Iyini incazelo yokubona ukugqoka umqhele ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin?

Ukugqoka umqhele ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokuphila okujabulisayo nokunganaki, njengokuphila kwamakhosi.Umqhele uwuphawu lobuhle, njengoba usetshenziselwa ukuhlobisa umakoti ngobusuku bomshado, njengoba eyindlovukazi yosuku. .
Ibuye isetshenziswe ezinyaweni zamakhosazana namakhosi angamalungu omndeni obusayo, futhi kulesi sihloko uzoxoxa ngencazelo yokubona umqhele ephusheni.

Umbono wokugqoka umqhele ephusheni

• Kodwa uma umuntu ebona ephusheni ukuthi ugqoke umqhele ekhanda lakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bamandla, ithonya negunya alijabulelayo.
• Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni ethwele umqhele ekhanda lakhe ngenkathi egula, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuphela kokugula kwakhe nokuthi uNkulunkulu uzomnika impilo enhle nokuphila kahle.Kodwa uma eboshiwe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokukhululwa kwakhe ejele nokukhululwa kwakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugqoka umqhele kwabesifazane abangashadile

Isayithi elikhethekile laseGibhithe elihlanganisa iqembu labahumushi abakhulu bamaphupho nemibono emhlabeni wama-Arab.

Uma owesifazane ongashadile ezibona egqoke umqhele ekhanda lakhe ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi maduze uzoshada nendoda yesikhundla esiphakeme, udumo negunya.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomqhele wowesifazane oshadile

• Futhi, kowesifazane oshadile, kunobufakazi bokudla okuchichimayo nesibusiso ekuphileni kwakhe nasebantwaneni bakhe.” U-Ibn Sirin uthi owesifazane oshadile othwele umqhele ephusheni kuwubufakazi bothando nenjabulo phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe futhi. ukungabi khona kokungaboni ngaso linye phakathi kwabo.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi ugqoke umqhele ekhanda lakhe, futhi waphulwa, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi unesifo, kodwa ngokushesha uyalulama kuso.
• Umqhele uwuphawu lokunqoba nobumongameli ngakho-ke noma ubani obona ephusheni ethwele umqhele, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uyothatha isikhundla sobumongameli ngelinye ilanga.Nezihlobo kanye nabathandekayo.

Umqhele wokuphupha

• Umqhele ephusheni uwubufakazi bokuphumelela komuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhamba, ukutadisha noma ukuhweba.Kuwuphawu lwezikhundla ezihloniphekile, ithonya namandla, kanye nobufakazi bokuhlangana nabathandekayo.
• Obona ukuthi uthwele umqhele unzima ekhanda angakwazi ukuhamba nawo lokho kuwubufakazi bokuthi usezuze insada yolwazi futhi uyoba nomthwalo wokufundisa abantu.Ngokuba obonayo ephusheni ukuthi umqhele uwile ekhanda lakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuwa kwesithunzi sakhe phakathi kwabantu.
• Ukubona umufi ethwele umqhele kuwubufakazi bokuphela kwakhe okuhle nokuphana komndeni wakhe, noma ubani obona ephusheni ukuthi omunye wabazali bakhe uthwele umqhele, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokwaneliseka kwabo ngaye nothando lwabo ngaye.
• Noma ubani obona ukuthi ugqoke umqhele ezinyaweni zakhe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi unolwazi olulinganiselwe futhi akazange ahambe nezifundiswa futhi akazange ahlale nazo emikhandlwini yazo.
• Noma ubani obona ukuthi umkakhe ugqoke umqhele ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ungowesifazane omuhle, okholwayo okwazi ukukhulisa izingane zakhe, ukulondoloza ubukhona bakhe nokungabi khona kwakhe.
• Obonayo ukuthi uthwele umqhele ebuthongweni, futhi wawenziwa ngezinc, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ulandela izifiso zabantu futhi unendaba nabakushoyo ngaye.Ngokuba obonayo ukuthi ugqoke umqhele iphepha, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokusebenzisa kwakhe njalo ubufakazi nobufakazi empilweni yakhe yangempela.
• Futhi noma ubani obona ukuthi ugqoke umqhele wengilazi, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uyindoda evikela ikhaya lakhe, udumo lwakhe nodumo lwakhe.
• Obona ukuthi ugqoke umqhele wezimbali, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umnikazi wephupho uyabuyisana phakathi kwabantu futhi asakaze uthando phakathi kwabo.
• Ngokuqondene nanoma ubani obona ukuthi ugqoke umqhele wamatshe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokukhathazeka okuningi okumhluphayo empilweni yakhe yangempela.
• Ngokuqondene nanoma ubani obona ukuthi uthengisa umqhele ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uthengisa udumo nodumo lwakhe.

Umqhele wegolide ephusheni

Ukugqoka umqhele wegolide kuwubufakazi benkazimulo nokuba khona kokukhathala nomthwalo wemfanelo, futhi kuwubufakazi bokuhlupheka umphuphi akubonayo ekuphileni kwakhe kwangempela.Ukugqoka umqhele wegolide ephusheni kuwuphawu lombono ongemuhle we okulandelayo ngenxa yokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka kanye nezifo, futhi uNkulunkulu uPhezukonke futhi Uyazi.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomqhele wesiliva

• Omunye wemibono ethembisayo umbono womphuphi ethwele umqhele wesiliva ekhanda lakhe, ngoba uwuphawu lokuziphilisa, futhi labo abathintekayo abazange bacacise ukuthi hlobo luni lokuziphilisa oluzothathwa umphuphi, futhi kusukela lapha kufanele. yisho izimo ezimbalwa ezihlobene nalo mbono:
• Icala lokuqala, uma umphuphi ecindezelekile emithwalweni yakhe eminingi esebenzayo futhi umholo wakhe ungaphansi komzamo awenzayo emsebenzini, khona-ke inkomba yaleli phupho iyajabula futhi kusho ukuthi ukuziphilisa kwakhe kuyoba yimali echichimayo azokwaneliswa. .
• Icala lesibili liphathelene nomphuphi oye walinda izindaba ezinhle zokukhulelwa komkakhe eminyakeni edlule, njengoba lo mbono unesihlobo esiseduze.
• Icala lesithathu, uma umphuphi engashadile futhi ethandaza kuNkulunkulu ukuba amhlanganise nomuntu oziphatha kahle, khona-ke umbono ubonisa ukuhlinzekwa kwakhe komshado maduze.
• Ukubona umqhele wesiliva ephusheni kubonisa amaphupho nezifiso eziseduze nomphuphi, azokujabulela ukukufeza, uNkulunkulu ethanda.
• Noma ubani ophupha ukuthi umqhele wesiliva uphezu kwekhanda lakhe, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi umkakhe ungomunye wabesifazane abamsulwa abafuna ukwaneliseka kukaNkulunkulu ngokulalela umyeni nokufeza yonke imiyalo yakhe.
• Ukuphupha umqhele wesiliva kusho ukuthi lowo ophuphayo uphakathi kwamadoda ahlakaniphile, futhi uzotshala ubuhlakani bakhe kokuthile okuzomzuzisa futhi kukhuphule isimo sakhe.

Imithombo:-

Le ngcaphuno isekelwe: 1- Isichazamazwi Sokuhunyushwa Kwamaphupho, u-Ibn Sirin kanye noSheikh Abd Al-Ghani Al-Nabulsi, ehlelwe nguBasil Braidi, Al-Safaa Library Edition, Abu Dhabi 2008. 2- Incwadi Yokuhlanekezela i-Al- U-Anam Ekuvezeni Amaphupho, uSheikh Abd Al-Ghani Al-Nabulsi.