Uthando belulokhu luyimfihlo engaqondakali abantu abakhuluma ngayo ezikhathini zasendulo, futhi badweba lawo mafu abomvana aluzungeza, nomoya onephunga lembali futhi luwufanekisele ngezinhliziyo, futhi babhale izinkondlo namaculo kuwo, futhi badlale izingoma ezimnandi kakhulu, noma nini lapho imbongi ingena othandweni, ibhala izinkondlo ezinhle kakhulu, futhi noma nini lapho umculi ethandana udlala izingoma ezimnandi kakhulu.
Isihloko sesingeniso mayelana nothando
Uthando luwumuzwa lapho umuntu efuna ukuba ngowomunye umuntu, abelane naye ngemizwa emihle, futhi ancike komunye nomunye ukuze aphile futhi ajabulisane.” Njengoba uBlaise Pascal esho: “Ukuphila kuyajabulisa uma kuqala ngothando. futhi iphetha ngesifiso sokuvelela.”
Isihloko sokubonakaliswa kothando
Uma umuntu ethandana kuba nzima ukuthi achaze imizwa yakhe, nakuba ifika phambili ezihlokweni zezingoma abantu abalokhu beziculwa kusukela kudala, ngisho nesayensi ithola lolu hlobo lokuzizwa luyinkimbinkimbi futhi ludinga okuningi. ucwaningo kanye nezifundo zokuhlola ukujula kwalo.
Lapho amadoda noma abesifazane bethandana, izinguquko eziningi ezingokwengqondo nezomzimba zenzeka kubo, futhi uthando ngokuvamile luqala ukukhangwa omunye umuntu, okuwumzuzu omlingo lapho yonke into iqala.“I-hormone enamathiselwe” kanye ne-dopamine, okuyizinhlanganisela ezimbili. ezidlala indima ebalulekile ekuziphatheni komuntu kulowo amthandayo, futhi lolu hlobo lwenhlanganisela lunomphumela ofana nama-amphetamine, njengoba lwenza umuntu aqaphe futhi ajabule, futhi afise ukuhlangana.
Uthando in Islam
UNkulunkulu, owadala umuntu enayo yonke imizwa esebenza ngaphakathi kuye enjengothando, inzondo, intukuthelo, ukwaneliseka, ukudabuka nenjabulo, uyakwazi okukuye, futhi akadingi ukuba acindezele imizwa yakhe, kodwa kunalokho uyayiqondisa futhi ayilawule indlela engazilimazi yena noma abanye, futhi ehlanganisa imizwa yothando.
Uthando oluphakeme oluphakamisa umuntu, lumenze abe ngcono futhi abe muhle kakhulu, lwenza impilo ezungezile ibe mnandi, futhi lumenze azimisele ukusebenza, alwele ukwakha umhlaba njengoba uNkulunkulu amdalile, kuwuthando olufiselekayo nolungenasici, futhi umuntu uyayithanda iNkosi yakhe futhi Uyamthanda umProfethi wakhe njengoba kwafika ku Hadith ehloniphekile ethi: “Akekho kini okholwa ngize ngithandeke kuye kunendodana yakhe, noyise, kanye nabo bonke abantu.”
Futhi isiThunywa, ukuthula nezibusiso phezu kwakhe, sathi ngothando phakathi kwabashadile: “Indoda ekholwayo akufanele imzonde owesifazane okholwayo.
Ngokunjalo, i-Islam yenze uthando phakathi kwabantu komunye nomunye ngokukholwa okuphelele, njengoba kushiwo emazwini eSithunywa sikaMvelinqangi, sengathi imikhuleko nokuthula kukaMvelinqangi makube kuye: “Akekho phakathi kwenu okholwa aze athande umfowabo lokho akuthandela yena. .” Wathi futhi: “Ngeke ningene ePharadesi nize nikholwe, futhi anizukholwa nize nithandane, nginganitshela yini okuthi uma nikwenza nithandane na? Sabalalisani ukuthula phakathi kwenu.” Wathi: “Uma umuntu ethanda umfowabo, makamtshele ukuthi uyamthanda.”
Yiziphi izindlela zokubonisa uthando?
Uthando lunezindlela eziningi zokulubonisa ezibonisa ukuba khona kwalo, lujulise izibopho zobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, lusakaze uthando, ukubekezelelana nobuzalwane.
Phakathi kwalezi zindlela kukhona izwi elihle, uNkulunkulu uSomandla alifanisa nomuthi omuhle onezimpande ezinwetshiwe, othela isithelo ebuhleni nasekukhuleni, kanye nokwenza izinkonzo ezisiza abanye ukuba bahlangabezane nezidingo zabo, futhi izipho nazo zingenye yezindlela zokuthola usizo. ukuveza uthando kanye nokwabelana ngemizwa nezenzo.
Uyini umqondo wothando lwabesilisa nabesifazane?
Umqondo wothando uyahluka kumuntu nomuntu futhi usuka kobunye ubulili kuye kobunye.Abanye baqonda uthando ngomqondo wenyama kuphela, kanti abanye bafisa ukwenza uthando lube yindlela yokujabula ngokomoya nangokwenyama.Abanye bancike othandweni olungokomoya futhi badlule imizwa yenyama.
Owesifazane uvame ukuzinza futhi amise ikhaya ngemizwa yothando, futhi ufuna ukufeza umgomo wakhe omkhulu ekuphileni, okuwumama, lapho kungekho uthando olukhona oludlula uthando lukamama ngosana lwakhe olusanda kuzalwa, kuyilapho indoda ifuna ukudlula. le mizwa ukuze uthole induduzo futhi uhlangabezane nezidingo ezithile.
Luyini uthando?
Kuwumuzwa wokuzihlanganisa nabantu noma izinto, futhi kuwuhlobo lokunamathela olwenza umuntu afune ukusondelana nalabo abathandayo futhi afune ukumjabulisa, futhi amnike izimfanelo ezinhle nezimangalisayo.
U-Ali Tantawi uthi: “Uma ufuna ukunambitha ubumnandi obuhle kakhulu kulo mhlaba, kanye nezinhliziyo ezithokozisayo, nikeza uthando njengoba unikeza imali.”
Incazelo yothando kuPsychology
IPsychology ibheka ukuthi uthando luwumgqugquzeli wangaphakathi nowomzwelo ongaphakathi ohlelweni lobuchopho olufuna imizwa enomvuzo.Abacwaningi bathi ubuchopho busekela imizwa yothando, ngakho-ke kuba nokusabela okunamandla okuvela ebuchosheni lapho ukhangwa othile.
Kuthe uma sebeqala ukusondelana bobabili bangenwa yilokhu okwaziwa njengokuqhuma kothando.
izinhlobo zothando
Kukhona uthando lwaphezulu, lapho umuntu asondelana neNkosi yakhe, futhi azizwe elula futhi eqinisekisiwe kulemizwa echichimayo, futhi kukhona uthando lomndeni, uthando lwabangane, uthando lwezothando, nothando oluba imvelo yomuntu futhi luthande bonke. kwezidalwa zikaNkulunkulu, futhi kukhona nokuzithanda, futhi wonke umuntu kufanele azamukele, Kodwa lapho engathandi lutho olukhona kodwa yena ngokwakhe, uba ngumuntu ongenangqondo futhi ongabekezeleleki.
Inkondlo yothando
U-Ali Aljarem uthi:
Futhi uthando luyiphupho elijabulisayo lobusha ** Yeka izinsuku ezinhle namaphupho!
Nothando luphuma kukhilimu, lunyakazisa ** luze lufike enkembeni noma luthele amafu
Nothando luyinkondlo yomphefumulo, uma uyihaya ** Ubukhona buthule, futhi angingqongqozi ngokubukisa.
Oh, lungakanani uthando olwenziwe ngenjabulo ** Usizi, ukuntula isineke nokucasuka kwancibilika
Kwakuwuhlanga olwalungakwazi ukufinyelela ematomini alo ** ngakho lwaba yitomu elilulazayo letomu.
U-Ahmed Shawky uthi:
Futhi uthando alulutho ngaphandle kokulalela kanye nokweqa ** noma ngabe zanda izincazelo nezincazelo zalo
Futhi nje iso ngeso ihlangana ** futhi uma diversify izimbangela zalo nezizathu
Itimu eveza uthando nothando
Lapho umuntu ethanda, ubona yonke into ngamehlo ahlukene, ngakho yonke into iba yinhle kungazelelwe, zonke izinhlungu nobunzima bempilo bubekezeleleka, futhi yonke imigomo iba yifinyeleleke, ithinte nezinkanyezi.
Itimu emayelana nothando nokukhonzwa
Uthando nokudumisa kunezici ezintathu, ukusondelana, intshisekelo, kanye nokuzinikela. Ukusondelana kuqinisekisa ukusondelana, ukuxhumana, nokunamathelana kwezinhlangothi zombili. Intshisekelo igcina ubuhlobo buphila futhi isifiso sokukhula nokuqhubeka kuyinjongo yabo bobabili abathintekayo. Ukuzibophezela kuyaqinisekisa ubuhlobo besikhathi eside futhi buthwala imiphumela yalobu budlelwano bezibopho ezihlanganyelwe.
Khuluma ngesihloko sothando
Uthando aluyona nje imizwa yasendle, kodwa isifiso sokuhlalisana phakathi kwezinhlangothi ezimbili, ngamunye esebenzela ukusekela omunye, ukumjabulisa, ukuqonda izidingo zakhe, nendlela yakhe yokucabanga, futhi kudinga ukuthi bobabili abathintekayo bangakunaki okungasongela ubuhlobo, noma kuholele ekugqabukeni kwayo.
Itimu emayelana nezothando
Ngaphambi kokusungulwa kwe-inthanethi nezindlela zesimanje zokuxhumana, uthando lwalunolunye uhlobo, njengoba imfihlakalo nebanga linikeze ukuthakazelisa okukhethekile, futhi ezothando zathatha indawo ebanzi yokucabanga komuntu, amaphupho nezisusa isikhathi eside, ukuze kwakukhona isikole sezinkondlo kwezothando, esibaluleke kunazo zonke imbongi uKhalil Mutran, futhi amaqembu asungulwa Kuhlanganisa izimbongi zothando ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuqaleni kwekhulu lamashumi amabili, kuhlanganise neqembu lika-Apollo, iqembu le-Diwan, Izimbongi zeDiaspora.
I-Romanticism nayo inesikole sayo kwezobuciko bepulasitiki, futhi iminyaka yayo yegolide yayisekupheleni kwekhulu leshumi nesishiyagalombili nasekuqaleni kwekhulu leshumi nesishiyagalolunye, futhi izibalo zayo ezaziwa kakhulu kwakungumdwebi u-Yogis de la Croix, noJarico, bobabili ababengamaFulentshi.
Isihloko esimayelana nothando lweqiniso
Ukwethembeka kuyisisekelo okungakhelwa phezu kwaso noma yibuphi ubuhlobo obuhle, obuphumelelayo, obumsulwa, futhi ngaphandle kwakho, ubuhlobo angeke bukhule futhi buchume.Ukwethembeka kusho ubuqotho, futhi kusho ukwethembana okukhulayo nokuchuma ezinsukwini nezimo.” U-Alexandre Dumas uthi: “ Uthando olumsulwa nokungabaza akuhlangani, ngoba umnyango ongena ngawo uDoubt uphuma kuwo.
Isihloko sokuphetha ngothando
Ukuphila ngaphandle kothando kuyimpilo eyomile, engenanjongo kanye nogqozi, njengoba inikeza ubuhle nobukhazikhazi kukho konke okukhona empilweni ngabantu nezinto, futhi ngaphandle kwalo impilo ngeke ihambe kahle.Uthando luhlanganisa abantu, lusakaza ukuthula nobungane, isifiso. ukubambisana, ukwesekwa, Nokwesekwa, nokubamba iqhaza, yonke into eyakhiwe othandweni oluqotho ihlala njalo futhi iyachuma.
