Funda incazelo yephupho lokukhashelwa othandekayo ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

Ukubona ukukhashelwa kwesithandwa ephusheni kungenye yemibono enzima futhi ephazamisayo kubabukeli, kodwa ingaba nezincazelo ezahlukene, kuye ngokuthi isimo somboni kanye nemininingwane yombono. Ngewebhusayithi yethu, sethula namuhla incazelo yokubona ukukhashelwa kwesithandwa ephusheni ngokuningiliziwe, ngokusho kwezincazelo zezazi.
Umbono wakhe kanye nempumelelo yakhe emangalisayo empilweni yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhashelwa komthandi ephusheni

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukubona ukukhashelwa kothandekayo ephusheni kubonisa ukwesaba ukuphila kanye neqiniso lapho umboni ehlala khona.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komthandi ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi unobuhlobo obuhle nabangane bakhe, nokuthi iphupho lakhe libuye libonise ubuqotho nothando lwabo ngaye.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa kwesithandwa kubonisa ukuphakama
• Ukubona isithandwa sikhaphela isithandwa sakhe noma umyeni kumkakhe, kusho ukungathi sína kokwethembeka nothando ngaye.
• Ukubona isithandwa sokukhaphela umboni kubonisa ukuthi kukhona umehluko phakathi komboni nalo muntu.
• Ukubona isithandwa sikhashelwa nowesifazane noma sifeba naye kuwuphawu lokulahlekelwa yimali eningi.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komthandi nowesifazane omuhle ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi ubhekene nezinkinga.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa kwesithandwa nosisi ephusheni; Akhombise umona phakathi komboni nodadewabo eqinisweni.
• Ukubona isithandwa sikhaphela usisi kukhomba ukuthi isithandwa sizosuka kude naye ngenxa yokugcatshwa.
• Ukubuka umkhohlisi ekopela ingoduso yakhe ephusheni kubonisa inkinga enkulu yezezimali kumbukeli.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhashelwa othandekayo ngu-Ibn Sirin

Kulesi sihloko, sethula ukuhumusha okuhlukene kwezazi ezinkulu ekuchazeni iphupho lokukhashelwa komthandi wentombazane eyodwa, njengoba u-Ibn Sirin esho:

• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komthandi ephusheni lomthengisi kubonisa imali enqatshelwe.
• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukukhaphela komuntu umkakhe ephusheni kuwubufakazi bobudlelwane bakhe obuningi nabesifazane.
• Ukubona owesifazane ephinga ephusheni kanye nokukhashelwa kwesithandwa sakhe ephusheni lakhe kubonisa izono ezenziwa owesifazane, futhi kufanele abuyele kuNkulunkulu.
• Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngezinye izikhathi ukubona ukukhashelwa ephusheni kubonisa ukungabi nabulungisa nokuziphilisa okungenasisekelo.
• Ukuphinga kowesifazane ongashadile ephusheni lakhe kanye nokukhashelwa kwesithandwa sakhe kubonisa ukuthi ukhohlisiwe, futhi indoda enokuziphatha okubi ingacela umshado kuye.
• Iphupho lokukhashelwa othandekayo ephusheni lomnikazi wamandla nengcebo libonisa ukunyamalala kwamandla akhe nengcebo kanye nokungabi sengozini kwakhe ebumpofu.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhashelwa kwesithandwa sowesifazane ongashadile ngu-Ibn Sirin

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi umshumayeli ukhaphela ingoduso yakhe ngephupho; Kukhombisa ukwanda komehluko nezinkinga phakathi kwabo.
• Iphupho lokukhashelwa komthandi ngentombazane eyodwa lisho ukuziphatha okubi nokuqhelelana nenkolo, futhi kungase kube ukukhohlisa emizweni yakhe.
• Ukuze owesifazane ongashadile abone ukuthi isithandwa sakhe siyamkhohlisa ephusheni lakhe nentombazane angayazi kubonisa izinkinga ezizokwenzeka phakathi kwabo esikhathini esizayo, futhi kufanele aqaphele ukuthi angawuqedi lo mshado nalo muntu.
• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukukhashelwa ephusheni kubonisa ukuziphatha okubi nokuqhelelana nenkolo, ikakhulukazi ephusheni lomuntu ongalaleli, ngoba lo mbono uyamxwayisa ngokungena ezimpawu zabanye.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhashelwa komthandi ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Ukubona ukukhashelwa kwesithandwa kumuntu oyedwa kubonisa ukungathí sina kobuhlobo nesithandwa sakhe.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komthandi ephusheni ngentombazane eyodwa; ikhombisa ukuziphatha okubi.
• Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhohlisa umkakhe ngenkathi engashadile, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi unomsebenzi omusha futhi omuhle.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komthandi ephusheni ngentombazane eyodwa; Kubonisa ukuthi udangele, ukhathazekile futhi ucindezelekile.
• U-Imam al-Sadiq ukholelwa nokuthi uma intombazane engashadile ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi isoka layo liyamkhohlisa, khona-ke lesi yisixwayiso kuye sokuthi le nsizwa ayimthandi.
• Ukukhashelwa othandekayo kusho ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga eziningi esikhathini esizayo, ngakho le ntombazane kufanele iphinde icabange kahle ngalobu buhlobo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhashelwa othandekayo ephusheni lomuntu

• Lapho indoda ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi ikhohlisa umkayo ngesikhathi isishadile, lokhu kubonisa uthando oluqinile ngomkakhe.
• Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umngane wakhe oseduze wayemkhohlisa, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzothola imali ngokuhweba nalo mngane maduzane.
• Lapho umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi omunye wabathandekayo bakhe uyamkhohlisa nodadewabo, lokhu kubonisa ukuphela kwezikweletu zakhe kanye nokuphela kwezinkinga zakhe abhekana nazo ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Noma ubani obona ephusheni ukuthi ukhohlisa isithandwa sakhe, ubonisa ukuthi uzohlanganiswa nomshado, kodwa akakwazisi lokho uNkulunkulu amnike khona.
• Noma ubani obona ephusheni lakhe ukukhashelwa kwesithandwa sakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuhlukana phakathi kwabo ngaphambi komqondo wokushada nomunye nomunye.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komuntu othandekayo ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi umboni ubhekene nobumpofu futhi ulahlekelwe amandla akhe.
• Ukubona isithandwa sokukhaphela umuntu ompofu ephusheni; Kukhomba ukuthi useke wajola nomkakhe nentombi yakhe.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komthandi ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi uhlushwa usizi.
• Ukubona umkhongi ephusheni ekhohlisa ingoduso yakhe kukhombisa izono nezono azozifeza.
• Ukubona ingoduso ephusheni ijola nengoduso kukhomba ukudalulwa kwemfihlo ayifihlele yona phambilini.
• Futhi lapho umuntu ebona ukuthi umkakhe okhulelwe ephusheni lakhe uyamkhohlisa nomunye wabangane bakhe, leli phupho lingamenza azizwe esaba futhi esola umyeni wakhe futhi amenze aqaphe zonke izenzo zakhe.
• Nokuthi lokhu kungabaza kungaholela ezinkingeni eziningi empilweni yakhe.

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Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nesithandwa esikhohlisa isithandwa sakhe?

• Ukukhashelwa othandekayo ephusheni akudingeki ngaso sonke isikhathi kube uphawu lobubi, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi kungase kube izindaba ezinhle zamadoda nabesifazane zokuzinza, injabulo nokuthula.
• Ososayensi bahumusha iphupho lokukhashelwa kothandekayo isithandwa sakhe, njengobufakazi bokudabuka nokukhathazeka komuntu okubonayo, kanye nokuwela kwakhe ezinkingeni eziningi zezezimali.
• Futhi noma ubani obona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhohlisa umyeni wakhe nesoka lakhe ngenkathi emazi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uchitha imali eningi emalini yomyeni wakhe ezintweni ezingavunyelwe.
• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile eqola umyeni wakhe nendoda ayaziyo kusho ukuchitha imali nomyeni wakhe ngokweqile.
• Ukubona isithandwa sokukhaphela isithandwa sakhe nabangane ephusheni; Uveza ukuthi baningi abantu abamzungezile abamzondayo.
• Ukuchazwa komuntu obona ephusheni lakhe ukukhashelwa kothandiweyo wakhe nomuntu amaziyo kubonisa ukuthi uzoshada nomshado ongavamile futhi ongavamile, nokuthi useduze nezono lapho esebenzelana nabo.
•  Noma ubani obona ephusheni ukukhashelwa kothandekayo wakhe futhi utshela umthandi wakhe ukuthi akenzanga lutho nokuthi wayemane ehamba noma ekhuluma naye, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukusondela komshado ojabulisayo.
•  Noma ubani obona ephusheni ukuthi othandekayo usevele ekhaphele isithandwa sakhe futhi ebona ukuthi umkhohlisile, lokhu kubonisa izinkinga abangase babhekane nazo kanye nokwehluleka ukuthatha isinqumo sokuzixazulula.
• Ukuhunyushwa komuntu obona ephusheni lakhe ukukhashelwa komthandi kumthandi wakhe noma umyeni wakhe, njengoba ebonisa ukuthi uzoveza okuthile noma imfihlo ezomlimaza.
• Ukubona isithandwa sokukhaphela isithandwa sakhe kubonisa ukuthi uzowela ngemva kwesono, futhi kuzothinta idumela lakhe, udumo nesithunzi.
• Ukukhashelwa kothandekayo yisithandwa sakhe nakho kubonisa ukucindezeleka, ubumpofu nokulahlekelwa.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhashelwa othandekayo nomngane

• Ukubona ukukhashelwa kothandekayo nomngane ephusheni kubonisa izono nezono azozifeza.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komthandi nomngane ephusheni kubonisa ukudalulwa kwemfihlo amfihlele yona esikhathini esidlule.
• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile ekhohlisa umyeni wakhe ephusheni nomngane wakhe kubonisa ukuzinza kwempilo yakhe yomshado.
•  Ukubona owesifazane oshadile ekhohlisa umyeni wakhe ephusheni nomngane wakhe kuwubufakazi bothando lomyeni wakhe ngaye nokunamathela kwakhe kuye.
• Ukubona umfazi ekhohlisa umyeni wakhe ephusheni kusho ukuphakama ekuphileni, isibopho esiqinile phakathi kwabo nothando lwabo ngomunye nomunye.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa komthandi nomngane ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi abangani bakhe banomona ngaye.
• Uma umyeni ebona ukuthi umkakhe uyamkhohlisa ephusheni; Lokhu kubonisa ukuthi indoda izomshiya umkayo isikhathi esithile.
• Uma owesifazane ebona ukuthi ukhohlisa umyeni wakhe nesoka lakhe ephusheni, kubonisa ukuthi umyeni unokukhushulwa komsebenzi kanye nesimo esiphakeme.
• Lo mbono ukhombisa nokwesaba ikusasa kwezinye izindawo.
• Ukukhashelwa kowesifazane ephusheni nomngane womyeni kubonisa ukuzinza nezindaba ezijabulisayo kumuntu onombono, futhi lezi zindaba zizoba emsebenzini wakhe noma ezifundweni zakhe.
• Abahumushi futhi bakholelwa ukuthi ukubona owesifazane ekhohlisa umyeni wakhe nomngane ephusheni empeleni kubonisa ukuphila kwakhe okujabulisayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhashelwa komthandi nokukhala

• Ukukhashelwa komthandi ephusheni owesifazane okhulelwe, bese ekhala futhi ezisola lokho, kubonisa ukuthi lo wesifazane uzozala owesilisa, nokuthi izinto zizohamba kahle naye kanye nengane yakhe.
• Ukubona ukukhashelwa ephusheni kowesifazane ohlukanisile kubonisa ukushintsha izimo zibe ngcono, uNkulunkulu uzimisele.
• Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ephupha ukuthi umyeni wakhe wangaphambili uyamkhohlisa futhi ekhala, lokhu kubonisa uthando lwakhe ngaye nokuthi uzobuyela kuye maduze.
• Noma ubani owabona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi isithandwa sakhe sasimkhohlisa nomunye wesifazane futhi wakhala ngalokho, lokhu kubonisa ukugula, ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka.
• Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ukuthi isithandwa sakhe siyamkhohlisa, futhi lapho embona, uyakhala futhi uyazisola, khona-ke lo mbono ubonisa ukuthi uzohlupheka futhi akhathele ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nokubeletha.
• Kubonisa nokuthi uzozala intombazane ezokwandisa ukukhathazeka, ubuhlungu nokudabuka, nokuthi angase abelethe ingane ekhathele noma egulayo.
•  Noma ubani obona ephusheni ukuthi isithandwa sakhe noma umyeni wakhe wamkhaphela nomunye wesifazane futhi uyazisola futhi ukhale ngenxa yalesi senzo, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthula, injabulo nodumo.
• Noma ubani obona emaphusheni akhe ukuthi ukhohlisa umkakhe, futhi lapho umkakhe embona, wakhala ngokukhashelwa kwakhe, lokhu kubonisa isono, futhi kufanele aphenduke.
• Leli phupho labuye lahunyushwa kwabampofu njengobufakazi bokuthi lo muntu uzokhashelwa, futhi lokhu kukhashelwa kungaba kubangane, unkosikazi, umyeni, noma isithandwa.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umyeni wakhe uyamkhohlisa nencekukazi, futhi ebabona futhi ekhala ngokumkhaphela kwakhe, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuntula ukuzethemba kulo wesifazane. 
• Nokuthi lo wesifazane unezinkinga empilweni yomndeni wakhe, kodwa zizophela maduze.