Incazelo: Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami ngu-Ibn Sirin, kuthiwani uma ngiphupha ngilala nomkami phambi kwabantu?

Umbono wokuya ocansini ungomunye wemibono evame kakhulu ephusheni lomuntu, njengoba kuphakamisa imibuzo eminingana ngaphakathi kuye ukuze athole incazelo yawo, futhi kufanelekile ukusho ukuthi lo mbono unezincazelo eziningi ezitusekayo nezingadunyiswa. -umthetho noma omunye wezihlobo zakhe zesifazane.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami

• Noma ubani ozibona esebenzisana nomkakhe ngobumnene futhi ngaphandle kokuphoqwa noma ubudlova ephusheni, lo mbono uyinkomba yezinga lothando lwakhe nobubele bakhe ngaye ngokoqobo.
• Uma indoda ilala nomkayo endlini yokugezela futhi enye yezingane zabo ibabona, futhi ukubonakala kwendodana yakhe kubonakala kuxakile futhi kuhlukile, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uSathane uzibonile izitho zabo zangasese ngoba azizivikeli ngokuthandazela ukuya ocansini, noma inkomba yokulala naye ngemuva, okubhekwa njengokuphambene nezimfundiso zenkolo yamaSulumane.
• Ukubona indoda ephusheni iphoqa umkakhe ukuba abe nobuhlobo naye ngenjongo yokwanelisa isifiso sakhe ngaphandle kokucabangela amalungelo akhe omshado kuwubufakazi bokuthi akamkhathaleli, ukuthi akamniki imali noma ukudla okwanele, nokuthi umphatha kabi.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami ku-Ibn Sirin

• Isazi esikhulu u-Ibn Sirin sachaza umbono walendoda wokuba nobuhlobo bobulili nomkayo ngokuphindaphindiwe njengobufakazi bomzamo wayo wokulondoloza umuzi wayo ezinkingeni nasekunakekeleni kwayo umkayo nezingane.
• Leli phupho lisho ukuthi lowo ophuphayo uzothola izinzuzo eziningi kanye nobuhle obuchichimayo.
• Ukubona umyeni ukuthi ulele nomkakhe ephusheni, wabe esehlanjululwa ekungcoleni ngokobulili futhi wenza ukungcola ngomthandazo, kubonisa ukususwa kokukhathazeka nokuqeda ubunzima nezithiyo ezikhona phakathi kwakhe namaphupho akhe.

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Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngilala nomkami esahlukanisile

• Ukubona indoda ilele nonkosikazi wayo yakudala ingasikhiphi isidoda kukhomba ukuthi izothola izinzuzo nezibusiso eziningi.
• Lo mbono ubonisa inhloso yomphuphi nesifiso sokubuyela kumkakhe wangaphambili futhi ngeke amcindezele noma aphikise isithunzi sakhe futhi.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami phambi kwabantu

• Uma indoda iphupha ilala nomkayo benqunu phambi kwabantu, futhi inamahloni kakhulu ngaleso simo, lokho kuwuphawu lokuthi izimfihlo zabo zizovela futhi abantu bakhulume ngezinkinga zabo.
• U-Ibn Sirin uhumusha ukulala komyeni nomfazi ephusheni ngokujwayelekile njengenjabulo yabo yomshado, futhi ubheka umshado wabo njengesibonelo kanye nesibonelo esihle phakathi kwabajwayelene nabangane, futhi ubonisa ukuthi bayoba nabantwana abalungile nabalungile abaziqhenyayo ngabo.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami kodwa angehli

• Uma indoda ibona ukuthi iya ocansini nomkayo, futhi isidoda asizange siphume kuye ngesikhathi socansi, lokhu kusho ukuthi uphila ngokukhathazeka nokudabuka, ngoba ukukhishwa kwesidoda kubonisa ukususwa kokucindezeleka kanye nomuzwa wokukhathazeka. induduzo nenjabulo.
• Uma umphuphi ezama ukukhipha ngesikhathi sobudlelwane, kodwa kungasebenzi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi kunezithiyo empilweni yakhe ezivimbela ukufeza imigomo namaphupho akhe ngemva kwemizamo eminingi yokufinyelela kuzo.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami esesikhathini

• Ukulala komphuphi nomkakhe esesikhathini kungezinye zezinto uNkulunkulu azenqabelayo, njengoba kukhombisa ukuthi wathatha isifungo wangabe esenzela inhlawulo, wabe esengenamthetho kuye aze akhiphe inhlawulo, kubonisa ukungabi nabulungisa komphuphi kumuntu kanye nokuthathwa kwemali yakhe.
• Ukubona umuntu eya ocansini nomkakhe osesikhathini kuyinkomba yokuziphatha kwakhe okubi nokuziphatha kwakhe nokuhola imali ngokungemthetho.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami ngiphuma endunu

• Ukuhlangana komyeni nomkayo endunu kubhekwa njengenye yemibono engathandeki, njengoba kuyinkomba yokuhamba kwakhe ngaphandle kokucabanga ngemuva kwezifiso zakhe, ukuqhela endleleni yeqiniso, futhi engenzi imisebenzi yakhe.
• Lo mbono ukhombisa ukushuba nokuntengantenga kobudlelwano phakathi kwakhe nomkakhe nokwanda kwezinkinga, futhi ukhombisa ukuthi uzobhekana nenkinga enkulu yezimali engase iholele ekutheni agcine eqomile.
• Uma indoda ilala nomkakhe okhulelwe kusukela endunu yakhe, umbono ubonisa ukuthi umsebenzi wakhe uzoba nzima noma uzogula ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami ngemuva

• Ukulala kwendoda nomkayo ngemuva kuyinkomba yokungalaleli, ukwenza izono nokusola, ukungalandeli iSunnah nezimfundiso zenkolo, nokuhamba endleleni yokuduka, futhi kuthathwa njengomyalezo oyisixwayiso kumboni ukuthi abuyele emuva. Nkulunkulu futhi bafulathele izenzo ezimbi.
• Lo mbono ubuye uveze ukuthi lowo ophuphayo ulwela ukufeza umgomo okunzima ukuwufinyelela futhi angeke awuthole futhi uzolahlekelwa yimali eningi.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami emgwaqeni

• Ukuchazwa kokulala komyeni nomkakhe emgwaqeni futhi wayejabule phakathi nalobo buhlobo bobulili naye kubonisa ukuqonda okukhulu phakathi kwabashadile kanye nokusondelana kwabo komunye nomunye.
• Uma umyeni edlwengula umkayo futhi amphoqelele ukuba abe nobuhlobo naye emgwaqweni, umbono ubonisa ukwanda kwezingxabano nezinkinga phakathi kwabo phakathi naleso sikhathi, kanye nenkomba yokulahlekelwa kwakhe yimali eningi nokulahlekelwa kwakhe. umsebenzi.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami ongasekho

• Ukulala kwendoda nomkayo oshonile kuwubufakazi bokuthi ithola ifa lemali eningi nokondleka kwayo, futhi uma ingalishiyi ifa, umbono ubonisa ukuphatha kahle kwayo umndeni wayo ngothando, inhlonipho nokukhathalela ifa labo. izindaba, futhi lifanekisela ukulangazelela kwakhe kanye nomuzwa wakhe wesizungu ngemva kokufa kwakhe.
• Noma ubani obona ukuthi ulala nomkakhe oshonile, futhi ukubonakala kwakhe kwashintsha futhi wethuka, wabe esevuka ngenxa yokwesaba futhi wakhathazeka futhi esaba, khona-ke lokhu kukhomba ukuthi uSathane umhlebela ukuba enze ubufebe.
• Iphupho libuye lisho ukunxusa kwakhe, ukumnika umusa, ukuvakashela ithuna lakhe, ukucela umndeni wakhe, ukufeza izicelo zabo, nokubanakekela ngokuqhubekayo.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami phambi komndeni wakhe

• Uma umyeni eshada nomkakhe phambi komndeni wakhe, futhi wamukelekile futhi akalimazi, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa isifiso sakhe sokuhlela abanye abazondayo futhi adlulisele umyalezo kubo wokuthi ujabule ekuphileni kwakhe futhi uzinzile emshadweni wakhe.
• Ukuhlalisana komphuphi nomkakhe, osesikhathini phambi kwezihlobo zakhe, kubonisa ubuningi bezono nokungazinzi kokuphila kwabo komshado, okuye kwahlushwa isimo sokunganaki.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomkami kwaphuma igazi

•  Uma indoda ibona, ngesikhathi sokulala nomkakhe, igazi liphuma esithweni sakhe sangasese, futhi uzwa ukuzwana nokujabula, khona-ke umbono ubonisa ukuqeda ukukhathazeka nokudabuka okukhona empilweni yakhe.
• Ukubuka igazi elibomvu elimnyama lomphuphi liphuma esithweni sangasese somkakhe phakathi nobudlelwane naye kuyinkomba yokuthi ubhekene nezinkinga eziningi nezinkinga ezingase ziholele ekuhlukaneni.
• U-Al-Nabulsi uhumushe umbono womshado womboni kumkakhe kanye nokopha okuvela kuye njengokukhombisa ukufa kwakhe okusondelayo.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nonkosikazi wami wakudala

• Indoda ibona ukuthi ithandana nonkosikazi wayo wakudala futhi wayezwana futhi enelisekile ngalobo buhlobo kubonisa ukuphela kokungqubuzana phakathi kwabo.
• Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi ulala ngokulangazela nomkakhe wangaphambili, nakuba eshade nomunye wesifazane, futhi naye wayeshade nenye indoda, khona-ke umbono ubonisa uthando lwakhe olukhulu ngaye nesifiso sakhe esinamandla sokubuyela kuye futhi. , naphezu kobunzima bendaba.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nosisi womkami

• Noma ubani obona ukuthi unobudlelwane obungekho emthethweni nodadewabo womkakhe, futhi evuka ebuthongweni bakhe obungaphumuli, umbono ubonisa inzondo yakhe enkulu ngaye kanye nokunqanyulwa kobudlelwane babo komunye nomunye.
• Ezinye izazi zahumusha lo mbono njengokubhekisela enzuzweni, ekuhlanganyeleni emsebenzini, noma ukuziphilisa ngokuvakashela eNdlini kaNkulunkulu.
• Umshado wendoda nodadewabo womkakhe nokuhlalisana naye, nomkakhe wajabula ngalowo mshado, wavuka ethukile futhi eshubile, ngakho umbono ubonisa ukuthi uzoba nengane maduze, kodwa uma ubulili buwela ephusheni, lokhu kuholela ekonakaleni kwephupho.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nendoda eya ocansini nomkakhe ngenkathi ekhulelwe

• Noma ubani obona ephusheni ukuthi unobudlelwane nomkakhe okhulelwe futhi amanzi akhe aphumile, khona-ke umbono ubonisa ukuphila kwakhe okuhle nokuchichimayo kanye nemali eningi, uma kwenzeka ubuhlobo bube nemvume yakhe futhi kwakungekho. ngenkani kuye.
• Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi ujabule ngobuhlobo bobulili naye ephusheni, umbono ubonisa ukuthi ukuzalwa kwakhe kusondela nomntwana wesilisa.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nezincekukazi zami ephusheni

• Ezinye izazi zokuhumusha zaveza ukuthi ukulalana kwezihlobo ephusheni ngokuphuma kwesidoda kuwuphawu lwengane engathembekile kubazali bayo futhi inqamule ubudlelwano bokuhlobana nobungane phakathi kwabo, futhi ikhombisa ukuzuza imali ngezindlela ezingekho emthethweni, futhi uma elala nesinye sezihlobo zakhe ngaphandle kokukhipha isidoda, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi uyothola ukudla okuningi nokuhle kulo muntu.
• U-Ibn Sirin uthi uma umboni elala nendodakazi yakhe, lokhu kubonisa umehluko endleleni yabo yokucabanga ngenxa yomehluko esizukulwaneni nasebudaleni.
• Lapho ubaba ebona ephusheni ukuthi ulele nendodakazi yakhe, khona-ke umbono ubonisa umshado wakhe noma umshado ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, noma ukuthi uzothola okuhle futhi athole imali kuyise, noma ukuthi uzomsiza ukuba anqobe izinkinga zakhe. kanye nezinkinga.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nomama

• Ukulala nomama ephusheni kubhekwa njengenye yemibono engathandeki, ngokusho kwencazelo yabahumushi abaningi, njengoba kubonisa inani elikhulu lezingxabano nezingxabano phakathi kwakhe noyise, noma ukufa kwakhe uma egula, futhi kubonisa ukuthi umama wakhe wabhekana nenkinga enkulu yezempilo futhi wamtholela imali enqatshelwe engcoliswe izinsolo eziningi.
• Uma indodana ibona ukuthi ilala nonina, futhi akajabule futhi ekhala, umbono ubonisa ukungalaleli kwakhe abazali bakhe, izingxabano eziningi nezinkinga, kanye nosizi nokucindezelwa komama.
• Noma ubani obona ukuthi unobudlelwane nonina ngaphandle kwenkanuko kuwuphawu lokuthi uya kwelinye izwe elikude, kodwa akajabule futhi uphoqeleka ukuba athathe lesi sinqumo.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nowesifazane engingamazi

• Ukulala komphuphi ephusheni nowesifazane angamazi kuyinkomba yesimo sakhe esiphakeme, ukukhushulwa emsebenzini wakhe, nokuthola lokho akufisayo.
• Lo mbono ubhekisela ezinzuzweni eziningi kanye nezinzuzo azozithola kulo wesifazane futhi amsize afeze amaphupho nezifiso zakhe njalo.
• Abanye osomthetho bahumusha leli phupho njengophawu lokwanda kokukhathazeka, ukudabuka, ukukhathazeka, nokuntula isiqinisekiso.
• Ukushada komphuphi nowesifazane angamazi kuwubufakazi bokuziphatha kwakhe okonakele, ukuziphatha kwakhe ngezindlela ezingalungile, nokuhola kwakhe imali enqatshelwe.
• Ukulala kweBachelor nentombazane enhle kuholela emshadweni, ukuqedwa kwamaphrojekthi, nokukhushulwa kwakhe emsebenzini.

Ithini incazelo yokulala nomfazi womngani wami?

Indoda ibona ukuthi ilala nomfazi womngane wayo ikhombisa inhlanhla nokuthi izozuza imali eningi maduze nje.Ukubona umphuphi elala nomfazi womngane wakhe ephusheni kubonisa inzuzo ebhizinisini lakhe kanye nesimo esiphakeme phakathi kwabantu, kepha ukude noNkulunkulu.

Kuthiwani uma ngiphupha ngilala nengane encane?

Uma indoda eshadile iphupha ilala nengane encane, umbono ukhombisa ukuziphilisa nokwanda kwemali, uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi unobudlelwano nentombazane encane, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi uzoyinakekela. futhi unakekele intombazanyana esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.Indoda engashadile ilala nentombazane encane ephusheni ibonisa ukuthi icabanga ngomshado empeleni.

Kuthiwani uma ngiphuphe ngilala nomama womkami?

Indoda ilala nomama womkayo ephusheni ikhombisa ukuthi isondelene naye, iyamzwela, ihlangabezana nezidingo zakhe.Obona ukuthi ulala nomama womkakhe ukhombisa ukuxhumana kwabo okuqinile phakathi kwabo kanye nempatho yakhe. njengomama wakhe.