Iyini incazelo yommese ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin?

Ummese uyithuluzi elibukhali elisetshenziswa ekhishini ukusika imifino noma inyama kanye nenkukhu, futhi ukubona ummese ephusheni kubangela ukwesaba kulowo ophuphayo, ikakhulukazi uma ebulawa ephusheni, noma egwaza othile, njengemibono. zommese zigcwele imininingwane eminingi, ngakho-ke sizohlaziya futhi sichaze wonke amaphupho akho kuze kube yilapho Thola incazelo efanele yalokho okubonile.

Ummese ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

• Ukubona ummese ephusheni kuyizindaba ezinhle zokuziphilisa kulowo ophuphayo, njengoba u-Ibn Sirin eqinisekisa ukuthi ummese uwubufakazi bobuhle, ngakho umbono wommese ungumbono oncomekayo.
• Uma insizwa engashadile ibona ummese ephusheni layo, noma uma iphethe ummese esandleni sayo, kubonisa umshado wayo nomshado ngokoqobo.
• Lapho indoda ibona ukuthi ithenge ummese, noma ibona ephusheni ukuthi inommese omkhulu, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi izoba umholi esikhathini esizayo, futhi iyoba nesikhundla nesikhundla esihloniphekile.  
• Uma indoda eshadile iphupha umkayo ephethe ummese omkhulu lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzokhulelwa maduzane, futhi ingane izoba yindoda, kodwa uma indoda eshadile iphupha ukuthi iyona ephethe ummese, lokhu kuwubufakazi. ukuthi umkakhe uyakukhulelwa owesifazane.
• I-dagger ephusheni lesiguli iwubufakazi bokuphela kokuhlupheka nokululama kwakhe, kanye nokuza kwezinsuku lapho ezozizwa ephilile futhi ephilile.
• Ukubona ukusika ukudla ephusheni usebenzisa ummese kuwubufakazi bokuthi umphuphi wakhipha okuthile okubalulekile empilweni yakhe noma wanqamula ukuxhumana kwakhe nomuntu owayezomlethela okuhle nokuziphilisa empeleni.
• U-Ibn Sirin wathi umphuphi obona ephusheni lakhe ezibulala noma ezigwaza esebenzisa ummese, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi wayengalaleli futhi enecala futhi uzophenduka ngokushesha kuNkulunkulu.
• Ukubona umphuphi nomuntu onobuhlobo obuqinile, futhi umphuphi wayesika ukudla ephusheni phambi kwalowo muntu, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuphazamiseka okuzokwenzeka, ngakho-ke ubuhlobo phakathi kwabo buzophela isikhathi eside. .
• Lapho umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthi iqembu labantu limhlasele, futhi bephethe ummese ezandleni zabo, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umphuphi unezitha eziningi ezizomlimaza maduze.
• Ukubona indoda eshadile ukuthi igwinye ummese ephusheni, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ngeke achithe izingane zakhe, kodwa kunalokho bazochitha kuye, futhi uzoncika kubo kukho konke okuhlobene nemali.
• Lapho umuntu ebona ephusheni ukuthi unquma isandla sakhe, lo mbono ubonisa ukuthi uzobhekana nezinselele eziningi ezinsukwini ezizayo.
• Lapho umphuphi ebona ukuthi ugwazwe ngommese, ikakhulukazi endaweni yesisu, lokhu kuwubufakazi bezinkinga zokuphila kwakhe kusukela ezinkingeni lapho ezoba khona iqembu elikhulu.
• Uma indoda eshadile ingawusebenzisi ummese ephusheni layo, naphezu kombono ocacile walo, kuwubufakazi bokuthi uNkulunkulu uyomnika indodana elungile ezoyithethelela futhi imlalele esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
• Ukuphumelela komboni ekukhipheni ummese ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokuthi uNkulunkulu uzomnika owesilisa.
• Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthula, futhi ngemva kwalokho kwanyamalala phambi kwakhe futhi akakutholanga ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi esikhathini esizayo uyokhononda ngamanga womunye walabo abasondelene naye. , noma iqiniso afuna ukulazi eqinisweni, kodwa alicacile futhi lifihlekile emehlweni akhe, futhi lokhu kuzombangela ukudideka nokucabanga.

Iyini incazelo yencazelo yephupho mayelana nommese wowesifazane oshadile?

• Lapho owesifazane oshadile ebona ummese obukhali ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi abantu abanonya bayasondela kuye, futhi bafuna ukumlimaza futhi laba bantu basondelene kakhulu naye.
• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile ukuthi ummese awusebenzisayo ugqwalile.Lokhu kukhomba usizi nokungaqondi phakathi kwakhe nesinqandamathe sakhe sokuphila.Lombono uqinisekisa nokuthi ubudlelwano bowesifazane nomndeni wakhe kanye nabangani buzoba nenkinga, futhi lolu daba luzoletha usizi nokudabuka kwakhe.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi usebenzisa ummese ekhishini lakhe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzozala ingane ezokwaziwa ngobuqili nekhono elikhulu lokwamukela ukwaziswa okusha nokukukhumbula kalula.
• Umbono wowesifazane oshadile webhula nemibese yakhe ubonisa ukukhulelwa kwakhe osekuseduze.   

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngommese wabesifazane abangashadile

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• Ukubona owesifazane ongashadile ephethe ummese ephusheni lakhe kubonisa ukuthi uzobeka unyawo lwakhe endleleni yokuqala yokuphumelela nokufeza izifiso.
• Abesifazane abangashadile abanommese ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokulahlekelwa nokwehluleka abazobhekana nakho empeleni.
• Ukugwaza owesifazane ongashadile ephusheni ngommese ovela komunye wabangane bakhe kuwubufakazi bokuthi ubhekene nokukhashelwa nokukhohlisa eqinisweni kusuka kule ntombazane, futhi lo mbono awulutho kodwa uyisixwayiso kowesifazane ukuthi angamethembi noma athembele kuye. nganoma yiziphi izimfihlo zakhe.
• Kodwa uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ukuthi uyena ogwaza othile, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uyimbuka ezwini nokwethenjwa, futhi unolimi olubukhali futhi ukhuluma amazwi amabi kulabo ababaziyo.
• Endabeni yokubona iqoqo ligwazana ephusheni, noma izingxabano phakathi kwabantu eziholela ekugwazaneni, lokhu kuwubufakazi bempi noma ukutheleleka kwabantu bezwe ngesifo esingakatholakalanga ikhambi laso, futhi ngakho-ke isibalo esikhulu sizofa ngokungenwa yizifo.
• Ukugwaza owesifazane ongashadile ngenkemba ephusheni lakhe noma ngommese obukhali, opha igazi eliningi ngemva kokugwazwa, kuwubufakazi bomzabalazo azomehlela, futhi kuzombangela ubuhlungu obuqhubekayo nokukhathala ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ummese onamabala egazi ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa ubunzima bokuphila kwakhe kanye nosizi oluzolandela ezinsukwini ezizayo.
• Ukugwaza owesifazane ongashadile esiswini kuwubufakazi bokubhuntsha kobudlelwano bakhe nomndeni wakhe, kodwa uma ebona ukuthi ugwazwe emhlane, lokho kukhomba amagama angcolile ashiwo ngaye, kanye nenhlebo eyenziwa ngomunye waba abazondayo.
• Ukugwazwa okukodwa kwentombazane enjengaye ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokuncintisana nokuncintisana phakathi kwamantombazane amabili empeleni, futhi umboni uzoyinqoba enye intombazane.
• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ukuthi ugwazwe yisoka lakhe ephusheni, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokwehluleka kobudlelwane babo nokuhlukana kwabo maduzane, ngoba ungumuntu ongafanelwe uthando noma ukwazisa, ngaphezu kokumbangela ukuziphatha okukhulu. umonakalo.
• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ukuthi unommese obukeka emuhle futhi ocwebezelayo futhi uhamba nawo endleleni naphambi kwabantu, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ungumuntu othanda ukukhuluma iqiniso futhi abulawe ngawo, futhi uzokwazi phakathi komndeni wakhe nomakhelwane ukuthi ukhuluma iqiniso ngisho ebumnyameni kodwa uma efihla ummese, nomboni ngamabomu akekho owubonayo umbese onawo, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umboni wemibono uwele ebufakazini bamanga.
• Ngokubona ukuthi lo wesifazane ongashadile usebhusha futhi wabona nemimese eminingi, lokho kukhomba umshado wakhe.

Ukwesabisa ngommese ephusheni

• Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthi othile uyamsongela ngommese, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa uthando oluvela kumuntu owenza usongo kumphuphi.
• Umbono womphuphi womuntu ongaziwa noma umuntu angamazi umphuphi empeleni usongela kuye ephusheni kuze kube yilapho le ndaba ibangela ukwesaba nokwesaba kumboni.Omunye wababhali bezomthetho wathi okwabonwa umphuphi ebuthongweni kwakungamaphupho aphithizelayo. , noma kuSathane futhi abanaso isisekelo eqinisweni, futhi lowo ophuphayo, ngemva kokuvuka ebuthongweni bakhe, kufanele acele intethelelo eNkosini izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa kuze kube yilapho inhliziyo yakhe ithula ngenxa yokwesaba okukhulu.
• Ukubona umphuphi esongela umuntu amaziyo ephusheni, ikakhulukazi uma umphuphi eyintombazane engashadile, njengoba lo mbono ubonisa uthando lwakhe olujulile ngalowo muntu, kodwa akakwazanga ukuveza okwakusenhliziyweni yakhe empeleni.
• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile esongela umyeni wakhe ngaphandle kokumlimaza noma ukumgwaza kuwubufakazi bokusondelana kwakhe okunamandla nothando lwakhe ngaye.
• Umuntu wesifazane ongashadile uphupha esongelwa ngommese ovela endodeni engaziwa, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi wenze isono noma ihlazo ngenxa yalokho uzizwa enamahloni futhi ezisola, ngisho noma esongelwa indoda ayazi kuyo. okungokoqobo, khona-ke lombono uqinisekisa isibopho sabo, kodwa ngemva kokunqoba izinkinga eziningi ezazimelene nalesi sibopho eqinisweni.
• Ukubona ephusheni ukuthi othile umsongela ngommese, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umphuphi uzomchoboza lowo muntu ngokunqotshwa okuyihlazo kuye empeleni.

Imithombo:-

1- Incwadi ethi Muntakhab al-Kalam fi Tafsir al-Ahlam, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, Dar al-Ma'rifah edition, Beirut 2000. 2- Isichazamazwi Sokuhunyushwa Kwamaphupho, u-Ibn Sirin kanye noSheikh Abd al-Ghani al-Nabulsi, uphenyo olwenziwa nguBasil Baridi, uhlelo lwe-Al-Safaa Library, Abu Dhabi 2008.