Ukubona ibhubesi ngokweqiniso akuyona into elula, njengoba sonke siyayesaba, noma ngabe lingemuva kwensimbi nemigoqo, kodwa sithola ukuthi ukulibona ephusheni kuyehluka ngokwento eliyenzayo kumuntu nokuthi liyamhlasela noma idlala naye, ngakho-ke sizoqonda ukuthi iphupho libonisa ukuthini ngebhubesi ephusheni nokuthi izinkomba libhekisela kuzo Eqinisweni.
Kuthiwani uma ngiphuphe ibhubesi?
- Uma umphuphi egibela emhlane wakhe, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuzuza kwakhe amandla kanye nesikhundla esivelele okungekho muntu ongasifinyelela kalula, njengoba enza umzamo omkhulu wokufeza le ndaba.
- Ukubona u-Assad engena ezweni alivakashele kukhomba ukuthi umengameli walo ngeke aphinde aphathe, kunalokho uzoshintsha maduze.
- Kungase kuzwakale ukuthi lowo ophuphayo uzoba nesikhundla esiphakeme esikhathini esizayo uma eqhubeka nokuphikelela kwakhe, isifiso sokuvelela, nokucabanga okuphusile ekuqhubekeleni phambili emgomweni wakhe.
- Ukuphunyuka kwakhe kuye ngaphandle kokulimala kuyisibonakaliso sokuqeda lonke usizi nezinkinga zakhe ngokuhlakanipha nangengqondo, futhi ukuthi ngeke avumele noma yibuphi ubuhlungu empilweni yakhe kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani.Kuwuphawu lwempumelelo yakhe empilweni futhi lokhu kwenza ikusasa lakhe libe ngcono.
- Umshado womphuphi nowesifazane wakhe embonweni uwubufakazi bempumelelo yakhe enkulu kanye nokulunga kwempilo yakhe, okumenza afinyelele kukho konke akucabangayo ngokushesha okukhulu, futhi uma ebona ukuthi useyibhubesi, uveza imizwa yakhe. umehluko ebuntwini bakhe, kanye nempumelelo evela eNkosini Yemihlaba empilweni yakhe, njengoba ebusiswe ngemali eningi emlethela injabulo nomndeni wakhe.
- Ukubambana naye kungase kubangele ukukhathala kwakhe esikhathini esizayo, kodwa uyolulama kukho, futhi uma elala eduze kwakhe lapho eqinisekiswa, lokhu kubonisa ukululama kwakhe kunoma yisiphi isifo esimphethe emzimbeni wakhe.
- Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi udla ekhanda lakhe, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi maduze uzozwa izindaba zokukhushulwa kwakhe esikhundleni esiphakeme esinegunya elibalulekile.
- Futhi uma umphuphi esebenzelana naye ngaphandle kokumesaba, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ingqondo yakhe nokuhlakanipha okumenza aphume ezimweni ezinzima kakhulu ngaphandle kokulimala okwenzeka kuye.
- Ukuhlangana naye ehamba endleleni kukhomba ukuthi kukhona into ayesabayo ngaphakathi kuye futhi unethemba lokuthi ngeke kwenzeke ukuze angalinyazwa yikho empilweni yakhe elandelayo, njengoba enza konke okusemandleni akhe ukukhombisa ukuthi isimo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngebhubesi ephusheni nguNabulsi
USheikh wethu u-Al-Nabulsi ukholelwa ukuthi kunezincazelo ezijabulisayo neziphikisanayo zokubona ibhubesi ephusheni. Phakathi kwezincazelo ezinhle zaleli phupho yilezi: -
- Ukumbona ephusheni kubonisa amandla nokufinyelela esikhundleni esibalulekile ayesilangazelela futhi esilwela kanzima, ngakho umphuphi uzizwa ejabule ngokuthi ukwazile ukufinyelela umgomo wakhe.
- Ukumbheka kuwukubonakaliswa kokululama ezinkingeni ahlangabezana nazo ekuphileni, futhi uma ibhubesi lingambonanga ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke uyoba ngobaluleke kakhulu futhi ngeke adalulwe kunoma yiziphi izinkathazo ekuphileni kwakhe.
- Uma umphuphi edla eyakhe inyama ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukunqoba kwakhe noma ubani onenzondo naye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unamandla kangakanani, nokuthi uzothola imali eningi ezomenza acebe.
Inezincazelo ezingezinhle futhi injalo I-grater yile: -
- Ukuhlasela kwebhubesi kumphuphi kubonisa izinkinga nezinkinga ezingase zibonakale ekuphileni kwakhe.
- Ukumgibela emhlane esabile futhi ezizwa ekhathazeke kakhulu kuholela ekutheni alimale angakwazi ukuphuma kulo, kodwa kufanele azame ukuphuma kulo monakalo.
- Mhlawumbe umbono wakhe ukhombisa ukungabi nabulungiswa kwesitha esinethemba lokusidalela amashwa empilweni yaso, ngakho kumele sinake bonke abaseduze kwakhe nezihlobo ngaphandle kokukhetha.
Ngiphuphe ibhubesi lingijaha
- dlula Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngebhubesi lingijaha Esidingweni sokugxila kakhulu empilweni yakho kukhona okumele akuqede, uma unganakile ungalimala nakanjani, futhi ombona embulala ngesikhathi ejahwa ukhomba ukuthi uzosiqeda leso sitha esicashile leso. ufuna ukubhubhisa.
- Ukuphunyuka komphuphi kuye ibhubesi lingamtholi kuwubufakazi bokuziqhelelanisa nawo wonke umuntu omzondayo, futhi lokhu kuzomenza aphephe nesivikelo esithile.
Ngiphuphe ibhubesi elikhulu
- bonisa Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngebhubesi elikhulu Ephusheni kukhona umuntu onegunya elikhulu empilweni yomphuphi ngakho kumele aqaphelisise, uma emhlasele lokho kusuke kukhomba ukuthi kukhona umonakalo owenzekile empilweni yakhe, kodwa uma ephunyuka kuye waqala ukuphunyuka. ukuthi, wayezolahlekelwa ukuphila kwakhe okujabulisayo kanye nekhono lakhe lokususa ukwesaba nokukhathazeka.
- Uma leli bhubesi lingambonanga, lokhu kuyisiqinisekiso sokuthi isitha sakhe ngeke sikwazi ukumthinta nganoma iyiphi ingozi, njengoba ezungezwe isivikelo esikhulu.
Ngiphuphe ibhubesi elifuywayo
- Kunezincazelo eziningi ezijabulisayo esizibona ngazo Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngengonyama efuywayo Kuwubufakazi bokuphila okuchichimayo komphuphi okumlethela injabulo nokwaneliseka, futhi le ndlela yokuziphilisa izoba nangomkhaya wakhe, hhayi nje umbonisi.
- Noma ubani ohlushwa izinkathazo nezinkinga nomndeni wakhe ngenxa yezizathu eziningana, iphupho limemezela ukuphela kwabo bonke ngaphandle kokubhekisela kubo futhi, futhi ngaphandle kokungaboni ngaso linye okungase kubagcine beqhelelane.
- Siphinde sithole ukuthi kuwubufakazi bokuphela kwezinkinga zezimali, uma enezikweletu uzozikhokha zonke, angabe esaphinda aboleke imali.
- Lo mbono uwumfanekiso wokuziphatha okuhle nezimfanelo ezihlukile zombono onazo, njengoba ejabulela ukuqonda okusheshayo nokuhlakanipha okumenza aphume kunoma yisiphi isimo angasithandi, futhi sithola ukuthi kuwubufakazi bokuthi ungumuntu olungile. ohlinzeka okuhle kuwo wonke umuntu, ngakho akahlushwa yinoma yikuphi ukukhathala okumlimazayo emzimbeni wakhe.
Ngiphuphe ibhubesi elimnyama
- Umbono Ibhubesi elimnyama ephusheni Akuyona into kodwa isexwayiso kumbukeli ukuba anake zonke izenzo azenzayo, ezingamenza awele ezinkingeni eziningi futhi ahileleke ezenzakalweni ezimbi ezingenakubalwa.
- Uma leli bhubesi eliphuphayo limjaha embonweni futhi laqala ukumbalekela lingamboni, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi uhlushwa izinkathazo eziphazamisayo azoziqeda maduze.
Ngiphuphe ibhubesi lidla umuntu
- Imibukiso Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngebhubesi elidla umuntu Ziningi izincazelo eziqondene nalo muntu, njengoba ebhekene nezingqinamba ezizwiwa ngumphuphi kuphela, ngakho uyama naye azame ukumsusa kuzo ngezindlela ezahlukene ukuze aphile impilo yakhe ngokuthula.
- Ngokunjalo nombono uhlale ukhuluma ngokungabi nabulungiswa okuwela kulowo ophuphayo ngenxa yobuningi benkohlakalo ekhona eduze kwakhe, futhi akagculisekile ngakho, kodwa uNkulunkulu (uMninimandla onke kanye noMkhulu) akasekeli amanga, kodwa kunalokho iqiniso elingenhla. konke.
Ngiphuphe ibhubesi endlini
- Ikhombisa Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngebhubesi endlini Ukuthi kunokungaboni ngaso linye phakathi kwabanikazi bomuzi ngenxa yenkinga evelele phakathi kwabo nokungavumelani kwabo ngombono obumbene, ngakho bazizwa bethukuthele ngomunye nomunye.
- Ukuba khona kwakhe endlini kungase kubangele ukuntula imali kanye nesimo sezimali esincane, futhi lokhu kubenza bangakwazi ukubekezelela izinkinga abangase babhekane nazo ngoba bengakwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo.
- Kungasho nosizi oluthile ngenxa yokushona komunye wabantu ababehlala kulowo muzi, ngakho-ke sithola ukuthi kungcono ukungacabangi ngale ndaba ngoba uNkulunkulu kuphela owaziyo okungabonwayo futhi isiphetho singashintsha sisuka kwesinye isikhathi siye kwesinye. okulandelayo, ngakho okumele sikwenze nje ukusondela kuNkulunkulu futhi simkhulume kakhulu ukuze sinciphise izinkathazo futhi sizisuse.
- Uma emi phambi kwendlu engangeni kuyo kusho ukuthi abanikazi bomuzi abanandaba nokuziphatha kwabo, njengoba benza okubi okwenza wonke umuntu asuke kubo ngenxa yezinto abazizwayo ngaye. zokuziphatha nezimfanelo ezingezinhle, ngakho-ke kufanele baguqule ukuziphatha kwabo futhi baphathe kahle ukuze wonke umuntu asondele kubo futhi angabaqheli.
Ngiphuphe ibhubesi nebhubesikazi, ithini incazelo yalokho?
- bonisa Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngebhubesi nengonyama Nokho, kunabantu abahlale becabanga ngokulimala komphuphi, ikakhulukazi uma ibhubesi noma ibhubesikazi limhlasela ebuthongweni bakhe, khona-ke umbono ubonisa izinkathazo nezinkinga ezingapheli, kodwa uma ephunyuka kuzo, uzothola insindiso yakhe kunoma yikuphi okubi akwenzayo. ukuhlangana.
- Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi ushade nebhubesikazi ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uzokhipha noma yikuphi ukucindezeleka noma usizi oluthiya ukuphila kwakhe, futhi uma elwa naye futhi amlahle, lokhu kubonisa ukukhushulwa kwakhe esikhungweni. insimu noma isikhundla sakhe.
- Ukuphuza ubisi lwebhubesikazi kuwukubonakaliswa kokuqeda isitha phakade nokusichoboza ngokuphelele, futhi uma umphuphi edla inyama yakhe, lokhu kubonisa ushintsho olujabulisayo empilweni yakhe oluzomzuzisa emsebenzini wakhe.
Ngiphuphe ibhubesi ligijima emva kwami
- Uma umboni ephupha ngaye esagijima emva kwakhe, angase avuke ethukile ngenxa yaleli phupho, ngakho sithola ukuthi Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngebhubesi eligijima emva kwamiKuholela ekuqhamukeni kwezinkinga empilweni yomboni eziqeda amandla futhi zimethuse.Kanti lezi zinkinga kungenzeka ukuthi ziqhamuka kumlingani wakhe empilweni yakhe noma ngabe umkakhe noma ingoduso yakhe, njengoba lo phathina akamniki induduzo. futhi imlethela inkathazo.
- Uma umphuphi eyintombazane engashadile, khona-ke kufanele aqaphele umuntu ocabanga ukushada naye, futhi lokhu kungenxa yokuthi uzobe esekuhluphekeni okukhulu nokulimala okukhulu, futhi lapha kufanele ahlale kude naye.
- Umbono ubuye uveze ukuthi kunenkinga ngomqashi njengoba kunezinto ezimcasulayo nezimenza axabane naye ezinsukwini ezizayo, uma ophuphayo enaka umsebenzi wakhe angashiyi phutha, azikho izinkinga ezizokwenzeka. kuyena.
- Kukhona futhi abahumushi abachaza ukuthi kukhomba umona ohlupha umphuphi kuwo wonke umuntu oseduze kwakhe, ngakho-ke akumele ashiye i-dhikr noma afunde iKur’an ukuze asuse leli hlo.
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Ngiphuphe ibhubesi lingihlasela, kuchazani ukuphupha?
- Empeleni ukuhlasela kwakhe akwehlanga kahle njengoba sithola ukuthi ukhomba ukuthi umboni uzongena enkingeni emenza angakwazi ukuyixazulula kulesi sikhathi samanje.Le nkinga ingase ibangelwe wukungaphatheki kahle kwempahla yakhe, okwenza ukuthi angakwazi ukuyixazulula. udabukile nokuphelelwa yithemba.Kufanele abekezele futhi akhumbule iNkosi yakhe, engakhohlwa nguye.
- Kungase kuzwakale ukuthi umphuphi ubhekene nezinkinga ezithile zempilo, noma uzungezwe izitha ezimhlelela ukumenzakalisa, kufanele aziqaphele ngoba ngeke ziyimise le ndaba, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nebhubesi labesifazane abangashadile
- Noma ubani owabona leliphupho ephusheni lakhe kufanele azi ukuthi uphila phakathi kwezinkinga ezingase zihlale kuye okwesikhashana, kodwa uzama ukuphuma kuzo, futhi uzokwazi, ngentando yakhe nesifiso sakhe ukuphila okuhle, ukuqeda lezi zinkathazo.
- Umbono ungahunyushwa ngokuthi uhlotshaniswa nomuntu ongamfanele, ngoba mubi ekusebenzelaneni kwakhe nasekuziphatheni kwakhe futhi ngeke akhululeke kuye, ngakho-ke umbono uwuphawu olubalulekile lokumsiza nokumenza ahambe. ukuze ahlale ngokuthula futhi ngaphandle kokukhathazeka.
- Iphupho lingase liphathe isexwayiso mayelana nobungane ababi empilweni yakhe, njengoba bumenza ahambe nabo ngezindlela ezingalungile ezingamzuzisi nakancane, futhi lapha kufanele akuyeke lokho futhi aqhele kubo ukuze angangeni ezenzakalweni ezingazuzisi. akakwazi ukwenza.
- Umbono ungase usho ukuthi akazange aphumelele ezifundweni zakhe ngalesi sikhathi, ngakho-ke angase aphuze ukufeza izinhloso zakhe, kodwa kufanele anake ezinsukwini ezizayo ukuze avale lokhu kwehla futhi afeze amaphupho akhe.
Lithini incazelo yephupho lebhubesi kumuntu wesifazane oshadile?
Umbono awutuseki ephusheni lakhe, njengoba uholela kwezinye izinto ezimbi okufanele azibekezelele futhi amukele isahlulelo seNkosi yakhe ukuze azinxephezele kangcono kunazo esikhathini esizayo.
- Ubhekana nezinkathazo nezinkinga ahlala ezama ukuziqeda ngaphandle kwempumelelo, akakwazi ukuzixazulula ngokwakhe, umyeni kumele abambisane naye ukuze impilo ijabule.
- Uma ibhubesi limhlasela embonweni wakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sempilo yakhe nalokho abhekene nakho nomyeni wakhe, njengoba iphupho lichaza ukuthi usebenzelana kabi nomyeni wakhe, njengoba engahloniphi futhi. akabongi ukuthi ungumfazi wakhe kanye nonina wezingane zakhe, kodwa uma embulele ephusheni, umyeni wakhe uzoshintsha naye futhi angabe esamphatha kabi.
- Ukumbona ephusheni lakhe akuhambisani kahle, njengoba ebonisa ukuthi ngeke asheshe akhulelwe, kodwa uma enezingane ngempela, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi azihambi kahle ezifundweni zakhe, futhi lapha kufanele anake. baphinde babakhuthaze ukuthi baphumelele ezifundweni zabo futhi bazi iphuzu labo elibuthakathaka ukuze baxazulule.
- Kungase futhi kubonise ukuthi ubhekene nezikweletu ezithile ezimbangela ukukhathala ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kodwa akufanele ahlale kulobu buhlungu futhi abekezelele lesi simo kuze kube yilapho iNkosi yakhe imbuyisela esikhundleni esingcono.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nengonyama yowesifazane okhulelwe
- Uma kungamlimazi ephusheni, kuveza ukukhathala kwakhe ngokomzimba akuzwayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kodwa kungambangeli ingozi, futhi uzoqedela ukukhulelwa kwakhe kahle, ngenxa kaNkulunkulu, futhi iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi uyapha. ukuzalwa komfana.
- Ukuhlasela kwakhe kuye ephusheni akuwona umbono oncomekayo, kodwa kunalokho kuholela ekukhathaleni kwakhe njalo, kodwa uzodlula kulolu daba ukuze iNkosi yakhe izomnxephezela kamuva ngenxa yokubekezela kwakhe ngosizi lwakhe.
- Akungabazeki ukuthi ukuphupha ibhubesi kungase kuphenduke abanye abantu abanomona, futhi sithola ukuthi unesabelo kulolu daba, njengoba kukhona abamzondayo ukukhulelwa kwakhe futhi abangamfiseli okuhle, kodwa yena uzobe elungile. ukuphana kweNkosi Yomhlaba.
- Uma embalekela, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uzozala ingane yakhe ngokuphepha nangokulula, ngaphandle kokulimala.
Ithini incazelo yephupho lebhubesi kowesifazane ohlukanisile?
- Iphupho liyincazelo yalokho adlula kukho phakathi nomshado wakhe wangaphambili, njengoba wayengakwazi ukuhlala naye ngenjabulo nangokunethezeka, futhi lokhu kungenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe okubi, okwamdabukisa kakhulu futhi kwamenza wangakwazi ukubhekana naye.
- Uma ephunyuka kuye, lokhu kuyizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuthi iNkosi yakhe izomnxephezela ngobuhle empilweni yakhe elandelayo, ngakho-ke akufanele ahlale edabukile, kodwa kufanele abe nethemba futhi azizwe enelisekile aze athole umvuzo omuhle.
- Uma eshada naye ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzongena kwenye impilo nomuntu ashada naye futhi azinzile empilweni yabo yomshado, engenazo izinkathazo nezinkinga.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nebhubesi elinokuthula ephusheni
- Ukubona leli bhubesi lingamhlaseli umphuphi kuwubufakazi bokuthi uhlangabezana nesithiyo empilweni yakhe, kodwa angakwazi ukuliqeda kalula ngaphandle kokuba kwenzeke ingozi kuye.
- Ukumbona ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kubonisa ukusebenzisana kwakhe okuhle nokuziphatha okuhle nomyeni wakhe onolaka, njengoba ebamba intukuthelo yakhe futhi ekwazi ukulawula ukwesaba kwakhe.
- Iphupho libonisa ukuthi umboni uzonqoba zonke izitha zakhe ngenxa yokuhlakanipha kwakhe nokucabanga okuphusile, futhi kungase kubonise ukukhushulwa kwakhe noma ukucabangela kwakhe isikhundla esikhulu phakathi nezinsuku ezizayo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokubulala ibhubesi ephusheni
- Kuyaziwa ukuthi ibhubesi linamandla futhi liyakwazi ukushwabadela umuntu ngemizuzu embalwa, ngakho-ke uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi umhlulile wambulala, lokho kukhomba impumelelo yakhe ekususeni ububi obusendleleni yokuphila impilo ephephile izingozi.
- Uma umphuphi esehambe indlela enqatshelwe isikhashana, khona-ke lo mbono uveza ukuqapha kwakhe nokubuyela kwakhe eqinisweni futhi, njengoba azi ukuthi okwenqatshelwe ngeke kuhlale, ngakho ufuna ukujabulisa iNkosi yakhe.
- Ukumbulala kuyinkomba yokuthi uzobe esesimeni esihle nesihloniphekile emsebenzini wakhe noma ezifundweni zakhe, ukuze abe ngcono kunangaphambili.
Kuthiwani uma ngiphuphe ibhubesi lidlala ngami?
Uma lokhu kwenzeka ngokweqiniso kumele kube kumqeqeshi wakhe, njengoba emqonda kahle futhi ngeke amlimaze ngoba uyazi ukuthi lo muntu ungumfundisi nothisha wakhe.Ngakho-ke sithola ukuthi ukudlala nomphuphi ephusheni lakhe ejabule. kuwubufakazi bokunqoba izitha nokuphila ngokuthula ngaphandle kokusekela noma iyiphi ingozi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyini, futhi uyozwa izindaba ezinhle esikhathini esizayo.
Ithini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokubalekela ibhubesi?
Akungabazeki ukuthi empeleni uma sibona ibhubesi akukho okunye esingakwenza ngaphandle kokubalekela, futhi lokhu kungenxa yonya lwalo namandla okusishwabadela.Ngakho-ke uma umphuphi elibona bese eqala ukulibalekela. ngangokunokwenzeka, khona-ke kuyinkomba yokuqhelelana kwakhe ngokuphelele nezitha zakhe.Hhayi lokhu kuphela, kodwa ukuthi uzoziqeda zonke izikweletu zakhe, ngakho umbono uyinkomba yokuqhelelana kwakhe nakho konke okumphatha kabi. umphuphi ubelokhu ehlushwa yinkinga okwesikhashana, iphupho limemezela ukuthi uzoliqeda maduze futhi ngeke adalulwe kunoma iyiphi inkinga phakathi nokuphila kwakhe okulandelayo.
Kuthiwani uma ngiphupha ibhubesi lingiluma?
Incazelo yephupho ngokulunywa yibhubesi ephusheni iveza ukuthi lowo ophuphayo wenziwa ukungabi nabulungiswa yigunya elikhulu kunaye elingamvumeli ukuthi afeze akufunayo, futhi kuyinkomba yokuthi uzungezwe inombolo wamambuka, ngakho-ke akumele athembe wonke umuntu oseduze kwakhe.Ukulunywa ephusheni kungomunye wemibono engemihle eqaphelisa umphuphi ngesidingo... Ukusondela eNkosini yakhe ngoba angase evezwe ukungalungi kumuntu oseduze. kanye nosizi iNkosi Yomhlaba kuphela engamkhulula kulo.
