اKowesifazane, uma ebona umyeni wakhe ephusheni lakhe eshada nomunye wesifazane, uqala ukucabanga kabi futhi ukwesaba kugcwala enhliziyweni yakhe futhi ngokushesha afune incazelo yaleli phupho.Ngewebhusayithi ekhethekile yaseGibhithe, sinikeze izincazelo ezibaluleke kakhulu lelo phupho nokuthi liphethe izibonakaliso ezithembisayo noma cha.Funda lezi zigaba ezilandelayo ukuze ufinyelele incazelo ecacile ephusheni lakho.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomyeni oshada okwesibili
- Umyeni ompofu, uma umkakhe ephupha ukuthi ubophe ifindo lomshado nomunye wesifazane, iphupho libonisa ingcebo nokucasha okuzofika kuye, kodwa ngombandela wokuthi ushada nowesifazane oyisidudla ephusheni ukuze lihunyushwe iphupho. nenzalo nenala yemali.
- Uma umyeni eshada nowesifazane osezacile futhi umzimba wakhe umncane, iphupho libonisa ukunengeka ngoba ukwehluleka kwezezimali nezomsebenzi kuzofika kuye esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
- Futhi, ukushada nowesifazane ogulayo kubonisa ubuthakathaka obungokomzimba noma ubumpofu bezinto ezibonakalayo nokubhekana nokulahlekelwa okuningi ngokwezimali.
- Uma umyeni wabonakala eshada noma eshada nowesifazane ongasekho, kodwa wayemuhle, umbono uyathembisa futhi ubonisa ukubuya kwethemba futhi empilweni yomyeni nokuthola kwakhe izinto ayezilahlekele, uzothola inhlanhla futhi zonke izifiso zakhe zizofezeka.
- Akutuseki ukubona indoda ishada futhi yenza ubulili nowesifazane ethuneni lakhe, ngoba inkomba imbi futhi ikhombisa ukwehla kwezinga layo lokuziphatha, ukonakala kwenkolo yayo, kanye nemikhuba yayo yokuphinga eseduze.
- Uma unkosikazi enokungaboni ngaso linye nomyeni wakhe futhi embona eshada nomunye wesifazane futhi wayedabukile ephusheni, mhlawumbe incazelo yephupho ibangelwa ukwesaba komphuphi okugxilile engqondweni yakhe engaqondakali mayelana nokuhlukana kwakhe naye. umyeni, njengoba efisa ukuqeda impilo yakhe naye futhi wesaba ukuba khona komunye wesifazane empilweni yakhe.
- Owesifazane ongamethembi umyeni wakhe empeleni uzobona lo mbono ephusheni lakhe, futhi uvela engqondweni engaphansi.
- Umyeni kungenzeka ukuthi useshadile ngokweqiniso, kanti unkosikazi uyakwazi lokhu, futhi uyabona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uyashada ngenkathi ekhala futhi eklabalala. lokho umyeni wakhe akwenze kuye, leso senzakalo uzosibona ngokuphindaphindiwe ephusheni lakhe.
- Kuyinto efiselekayo ukubona umyeni eshada ephusheni ngenkathi izingubo zakhe zinhle futhi zinhle, ngoba iphupho lapha limnandi futhi lisikisela izibusiso eziningi ezizofika kuwo wonke umndeni womphuphi, kanje:
- Cha: Umyeni angase athuthuke emsebenzini wakhe futhi athole othile omazisayo ngokomsebenzi nangokwezimali.
- Okwesibili: Izingane zomphuphi zizoshada uma zisencane ngeminyaka yokushada futhi zikwazi ukusungula ikhaya.
- Okwesithathu: Ukuphila kwakhe komphakathi kuzoshintsha kube ngcono, futhi uthando nomyeni lungase luvuselelwe futhi, futhi bayophila isikhathi esigcwele uthando nothando.
- Lapho owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukuthi umyeni wakhe ulala nomunye wesifazane, lolu phawu luyathembisa futhi luphakamisa amadili amasha namaphrojekthi azomlethela imali eningi.
- Umbono ungase ubonise ukuthi indoda iwukhathalela kakhulu umsebenzi wayo, futhi leyondaba iyoba nemiphumela emihle, futhi inkosikazi iyozuza kulokho.
Ukuhunyushwa kombono womshado womyeni ku-Ibn Sirin wesibili
- Lapho umfazi ephupha umyeni wakhe eshada ephusheni, uzobe ekhulelwe umntwana omusha, kodwa kufanele amthole ejabule ngomshado omusha futhi wanelisekile ngawo kuze kube yilapho iphupho libonisa ubuhle.
- Umshado womyeni ephusheni entombazaneni eyintombi ungcono kunomshado wakhe nowesifazane ohlukanisile noma ongumfelokazi, ngoba umshado wentombi uyisibonakaliso sokuthi iminyango eminingi yokuphila ivulekele izinhlangothi zombili (kumphuphi nomyeni wakhe).
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona umyeni wakhe eshada nomunye, futhi ngemva kokuphothulwa kwesivumelwano somshado, umfazi omusha wafa ephusheni, khona-ke incazelo yephupho ibonisa ubunzima obungenakubekezeleleka bomsebenzi kanye nobunzima umyeni azobhekana nabo maduze.
- U-Ibn Sirin uthe leli phupho libonisa ukuthi umphuphi uzohamba nomyeni wakhe endlini yesimanje engcono kuneyangaphambili, uma umfazi omusha ebukeka emuhle.
- Lapho umyeni wombono eshada nowesifazane ongathembekile, iphupho libonisa ukonakala kwakhe kokuziphatha, ukunganaki kwakhe inkolo yakhe, kanye nesithakazelo sakhe ezifisweni.
- Noma ubani obona umyeni wakhe eshada nentombazane enhle, khona-ke uzokhulelwa intombazane, futhi uyoba sezingeni elifanayo lobuhle njengomfazi womyeni wakhe ephusheni.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nendoda eshada nomfazi wesibili
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona umyeni wakhe eshada nentombazane emnyama, azi ukuthi empeleni uthanda amantombazane amnyama futhi ukubonakala kwakhe ephusheni kwakukhangayo futhi kuhle, khona-ke uzokwazi ukudala ingcebo yezezimali empilweni yakhe.
- Uma kwenzeka ukuthi umyeni womphuphi washada nentombazane ene-brunette, futhi wayemubi futhi ebukeka okwesabekayo, khona-ke impilo yakhe elandelayo izogcwala izinkathazo kanje:
- Cha: Angase aphazamiseke kungazelelwe emsebenzini wakhe, futhi ngenxa yalokho isimo sakhe sezimali sizokwehla, futhi angase ahluleke ngokuphelele emsebenzini wakhe futhi afinyelele esigabeni sezikweletu nobumpofu.
- Okwesibili: Okunye okukhathaza kakhulu okuhlala ekuphileni komuntu ukugula kanye nokukhubazeka okungokomzimba okuwumphumela azobhekana nakho ekuphileni kwakhe.
- Okwesithathu: Lo myeni angase abe nokuziphatha okuhlanekezelwe, futhi uNkulunkulu uzomjezisa ngakho, futhi uma efuna ukuzivikela esijezisweni sikaNkulunkulu, kufanele aphenduke futhi ayeke lokhu kuziphatha.
- Okwesine: Mhlawumbe uzophatheka kabi ngenxa yesifo esizohlasela omunye wabantwana bakhe, futhi injabulo yendlu yonke iphenduke usizi ngenxa yale nto.
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona umyeni wakhe eshada nowesifazane omubi, futhi ngokuzumayo ukubukeka kwakhe kuguquka ukuze abe muhle futhi izingubo zakhe zibe zinhle, khona-ke uyoletha izindaba ezijabulisayo kumyeni wakhe ngemva kokuphila isikhathi eside sokucindezeleka nobuhlungu, futhi ubuhlungu nokugula kwakhe kuzophela, futhi angase akwazi ukukhokha izikweletu zakhe futhi esikhundleni sempilo yesomiso nobunzima afake umshwalense kanye nokunethezeka.
- Mhlawumbe ukuhunyushwa kwephupho elidlule kuncike esimweni sobuhlobo nomkakhe, njengoba impilo yakhe naye ngaphambili kungenzeka ukuthi yayimbi kakhulu futhi izophenduka ubuhlobo bothando nokuzwana, futhi ngaleyo ndlela bazoqhubeka ndawonye iminyaka eminingi. .
- Noma ubani obona umyeni wakhe eshada ephusheni futhi isimo sakhe somzimba sibi, futhi enqunu, iphupho alichazi nhlobo izinzuzo, kodwa kunalokho lisikisela ukuthi uzowela ekucindezelekeni kanye namahlazo amaningi azomphuca induduzo futhi. ngcolisa igama lakhe phakathi kwabantu.
- Uma umyeni wakhe edansa emshadweni wakhe ephusheni, khona-ke isiphetho sizomfaka ezinkingeni nasezinhlungwini eziningi, ngoba uphawu lomdanso lungenye yezimpawu ezimbi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma umdanso wakhe ungalungile, ungcolile, ungahleliwe futhi uyinqaba.
- Kodwa uma kwenzeka embona eshada futhi edansa ngenjabulo enkulu nenjabulo, khona-ke izimanga ezimnandi eziza kuye empilweni yakhe zizomenza abe sesimweni esihle kakhulu futhi asakaze injabulo enhliziyweni yakhe.
- Lapho ephupha ukuthi umyeni wakhe washada ephusheni futhi ehlabelela izingoma ezimnandi ezigcwele amazwi ashukumisayo, azi ukuthi iphimbo lezwi lakhe lalimnandi futhi limnandi, khona-ke injabulo nezenzakalo ezijabulisayo kuyomenza agxume ngenjabulo ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi. UNkulunkulu angase amnike ukunqoba izimbangi zakhe futhi akwazi ukubanqoba noma angakwazi ukujoyina imigomo yakhe.
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Umfazi wesibili ephusheni owesifazane oshadile
- Uma umphuphi ehlushwa umshado womyeni wakhe ngokoqobo futhi ebona ephusheni ukuthi wamshaya kakhulu umkakhe wesibili, khona-ke iphupho liyicala elibi eligcwele inhliziyo yakhe futhi walithulula ephusheni, ngakho iphupho alinalutho. ngemibono abahumushi nabahumushi abakhuluma ngayo.
- Lapho owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi umkamyeni wakhe ungowesifazane omude obonakala ephile saka, lokhu kubonisa indlela yokuziphilisa eza endodeni, kodwa idinga umzamo omkhulu, isineke nokulandelelwa ukuze ikuthole.
- Kodwa uma ubona ukuthi umkakhe mfushane ngomzimba, khona-ke uzothola ukudla okuningi ngesikhathi esifushane, azi ukuthi le mali ngeke ize kuye ngobunzima nokukhathala, kodwa kunalokho uzoyithola kalula.
- Uma kubonakala ephusheni ukuthi unkosikazi womyeni ubizwa ephusheni (Iman, Manna, Serenity), lawa magama asho izinto ezinhle kanje:
- Cha: Uma eshada nowesifazane othi unokholo, kusho ukuthi uyindoda ekholelwa kuNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke futhi indlela yokukholelwa enkolweni isekelwe ebuntwini bakhe kusukela ebuntwaneni bakhe, futhi uyonikezwa okuhle kakhulu ngenxa yokwethemba nothando lwakhe ngeNkosi. Wemihlaba.
- Okwesibili: Kodwa uma ebona ukuthi ushade nowesifazane ogama lakhe linguMina, khona-ke iphupho libonisa izibusiso eziningi umyeni ayozijabulela, njengemali, ukuvikelwa, nokuthola ukulondeka nokuzinza emshadweni nangokomsebenzi.
- Okwesithathu: Noma ubani obona ukuthi unkosikazi womyeni wakhe ubizwa ngokuthi uSafaa, khona-ke lesi sigameko sichaza ukuziphatha kwakhe nokuhlanzeka kwenhloso yakhe kanye nenhliziyo yakhe kuye, ngakho-ke iphupho alisho ukuthi uzoshada nowesifazane ogama lakhe linje, kodwa incazelo. yesigameko ithathwe enkombeni yegama elalishiwo ephusheni.
Ukubona umyeni eshada nowesifazane wesibili okhulelwe
- Izazi zokutolika zavumelana nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe, ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwe-hormonal kanye nengqondo abhekana nakho ngesikhathi ekhulelwe, uzobona emaphusheni akhe izigcawu eziningi ezilimazayo, njengomyeni wakhe eshada nomunye wesifazane.
- Uma ubona ukuthi umkakhe muhle, khona-ke iphupho liyamthembisa futhi lisikisela ukuzalwa kwakhe kalula.
- Kodwa uma umbona eshada nentombazane ebukeka ihlanzwe futhi ivusa ukwethuka emiphefumulweni, khona-ke lesi sigameko siyisingathekiso sezinhlungu eziningi azobhekana nazo lapho ebeletha, noma iphupho libonisa izifo ezingokomzimba ezingase zimenze angakwazi ukunyakaza, futhi mhlawumbe umbono usakaza ukwesaba enhliziyweni yakhe ngengane yakhe ngenxa yokwesaba ukufa kwayo noma ukulimala.
- Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona umyeni wakhe egubha umshado wakhe ephusheni ngaphakathi kwephathi enkulu yomshado egcwele umsindo futhi abamenyiwe bedansa futhi bejabule, khona-ke inhlekelele ingase yehlele, uNkulunkulu makubenqabe, futhi incazelo yephupho ingase ibhekisele kumphuphi. ngokwakhe, ngakho-ke uzokhononda ngokuphila okumangazayo nezimo zempilo.
- Kukhona izimpawu ezimbi kuleli phupho ezibonisa ukufa komyeni, njengokusabalalisa isinkwa esingenamvubelo ezilalelini, noma ukubonakala komuntu ofile ephusheni onikeza umyeni isudi emhlophe, ngokungafani nalokho okwaziwayo ekuvukeni. ukuthi umkhwenyana ugqoke isudi emnyama.” Lezi zinkomba ziqinisekisa ukuthi ukufa kwakhe sekuseduze, futhi uNkulunkulu wazi kangcono.
Izincazelo ezibaluleke kakhulu ze-20 zokubona umyeni eshada nomkakhe ephusheni
Ngiphuphe umyeni wami eshada no-Ali
- Uma umphuphi ebona umyeni wakhe emshada futhi ebona ekamelweni lakhe langasese imibhede emibili yokulala hhayi umbhede owodwa, azi ukuthi igumbi lakhe empeleni linombhede owodwa kuphela, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umyeni ushadile ngempela, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ushadile. esikhathini esidlule ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe.
- Abanye besifazane bayalibona leli phupho, kuzohunyushwa ukuthi bakhathele ezimpilweni zabo nabayeni babo ngoba kabanakekeli nentshisekelo yabo enkulu emalini yabo nasemsebenzini wabo ukwedlula bona.
- Uma umfazi ebona umyeni wakhe eshada ephusheni, futhi umakoti wayengumkakhe womfowabo empeleni, khona-ke iphupho libonisa ubuhlobo obuqinile phakathi komyeni nomfowabo, futhi bayasizana ngezikhathi zobunzima.
- Abanye abahumushi bathi iphupho langaphambili kwesinye isikhathi liveza ukuthi ubudlelwano phakathi komyeni nomfowabo bubi kakhulu, futhi lokhu kungumyalezo ovela kuNkulunkulu okufanele kulungiswe lokho okonakele ebudlelwaneni babo ukuze babuye futhi bazobhekana nakho. omunye nomunye ngothando nangokuzithiba.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umyeni wami eshada no-Ali ngisakhala
Ngokubonakala kophawu lokukhala ephusheni ngomshado womyeni, iphupho lizochaza kanje:
- Lapho ezibona ekhala engazange akhiphe imisindo ephazamisayo njengokuklabalasa nokubalisa, umbono ngaleso sikhathi uyathembisa futhi uveza ukushabalala kosizi lwakhe nokuphuma kwelanga kwenjabulo nothando emzini wakhe.Umona owawuhlanekezela umshado wakhe, kodwa uNkulunkulu. angafunga kuye ukuphulukisa kukho.
- Uma kwenzeka umfazi ekhala futhi ekhala kakhulu ephusheni, iphupho libonisa izilingo empilweni yakhe yomuntu siqu noma yomshado, noma kokubili.
- Iphupho lapho umuntu ebona ukukhala ngokushaya ubuso noma ukuklebhula izingubo akunconywa, ngoba lokhu kubonisa izinhlekelele ezibuhlungu ezizohlupha ikhaya lakhe lonke.
Ngiphuphe umyeni wami eshada no-Ali ngisacindezelwe
- Umfazi ongajabulile unomyeni wakhe ekuvukeni kwempilo ngenxa yokumkhaphela kanye nomuzwa wokuthotshiswa naye.Uzobona izigcawu ezinjalo ephusheni futhi kuyoba isingathekiso sokudabuka kwakhe okukhulu kanye nesifiso sakhe sokuguqula kuye, kodwa akayazi indlela ekahle yokufeza lokhu.
- Futhi, iphupho lembula isikhwele se-pathological somphuphi kumyeni wakhe, futhi kwaziwa kahle ukuthi umona omkhulu phakathi kwabashadile uzokwenza ukuphila phakathi kwabo kube buhlungu futhi kugcwele izingxabano ngoba kuzoholela kokubili izinsolo, futhi ngaleyo ndlela impilo izoba. wonakala ngenxa yokungathembani phakathi kwabo.
- Uma ebona ukuthi ushade nozakwabo wesifazane noma umphathi emsebenzini, khona-ke iphupho lilungile ukuthi impilo yakhe yobungcweti izoba ngcono, futhi angase afinyelele isikhundla esiphakeme emsebenzini maduzane ngenxa yokuphikelela nokuzibophezela kwakhe emiyalweni yomsebenzi edingekayo umsebenzi wakhe.
- Noma ubani ophupha leli phupho elesabekayo kanye nobudlelwano bakhe nomyeni wakhe empeleni bugcwele uthando nokuzithiba. Lowo onesibopho sokuba abone lesi sigameko ngusathane ngenhloso yokuqeda ukwethembana phakathi kwabo futhi asebenze ukumosha ubudlelwano kanye nesehlo. yesahlukaniso, uNkulunkulu akakuvumeli.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umyeni wami eshada nentombi yami
- Uma lo mngane engashadile empilweni evukayo, lowo ophuphayo angase ezwe ngomshado wakhe.
- Futhi uma eshadile nomama wamadodakazi angashadile, khona-ke lesi sigameko sinezibikezelo kuye ukuthi amadodakazi akhe azoshada maduze, futhi uma umphuphi ngokwakhe engumama wamadodakazi aneminyaka yobudala yokushada, nawo angashada.
- Kodwa uma umngane womphuphi engashadile futhi ebonakala eshada nomyeni wakhe ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kuyizinsolo ezigcwalisa inhliziyo yomphuphi kubo bonke abaseduze naye, ngakho-ke akathembi muntu, ngisho nabantu abaseduze kakhulu naye, futhi uzophila ngokwesaba okuningi.
- Mhlawumbe umngane womphuphi ungomunye wabantu abangabazenzisi ababonisa uthando lwamanga kwabanye, futhi lokhu kuzobonakala ngokuguqulwa kwefomu lakhe lisuka kowesifazane libe yinyoka bese kuqedwa umshado nomyeni womboni ephusheni. futhi ungathanda ukushada naye ephapheme.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umyeni wami eshada nosisi wami oshadile
- Isimo simnandi, uma lowo dade esheshe washada noma wayefuna ukukhulelwa isikhathi eside, kodwa uNkulunkulu akazange afune ukuthi athole abantwana ezinsukwini ezedlule, khona-ke uzozwa izindaba zokukhulelwa kwakhe.
- Iphupho lingase lembule ukukhulelwa okuseduze komphuphi nodadewabo ngesikhathi esifanayo, futhi udade angase abelethe ingane efana nomyeni wombonisi kwezinye izici zomuntu siqu noma ezisemthethweni.
- Indawo lapho umshado owenzeke khona ichazwa ngezindlela eziningi. Uma emshada ehholo elivulekile eligcwele izitshalo eziluhlaza, ubuhle kanye nokuziphilisa kuzofika kumphuphi kanye nodadewabo, futhi bangase bagubhe umcimbi ojabulisayo emndenini wabo ngaphandle kwalokho. ukukhulelwa okukhulunywe ngakho ngenhla.
- Uma udadewabo womphuphi engumfelokazi noma ehlukanisile, futhi efakaza ukuthi ushada nomyeni wakhe, khona-ke umkhwenyana angase amcele ngomyeni womboni, futhi uzoshada naye, uNkulunkulu ethanda.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona umyeni nomunye wesifazane ephusheni
- Lapho umfazi ebona umyeni wakhe ephusheni elala nonina, udadewabo, noma omunye wesifazane ovela emndenini, iphupho libonisa ubuhlobo obuhle phakathi kwabo, futhi ikakhulukazi uma umyeni ephikisana nodadewabo eqinisweni, ukungaboni ngaso linye okwakuphakathi kwabo kuzophela futhi inyunyana izoqhubeka.
- Abanye otolika bathi ukubona umyeni ephusheni ocansini nonina kukhomba ukuthi uzohambela izwe ngenhloso yokuqoqa imali futhi anikeze unkosikazi nezingane impilo ehloniphekile, leli phupho lingase lisho ukuthi uthembekile. kunina, futhi leyo nto iyamjabulisa kakhulu.
- UMiller uthe uma unkosikazi ebona umyeni wakhe ezitika ngocansi nowesifazane wezihlobo zakhe, leli phupho likhombisa ukususwa kwakhe esikhundleni sakhe kanye nokulahlekelwa yimali yakhe eningi.
- U-Al-Nabulsi uthe uma umyeni ebonakala ephusheni eshada nowesifazane oshonile ovela ezweni elihlukile kwelakubo, uzohambela kuleli zwe maduze ukuze ayofuna umsebenzi.
- Kodwa uma embona ehlezi nowesifazane ongaziwa futhi omuhle, futhi bekhona endaweni ethule egcwele izimbali nezitshalo, khona-ke iphupho libonisa injabulo ezofika kuye ekuphileni kwakhe komshado, noma ukuthi umyeni ungena kuchwepheshe omusha. isigaba esizomenza aphile ngokuchuma nokuchuma.
Ngiphuphe umyeni wami eshada no-Ali, okuwukuphela kwakhe engimaziyo
- Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi umyeni wakhe ushade ephusheni owesifazane amazi ngesikhathi ephapheme futhi wakha indlu entsha ukuze ahlale nomkakhe omusha kuyo, khona-ke iphupho libi kakhulu futhi lixwayisa ukuthi useshade nomunye wesifazane. , ngoba osomthetho basho izinkomba eziningi eziveza umshado womyeni ngokweqiniso, okuyilezi ezilandelayo:
- Cha: Uma umkakhe embona akha umuzi endaweni ehlukile kunalapho ehlala khona.
- Okwesibili: Uma umbona egqoke izindandatho ezimbili phezu komunye, ikakhulukazi esandleni sobunxele, hhayi kwesokudla, ngoba isandla sobunxele sikhombisa umshado, kanti isandla sokudla sibonisa umshado.
- Okwesithathu: Uma umuntu ophuphayo ebona umbhede wakhe ufakwe impahla ehluke ngokuphelele kunaleyo engowakhe.
- Okwesine: Uma uphupha unyawo lwakhe lunenkinga futhi luhamba ngalo nge-diagonal okusho ukuthi ubekhubazekile ephusheni.
- Okwesihlanu: Uma embona egqoke amasudi amabili noma izicathulo ezimbili phezu kwesinye, kusho ukuthi ushade nomunye wesifazane.
- Okwesithupha: Futhi uma embona egqoke izicucu ezine zezingubo zangaphansi, kusho ukuthi ushade nabesifazane abane empilweni evukayo.
- Okwesikhombisa: Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi umyeni wakhe uphuza uju olumhlophe nowesifazane amazi ngokoqobo, futhi lapho embuza ngesimo sobudlelwane phakathi kwabo, wamphendula ukuthi wamshada, khona-ke iphupho libonisa umshado wakhe kulo wesifazane. empeleni, futhi uNkulunkulu wazi kangcono.
Kuthiwani uma ngiphupha umyeni wami engikhohlisa?
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhashelwa komyeni ephusheni kusho ukuthi uzohlupheka ngenxa yokulahlekelwa isithunzi negunya, futhi uzolahlekelwa yimali yakhe.Ukukopela umyeni ephusheni kungase kubonise izono zakhe eziningi empilweni yakhe. Iphupho alisho ngempela ukuphinga, kodwa lingahunyushwa ngokuthi imali engavunyelwe, ukucindezela abantu, ukuqapha izimpilo zabo ukuze baveze izimfihlo zabo futhi balimaza abanye. isikhathi ngenxa yokuhamba kwakhe phesheya eyofuna imali.
Kodwa uma umphuphi ebona umyeni wakhe emkhohlisa nowesifazane othakazelisayo, khona-ke iphupho lihle futhi asikho isidingo sokusaba ngoba lisikisela ukuthi bazohlala kude nezinkinga futhi bajabulele imali nenjabulo.
Lithini incazelo yephupho umyeni wami eshada futhi enendodana?
Umbono uqukethe izinkomba ezimbi ezixwayisa ophuphileyo ukuthi umyeni wakhe uzophathwa ngokulimala okuthile, ukuntengantenga kwezimali, nobuhlungu bomzimba.Abahumushi baye bachaza ukuthi ukubonakala kwengane wesilisa ephusheni akubonisi nhlobo ubuhle, futhi ngaphezulu kwalokho. kubi noma kuyagula ukubukeka kwakhe, kulapho iphupho likhombisa khona izinhlekelele noma isitha esiqamekele umyeni sifuna ukumhlasela simthelele ngobubi.
Lithini incazelo yephupho lomyeni wami eshada nodadewethu?
Abanye otolika bahumushe isigameko ngokuthi umyeni womphuphi unobudlelwane obuqinile nomndeni wakhe, futhi kukhona uthando nokuthembana phakathi kwabo, iphupho elilapha alihunyushwa ngokuthi liyingozi, inqobo nje uma umphuphi engacasuki ephusheni futhi aqale athatheke emoyeni ahayize ngenxa yobunzima bokushaqeka.Nokho-ke abanye abahumushi bathi incazelo yegama likadadewabo kaphuphi iyona nto egxile kakhulu embonweni, okusho ukuthi uma kuthiwa Libizwa ngeJihad.Iphupho likhombisa ukuthi umyeni wakhe ukuphila akulula, njengoba esebenza kanzima ngenjongo yokubanikeza ukuphila okuhloniphekile, ngakho-ke wenza umzamo omkhulu namandla emsebenzini wakhe ukuze umkakhe nezingane bazizwe belondekile futhi behlanganisiwe.
