Ithini incazelo kanye nencazelo yokuhlolwa ephusheni kanye nemithelela yalo?

Izivivinyo yizivivinyo umkhandlu wezemfundo ozisebenzisayo kubafundi bawo kabili ngonyaka, kanye nge-semester yokuqala, okwesibili ekupheleni konyaka, futhi ngokusekelwe emiphumeleni yalezi zivivinyo, kuzotholakala ukuthi umfundi uzophumelela yini. noma cha? Mayelana nokubona izivivinyo ephusheni, kwabangela ukwethuka okukhulu kubantu abaningi.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lokuhlolwa kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Uma i-bachelor efunda enyuvesi ibona ukuthi ihlulekile ukuhlolwa ephusheni layo, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuphumelela kwayo nokuphasa isiteji sokuhlolwa ngokuphepha.  
• Lapho owesifazane ongashadile oqede imfundo ebona ukuthi ubhala isivivinyo futhi waphumelela kuso, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi usheshe washada.
• Kodwa uma ebona ukuthi akakwazi ukuphendula ukuhlolwa, lo mbono ubonisa ukuthi izithakazelo zale ntombazane zizophazamiseka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umsebenzi noma umshado.
• Lapho ebona ukuthi ukuhlolwa kunzima kuye, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ukuthola kunzima kakhulu ukuzibophezela kwakhe ekuthandazeni ngesikhathi.
• Uma owesifazane ongashadile engakwazi ukuphumelela ekuhlolweni, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ukude noNkulunkulu, ngakho-ke lowombono uyisixwayiso kuye ngesidingo sokusondela kuye ngomthandazo nokuzila ukudla.
• Ukubona impumelelo yabesifazane abangashadile ephusheni kuwumbono oncomekayo; Ngoba kubonisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu wamvivinya kokuthile, futhi waphumelela ovivinyweni lukaNkulunkulu ngaye.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukopela ekuhlolweni kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ukuthi uhlezi ehholo lokuhlola, kodwa engazi izimpendulo ezifanele zemibuzo ephambi kwakhe esivivinyweni, khona-ke uqala ukukopela kulabo abaseduze naye, khona-ke lo mbono ubonisa inani lokungqubuzana futhi ukucindezeleka kwengqondo owesifazane ongashadile abhekene nakho kulesi sikhathi samanje, kodwa inkinga abhekene nayo imbangele ukuthi konke lokhu kukhathazeka kuzophela maduze; Ngoba ubude banoma yikuphi ukuhlolwa nakanjani futhi kufanele buphele.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuhlolwa ephusheni

• Lapho indoda ibona ephusheni ukuthi isesivivinyweni, kodwa ingayazi impendulo efanele yemibuzo, futhi iqala ukwenza ukukopela, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ungumlingiswa ongacacile kuye, nokuthi umbono ubonisa ukuthi uyohlangana nabangane ababi empeleni, futhi bayomenza alahlekelwe indlela yakhe futhi ayishiye indlela.
• Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthi uphumelele ukuhlolwa, futhi ekwazi ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yakhe, khona-ke lo mbono uyancomeka, futhi uqukethe amabika amaningi kumboni, eyokuqala yawo eyokuthi uphumelele ekuvivinyweni kukaNkulunkulu. ngaye kulo mhlaba, ngakho-ke uyosondela kuNkulunkulu ngaphezu kokuba uNkulunkulu ezomnikeza ubuhle obuchichimayo.
• Ukubona iphepha lokuhlolwa kunezincazelo ezahlukene, ngakho-ke uma iphepha lalimhlophe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umboni uzophila izinsuku ezinzima esikhathini esizayo, kodwa uma iphepha lalimnyama, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi maduze uzohlupheka ngenxa yokudabuka nokukhathazeka.

Isayithi laseGibhithe, isayithi elikhulukazi elikhethekile ekuchazeni amaphupho emhlabeni wama-Arab, vele uthayiphe isayithi laseGibhithe ukuze uthole incazelo yamaphupho ku-Google futhi uthole izincazelo ezifanele.

Iphupho lokuhlolwa

• Uma umphuphi ebona ukuhlolwa ephusheni lakhe, kungaba ubufakazi bokuthi uNkulunkulu uyamthanda. Ngoba wamkhetha ukuze amvivinye, futhi lapho eqhubeka ebekezela, uthando lwakhe ngoNkulunkulu luyokhula nakakhulu.
• Lapho ukuhlolwa kwaba lula ephusheni lomphuphi, kulapho kukhombisa khona ukuthi maduze uzothola izinzuzo nezinzuzo eziningi, ngaphezu kokunqoba izinkinga nezinsizi.
• Lapho umphuphi ephuza ukulala ukuze ahlolwe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umboni uhlushwa imizwa yesiphithiphithi nokukhathazeka empilweni yakhe evamile, futhi le mizwa imthinta kabi; Ngoba kumenza ahluleke ukuxazulula izinkinga abhekana nazo ekuphileni kwakhe, ngakho lowombono ubonisa ukudideka kobukele ngokoqobo, futhi manje udinga ukuzola nokuqinisekiswa ukuze akwazi ukunqoba zonke izinkinga zakhe ngokuphumelelayo.
• Ngokubona ukuthi le ntokazi engashadile ikwazile ukuphasa izivivinyo naphezu kobunzima bemibuzo eyayikuyo, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzobhekana nenkinga enkulu eqinisweni, kodwa uzoyinqoba, uNkulunkulu ethanda.