Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana namabhulukwe kanye nokuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokuthenga ibhulukwe ngu-Ibn Sirin

Amabhulukwe, noma njengoba abanye bewabiza kanjalo amabhulukwe, aphakathi kwezingubo ezidumile nezibalulekile ezikhona namuhla emiphakathini eminingi.Aphakathi kwezingubo ezingokoqobo ezigqokwa izisebenzi, abafundi, abancane nabadala, ngisho namantombazane nabesifazane. , zihlobene eduze nempilo yethu.Uma sizibona ephusheni, kuvela imibuzo eminingi phambi kwethu mayelana nencazelo yalo.Yilokhu esizoxoxa ngakho ngokuningiliziwe kulesi sihloko.

Incazelo yokubona ibhulukwe ephusheni

• Ukubona ibhulukwe ephusheni kungase kusho ukuthi lo muntu onombono uzoba phakathi kwabagibeli abahambela izwekazi laseYurophu noma emazweni aseNtshonalanga ngokujwayelekile, futhi ubufakazi balokhu ukuthi ukuqala kokubonakala kwalezi bhulukwe kwakukule ngxenye ye umhlaba. 
  
• Ngokufanayo, ukuphupha amabhulukwe kungase kube uphawu lobuhle obuningi, isimo esihle, nokuchuma kumuntu, umndeni wakhe, nomndeni wakhe wonke.
• Mayelana namabhulukwe (anamabhande anwebekayo), abanye abawabiza ngokuthi axege, bebona kumemezela ukuthi umnikazi wawo unemali nengcebo eningi.
  
• Uma umuntu oshadile ebona ibhulukwe elinwebekayo, lokhu kungase kusikisele ukuthi umfazi wale ndoda unqatshelwe kuye, futhi uma umkakhe ekhulelwe noma ekhulelwe ngemva kombono, khona-ke lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi umkakhe uzozala amawele.
• Ukubona ukunwebeka kwebhulukwe kunqanyulwa kusho ukuthi lo muntu umphatha kabi umkakhe, uma embona njengenyoka kusho ukuthi omunye wasekhweni lendoda uyizitha kuye, noyibonayo. njengokungathi igazi, uyonqoba futhi anqobe othile.
• Noma ubani owazibona egqoke ibhulukwe elilodwa ngaphandle kwezingubo zangaphezulu, ungomunye wemibono enecala ephakamisa izinkinga, ubumpofu nezifo.
• Noma ubani ozibona egqoke ibhulukwe ngaphandle kokunye okukhombayo, lokhu kusho ukuthi lo muntu uzohamba endleleni eqondile nasendleleni efanele.
• Uma umuntu ebona amanani amakhulu amabhulukwe, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa owesifazane omuhle.
• Ekuchazeni iphupho lomuntu ozithola ethatha ibhulukwe komunye umuntu, lokhu kusho ukuthi izinkinga zakhe zizoxazululwa, nokuthi uzoziqeda ngokusiza abangani bakhe noma izihlobo kuye.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nebhulukwe elidabukile?

• Njengoba sesishilo ekuqaleni, ukubona ibhulukwe ngokujwayelekile kuyinkomba yakho konke okuhle, injabulo, isibusiso kanye nesiqiniseko, ikakhulukazi endabeni yebhulukwe elixegayo futhi liqinile ngombala, kodwa uma indaba iphenduka ibhulukwe elidabukile noma elimpintshayo noma okuthile. ehluke kanje, khona-ke kusho ukuthi lo muntu usenkingeni Nezinkinga ezinkulu nobunzima, futhi angase abe izifo nezinhlungu.
• Ukubona ibhulukwe elidabukile ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuthi umuntu wenze izinto ezingathandeki nezenzo ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi ufuna ukuxazulula nokuqeda izinkinga zakhe.
• Ekuhunyushweni kwephupho mayelana namabhulukwe aklebhukile kwabesifazane abangashadile, kungenzeka ukuthi libhekisela emshadweni ongavumelekile nomyeni ongafanele, futhi uma intombazane ibona ukuthi ilungisa ibhulukwe elidabukile noma ithunga, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle. lokho kubonisa izixazululo ezinhle nokuphela kokukhathazeka.

  Ukuze ufinyelele incazelo enembe kakhulu yephupho lakho, sesha iwebhusayithi yaseGibhithe ukuze uthole incazelo yamaphupho, ehlanganisa izinkulungwane zezincazelo zezazi zezomthetho ezinkulu zokuhumusha.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugqoka i-jeans

• Ukubona i-jeans ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuthi udinga ukuphumula kancane, usebenze ngokuthula, futhi uthathe le ndaba njengendlela yokuphila kwakho.
• Uma ubona ukuthi ugqoke i-jeans eqinile kakhulu, khona-ke lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi ungumuntu onezimiso eziphakeme, izimiso kanye nezindinganiso, futhi kwenye incazelo kungase kusho ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza ngokukhululeka nokuthi utholakala kumuntu, isibonelo, ukuze ungabi nayo inkululeko, futhi ukuze wazi ukuthi iyiphi kulezi zincazelo ezimbili engezakho, kufanele ubheke impilo Yakho kanye nezindaba zakho zomuntu siqu futhi uzindle kahle.
  
• Uma uzibona uzama ukugqoka i-jeans, lokhu kusho ukuthi usebenza kanzima ukuze ukwazi ukujwayela abantu abathile noma indawo.
• Ukubona i-jeans ephusheni kungase kube nje isibonakaliso sobuntu bakho, ngoba ugqoka kakhulu futhi awuhlangene nanoma yiziphi ezinye izincazelo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugqoka ibhulukwe kwabesifazane abangashadile

Izincazelo zokugqoka ibhulukwe entombazaneni eyodwa ziyehluka kuye ngesimo sebhulukwe, umbala walo nokunye.Nokho-ke kulesi sigaba sizokwethula incazelo yokugqoka amabhulukwe kwabesifazane abangashadile bebonke:

• Ukugqoka ibhulukwe kwentombazane engashadile kungase kumemezele umshado osheshayo noma ukufika kobuhle obuningi kuyo.
• Ukubona ibhulukwe elibanzi (elixekethile) ephusheni kungcono kunokubona emincane, edabukile noma emifushane; Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi lokhu kwakamuva kukhomba ukubukisa nokungalaleli uNkulunkulu, kuyilapho okokuqala kuwubufakazi bokulalela uNkulunkulu, ukucasha nobumsulwa.
• Uma intombazane engashadile ibona ukuthi ikhumula ibhulukwe layo ngemva kokuligqoka, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukulahlwa kwezimiso nezindinganiso, noma kubonisa futhi ukulahla kwakhe udumo - uNkulunkulu angakuvumeli -.
• Lapho intombazane engashadile ibona ukuthi igqoke ibhulukwe elingcolile, eligugile elinokungcola, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuziphatha kwayo okubi nokuba nezimfanelo zayo eziningi ezimbi, esikhundleni sokuba abangane bayo bayizonde ngenxa yobuzenzisi bayo nemvelo yayo enecala, futhi lokhu kuwuphawu. ukuze athuthukise ubuntu bakhe.
• Owesifazane ongashadile ozibona elungisa noma ehlanza ibhulukwe lakhe, lokhu kusho ukuthi uyalazi iqiniso futhi afulathele amanga futhi alungise amaphutha esikhathi esidlule, noma ukuthi afune ukuxazulula izinkinga ezindala phakathi kwakhe nomunye umuntu obangele ukuhlukana phakathi kwabo.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokugqoka amabhulukwe amnyama kwabesifazane abangashadile?

Umbala omnyama uzondwa emaphusheni amaningi futhi akekho othanda ukuwubona, ngaphandle kokuthi kulokhu, okuyisimo sokubona owesifazane ongashadile egqoke ibhulukwe elimnyama ephusheni, lokhu kusho:

• Intombazane iphothula esigabeni esithile semfundo futhi ithola isitifiketi sayo.
• Intombazane iphumelela ukuthola umsebenzi omuhle.
• Ukushada kwentombazane nomuntu onesimilo futhi ofanele yena.

Kuzo zonke lezi zimo ukubona owesifazane ongashadile egqoke ibhulukwe elimnyama kuwuphawu oluhle, kodwa uma ibhulukwe liqinile - njengoba sishilo ekuqaleni - futhi limnyama futhi liphakamisa isizungu nenzondo, kusho ukuthi kuyinkomba yezinkinga ezifana nentombazane. engashadi ngenxa yokuphambuka kwakhe, noma ehlala yedwa futhi enesizungu.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuthenga i-jeans eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka

Sikhulume ngokuhunyushwa kokugqoka amajini aluhlaza, kodwa kuthiwani ngalabo abazibona bewathenga?

• Ukubona ukuthengwa kwe-jeans eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kuyisibonakaliso esihle sobuhle kulabo abashadile abangakabusiswa ngenzalo enhle, ukuthi uNkulunkulu uzobabusisa ngomntwana omusha.
• Lo mbono ungase futhi ubonise ukuthi insizwa ihlobene nentombazane enhle, ebukekayo - ukuxhumana okusemthethweni - noma nentombazane ecebile ngokwezimali, futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Ubufakazi balokhu ukuthi i-jeans iphakathi kwezinhlobo zokugqoka zikanokusho. ekhona, futhi ukufaneleka kwalo mbono kuncike esimweni se-jeans oyibona ephusheni.
• Ukuthenga komuntu amajini kuwubufakazi besikhundla sakhe esiphakeme phakathi kwabantu, inhlonipho nokwazisa kwabo ngaye, kanye nokuhle kakhulu ayokuvuna, futhi uNkulunkulu uPhezukonke futhi Wazi Konke.

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Ukucaphuna kwakusekelwe: 1- Incwadi kaMuntakhab al-Kalam fi Tafsir al-Ahlam, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, uhlelo lukaDar al-Ma'rifah, Beirut 2000. 2- Isichazamazwi Sokuhumusha Amaphupho, Ibn Sirin kanye noSheikh Abd al-Ghani al-Nabulsi, uphenyo luka-Basil Baridi, uhlelo lwe-Al-Safaa Library, Abu Dhabi 2008.