Yamagama Akhethiwe Ekuhunyushweni Kwamaphupho, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, uhlelo lukaDar al-Ma'rifah, Beirut 2000. 2- Isichazamazwi Sokuhunyushwa Kwamaphupho, u-Ibn Sirin kanye noSheikh Abd al-Ghani al-Nabulsi, uphenyo olwenziwa nguBasil Braidi, uhlelo lwe-Al-Safa Library, Abu Dhabi 2008. 3- Incwadi Yabantu Abaqhola Enkulumweni yephupho, uSheikh Abdul Ghani Al-Nabulsi. 4- The Book of Signals in the World of Expressions, u-Imam Al-Mu'abar Ghars Al-Din Khalil Bin Shaheen Al-Dhaheri, uphenyo lukaSayed Kasravi Hassan, uhlelo lukaDar Al-Kutub Al-Ilmiyyah, Beirut 1993.