في Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugunda izinwele zami Sithanda ukucacisa ukuthi ukugunda izinwele kwesinye isikhathi kungaba wubuhle bomuntu wesifazane noma intombazane, asuke esesebenzisa yona ukuze avuselele ukubukeka kwakhe futhi agqame, futhi angaphoqeleka ukuthi enze njalo uma ehlushwa isikhumba. isifo esidinga lokho, futhi lapho ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi izinwele zakhe zinqunywe, kunezibonakaliso Eziningana zombono, phakathi kwazo ukuchazwa okulungile kunqunywa ngokusho kwemininingwane.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugunda izinwele zami ephusheni
- Obona umbono udinga ukukhuthazwa okwengeziwe kanye nokunxuswa ukuthi aqedele indlela yakhe ebheke ekufezeni izifiso zakhe, ukuze asebenzise izinguquko ezithile ohlelweni alubekele lokho.
- Kungase futhi kubhekisele emoyeni wokuphikelela kanye nenselelo owesifazane noma intombazane enayo, okumenza aphikelele ekuzuzeni impumelelo emkhakheni womsebenzi noma wokufunda.
- Umuntu owagunda izinwele zakhe ungumuntu ofanayo owalimaza ngokujulile isithunzi sakhe, kodwa uyabunqoba lobu buhlungu, futhi ubiza amandla amahle ngaphakathi kwakhe ukuze aphume ebunzimeni bakhe, futhi aqale isigaba esisha esingcono kunesangaphambili.
- Uma umuntu wesifazane ehlushwa wukuhlukumezeka ngokwengqondo ngenxa yokushonelwa ngumuntu osondelene nenhliziyo yakhe, ukumbona kuwubufakazi bokuthi kukhona umuntu ongenelelayo ukuze adlulisele usizi lwakhe, bese kuba yisizathu sokuvuselela ithemba lakhe. impilo futhi.
- Uma owesifazane ebona ukuthi izinwele zakhe zinde, khona-ke uhlukaniswa ngokuziqhenya nokuzethemba futhi akakwamukeli ukuthi kukhona umuntu omdelelayo, kodwa uma othile emgunda, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uyisisulu salabo abathathayo. inzuzo yakhe ukuze kuzuze yena.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugunda izinwele zami ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin
U-Ibn Sirin uthe umbono ungase uthwale okuhle kumnikazi wawo, futhi ungase ube nesinye isici esingemnandi, futhi lokhu kuncike emininingwaneni yombono wakhe.
- Uma umboni enokushiyeka okuthile ebuntwini bakhe, futhi ethola omunye wezihlobo zakhe noma abangani bakhe bemgunda izinwele, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi lo muntu akaneliseki ngezimo zomboni, nokuthi uyamsiza ukuze athole. ukususa ukushiyeka kwakhe.
- Mayelana nowesifazane ongakwazi ukubhekana nezimo ezinzima empilweni yakhe, bakhona nabazama ukumhlanganisa nomphakathi, bamnikeze nesipiliyoni empilweni ukuze akwazi ukubhekana nalokhu abhekene nakho ngaphandle kokudikibala.
- Kodwa uma umboni enamandla obuntu, namandla okubekela inselele nokubhekana nawo, khona-ke kukhona labo abamqamekelayo futhi bazame ukumfaka odabeni olungathi sína, ngakho kufanele anake kakhulu labo abaseduze kwakhe, futhi angabi nezinhloso ezinhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi akukho ukuphikiswa kokunye ukuqapha nokuqapha.
- Noma ubani obona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi othile uzama ukugunda izinwele zakhe ngenxa yakhe ngenkathi ekhala futhi eklabalasa, khona-ke ushada nomuntu ohluke ngokuphelele kuye, naphezu kwentando yakhe nokungabi naso ukuthambekela kulo mshado, futhi umbono lapha iseluleko. ukuze azame ukukholisa umndeni wakhe ngombono wakhe ukuze angabi isisulu sempilo edabukisayo nomuntu ongafanele.
Ngiphuphe ngigunda izinwele zami ngenxa yowesifazane ongashadile
- Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi isishintshile izinwele zayo ngokuthanda kwayo futhi isifinyeza, khona-ke inohlelo lwekusasa layo futhi ilusebenzise ngokugcwele, okuletha imiphumela emihle kakhulu esikhathini esizayo.
- Kodwa uma emtshela ngokumelene nentando yakhe, wayezokwamukela umbono ophikisana nezinkolelo zakhe nezimiso zomuntu siqu, kodwa ukuvuma kuyindlela yokuphuma ekucindezelekeni okukhulu okungokwengqondo intombazane engaphansi kwayo.
- Kuthiwa kumanje le ntombazane ingase iphazamiseke ngokomqondo, okuholele ekutheni yenze izinguquko ezithile ekubukekeni kwayo, esekujwayele kakhulu, kodwa ingase ithole kulolu shintsho umzamo wokubuyisela umsebenzi wayo futhi.
- Umbono ungase umphathele izenzakalo ezijabulisayo esikhathini esizayo, kanye nempilo entsha, ngokuvumelana nokubukeka ayenakho ngemva kokugunda izinwele zakhe.
- Uma ubuso bakhe bubukeka buhle futhi izinwele zakhe zimfushane, khona-ke uzoshada nensizwa ehlukanisa ukuhlonipha nokulunga, futhi ukuphila kwakhe kuyojabulisa kakhulu, egcwele uthando nobubele.
- Kodwa uma ubuso bakhe bubonakala bungafaneleki ngezinwele zakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lokungalingani phakathi kwakhe nalo muntu, futhi kufanele aqede ubuhlobo ngaphambi kokuba afinyelele emshadweni, futhi uhlushwa umunyu wokuhlala naye.
Ngiphuphe ngigunda izinwele futhi ngiyazisola ngokuba ngingashadile
- Ukuzisola ephusheni kuveza ukuzisola ngezenzo intombazane ezenzile ezingafanele kulabo abasesimweni sayo.
- Lo mbono ungase ubonise ukuthi uyokwamukela ukushada nensizwa engamfanele, ukuze nje anelise umkhaya, futhi uyohlupheka ngenxa yokukhetha okubi.
- Ukuzizwa idumazekile nokuhluleka ukuthola umuntu ofanele umshado kungase kushukumisele intombazane ukuba ilandele iseluleko sabangane ababi, yenze lokho okulimaza yona kanye nesithunzi somkhaya wayo, bese izisole ngemva kwalokho ngolunye usuku lokho kuzisola ngeke kusebenze.
Ngiphuphe ngigunda izinwele ngenxa yowesifazane oshadile
- Owesifazane angase anganeliseki ngempilo yakhe, futhi uzimisele futhi ufisa ukuyithuthukisa.Lapho egunda izinwele zakhe yedwa, lokhu kusho ukuthi unezifiso nemigomo ephakeme afuna ukuyifinyelela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izenzela yena noma izingane zakhe.
- Ngokuqondene nendoda, uma kuyiyo egawula kuye, umbono ubonisa ukuthi yenza konke okusemandleni ayo ukuthuthukisa izinga layo lokuphila.
- Kungase futhi kuvezwe kowesifazane obambezele ukuzala ukukhulelwa okuseduze, kanye nenjabulo ehambisana nalokhu kukhulelwa kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni.
- Uma owesifazane ethanda ukubukeka kwakhe okusha ngemva kokugunda izinwele zakhe, khona-ke uyalujabulela uthando nenhlonipho yomyeni wakhe ngaye, nokuthi akawugodli umzamo wokunikeza zonke izindlela zenjabulo kumkakhe.
- Kodwa uma ezisola ngemva kokulisika, angase enze icala endodeni, elibangela ukungezwani okukhulu ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabo, kodwa bese liyazisola futhi licela intethelelo nentethelelo kuyo.
Ngiphuphe ngigunda izinwele ngisakhulelwe
- Ukubona owesifazane okhulelwe egunda izinwele zakhe kungase kubonise ukuthi ujabulela isigaba esizinzile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, futhi akahlushwa izinkinga nezinhlungu ezivamile.
- Ubuso bakhe obuhle, obuvela ngemva kokugunda izinwele zakhe, buwubufakazi bokuthi uzozala intombazane enhle kakhulu.
- Ukuzibona emuhle kungase kubonise isimo sezimali somyeni wakhe, othola ukukhushulwa esikhundleni noma inzuzo enkulu ebhizinisini aliphethe.
- Kodwa uma ezisola ngemva kwalokho, uhlushwa izinkinga nomyeni, futhi izinguquko ezingathandeki zenzeka ekukhulelweni, okungase kumchaye engozini yokubeletha okunzima.
- Uma owesifazane ehlushwa inkinga yezezimali futhi ebona ukuthi ugunda izinwele zakhe, khona-ke empeleni ukhokha zonke izikweletu zakhe, futhi impilo yakhe izozinza ngemva kwalokho.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushefa izinwele kumuntu
- Uma indoda izwa izinkathazo nosizi oluthile, ukumbona kuwubufakazi bokuzola kwengqondo nokuzinza kwengqondo ngemva kwesikhathi sokuhlupheka.
- Umuntu angase abhekane nezithiyo eziningi ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi ukubona lokhu kuwubufakazi bekhono lakhe lokubhekana nazo futhi abhekane nazo, nokuthi maduze uzofinyelela umgomo wakhe.
- Uma umboni wayeyinsizwa engashadile, khona-ke ungumuntu odonsa kanzima futhi onesifiso sokuvelela, futhi akaneliseki ngempumelelo njengenye indlela.
- Kodwa uma wayenesifiso sokuvakashela iNdlu Engcwele kaNkulunkulu, umbono wakhe uwubufakazi bokugcwaliseka kwesifiso sakhe osekunesikhathi eside ephupha.
- Futhi uma omunye umuntu emsikela yona noma eyiphuca, khona-ke umeluleka ukuba aqhele endleleni yokungalaleli nezono, futhi abuyele endleleni yokuqondisa nokulunga.
- Uma umphuphi wayemi kahle, khona-ke umbono wakhe uyinkomba yezinguquko ezimbi empilweni yakhe, okuzomenza ahluleke futhi alahlekelwe ingxenye enkulu yengcebo yakhe.
- Kepha umuntu ompofu ongenamali, futhi usebonile ukuthi ugunda izinwele zakhe, wenelisekile ngalokho uNkulunkulu amhlukanisele khona, futhi uhahela kuphela ukucasha nokuthula kwengqondo, ngaphezu kwalokho ungomunye wabantu. zokuziphatha okusezingeni eliphezulu.
- Kodwa uma empeleni wayenezinwele ezinde, ebukeka kahle aziqhayisa ngayo phambi kwawo wonke umuntu, wabe esewubona lo mbono, khona-ke kukhona okungenzeka ukuthi uzokhashelwa futhi akhashelwe othile oseduze naye, futhi uzowa. ekuhluphekeni okukhulu ngenxa yenkohliso yakhe.
- Uma umbonisi engashadile, futhi ebona ukuthi ukubukeka kwakhe kungcono kunokuqala, khona-ke ushada nowesifazane omuhle onesikhundla nemali, okumenza aphile ezingeni elingcono lomphakathi kunokuphila kwakhe kwangaphambili.
- Kodwa uma insizwa ibona ukuthi ukubukeka kwayo ayihambisani nayo, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuhlangana kwayo nomfazi ongafaneleki, futhi ngokushesha izozisola ngokushada nayo.
Izincazelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokubona ukugunda izinwele ephusheni
Ngiphuphe ngigunda izinwele
- Uma intombazane ibona ephusheni ukuthi igunda izinwele zayo, ingase idlule esigabeni sayo samanje sokunganeliseki ngezimo zayo, noma ngezinto azenzayo ezicasula umuntu wakhe.
- Ukuwusika kungase kubonise ukuthuthuka kwemizwa yakhe ngemva kwesikhathi esithile sokukhungatheka okwamenza wajabula esikhathini esidlule.
- Kowesifazane oshadile, ukumbona ekubukeni kwakhe okusha nokuhle kubonisa ukwaneliseka kwakhe ekuphileni kwakhe nomyeni wakhe, nokuthi uzojabula ngokuphakama kwezingane zakhe.
- Uma ekhulelwe ozisikayo kuyinkomba yokukhulelwa kalula nokubeletha, futhi angase abe nentombazane enhle.
- Ukuzisola kowesifazane ngemva kokugunda izinwele kuyisingathekiso sokungezwani empilweni yakhe siqu, kanye nemithwalo esindayo emahlombe akhe esikhathini esizayo sokuphila kwakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu ogunda izinwele zami
- Lapho umuntu ongaziwa egunda izinwele zakhe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi amaphupho akhe afezekile, nokuthi impilo yakhe elandelayo izomphathela izinto eziningi ezinhle ezimangalisayo.
- Kungase kusho ukuthi intombazane isizoshada nomuntu ebifuna ukuzihlanganisa naye, futhi uyokwamukelwa uma eseyiqomile.
- Kwakuthiwa indoda ebona ukuthi kukhona umuntu oyigawulayo ize iyofika kuyena, ube esekhomba ukuthi zonke izikweletu zakhe zizokhokhwa, noma uzolahlekelwa kakhulu uma engumnikazi webhizinisi.
- Umbono ubhekisela ezinkingeni empilweni yomboni, futhi kungase kube nzima ukuzixazulula, kodwa akunakwenzeka, kodwa kunalokho kudinga isikhathi esiningi nomzamo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu ogunda izinwele zami
Lisho ukuthini iphupho likamama egunda izinwele zami?
- Uma umboni kwakuyintombazane encane futhi engavuthiwe, umbono wakhe ungase ubonise ukuthi umama uzama ukumlungisa nokuguqula ukuziphatha kwakhe.
- Mayelana nokugunda izinwele zendodakazi yakhe eshadile, kuyinkomba yokuthi uyihlinzeka ngezinsiza eziningi, ezimsiza ukuba aphume ezinkingeni, kungaba zezimali noma ezihlobene nobudlelwano bakhe bomshado.
- Uma umama efile, khona-ke umboni uzizwa enesizungu kakhulu kusukela ekulahlekelweni kwakhe, futhi udinga othile ozomnika uthando nobubele.
Ngiphuphe ngigunda izinwele ngijabule kakhulu
- Umbono uveza injabulo yakhe empilweni yakhe entsha, azongena kuyo maduze, uma engashadile futhi efuna ukushada.
- Kuphinde kukhombise inqubekelaphambili empilweni yakhe kanye nokufezeka kwamaphupho akhe okufunda noma omsebenzi.
- Uma umbonisi engowesifazane osanda kuhlukana nomyeni wakhe, khona-ke akazisoli ngalesi sinyathelo, kodwa kunalokho uthola insindiso empilweni edabukisayo ayeyiphile iminyaka nomuntu owayengamfanele.
Ukubona izinwele zami ephusheni
- Izinwele ezigundiwe zihunyushwa ngokwesimo sengqondo sombono; Uma engazinzile ngokomqondo futhi kukhona okumphazamisayo empilweni yakhe, uzoziqeda athole imali eningi engakulindele.
- Kodwa uma umphuphi enemali nokuhweba, khona-ke angase alahlekelwe enye yamadili asanda kuphetha, futhi izimo zakhe zizoshintsha kusukela ekukhululekeni kuya ekucindezelekeni.
- Ukubona umuntu ehlupheka ngenxa yobumpofu ukuthi izinwele zakhe zigundiwe kubonisa ukwaneliseka kwakhe ngemva kokwenza imizamo emikhulu esikhathini esidlule, nokuthi uzovuna umphumela wokukhathala kwakhe esikhathini esizayo.
Isayithi laseGibhithe, isayithi elikhulukazi elikhethekile ekuchazeni amaphupho emhlabeni wama-Arab, vele uthayiphe isayithi laseGibhithe ukuze uthole incazelo yamaphupho ku-Google futhi uthole izincazelo ezifanele.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho likadadewethu egunda izinwele zami
- Udadewabo kamboni angaba yisizathu sokuguqula impilo yakhe ibe ngcono, ngokumeseka ngokwezimali nangokwengqondo.
- Kwabuye kwashiwo ekuchazeni kwakhe ukuthi obonayo angase ahlaselwe isifo esithile, athole udadewabo kuphela omnakekelayo futhi ame ngakuye ngesikhathi egula.
- Uma umbonisi engakavuthwa futhi engakwazi ukukhetha okumfanele kakhulu, angase ancike kudadewabo futhi ambonise ezindabeni zakhe eziningi zangasese, futhi udade amnikeze izeluleko ezibizayo zokumsiza ekuxazululeni izinkinga zakhe futhi abhekane nezimo abhekana nazo. ukuhlangana.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomyeni wami egunda izinwele zami
- Umbono wowesifazane oshadile unezindaba ezinhle zokuthi ubusiswe ngendoda elungile ezomnakekela futhi yenze konke engakwenza ukuze imnike injabulo emfanele ngokoqobo.
- Kungase futhi kubonise ukuthi umyeni uzothola imali eningi, futhi amthengele indlu entsha, azothuthela kuyo maduzane, futhi izinguquko ezinhle zizolandela ekuphileni kwabo ndawonye.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugunda izinwele zengane
- Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni ukuthi asikho isizathu esanelisayo sokuthi aphuce izinwele zomntwana, kodwa amphuce yena, khona-ke lo mntwana uzoba nolwazi oluwusizo esikhathini esizayo.
- Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona lowo mbono, uyoba nomntwana wesilisa, futhi uyoba nekusasa eliqhakazile lapho esekhulile.
- Kodwa uma iphuciwe ngenxa yezizathu zempilo, angase aphathwe isifo esithile, kodwa ngokushesha alulame kuso (uNkulunkulu uSomandla ethanda).
Ukuphuca ikhanda ephusheni
- Uma umuntu ethanda izinwele zakhe ezinde empeleni, futhi engayi ku-barber kakhulu, umbono wakhe ubonisa izenzakalo ezimbi empilweni yakhe.
- Kodwa uma ejwayele ukuya kumgundi ukuze aphungule izinwele zakhe noma aziphuce ngokuphelele, khona-ke ukumbona kuwubufakazi bobuhle obuningi, nokuthi maduze uzoba nezizumbulu zemali ezizokwenza izinga lakhe lokuphila libe phezulu kunakuqala. .
- Kwaphinde kwashiwo ukuthi umbonisi unesimilo futhi uthandwa yibo bonke.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuhlwitha izinwele
Incazelo incike endaweni yenkondlo ehlungwa ngumboni.
- Uma ejwayele ukumphuca umakhwapheni, lolu daba luyancomeka, futhi kungenye yezindaba zenhlanzeko jikelele efunwa yi-Islam, ngoba angase atheleleke kwiSunnah ezenzweni zakhe eziningi.
- Kodwa uma esondela ezinwele zentshebe yakhe, le ndaba ayidunyiswa futhi isho ukuthi uzokwenza amaphutha amakhulu.
- Mayelana namashiya ubufakazi balo mbono wukuthi usenkingeni enkulu angayazi ukuthi uzoyinqoba kanjani ngenxa yokungaziphathi kahle izinto zakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushefa izinwele ze-armpit
- Leli phupho lingelinye lamaphupho aphethe izibusiso eziningi empilweni yomboni, futhi limtshela ukufeza izinhloso zakhe esikhathini esizayo.
- Uma umbonisi wesifazane engashadile futhi ekhononda ngeshwa lakhe, nokuthi akazange aphumelele empilweni yakhe, khona-ke ukumbona kuwuphawu lwenhlanhla ethuthuke kakhulu esikhathini esizayo.
- Kodwa uma umphuphi ephuca umuntu amaziyo ikhanda lakhe, khona-ke empeleni ungumbusi othanda ukugxambukela ezindabeni zabanye, futhi kufanele asigweme lesi senzo ukuze angavuni inzondo yabantu ngaye ngenxa yesenzo sakhe. izenzo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushefa izinwele ngesandla
- Umbono uveza ukuthuthukiswa kwezimo zomnikazi wawo kanye nokuphuma kwakhe ezinkingeni zakhe, uma lokhu kuyizinwele ze-armpit noma isandla.
- Ngokuqondene nokugunda izinwele zentshebe, kuwubufakazi bokuziphatha kwakhe okubi nokuthi wenza izono eziningi.
- Ukukhipha izinwele zomzimba ekugcineni kwendoda kuwubufakazi bokuthi ubhekene nenkinga enkulu ekuphileni kwakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngezinwele ezinde
- Ubude bezinwele zowesifazane bubonisa izimfanelo ezinhle aziphethe, kodwa uma ubude bukhula ngendlela evimbela ukunyakaza kwakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bezinkinga nezinhlekelele abhekana nazo esikhathini esizayo.
- Uma umboni wayegula, khona-ke umbono wakhe ungase ubonise ukululama kwakhe ekuguleni kwakhe nokuphila kwakhe isikhathi eside.
- Iphinde izwakalise ukwenyuka kwemali yomboni kanye nenzuzo ekuhwebeni kwakhe.
- Isoni sona siyaphikelela esonweni saso, uNkulunkulu makube njalo.
