Yiziphi izincazelo zencazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kwengane yami?

Izingane ziyisibusiso soMdali, nenjabulo yokuphila.
Uthando lwezingane luyimvelo engokwemvelo kwabesifazane nabesilisa.Wonke umuntu wesifazane unethemba lokuthi uNkulunkulu uzombusisa ngengane ukuze anelise imvelo yakhe kamama, azondle ebuthakathakeni bakhe, kodwa lithini incazelo yephupho ngokuncelisa ingane enye kuneyakho? Ingabe umbono uwuphawu lwengozi, noma umyalezo wesiqinisekiso nezindaba ezijabulisayo zezenzakalo ezijabulisayo? Kulesi sihloko, uzothola zonke izincazelo ezishiwo yizazi ezinkulu kanye nezazi zezomthetho zokuhumusha.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kwengane yami?

• Lo mbono uvame ukuveza izenzakalo eziningi ezijabulisayo lowo ophuphayo azozibona esikhathini esizayo, futhi ubonisa izici ezithile ezinhle abonakala ngazo, njengoba zibonisa ukuziphatha okuhle umphuphi adume ngakho phakathi kwalabo abamzungezile, njengoba esebenzelana nawo wonke umuntu. ngenhliziyo enhle nomusa.
• Iphinde izwakalise ukulahlwa kokugcina kwale nkinga osekunesikhathi eside ihlupha lowo ophuphayo, njengoba ebebambeke enkingeni enkulu futhi efuna isixazululo esifanele, futhi maduze le nkinga izophela futhi impilo yakhe izobuyela ekuzoleni kwangaphambili. bekuphakathi.
• Iphinde ibhekisele ezibusisweni zoMdali - uSomandla - kumboni onenhlanhla echichimayo nesibusiso semali, impilo, izibusiso, nezibusiso ezihlukahlukene azozijabulela maduze nje, njengoba engomunye wabantu abanekusasa elijabulisayo.
• Kuphinde kukhombise ukuthi umnikazi wephupho unolwazi oluningi namasiko, futhi uthanda ukudlulisa ulwazi lwakhe kwabaseduze kwakhe futhi alusakaze kuwo wonke umuntu.
• Ngokuqondene nendoda encelisa ingane ibele, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi izophinde izuze impilo namandla ayo esikhathini esizayo, ngemva kwesikhathi eside sokukhathala ngokomzimba, ukuba buthakathaka, nokugqunywa embhedeni okunganyakazi.
• Ukubona umntwana ejabule futhi emomotheka ngesikhathi encela, kubikezela umphuphi wenjabulo nenjabulo, njengoba kubonisa ukuthi uMdali uyomnika injabulo ayengayilindele, ngenxa yezenzo zakhe ezinhle kuleli zwe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kwengane yami ngu-Ibn Sirin

• Ikakhulukazi, lo mbono uveza umzamo onzima owenziwa umphuphi ukuze azuze impumelelo entweni athemba ukuyifinyelela, ngoba uyothola umvuzo ngomsebenzi wakhe onzima (uNkulunkulu evuma).
• Iphinde ikhombise ukuziphatha okuhle, ukwethembeka, nenhliziyo enhle umnikazi wephupho anayo, eheha wonke umuntu ukuthi abhekane nokukhuluma naye ngezimfihlo zabo.
•  U-Ibn Sirin ubheka lo mbono njengenye yemibono eqinisekisa umphefumulo mayelana nendaba ebalulekile ehlobene nokuphila kwesikhathi esizayo somboni, mhlawumbe ngokombono wezenhlalakahle noma emkhakheni wakhe womsebenzi.
• Kodwa kungase futhi kubonise umuntu oseduze nomphuphi ozenza sengathi umsulwa futhi uyamzwela, kodwa empeleni usebenzisa ukuxhashazwa okubi kakhulu kwesithakazelo sakhe siqu.
• Nakuba uma umphuphi ebuka inqubo yokuncelisa, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu uye wambusisa ngomngane oqotho omthanda kahle futhi omsekela kuzo zonke izindaba zokuphila kwakhe.

Ithini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kweyami yowesifazane oyedwa?

• Lo mbono ukhombisa isifiso sentombazane sokushada futhi izinze, futhi yakhe umndeni wayo omenza azizwe evikelekile futhi evikelekile emndenini, nalapho ejabulela khona ukunethezeka nobubele.
• Owesifazane ongashadile obona ukuthi amabele akhe akhiqiza ubisi, umbono wakhe ubonisa ukuthi ungumuntu onezinga eliphakeme lenkolo, njengoba enokuziphatha okubekezelelayo nenhliziyo enhle, futhi ubuye abe nokubukeka okuqinisekisayo.
• Umbono futhi ubonisa ubuntu bokulwa nokuphikelela, obunikeza iphupho lakhe isikhathi esiningi nomzamo ongokomzimba ukuze akwazi ukufinyelela futhi akufeze.
• Kodwa obona ukuthi incela ingane ibele kuze kushintshe ubukhulu bayo, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi usezokwazi ukwedlula ozakwabo emsebenzini, okumenza afanelekele ukuthola umsebenzi noma ukukhushulwa esikhundleni abekufuna kakhulu.
• Iphinde iveze ukuthi maduze uzoshada nomuntu omuhle omthandayo, futhi amnikeze ukulondeka, futhi uyozala inzalo elungile ayeyifisa.
• Kuphinde kubonise ukuthi uzothola ukudla okuningi kwe-halal, izibusiso nezibusiso eziyokwehlela impilo yakhe yonke esikhathini esizayo (uNkulunkulu ethanda).
• Iningi labahlaziyi liyavuma ukuthi ukubona ingane encela kuletha izindaba ezinhle zokuzwa izindaba ezinhle eziletha injabulo nentokozo kumnikazi wayo.Mhlawumbe kuveza into obufisa ukuthi yenzeke nosunesikhathi eside uyilindile.

Ithini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kwengane yami kowesifazane oshadile?

• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile encelisa ingane ibele kuveza isifiso sakhe esikhulu sokuba umama, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi sekunesikhathi eside ehlushwa ukungabi nabantwana futhi ufuna uMdali amnikeze inzalo enhle.
• Kubonisa futhi inhliziyo enomusa nobubele lona wesifazane abujabulelayo, nokusebenzisana kwakhe okuhle nawo wonke umuntu, okubenza bakujabulele ukuxoxa naye ngaso sonke isikhathi.
• Imibono eminingi ithi umboni uzokhulelwa ezinsukwini ezizayo (uNkulunkulu ethanda) abelethe ingane ayeyifisa kangaka, futhi uyamthandazela kuNkulunkulu imini nobusuku.
• Nakuba uma umama ebona ukuthi uncelisa enye yezingane, khona-ke lo mbono ubonisa uthando lwakhe olujulile ngabantwana bakhe, nomuzwa wakhe wokubakhathalela, njengoba ngaso sonke isikhathi bedinga ukunakekelwa nobubele, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi badala kangakanani.
• Uphinde azwakalise ukwenzeka kwemicimbi emnandi mayelana nezingane zakhe, njengoba zingakwazi ukuzuza impumelelo ezimpilweni zazo, futhi zakhe ikusasa eliqhakazile elithwele impumelelo eminingi, nokuzomenza aziqhenye ngazo phakathi kwabantu.
• Kodwa uma incela ibele umfana omdala, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi enye yamadodana akhe ibhekene nenkinga enkulu yempilo, njengoba izodinga ukunakekelwa nokunakwa kwayo esikhathini esizayo, noma ukuthi umuntu amthandayo ubhekene nenkinga enkulu. noma isimo esibucayi, esidinga ukuba azilungiselele ukuzama ukumsiza.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kwengane yami kowesifazane okhulelwe?

• Imibono eminingi ihumusha lo mbono njengemizwa yokukhathazeka nokwesaba okubusa owesifazane okhulelwe kulesi sikhathi samanje ngenxa yokukhulelwa kanye nokungalingani kwama-hormone emzimbeni wakhe, njengoba ememezela ukuthi usondela osukwini lwakhe olumisiwe ezinsukwini ezizayo, futhi edlula esikhathini ukulethwa okulula nokuthambile okuzomshiya ephephile futhi ephilile kuye nengane yakhe.
• Ngokuqondene nalowo obona ukuthi amabele akhe akhiqiza ubisi oluningi, okwanele ukuncelisa izingane eziningana, lezi yizindaba ezinhle kuye zokuziphilisa ngokuchichimayo nemali eningi esikhathini esizayo.
• Uphinde aveze ukuthi usesikhathini sokukhulelwa angenazo izinhlungu ezingako, kodwa kumele aqaphele imikhuba emibi enempilo ayilandela ekudleni ukuze angaphazamisi ukudla kwengane yakhe.
• Nakuba uma ezibona encelisa umntwana osefinyelele ukuthomba ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzobhekana nenkinga ekhaya lakhe noma phakathi kwamalungu omndeni wakubo, futhi kudinga ukubhekana nale nkinga ngokuhlakanipha nokubekezela.
• Kodwa uma ubona ukuthi uncelisa ingane nge "pepperone", okungukuthi, ubisi lokufakelwa, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga ezithile zempilo ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane yakhe, futhi angase abonakale ekukhathaleni okungokomzimba okuvela inqubo yokuzalwa, ethinta abesifazane abaningi.
• Kungase kubonise ukuthi ingane yakhe izochayeka ezinkingeni ezithile zokuphefumula ngokushesha ngemva kokuzalwa, kodwa iyodlula kuyo ngokuphepha (uma uNkulunkulu ethanda).
• Kodwa lowo obona ukuthi umntwana ukhipha lonke ubisi esifubeni sakhe, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi kukhona osizakala ngaye, futhi uzama ukumlimaza ngazo zonke izindlela nezindlela.
• Uma ebona ukuthi ubisi aluphumi esifubeni sakhe ngemva kokubeletha, khona-ke lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uzobhekana nobunzima nezinhlungu ohlelweni lokubeletha, njengoba ngeke kube inqubo elula.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kwengane yami yowesifazane ohlukanisile?

• Lo mbono ubonisa izibusiso eziningi nobuhle obuchichimayo ayobujabulela esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, ngemva kwesikhathi eside sokuntula ngokomzwelo nokubekezela kwakhe ezinkingeni adlule kuzo.
• Ngezinye izikhathi leli phupho liphethe umlayezo oyisixwayiso kulo wesifazane mayelana nokungaziphathi kahle kwakhe, noma ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokunganaki, okungase kubangele izinsolo eziningi eduze kwakhe futhi kulimaze isithunzi sakhe phakathi kwabantu.
• Kubonisa nokuthi uNkulunkulu uyomnxephezela ngokubekezela kwakhe esikhathini esidlule, futhi uzomnika umyeni omuhle nenzalo angazange abe nayo emishadweni yakhe yangaphambili.
• Abanye abahumushi bayavuma ukuthi lo mbono uyahluka ekuchazeni kwawo kuye ngohlobo lomntwana olunywa ibele, ukubukeka kwakhe, nemizwa ebonakala kuye; Uma owesifazane emncelisa futhi emgona ngokunakekela nangokunaka, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzobona izenzakalo ezijabulisayo ezinsukwini ezizayo ezizomnika injabulo enkulu futhi angathanda ukuthi zihlale isikhathi eside.
• Kodwa uma kungumfana, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzojabulela impilo enhle nokuqina komzimba okumenza afanelekele ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi ngomdlandla nangamandla.
• Ngokunjalo ukuncelisa owesilisa ibele kukhomba ukululama noma ukusinda, njengoba esikhathini esedlule kungenzeka ukuthi uke waba nenkinga yempilo futhi wahlala isikhathi eside elele, kodwa uzolulama maduze (uNkulunkulu ethanda).

Izincazelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokubona ukuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kweyami ephusheni

Ngiphuphe ngincelisa ingane engeyona ingane yami, lichaza ukuthini leliphupho? 

• Omunye umlandeli wesifazane wathi, “Ngiphuphe ngincelisa ingane okungeyona indodana yami! Ngabe kusho ukuthini lokho?Uma unezingane iphupho liyinkomba yokukhathazeka ngokuzinakekela ngezinye izinto ezingenamsebenzi ezizodala izinkinga eziningi empilweni yazo ngomuso.
• Kodwa uma ingane yenqaba ukuncelisa, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthunywa kwezinye izono nezenzo ezimbi ezithukuthelisa uMdali (Udumo malube Kuye), naphezu kokwazi komphuphi ngalokho.
• Iphupho lokuncelisa ingane engavamile libonisa ukuntula isithakazelo ezindabeni eziyisisekelo ekuphileni nokuchitha isikhathi nempilo emisebenzini engenamsebenzi futhi engabalulekile.
• Nakuba uma ingane izizwa ijabule noma ihleka ngemva kokuncelisa, lokhu kubonisa izimfanelo ezinhle zomuntu siqu ezinomusa kakhulu nezizenzekela, njengoba ithanda abanye ngaphandle kokucwasa noma ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwabo.

Uma unephupho futhi ungayitholi incazelo yalo, hamba ku-Google ubhale Indawo yaseGibhithe yokuchaza amaphupho.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane wesilisa

• Abahumushi abaningi bayavuma ukuthi lo mbono ungase ubonise ubunzima obuningi nezinkinga ukuthi umphuphi uzovezwa esikhathini esizayo.
• Iveza ukuthi lowo ophuphayo ubhekene nenkinga yezimali, ngenxa yokulahlekelwa okukhulu emsebenzini wakhe, noma ukuthi othile umkhohlisile futhi wantshontsha imali eningi kuye.
• Kuphinde kukhombise ukuthi umbonisi ubhekene nesimo esibi ngokwengqondo njengamanje, ngenxa yokuchayeka ezenzakalweni eziningi ezicindezelayo kanye nokukhathazeka okuningi muva nje.
• Kuphinde kubonise amandla obuntu ajatshulelwa umbonisi, njengoba evame ukubhekana nezinto ngokuqina nangokukhuthazela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zinzima futhi zinzima kangakanani.
• Ngokuqondene nowesifazane oshadile, kuyizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuthi uzozala umfana omuhle ozoba nobuntu obuqinile futhi ajabulele izinga eliphezulu lokuqina nokuqina.
• Kodwa uma indoda ibona ukuthi iyona encelisayo ingane, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yesidingo sayo esikhulu sokusekelwa nosizo oluvela ezihlotsheni zayo, kodwa yenqaba ukuyicela kubo.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane enhle?

• Ezikhathini eziningi, lo mbono uqukethe izincazelo eziningi ezinhle nezilungile, njengoba ngokuvamile uveza izindaba ezinhle nezenzakalo ezijabulisayo ezizokwenzeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
• Kubonisa nokuthi uMdali uyomvuza ngakho konke okuhle, ukondla nesibusiso ngokubekezela kwakhe ngezilingo eziningi nezinsizi abhekana nazo phakathi nenkathi edlule.
• Iphinde ikhombise ukuthi obonayo ujabulela impilo ezinzile futhi ezolile, egcwele ukunethezeka nokunethezeka, okumsiza ukuba acabange ngokuthula ukuze akwazi ukunikeza izixazululo kuzo zonke izinkinga abhekene nazo.
• Iphinde iveze isifiso somphuphi sokufuna intethelelo, ukuphenduka, nokuqala impilo entsha engenamaphutha nezono, lapho eyeka khona ukwenza izono nezenzo ezithukuthelisa iNkosi yakhe.
• Kodwa uma ingane yenqaba ukunceliswa, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuphela kobudlelwane obujulile obungokomzwelo obathatha isikhathi eside phakathi kwezithandani ezimbili ngenxa yokuphela kwemizwa phakathi kwabo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuncelisa umntwana okhalayo ephusheni

• Uma umnikazi wephupho engashadile, khona-ke lo mbono uveza imizwa anayo ngekusasa lakhe elingokomzwelo, njengoba enomuzwa wokuthi ngeke ashade futhi uzohlala yedwa kuze kube phakade.
• Kodwa uma umntwana ezolile ngemva kokudla, lokhu kusho ukuthi umphuphi uzovezwa inkathi yokukhathazeka nezinkinga, kodwa uzophuma kubo ngokuthula (uNkulunkulu ethanda) ngemva kwesikhashana.
• Ngokufanayo, ukuzola kwengane ngemva kokudla kubonisa ikhono lomphuphi lokuxazulula izinkinga zakhe zezimali yedwa, ngaphandle kwesidingo sokufuna usizo kunoma ubani, futhi ngempela uzokwazi ukwenza kanjalo.
• Futhi, ukukhala kwengane ephusheni kubonisa izenzakalo ezibuhlungu nezingathandeki ezizokwenzeka phakathi kwamalungu omndeni ofanayo, okungase kubangele izingxabano nezingxabano ezinde.
• Kodwa uma umntwana ekhala ngoba elambile ngoba unina enqaba ukumncelisa, lokho kukhomba umuntu onqamula ubuhlobo bakhe futhi angafinyeleli emndenini wakhe, njengoba nje engathembeki kubazali bakhe.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane encane?

Leli phupho likhomba izinkinga eziningi umuntu ophuphayo abhekene nazo njengoba engazazi izidingo zesiteji esisha azongena kuso, liphinde liveze ubuntu obukhathele obuvusa izinkinga futhi budale izinkinga esezongena empilweni yomphuphi. futhi kuzoba yimbangela yezinkinga eziningi kuye esikhathini esizayo kuye.. Qaphela ubungane obusha, kodwa ingane efulathela futhi inqabe ukudla kuyinkomba yokuthi lowo mbono ubhekene nenkinga enkulu futhi akakwazi ukuthola isisombululo esifanele kuso.

Kodwa-ke, uma umphuphi eyinsizwa engashadile futhi ebona inqubo yokuncelisa, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uzokwazi ukufeza izinhloso zakhe namaphupho akhe empilweni, kodwa kufanele abekezele futhi asebenze kanzima.Uma intombazane engashadile iyona. ukubukela lokhu, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzizwa enesifiso sokushada futhi abe nezingane eziningi, njengoba ebathanda kakhulu.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa ingane kusuka esifubeni kwesokunxele?

Ikakhulukazi, lombono ukhombisa imizwa nesimo somqondo lapho lowo ophuphayo ehlala khona.Lokhu kubangelwa ukunamathela kokuncelisa ububele bukamama kanye nomuzwa wokulondeka owunikeza usana.Yingoba inhliziyo itholakala kulokhu. ingxenye yesifuba.Umbono futhi uveza ubuntu obunenhliziyo econsa uzwela nothando kuwo wonke umuntu.Uthanda njalo ukusiza abaswele futhi akafuni Uyazonda noma azonde ngisho nomuntu olinyazwa nguye.Lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi owesfazane uke wahlushwa isilonda emphefumulweni lapho eshonelwe khona umuntu abemthanda futhi ebenemizwa emikhulu ngaye.uzwa sengathi inhliziyo yakhe iyopha kodwa uma ezwa ubuhlungu obukhulu ngesikhathi encelisa, lokhu kuyisixwayiso kuyena ukuthi kukhona abasithathayo. inzuzo yemizwa yakhe emihle nokuzama Ukumfaka enkingeni enkulu, ehlobene kakhulu nesithunzi sakhe phakathi kwabantu.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuncelisa umntwana ngaphandle kobisi?

Umbono uvame ukuveza ukuthi umnikazi wawo ubhekene nobunzima obukhulu bezezimali futhi ulahlekelwe yimali eningi, ngakho-ke uqala ukuphila esimweni sokucindezeleka nesidingo.Kubonisa futhi ukuthi umphuphi udlula enkathini yobumpofu bemizwa. udinga umuntu ozwa ubuhlungu nokudabuka kwakhe ukuze akhononde kuye ngosizi nezinkathazo zakhe, ukuze kuzomkhulula futhi kujabulise inhliziyo yakhe.Kodwa-ke, uma emncelisa igazi, khona-ke lokhu Kubonisa uthando lwakhe olujulile ngomuntu, njengoba efisa ukumlondoloza futhi anikele okuthile okuyigugu ngaye, ngisho noma kubiza ukuphila kwakhe.” Nokho, uma efaka amanzi esikhundleni sobisi, lokhu kubonisa imizwa engamanga engase ihlotshaniswe nomuntu, kodwa ayinayo imizwa eqotho futhi ayinayo imizwa eqotho. izinhloso ezinhle ngaye.