Iyini incazelo yokubona isikhali ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin?

Ukubona isikhali ephusheni kunezincazelo eziningi, njengokubona isikhali ephusheni kuveza isihlangu sokuzivikela ezifweni nasezinkingeni, futhi noma ubani ositholayo uyophulukiswa kuzo zonke izifo nokukhathazeka kwakhe.

Ukubona isikhali ephusheni

• Ukubona izikhali kubonisa amandla, ukuhlakanipha, ukubekezela nokulawula kuzo zonke izinto.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona isikhali, lokhu kubonisa induduzo, ukuthula nokuthula.  
• Ukubona izikhali ezimhlophe kubonisa ubuhle nenjabulo umnikazi waleli phupho azizwayo empilweni yakhe.
• Ukumbona kubonisa uthando lomyeni ngomkakhe, nokuthi uyamnakekela futhi uyamesaba uNkulunkulu kuye.

Ukubona izikhali ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Ukubona isikhali ephusheni kungase kube kuhle, noma kungase kube isixwayiso senhlekelele noma ukufika kobubi.
• Uma intombazane engashadile ibona isikhali ephusheni layo, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa amandla ale ntombazane nokuhlakanipha kwengqondo yakhe nokuqina kwakhe ekwenzeni izinqumo, futhi angavumeli noma ubani ukuba amlawule.
• Uma intombazane ibona izikhali ephusheni layo, njengezinkemba noma izibhamu, khona-ke le ntombazane inamandla, ihloniphekile, futhi ithembekile, futhi ibonisa ukuhlanzeka kwayo, nokuthi uyazilondoloza, ikakhulukazi uma ebona inkemba eyenziwe ngegolide noma izinsimbi eziyigugu.
• Lapho intombazane engashadile ibona insangu noma into efana nayo, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi le ntombazane izothola imali eningi nengcebo eningi.
• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona umkhonto, lokhu kubonisa umshado wakhe kumuntu olungileyo ofakazela ubuqotho bakhe, futhi kubonisa ukuziphatha okuhle kwale ntombazane.
• Ukubona kwentombazane lesi sikhali kuphinde kuveze ukuthi ziningi izinkinga zomndeni okuyizinkinga ezithinta ukuhlonishwa nokuhlonishwa.

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Iyini incazelo yesikhali ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin?

• Ngokusho kwencazelo ka-Imam Ibn Sirin, isikhali ephusheni yindoda engalungile kakhulu kulabo abaseduze naye futhi eyaziwa ngokungabi nabulungisa nokucindezelwa.
• Liphinde lisho umnikazi wegunya ongenabulungisa nongenanembeza owesabisa abantu kuyilapho ekhoselise esikhundleni sakhe.
• Kukhomba umthengisi ontshontsha imali yabantu futhi ayisebenzise ngaphansi kwegama lokuhweba, futhi lolu hlobo lwephupho alujabulisi futhi abantu bayalusaba.
• Uma umuntu ezibona ethenga isikhali, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi uzoqoka umuntu othembekile ozomphathisa imali yakhe kanye naye.
• Uma umuntu ezibona edlala ngesikhali, lokhu kuyingozi enkulu; Ngoba ukudlala ngezikhali kuyingozi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma izikhali kuyizibhamu.Yonke into eyenziwa ngomlilo i-makrooh ukudlala ngayo. Ngoba kubonisa ukulahlekelwa. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesikhali ephusheni

• Uma umuntu ezibona ephethe izikhali noma ephethe isikhali, futhi eseqenjini labantu abangaphathi noma yiluphi uhlobo lwezikhali, lokho kusho ukukhushulwa kwalowo muntu kanye nokucabangela kwakhe zonke izindaba zabo.
• Ozibona ephethe isikhali kanti nokubukeka kwabantu kuqondiswe kuyena, lokhu kusho ukuthi bakhona abanomona nabahleba ngaye.
• Kodwa uma umuntu ebona ukudubula ngokungahleliwe, khona-ke lo muntu unobudedengu futhi akazilawuli izenzo zakhe.
• Ukubona izikhali ezinenkemba njengenkemba noma inkemba kuthathwa njengento enhle; Ngoba ziyizikhali ezikhombisa ukwethembeka, ukwethembeka nokugcina izithembiso.
• Ukuthenga izikhali ezibulalayo njengesibhamu noma isibhamu, njengoba kuyizingxabano nokungezwani emndenini.

Ukuthenga izikhali ephusheni

• Uma umuntu ezibona ethenga isikhali, lokhu kubonisa ubuhle. Ngoba ukuthenga izikhali ngenjongo yokuzivikela kuyinto enhle futhi kubonisa ukunqoba nenqubekelaphambili.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ezibona ethenga isikhali, lokhu kubonisa ukunethezeka nomuzwa wokuphepha nokuthula.
• Umbono wokuthenga izikhali ngokuvamile muhle futhi muhle, futhi ubonisa ukufika kokuhle.
• Uma insizwa izibona ithenga isikhali, izoshada nentombazane eyithandayo futhi ibe unkosikazi oqotho kuyo.
• Uma owesifazane ethenga insangu, uzoba ne-blues ebanzi nemali eningi, futhi uzojabula kakhulu ngayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwesikhali ephusheni

• Uma umuntu ebona isikhali ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa ubuhle.
• Uma isikhali kwakuyisibhamu, isibonelo, khona-ke ukubona isibhamu kuyinto enhle ephusheni; Ngoba isetshenziswa ezimweni eziningi ukuvikela nokuqeda izitha.
• Isibhamu siphinde sisetshenziswe ekuzingeleni futhi kulesi simo, sibonisa inzuzo, ukunqoba kanye nenzuzo.
• Uma umuntu ezibona engaqondile ekhomba isibhamu kunoma yisiphi isilwane, lokhu kubonisa ukunyundela nokukhuluma ngowesifazane ononya nenzondo.
• Uma umphuphi ezibona eqondise isikhali sakhe ezilwaneni ezidla inyama njengamabhubesi, izimpisi, nezingwe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bothando lwakhe lwezono nezifiso, nokuqhelelana kwakhe nalokho okuvunyelwe.

Ebona ephethe izikhali ephusheni

• Uma intombazane engashadile iphupha iphethe isikhali, lokhu kubonisa ukuntula kwayo impumelelo emsebenzini noma ekuphileni kwezemfundo ngokujwayelekile.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ezibona ephethe isikhali, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi ziningi izinkinga azobhekana nazo empilweni yakhe jikelele, okuhlanganisa nezinkinga zomshado eziholela ekutheni bahlukane isikhathi eside.
• Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ukuthi uphethe isikhali, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi ukukhulelwa kwakhe kuzoba nzima, futhi ukuzalwa kwakhe kuyoba nzima.
• Uma indoda izibona iphethe isikhali, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi izoshada nowesifazane ongeyena umuntu okhohlakele, ongamkhonzi uNkulunkulu.
• Uma umuntu ezibona ephethe isibhamu, lokhu kubonisa ukwesaba, ubumpofu, ukungabi namandla kanye nezifo.

Imithombo:-

1- Incwadi ethi Muntakhab al-Kalam fi Tafsir al-Ahlam, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, Dar al-Ma'rifah edition, Beirut 2000. 2- Isichazamazwi Sokuhunyushwa Kwamaphupho, u-Ibn Sirin kanye noSheikh Abd al-Ghani al-Nabulsi, uphenyo olwenziwa nguBasil Baridi, uhlelo lwe-Al-Safaa Library, Abu Dhabi 2008.