Yini ongazi mayelana nokuchazwa kokukhulelwa ephusheni

Inqubo yokukhulelwa yenzeka ngokuvundisa iqanda ngaphakathi kwesibeletho sowesifazane ngesidoda, esakheka ngaphakathi kwesimiso sokuzala sendoda, khona-ke umbungu ukwakheka kuze kufike embungwini, lapho uhlala khona esiswini sikamama izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye. noma amasonto angu-38 okukhathala nobunzima, inqubo iphetha ngenjabulo yosana olusanda kuzalwa kanye nokungena komuntu omusha emndenini.

Ukukhulelwa ephusheni

• Ukubona ukukhulelwa ephusheni ngenkathi uzwa ubuhlungu nobuhlungu esiswini kubonisa ukukhathazeka nezinkinga ezihlupha umphuphi isikhathi eside, mhlawumbe izinyanga ezimbalwa, futhi mhlawumbe iminyaka eminingana.
• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi ukhulelwe ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uyahlupheka emsebenzini wakhe, futhi uthwala imithwalo eminingi emenza acindezeleke ngokwengqondo.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi ukhulelwe, futhi ejabule ngokukhulelwa kwakhe ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uNkulunkulu uzomnika impumuzo ngemva kokucindezeleka nosizi, kodwa uma ebona ukuthi ukhulelwe, futhi ufuna ukukhipha isisu. ingane ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi akakwazi ukubhekana nobunzima nezinkinga ezengeziwe.Umbono ubonisa ukuthi umphuphi ufuna ukulungisa isimo futhi amkhiphe kuzo zonke lezi zinkathazo eziphezu kwakhe.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi omunye wezingane zakhe ukhulelwe futhi isisu sakhe sivuvukele, lokhu kusho ukuthi enye yezingane zakhe izogula kakhulu, futhi umphuphi uzobhekana nokugula kwendodana yakhe, kanye nobuhlungu azokwenza. hlupheka esikhathini esizayo.
• Uma usomabhizinisi ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhulelwe, futhi wayesezongena esivumelwaneni esisha sebhizinisi noma isivumelwano, khona-ke lowo mbono uyisixwayiso esivela kuNkulunkulu ukuba angaqedi leso sivumelwano, ngoba akukho lutho oluphuma kukho ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa.
• Uma owesifazane osanda kushada ebona ukuthi ukhulelwe, lezi yizindaba ezinhle ezivela kuNkulunkulu ukuthi uzokhulelwa futhi ajabule ngomntwana omusha emndenini wakhe.
• Lapho umphuphi ebona ukuthi ukhulelwe, futhi usezozala, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuphela kwezinsuku zosizi nokucindezeleka kanye nokufika kwezinsuku ezijabulisayo.

Ukukhulelwa ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukukhulelwa ephusheni akuyona into ngaphandle kokukhathazeka, usizi, nokucabanga okuningi ngezinkinga umboni abhekana nazo, ukuze kuhunyushwe ngokoqobo ephusheni njengokuthi umboni uthwala imithwalo eminingi nokucindezeleka enhliziyweni yakhe. isifuba angakwazi ukusiveza.
• Insizwa engashadile iphuphe ikhulelwe, icashe kubantu ukuze ingabonwa muntu.Lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi yenza iphutha elikhulu.Lelo phutha lizoyidalela amahloni kanye nezingxoxo zabantu ezingamgculisi.

Ukukhulelwa ephusheni intombazane

• Ukukhulelwa kwentombazane kubonisa ubumsulwa, ubumsulwa, nokusondelana kwayo noNkulunkulu, ikakhulukazi uma leyo ntombazane isencane futhi ingeqi eminyakeni engu-20 ubudala.  
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi ikhulelwe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ingumuntu onomthwalo wemfanelo kusukela esemncane, futhi akesabi ubunzima noma imithwalo.

Iphupho lokukhulelwa

Isayithi elikhethekile laseGibhithe elihlanganisa iqembu labahumushi abakhulu bamaphupho nemibono emhlabeni wama-Arab.

• Lapho isoka libona ukuthi likhulelwe, futhi alifuni ukwenza kanjalo futhi lifuna ukukhipha ingane esanda kuzalwa, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi le nsizwa ayinamthwalo, okusho ukuthi ayikwazi ukuthwala imithwalo yemfanelo yomshado nokuthembisana.  
• Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ephusheni ukuthi ukhulelwe, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngalokho okuzokwenzeka phakathi nesikhathi sonke sokukhulelwa, futhi kubonisa ukwesaba kwakhe ihora lokubeletha.
• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile ukuthi ukhulelwe owesilisa ephusheni, lowo mbono ubonisa ukucindezeleka, kodwa uma ebona ukuthi ukhulelwe owesifazane, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi benjabulo nobuhle obuza kuye nomyeni wakhe ekuphileni kwangempela.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi ikhulelwe insizwa engayithandi ngempela, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bomshado wayo kuye, futhi umbono ubonisa ukuthi impilo yakhe izoba njengejele naleyo nsizwa.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi ikhulelwe futhi isikhathi sokubeletha sisondela, ngesikhathi ilindele ukuphuma kwengane esiswini sayo, khona-ke lo mbono omuhle obonisa ukuthi izokwenza inzuzo enkulu ngenxa yokusebenza kwayo kanzima. ngenani elikhulu leminyaka.
• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile ukuthi ukhulelwe, futhi wayedabukile ngalokhu kukhulelwa ephusheni futhi engakufuni, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi izinkinga nezingcindezi zizofika kuye maduze, futhi kukhomba ukuthi impilo phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe ayicacile futhi izolile.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhulelwa ngaphandle komshado

• Iphupho lentombazane yokukhulelwa ingashadile liyindaba ebangela ukukhathazeka nokwesaba okukhulu, kodwa libonisa izinga lobunzima bempilo yayo, eyayiphila ekuhluphekeni nokuswela induduzo, futhi kukhomba ukuthi izowela ogwini. inhlekelele noma inkinga enkulu, kungaba sekhaya noma emsebenzini wakhe.  
• Uma intombazane ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi ikhulelwe, futhi leyo ntombazane empeleni yayingumfundi wolwazi, khona-ke lowo mbono ubonisa ukuthi uzophumelela ngemva kobunzima nokukhathala, futhi uma efuna ukushada, lowo mbono ubonisa ukuthi umshado wakhe. kamuva kuzogcwala izinkinga nezingozi.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhulelwa kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ephupha ukuthi insizwa icela umshado kuye, bese ibona ukuthi isisu sakhe sikhukhumala futhi wakhulelwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, khona-ke lesi yisixwayiso esivela kuNkulunkulu, emxwayisa ngokunamathela kule nsizwa, eyenza lingaveli emva kwakhe ngaphandle kokukhathazeka, usizi kanye nobubi.
• Lapho owesifazane ongashadile ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhulelwe futhi ubelethe owesifazane, lokhu kuwumbono oncomekayo obonisa ukufika kwempilo entsha nejabulisayo yomboni, futhi uzophila kule mpilo izinsuku ezinhle kakhulu. yempilo yakhe.
• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ejabule ephusheni lakhe lapho ebona ukuthi ukhulelwe, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuphumelela kwakhe ekufinyeleleni into ayifunayo, futhi leyo nto yabangela ukukhathala kwakhe ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo iminyaka eminingi, kodwa uzophumelela ekufezeni lokho. ufuna ngokushesha.
• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ukuthi ukhulelwe ephusheni, futhi ukukhulelwa kwakuvela kumlingani wakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umshado awuphelele ngenxa yezinkinga eziningi ezizokwenzeka phakathi kwabo.

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Ukucaphuna kwakusekelwe: 1- Incwadi kaMuntakhab al-Kalam fi Tafsir al-Ahlam, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, uhlelo lukaDar al-Ma'rifah, Beirut 2000. 2- Isichazamazwi Sokuhumusha Amaphupho, Ibn Sirin kanye noSheikh Abd al-Ghani al-Nabulsi, uphenyo luka-Basil Baridi, uhlelo lwe-Al-Safaa Library, Abu Dhabi 2008.