Ukutuswa nothando
Ukutuseka kuyisiqalo sobudlelwane bothando, futhi kunendlela engaphezu kweyodwa kanye nesiteji ngokweminyaka yabantu.Isibonelo, ukutuseka ebuntwaneni nasebusheni kuza ngokubukeka, ukumamatheka, nokudonsa amehlo mayelana nokuzola, ukuhluzeka kwengqondo. , kanye nomehluko kwabanye abantu Ngokubukisisa ngokujulile ubuntu nokusondelana kwesimilo, futhi nokubukeka kunesici esibalulekile, njengoba kunikeza ukwamukelwa ekuqaleni, kodwa ekugcineni kungenye yamaphuzu nezisekelo eziningi.Incazelo ukutuswa umuzwa ofika ngokushesha ngaphandle kokubheka izibalo nokubukeka okujulile, futhi kungenxa yokuba khona kwezimilo noma izici ezithile umuntu azithandayo.
Uyini umehluko phakathi kokuthanda nothando?
Okokuqala: ngokwemihlatshelo
-Uma ethandiwe Uzithola usufuna ukuzidela ngenxa yalowo omthandayo, futhi unomuzwa walokho, kodwa lapho uzibeka esimweni, ukuziphatha kwakho kubuyele emuva, futhi uzithole usuhamba futhi ubeke izaba ukuze ungakwenzi. umhlatshelo, bese uqala ukucabanga ngemiphumela yaleyo mvume nemihlatshelo, bese uzibuza ukuthi kungani ngihlabela yena engakwenzi, nezinto ezinjalo.
- Endabeni yothando Uzithola usulungele ukudela konke onakho nakho konke okuthandayo ukuze uthole injabulo yomlingani wakho noma enye ingxenye yakho, futhi ungangabazi umzuzwana kulokho, futhi konke okuthatha ingqondo yakho ngaleso sikhathi ukubona ukumamatheka nokumamatheka. injabulo ebusweni balowo omthandayo, njengoba uzofika esigabeni sokuzidela ungakuceli lutho.
Okwesibili: mayelana nokuthethelela
- Uma uthanda Ngeke ubekezele ngezinga elidingekayo, ngoba uzocabanga ngezinto ezimbalwa, njengokuthi ngizokuthethelela isikhathi esingakanani, futhi inhliziyo yakho izoqala ukukuhlebela ukuthi ungaxoleli kalula, futhi uzokhumbula izinto ezindala ebudlelwaneni, futhi ngamafuphi, uzozwa ubuhlungu benhliziyo uma uthethelela lowo omthandayo.
- Endabeni yothando Lokhu kulula kakhulu njengoba uhlezi ubona isithandwa sakho siyingelosi asilokothi silenze iphutha, uma enze iphutha uqale umthethelele umxolele amaphutha aso bese ephunyula ngokukhulu ukukhululeka yize kuwukuthi okuphambene nemvelo yakho.Futhi kuyakuphoqa ukuthi wenze ngokuphambene nemvelo yakho
Okwesithathu: mayelana nokuvuleka
- Uma uthanda Awusoze waba nenkinga yokutshela umuntu omthandayo ngakho konke, njengoba ungenandaba nesithombe azosithatha nawe kakhulu, kusukela ekuqaleni kobudlelwane ukhuluma ngokuzenzakalelayo nangokuzenzakalelayo ngaphandle kokubeka imingcele, ngakho-ke gcina usesigabeni sokuthakaselwa
- Endabeni yothando Uzozizwa unamahloni ukudalula izimfihlo zakho noma uveze yonke into ngoba usaba ukuthi lokhu kuzophazamisa ubudlelwano ngoba usuthandane nomuntu futhi awufuni lutho oluzophazamisa lolu thando kanye nale mizwa ongafuni ukuthi ikulahlekele.
Okwesine: Izenzo zakho zimbi kakhulu
- Uma uthanda Ngeke ube namahloni okumtshela ukuthi ukhathele futhi uvele ukhononde futhi ungabeki imingcele ngaleso sikhathi noma umtshele ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukudela ngaye ekubeni usesimweni esibi kakhulu.
- Endabeni yothando Noma usesimeni sakho esibi kakhulu ngeke ukwazi ukukudalula, ngoba uncamela imfihlo futhi uzenze uqine phambi kwalowo omthandayo, futhi ngeke usho nelilodwa izwi ngokukhathala kwakho, ubuhlungu, kanye nobuhlungu bakho. ukudabuka, njengoba ufuna ukubonakala uhlangene njalo phambi kwakhe futhi uzihlobise ngokuthula ngaphandle kokumenza azizwe noma yini ephambene.
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ngiyayithanda
Ahmed FahmyEminyakeni engu-5 edlule
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OkuqukethweEminyakeni engu-5 edlule
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ngaphandleEminyakeni engu-5 edlule
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NoorEminyakeni engu-5 edlule
Ngithanda oyedwa kuphela, Nkosi yami
Dadewethu, yesaba uNkulunkuluEminyakeni engu-4 edlule
Bravo, uqinisile
akwaziwaEminyakeni engu-4 edlule
Lokhu kuyiqiniso, ngoNkulunkulu, sithandwa sami
Ahmed BaniEminyakeni engu-5 edlule
جميل
AminaEminyakeni engu-5 edlule
Mayelana nobusha
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engizungezile uthando
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