Izincazelo ezingaphezu kuka-30 zephupho lokungena esitolo sezingubo zabesifazane abangashadile ngu-Ibn Sirin

Amaphupho emaphusheni amantombazane ayahlukahluka, okubenza badideke, futhi baqala ukufuna ezinye izincazelo zabo.Namuhla, sethula izincazelo zezazi mayelana nombono wokungena esitolo sezingubo zabesifazane abangashadile, okwahunyushwa ngezindlela eziningana. , esizoyicacisa sonke emigqeni ezayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokungena esitolo sezingubo zabesifazane abangashadile

• Lo mbono ubhekwa njengenye yemibono encomekayo ebonisa ukuthi umbonisi uzothola okuhle nokudla okuchichimayo empilweni yakhe.” Nokho, incazelo iyahluka ngokwesimo sengqondo nenhlalo yomphuphi, ngokuvumelana nencazelo yezazi nabahumushi abadumile:
• Umbono uwubufakazi bokushintsha kwezimo, ukungena esigabeni esisha empilweni yakhe, futhi lolu shintsho lungaba ukuthatha umsebenzi obalulekile futhi aqale umsebenzi wakhe, noma ukukhushulwa emsebenzini wakhe wamanje, noma impumelelo ezifundweni.
• Umbono wakhe wesitolo esisezingeni eliphezulu esiveza izingubo ezibizayo uwubufakazi bokuthuthuka nenqubekela phambili ekuphileni kwakhe okulandelayo, nokuthi ungumuntu onesifiso sokuvelela ohlale elwela ukufinyelela okungcono kakhulu kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwakhe.
• Kwashiwo futhi ekuchazeni lo mbono ukuthi uma intombazane iya esitolo ijabule, lokhu kwakuyinkomba yokugcwaliseka kwesifiso esingaphakathi kuyo, ukuthi leso sifiso sihlobene yini nobuhlobo nomuntu omthandayo, noma ukuba nomsebenzi ophakeme, ngakho-ke wayefuna ukuzishintsha.    

Ngiphuphe ngisesitolo sezingubo, lichaza ukuthini leliphupho?

• Ukubona isitolo sezingubo ephusheni kwahunyushwa njengobufakazi bokuziphilisa ngokuchichimayo, futhi izingubo ezibizayo zibonisa isifiso sentombazane sokushintsha impilo yayo ibe ngcono.
• Kodwa uma ebona phambi kwezingubo zakhe ezingamfanele, khona-ke uzohlanganiswa nomuntu ongafanele futhi akukho okulingana phakathi kwabo, ezingeni lezenhlalakahle noma lezemfundo, futhi kungcono ukuthi aqede lobo buhlobo. ngaphambi kokungena esigabeni somshado.

• Futhi lombono ngowowesifazane oshadile izindaba ezinhle, njengoba maduze nje ezothola ukuziphilisa, futhi uyojabula ngothando nenhlonipho yomyeni wakhe ngaye, futhi uma enabantwana, khona-ke uyothola izibusiso zabo ngaye futhi umyeni wakhe.
• Kodwa uma ehlushwa ukubambezeleka kokubeletha, ngokushesha uzokhulelwa, futhi ukuphila kwakhe kuyoba ngcono kunakuqala.
• Ngokuqondene nentombazane ezibona ingaphakathi esitolo sezimpahla zokugqoka futhi ikhetha izingubo ezinhle, intombazane enegama elihle nokuziphatha okuhle. Okwenza abashadikazi abaningi baphakamise ukucela isandla sakhe, futhi ukukhetha kwakhe phakathi kwezingubo kuyinkomba yokudideka kwakhe ekukhetheni umlingani wokuphila, njengoba ngamunye wabo enezimfanelo ezinhle ezimenza afaneleke ukumshada.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesitolo sezingubo zabesifazane abangashadile

Isitolo sezingubo ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile sahunyushwa ngamaphuzu amaningana, kuye ngokuthi kwenzekani empeleni. Njengoba intombazane ingena ezitolo zezingubo, empeleni, ukuze ikhethe ezifanele yona ngenkathi izoshada, futhi kusukela kulo mbono, sifunda ngezincazelo ezatholwa mayelana nombono wayo.

• Uma intombazane engashadile ibonakala ithukile noma ididekile ephusheni layo, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa, eqinisweni, ukungabaza okukhulu lapho enikezwa ukukhetha phakathi kwabantu abangaphezu koyedwa ukuthi ahlanganyele naye, kodwa ekugcineni uzoxazulula okufanelekile kakhulu kuye. phakathi kwalezi.
• Uma owesifazane ongashadile esezinhlelweni zokukhetha imibala ehlukene ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukugqwesa kwezemfundo nokuthola amamaki aphezulu uma esesigabeni sokufunda.
• Kodwa uma owesifazane esekhulile ngeminyaka yokushada, ukungena esitolo futhi akhethe izingubo eziningi kungase kubonise ukuthi uzothola indoda efanelekayo ayochitha nayo ukuphila kwakhe konke ngenjabulo, nokuthi iyothatha indawo yakhe ngenxa yalokho osekwenzekile ekuphileni kwakhe. .

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuthenga izingubo zabesifazane abangashadile

• Leliphupho lisho ukuthi umboni usendleleni eya emshadweni, noma ngabe lezo zingubo zimhlophe, umbala omhlophe ukhombisa ubumsulwa bakhe negama elihle, futhi uzobusiswa ngokuningi okuhle, futhi uzokujabulela ukunxephezela. iNkosi - uMninimandla onke - kukho konke okudlulile.
• Abanye otolika baphinde basho ukuthi lo mbono usho ukuthi uthola ukwazi amantombazane amasha angena empilweni yakhe, futhi amthonya kakhulu futhi abe qotho kuye futhi alondoloze ubungane bawo naye.
• Uma intombazane ikhetha izingubo ezifanele umsebenzi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi maduze izowuthola lowo msebenzi.Ososayensi baye babona ukuthi iningi lemibono namaphupho kuwumphumela wezinye izifiso ezitholakala emiqondweni yethu enganakile, ezibonakala ngokucacile phambi kwamehlo ethu ngesikhathi sethu. lala.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi igqoke ama-pajamas, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokucabanga kwakhe njalo ngomshado, nokuthi isifiso sakhe sizogcwaliseka maduzane, nokuthi uzoba nomyeni ofanele.
• Ukugqoka izingubo ezibizayo kukhomba ukuthi usondelene nendoda esezingeni eliphezulu futhi eyaziwa ngokuziphatha kahle nedumela elihle.

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Iyini incazelo yephupho lika-Ibn Sirin mayelana nesitolo sezingubo?

U-Imam Ibn Sirin uhumushe iphupho lokungena esitolo sezingubo zabesifazane abangashadile ngezindlela eziningi, okuhlanganisa:

• Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona isitolo esithengisa izingubo ezishibhile ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuziphatha okubi.
• Kodwa uma izingubo zibiza, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa, ngokombono we-imam, ukuthi uzobhekana nokukhathazeka nezinkathazo, nokuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga ezithile okufanele azinqobe ngokushesha ukuze zingavimbeli ikusasa lakhe.
• Uma izintengo zesitolo sezingubo zazinengqondo, khona-ke umbono wawuhunyushwa njengenkomba yokuzinza kwengqondo lowo umboni wemibono ayeyoba nakho ezinsukwini zakhe ezizayo.
• Uma izingubo ezingaphakathi kwesitolo zazinombala omhlophe omsulwa, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa, ngokombono kaSheikh Ibn Sirin, ukuthi maduze uzothola umyeni ofanelekayo kuye, noma ukuthi unegama elihle nokuziphatha okuhle.

Ukuhunyushwa kombono wesitolo sezingubo sikaNabulsi

Lo mbono wahunyushwa, ngokombono kaSheikh Nabulsi, ngezindlela eziningana:

• Uma owesifazane embona ephusheni lakhe, futhi ebonakala njengomxhumanisi ohlelwe kahle, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi unamandla okunqoba ubunzima, futhi unamandla amahle okwenza indlela yakhe yokuphila ibe ngcono, futhi uma owesifazane ushadile, lokhu kukhombisa ukuzinza kwempilo yakhe kanye nokuhlelwa kwezindaba zomndeni wakhe.
• Ngokuqondene uma izingubo esitolo zingahlelwanga, futhi zibekwe ngokungahleliwe, khona-ke u-Al-Nabulsi wabonisa ukuthi lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umboni wemibono naye ungumuntu ongahlanzekile empilweni yakhe, futhi akakwazi ukwenza isinqumo esiwujuqu ngesikhathi esifanele. ngoba akanalo ikhono lokuhlela imibono emenza athathe Lesi sinqumo.

Isitolo sezingubo ephusheni owesifazane oshadile

• Uma owesifazane oshadile eya esitolo eyothenga futhi engatholi lutho kukho, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ubuhlobo obuqinile phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe nokuthi impilo phakathi kwabo ayizinzile ngenxa yokuhlukana kwakhe naye kanye nokunganaki kwakhe ukuba khona kwakhe phakathi kwakhe. Noma kunjalo, abanye abahumushi baveze ukuthi leli phupho liyisixwayiso kunkosikazi ukuthi avuselele impilo yakhe aze abuyele kuye.
• Isitolo esingenalutho singase sibe uphawu lokuthi abekho abantwana, nokuthi uNkulunkulu akakambusisi ngenzalo, okwagcina kuholele esithukuthelweni nasekuhlukaniseni kwakhe, okwakhulisa ibanga phakathi kwabashadile.
• Kodwa uma engena esitolo sezingubo ezigcwele zonke izinhlobo zezingubo, emi futhi ezindla ngazo edidekile aze angayitholi efanelekayo phakathi kwalezi zingubo, khona-ke izazi zachaza lokhu njengokukhaphela ukuthi umfazi uthola endodeni yakhe, futhi. ubuningi bezigigaba zakhe zabesifazane, ezazimelelwe ngenani elikhulu lezingubo ephusheni, nokuthi lokhu kwamxaka Ubufakazi bokucabanga okujulile emzamweni wowesifazane oshadile wokulondoloza ikhaya lakhe.

Isitolo sezingubo ephusheni owesifazane okhulelwe

• Uma ebona isitolo sezingubo ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke ngokuvamile kubonisa uhlobo lomntwana ozoba nalo maduzane.Uma engena esitolo futhi ethenga izingubo zezingane, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzoba nomntwana wesilisa, futhi uma kuyizingubo zowesifazane, UNkulunkulu uzombusisa ngowesifazane.
• Ezinye izazi ezishiwo ephusheni lokuthenga owesifazane okhulelwe: ukuthi uma ethenga ijazi, khona-ke leli jazi liwubufakazi bokuba nomntwana wesilisa, futhi uma kwakuyizingubo ezintsha nezihlukahlukene, lokho kwakuwuphawu lokuba nentombazane.
• Kunoma yikuphi, lokhu kungomunye wemibono encomekayo, njengoba kuwubufakazi bokuthi ujabulela ukuphila okuchichimayo nokuphila kahle ngemva kokubeletha, ukwenza kube lula ukubeletha, nokubeletha ingane enempilo nenempilo, uNkulunkulu ethanda.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesitolo sezingubo ephusheni lowesifazane ohlukanisile

• Izazi eziningi zachaza leli phupho njengesinxephezelo sempilo yakhe yangaphambili edabukisayo ezophela futhi ithathelwe indawo impilo entsha egcwele injabulo, injabulo nokuzinza komndeni.
• Futhi uma engena esitolo esingenalutho ngaphandle kwezingubo, lokhu kubonisa isifiso sakhe sokuzihlanganisa nomuntu, kodwa ngeke akwazi ngenxa yebanga eliphakathi kwabo ebuntwini okuzoba nzima ukuhlangana ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa.
• Uma ebona ephusheni ukuthi usesitolo sezingubo, kodwa zonke izingubo ezikuso zimnyama, kusho usizi olumphethe ngenxa yempatho embi ayithola emphakathini emzungezile. yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokungena esitolo sezingubo

• Uma umboni eyindoda ehlukanisile noma engashadile, khona-ke umbono wakhe ubonisa ukuthi uzothola umfazi omehlo akhe azokwaziwa nguye, futhi uma lesi sitolo sithengisa izingubo zikanokusho, ezibizayo, khona-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lwezinga eliphezulu nesimo umkakhe wesikhathi esizayo, njengoba engowomndeni wodumo negunya.
• Ezinye izazi nazo zathinta ukuhunyushwa kombono ofanayo ngomuntu uma egula, njengensindiso nokwelulama ngokushesha, noma ukuthi imali eningi yayizofika kuye uma ehlushwa ubunzima bezezimali, futhi uma ecebile, ingcebo yakhe. izokwanda.
• Kodwa uma isitolo asibona ephusheni lakhe singenalo lutho, khona-ke kuwukubonakaliswa kokulahlekelwa yimali yakhe uma enebhizinisi noma ibhizinisi elizimele, noma ehlushwa ezinye izinkathazo noma izifo uma empofu empeleni.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesitolo sezingubo zezingane

• Ukumbona ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuhle okuzofika kumboni esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, futhi uma lowo onombono eshadile, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi uNkulunkulu (uMninimandla onke) uzomnikeza inzalo elungile.
• Kodwa uma umbonisi engowesifazane okhulelwe, leli phupho libonisa uhlobo lwengane yakhe ezayo.Uma isitolo sithengisa izingubo zabafana, khona-ke uzoba nomntwana wesilisa, kodwa uma ebona ukuthi uthenga izingubo zamantombazane kuye, khona-ke uyowangenisa amehlo akhe kumntwana wesifazane, futhi uyoba muhle.
• Umbono wesifazane oshadile ungase ube ubufakazi bokuthi umyeni wakhe uzothola ukukhushulwa emsebenzini wakhe, noma impumelelo kwelinye lamaphrojekthi awenzayo, futhi izinga lakhe lomphakathi lizophakama; Lapho ehlala khona impilo ewubukhazikhazi emuva kokuthi phambilini ehlushwa wubunzima.
• Mayelana nentombazane engena izothengela izingane izingubo nemibala yazo yayigqamile, lokhu kuwubufakazi benjabulo ezotholwa yile ntombazane esikhathini esizayo.
• Izingubo zezingane zibuye zibonise ukuthi owesifazane ongashadile ubonakala ngobumsulwa bakhe nokuthi usebenzelana nabantu ngendlela yakhe engokwemvelo, futhi angase awele ezinkingeni eziningi ngenxa yobumsulwa bakhe nomusa wenhliziyo yakhe, okwenza abanye abantu abanonya bazame ukumxhaphaza. ukuze kuzuze bona. Ngakho-ke, kufanele aqaphele abaseduze kwakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nezingubo phansi

• Uma izingubo zibekwe phansi ngendlela ehlelekile, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuphumelela empilweni noma ekufundeni.
• Ngokuqondene nokuyibona esimweni esibucayi nesingavamile, lokhu kubonisa isiphithiphithi esichaza impilo yomboni, futhi kungase kubonise ukonakala kwesimo somboni kanye nesidingo sakhe sokuhlela kabusha impilo yakhe futhi.
• Izingubo ezingcolile ezilele phansi ziwuphawu lokuziphatha okubi.
• Ngokuqondene nezinqwaba zezingubo ezihlanzekile noma ezimhlophe, ezibekwe phansi ephusheni, kubonisa ukuhlanzeka kwezinhloso nokuziphatha okuhle okubukwayo umbonisi.
• Ngokuqondene nezingubo ezibomvu ezilele phansi, zinezincazelo ezinhle emaphusheni abesifazane kuphela.Ngokuqondene namadoda, anezincazelo ezimbi, njengoba zibonisa ukuthi indoda yenza izono eziningi nokungalaleli.