Ukubasa umlilo ephusheni Phakathi kwemibono edidayo ebangela ukukhathazeka emphefumulweni, njengoba ukukhanyisa umlilo empeleni kungase kube ukuqeda isizungu sobumnyama, ukulungisa ukudla, noma ukuthola ipulaki yokushisa nokuvikela, kodwa kungase kube ngenxa yokulimala nokulimala. kothile, ngakho ukubasa umlilo kungase kuthwale Kokubili izincazelo ezinhle nezimbi, kuye ngesimo somlilo, izinga lawo, umuntu owubasile, nezinye izimo eziningi ezinezincazelo ezihlukahlukene.
Ukubasa umlilo ephusheni
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokubamba umlilo Inezincazelo eziningi, kuhlanganise nezincomekayo nezingathandwa, ngokwenjongo yokukhanyisa umlilo, umkhawulo wesilinganiso nobukhulu bawo, kanye nomuntu owukhanyisayo futhi kubani.
Uma umnikazi wephupho evutha umlilo obanzi emgwaqeni ukuze abantu babuthane kuwo, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba enhle yokuthi usezoba usaziwayo futhi abe nethonya elikhulu kuwo wonke umuntu ukuze azuze futhi ajabule.
Kodwa uma umphuphi ebona umuntu ekhanyisa ikhandlela elilula ukuze amkhanyisele indlela yakhe, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi iNkosi (uMninimandla onke futhi Ophakeme) izomnikeza inkampani ewusizo nenhle, njengoba esezohlangana nomuntu ozokwenza abaningi. izinguquko ezinhle empilweni yakhe elandelayo (uNkulunkulu ethanda).
Nakuba lowo obona ukuthi ushisa indlu yakhe, lokhu kusho ukuthi kuzoba nomcimbi noma umcimbi oyofakazelwa yibo bonke abantu bomuzi wakhe, futhi uzoba nomthelela omkhulu kubo bonke, futhi ngokuvamile kuzoba ngcono kakhulu.
Ukushisa umlilo ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin
U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukukhanyisa umlilo kunezincazelo eziningi, eziningi zazo ezithi Mahmoud, ezibikezela izenzakalo ezinhle ezizobonwa umboni nomndeni wakhe.
Uma umnikazi wephupho evutha inhlansi elula yokukhanyisa indlu yakhe, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi inkinga noma inkinga enzima abhekene nayo endlini yakhe izophela maduzane.
Ngokuqondene nalowo obasa umlilo ovutha kakhulu emgwaqeni, ungumuntu onenhliziyo enomusa othandwa yibo bonke abamzungezile futhi ulwela ukusabalalisa ubulungisa kanye nenzuzo enhle kubo bonke abadingayo.
Nakuba lowo obasa umlilo awubambe ngezandla zombili, lowo muntu uyazabalaza futhi ekhuthele emsebenzini, uthanda ukuphuza olwandle lwesayensi namasiko futhi akayeki ukucela ukufunda amakhono amasha nesayensi yesimanje.
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Ukukhanyisa umlilo ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile
Lo mbono unezincazelo eziningi, kuhlanganise nalowo odunyiswayo, onikeza izindaba ezinhle, nongenamusa, oxwayisa ngengozi noma oxwayisa ngendlela egcwele ukulimala.
Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ukuthi ubasa umlilo endlini yakhe ukuze afudumale futhi umndeni wakhe ubuthene kuye, khona-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi usuku lwakhe lomshado lusondela kumuntu amthandayo emcimbini ojabulisayo lapho umndeni kanye nabathandekayo. buthana ukuze wonke umuntu ajabule.
Uma umphuphi eshisa izinto zakhe zangasese, khona-ke lokhu kungase kube ubufakazi bokuzisola kwakhe ngazo zonke izenzo azenza esikhathini esidlule kanye nemikhuba emibi achitha ngayo ukuphila kwakhe ezintweni ezingenamsebenzi, kanye nesifiso sakhe sokumlahla futhi alungise. indlela yakhe emhlabeni.
Kodwa uma umboni evutha inhlansi encane emgwaqeni ogcwele abahamba ngezinyawo, lokhu kusho ukuthi uzothola impumelelo enkulu emkhakheni owodwa futhi aphumelele wonke umuntu, futhi maduzane angase abe usaziwayo, abantu bafuna ukusondela kuye futhi basebenzise ithuba. ulwazi namakhono akhe.
Nakuba lowo obona othile emkhanyisela ikhandlela noma inhlansi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi enhliziyweni yakhe uthwele inhliziyo egcwele uthando nesifiso sokuzihlanganisa naye, futhi uyolwela ukuzuza injabulo nokuzinza kuye.
Ukubasa umlilo ephusheni owesifazane oshadile
Ukukhanyisa umlilo kumfazi oshadile, ngokusho kwabahlaziyi abaningi, kuhlobene nesimo sakhe esingokwengqondo nemizwa esikhathini samanje kanye nesici sokuziphatha sokuphila kwakhe.
Uma umbonisi ebona ukuthi umyeni wakhe ubasela umlilo ukuze axoshe ubumnyama bobusuku, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yothando lwakhe olujulile ngaye kanye nomzamo wakhe onzima wokumenza ajabule futhi amnikeze ukuphila okuphephile yena nomndeni wakhe.
Kodwa uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi ubasa umlilo abese ewucima, khona-ke uhlala esola umyeni wakhe futhi uba nezingxabano eziningi naye ngokungenasidingo kulokhu, okungase kubhidlize umuzi wakhe nokuphila komkhaya wakhe okuzinzile.
Uma owesifazane oshadile kunguye othungela umuzi wakhe ngomlilo, lokho kusho ukuthi akanelisekile futhi uzizwa ezisola ngezinqumo eziningi ezingalungile azenza esikhathini esidlule ezathinta ukuphila kwakhe nekusasa lakhe.
Yize lo obona umlilo uvutha futhi uvutha kakhulu endlini yakhe, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi akazizwa ekhululekile emzini wakhe ngenxa yezinkinga eziningi phakathi kwamalungu omndeni wakhe nokubhebhetheka kwesimo sezimali esingesihle kulesi sikhathi samanje. kumele abekezele futhi akholwe ukuthi kumele adlule kuzo zonke lezi zimo ngokuthula (uNkulunkulu ethanda).
Ukubeka umlilo ephusheni owesifazane okhulelwe
Abahumushi abaningi bayavuma ukuthi ukukhanyisa umlilo kumfazi okhulelwe kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nokuchichima kwemizwa engemihle namandla amabi abusa ingqondo yomphuphi futhi kubangele ukuba azizwe edabukile futhi ecindezelekile.
Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ukuthi umlilo ophambi kwakhe uyavutha futhi kuphuma imfucumfucu eminingi ephezulu, khona-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa selufikile ezinsukwini ezizayo futhi kuyoba umcimbi ojabulisayo. lapho kubuthana khona abathandekayo.
Ngokuqondene nalowo obona umlilo uvutha ngamandla, lokhu kusho ukuthi angase abhekane nobunzima nezinkinga eziningi ekukhulelweni kwakhe, futhi angase abhekane nenqubo yokubeletha enzima futhi ekhathazayo, kodwa uzophuma kuyo ngokuthula nempilo enhle. Ngokwentando kankulunkulu).
Nakuba abanye abahumushi bethi owesifazane okhulelwe obasa umlilo omkhulu, okhanyayo, usezozala umfana onamandla ozoba nokubaluleka okukhulu esikhathini esizayo (uNkulunkulu ethanda), kodwa lowo ovutha inhlansi elula noma encane. ilangabi, uzoba nentombazane enezici ezinhle ezidonsa amehlo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokushisa indlu
Abahumushi abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi leli phupho libonisa ukuthi umphuphi uzizwa entula izibusiso nezinto ezinhle endlini yakhe ngenxa yezimo ezimbi zabantu bendlu kanye nokuqhelelana kwabo nenkolo, ngakho ufuna ukulungisa isimo.
Futhi, ukuthungela indlu kuveza ingxoxo enkulu ezoshintsha zonke izimo zendlu futhi yenze umehluko omkhulu ngokuvamile oyoba ngcono (uNkulunkulu ethanda), mhlawumbe bayothola izindaba ngomuntu othandekayo emndenini oye waba ngcono. engekho isikhathi eside.
Kanjalo nokushiswa kwendlu ngumuntu ongamazi kukhombisa ubukhona babantu abafukamele ububi nenzondo ngabantu bakule ndlu nabafisa ukubalimaza nokubalimaza bonke.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokubeka umlilo nokuwucisha
Ngokuvamile, leli phupho libonisa ukuzisola komphuphi ngokwenza izono, noma umuzwa wakhe wokufuna ukubuyela emuva kwezinye zezinqumo ezingalungile azenza esikhathini esidlule, okwaphumela ezinkingeni eziningi ezimbi kanye nezinkinga zakhe kanye nalabo abamzungezile.
Futhi, ukubasa umlilo omkhulu bese uzama ukuwucisha futhi ehluleka ukwenza lokho kukhomba ukuthi umphuphi ubangele umonakalo omkhulu nokungabi nabulungisa kwabanye ababuthakathaka futhi waphuca amalungelo nempahla yabo, ngakho kufanele abuyisele amalungelo kubanikazi babo ngaphambi kwalo. sekwephuze kakhulu.
Ocisha umlilo asanda kuwubhula, maningi amathuba okuthi ashiye umsebenzi noma indawo asebenzela kuyona okuwukuphela kwento ayeziphilisa ngayo ngemuva kwesikhathi eside esebenza kuyo.
Ukuthungela abafileyo ngephupho
Uma umufi elayitha umlilo olula noma ukukhanya okulula ukuze kukhanyisele obonayo indlela, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi umufi unesikhundla esitusekayo kwelinye izwe futhi ufuna umboni alandele indlela yakhe futhi alandele indlela yakhe eya enjabulweni yaphakade. futhi singaholwa yisiyaluyalu nezinjabulo zamanga.
Kodwa uma oshonile eshisa indlu yakhe, khona-ke lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuthi wayehlala nomndeni wakhe endaweni ekude nenkolo, nokuthi manje ubhekene nomvuzo walokho futhi ufuna ukuxwayisa umndeni wakhe futhi awuxwayise. ukugwema lokho ahlangana nakho.
Nakuba lowo obona umuntu ofile amaziyo emshisa ebusweni bakhe, ufuna ukuba akhuleke futhi anikele ngemali eningi ekugelezeni komphefumulo wakhe, ukuze uJehova (uMninimandla Onke) amthethelele emhlabeni wakhe. izono futhi adambise ukuhlushwa kwakhe.
Ezama ukubhula umlilo ephusheni
Incazelo eqondile yaleli phupho iyahlukahluka kuye ngendlela yokukhanyisa umlilo, inhloso yokuwubasa, izinga umlilo ofinyelela ngalo ngemva kokwenziwa, kanye nobukhulu bokukhanya kwawo.
Uma umboni ebopha ilangabi elikhanyayo kakhulu emgwaqeni futhi nxazonke zakhe abantu abaningi bemzungezile bevela kuzo zonke izindawo, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi uthanda ukusabalalisa ubuhle nenjabulo phakathi kwawo wonke umuntu nokusiza ababuthakathaka nabaswele ezinkingeni zabo ukuba baphume. ngokuthula ngaphandle kokulimala.
Kepha uma umnikazi wephupho ebasa umlilo endaweni ebanzi, ebanzi, ungumuntu olungile wenkolo ofuna ukufundisa abantu nokubafundisa ngenkolo ukuze abaleke ekuhlushweni kwaLizayo. eluleka futhi eqondisa abantu ukuthi bagweme izilingo nezilingo zezwe ukuze bajabulele ubumnandi bomunye umhlaba.
Ukucisha umlilo ephusheni
Leli phupho, ngokwemibono eminingi, lingomunye wemibono emihle ememezela izenzakalo ezitusekayo, njengoba ukucisha umlilo kuqala kuveza ukusindiswa engozini eyayibeka usongo empilweni yomboni futhi yamphuca induduzo emhlabeni wakhe. .
Futhi, ukubona izicishamlilo becisha umlilo omkhulu kubonisa ukuthi lowo ophuphayo uyonqoba isitha esinobuqili esasimbangela izinkinga, simfake enkingeni ngemva kwenye, sonakalise ukuphila kwakhe, futhi simlahlekisele injabulo yokujabulela isipho sakhe.
Kodwa uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi ucisha umlilo ngokwakhe, lokhu kusho ukuthi uzongenela ngokuhlakanipha kwakhe futhi ahlakaniphe ukuze aqede ingxabano ende eyavela phakathi kwabantu ababili abanothando noma izihlobo, kodwa uzoyiqeda futhi abuyisane phakathi kwabo ukuze ukubuyisela ubuhlobo babo obuqinile nomunye nomunye.
Phunyuka emlilweni ngephupho
Abahumushi abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi leli phupho libonisa ukuthi umphuphi usezofinyelela isixazululo sokugcina enkingeni enzima abebhekene nayo futhi abelokhu ephethwe yiyo phakathi naso sonke isikhathi esidlule.
Kodwa uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi umlilo uvele ngokuzumayo phambi kwakhe, futhi wagijima kuwo emuva, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzofakaza indaba enkulu ezokwenza izinguquko eziningi ekuphileni kwakhe futhi ingase imenze alahle wonke amadala akhe. imikhuba futhi wethule izenzo nemikhuba emisha.
Futhi, ukuphunyuka emlilweni kubonisa imithwalo eminingi nemithwalo yemfanelo emahlombe omboni, okwamenza wangakwazi ukuthwala nokubhekana, futhi ufisa ukubalekela kwelinye, izwe elihlukile kanye nezwe elisha lapho ejabulela khona induduzo, ukuzola. kanye nokuzinza.
Inhlansi yomlilo ephusheni
Abahumushi bayavuma ukuthi ukubona inhlansi yomlilo ephusheni kubikezela ukuqala kwesenzakalo esingajabulisi lowo ophuphayo azosifakaza maduze, kungase kuhlobane nesihloko esidala ayesishaya indiva esikhathini esidlule, kodwa uyovuna izithelo zakhe. ukunganaki manje.
Obona inhlansi yomlilo emgwaqeni ayihambayo, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi uphethe ulimi olubukhali emlonyeni, olulimaza abantu ngalo, futhi akekho noyedwa kwabaseduze kwakhe ophephile enkulumeni yakhe embi, njengoba uvame ukuhleba nokuhleba, ngakho kufanele aqaphele futhi avikele abantu ebubini bolimi lwakhe, ngaphambi kokuba ajeziselwe lokho.
Nakuba lowo odala inhlansi yomlilo ngokwakhe, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lwengxabano ezoqubuka phakathi kwakhe nomuntu othandekayo kuye, okuzobangela ukuhlukana phakathi kwabo isikhathi eside, futhi ngokuvamile umboni uzoba oyinhloko. isizathu salokho kungezwani.
