Iyini incazelo yamatamatisi ephusheni lika-Ibn Sirin?

Utamatisi uwuhlobo lwemifino ethandwa kakhulu emhlabeni, futhi usetshenziswa kaningi emibaleni yokudla emiphakathini namasiko ahlukene.Uyawathenga noma awavune endaweni yokulima, noma aze adayise futhi awabe, futhi iphupho ngalinye linendlela ehlukile. ukutolika komunye, futhi sizokuklelisa zona ngokuningiliziwe emigqeni ezayo.

Ukubona utamatisi ephusheni

• Umuntu ogulayo nokugula uzibona edla utamatisi ephusheni, kanti wawumnandi, uNkulunkulu uzomphulukisa ekuguleni kwakhe.  
• Utamatisi abonakala ethambile ephusheni anezincazelo ezimbi, njengoba asho umholo ongekho emthethweni, imali enonya, noma ukulahlekelwa inzuzo.
• Ukusika utamatisi kuwuphawu lwezinkinga empilweni yomphuphi.
• Kanye nalowo ongathola utamatisi, kodwa ngemva kokuwathatha esihlahleni sabo, uzokwazi ukufeza umgomo wakhe ngemva kokusebenza kanzima.
• Utamatisi ophekwe futhi olungiselelwe emlilweni ephusheni muhle futhi uyisixazululo sezinkinga.  

Iyini incazelo yokuthenga utamatisi ephusheni?

• Noma ubani ozibona ethenga utamatisi ephusheni lakhe, kanti lawa matamatisi ayebolile, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi lo muntu uzoqhubekela phambili nezinqumo eziningi ezizomlethela inkinga.
• Ukuze umuntu athenge utamatisi ephusheni ngokuvamile kuwubufakazi bokuziphilisa okuhle nokuchichimayo.
• Umuntu othenga utamatisi ephusheni ngentengo eshibhile ubonisa amandla kanye nokuchuma ngokwezimali lo muntu azobhekana nakho.
• Futhi, ukuthenga utamatisi ngentengo ephezulu kuwubufakazi bokuthi akulula ukufeza imigomo umuntu ayifunayo nafuna ukuyifinyelela.
• Ukuthenga utamatisi nakho kubonisa ikhono lomuntu lokufeza imigomo nezifiso zakhe futhi anqobe izithiyo.
• Noma ubani othenga utamatisi oluhlaza ephusheni lakhe, ungomunye walabo abenza izinqumo ngokuxhamazela futhi ngaphandle kokunciphisa ijubane noma ukucabanga kancane.
• Kuye kwathiwa futhi utamatisi oluhlaza ephusheni kuwubufakazi bomshado wokuqala.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana notamatisi ngu-Ibn Sirin

Abaningi bethu baphupha ngemibono eyahlukene ehlobene notamatisi, njengokubona utamatisi ephusheni bese uwuthenga noma uwukha esihlahleni bese uwapheka.Yonke le mininingwane ebalulekile sizofisa ukuyibonisa kuyo Indawo ekhethekile yaseGibhitheKuyaphawuleka ukuthi u-Ibn Sirin no-Al-Nabulsi bavumelana ngezincazelo eziningana ezihlobene nokubona utamatisi ephusheni, okumi kanje:

• Uma isoka libona utamatisi omusha ephusheni lalo, umbono uyoba mnene futhi ubonisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu uzomnika umfazi omuhle obonakala ngezici eziningana izinsizwa eziningi ezifisayo, njengalezi ezilandelayo; Uzalo lwakhe luyoba lukhulu, okungukuthi, uyoba yingxenye yomkhaya onegama elihle nedumela elihle phakathi kwabantu, futhi ukuziphatha kwakhe kuyoba okumangalisayo, ngemva kwalokho uyobe ekufanelekela ukuba inkosikazi ekahle esikhathini esizayo.

Ngakho-ke, laba babhali ababili babonisa into ebalulekile, okungukuthi isimo sikatamatisi ephusheni sizochaza isimo somfazi womphuphi ekuvukeni kokuphila, futhi uma utamatisi ubonakala ephusheni futhi wawungenakudliwa noma unuka kabi, khona-ke. lesi sigcawu sizoba sibi futhi singasho ukuthi umkakhe wesikhathi esizayo ngeke ahlukaniseke ngendlela ayefisa ngayo futhi enenombolo Kungesinye sezici ezimbi okufanele zilungiswe ukuze angazisoli ngokushada kwakhe naye.

• Uma umuntu ophuphayo eshaywe utamatisi ephusheni, lesi sigameko sinencazelo ephindwe kabili ngomqondo wokuthi lowo ophuphayo angaba nobudlelwano obuhle nalo muntu omshaye ngotamatisi ephusheni, bese kuba nencazelo yephupho. uzoba mnene, futhi kusho ukuthi uzothola izinzuzo eziningi nezinto ezinhle kulo muntu.

Futhi uma eshaywe yisitha sakhe ephusheni, khona-ke umbono ubonisa ukuthi uzolinyazwa nguye ngokushesha, ngakho-ke incazelo izogcwala ububi, futhi uma ezwa ubuhlungu ephusheni ngenxa yalokhu kushaywa, khona-ke lokhu kukhombisa ukukhathazeka nosizi.

• Kungcono umphuphi ephusheni asebenzise utamatisi ekuphekeni noma ekudleni ngokuqondile, ngoba uma ebona ukuthi udlala nabo ephusheni, umbono uzoba ongcolile futhi ubonisa izimpawu ezintathu ezimbi, futhi zimi kanje:

Okokuqala: Imali iyisibusiso esikhulu uNkulunkulu asiphe umuntu, futhi ukuze ihlale isikhathi eside, kumele siyivikele ekugqilazweni, kodwa ngeshwa lowo ophuphayo ebona lowo mbono wangaphambili ephusheni lakhe uzobe engomunye wabantu abawubukhazikhazi abasebenzisa imali yabo ngokuphithizela. futhi ngaphandle kokuhlakanipha, futhi ngenxa yalokhu budedengu isimo sakhe somnotho sizowohloka futhi angase abe mpofu ngoba engayilondolozanga imali yakhe .

okwesibili: Umuntu onendaba nemininingwane emincane yempilo yakhe futhi olwela ukufeza izinhloso zakhe ungumuntu olinganiselayo futhi abantu bamchaza njengomuntu onengqondo futhi ohlakaniphile.Owaphuphayo edlala ngotamatisi ephusheni lakhe, ngeshwa, uzoba ngomunye wabafundi. abantu abangenangqondo abashiya izindaba zabo ezibalulekile zokuphila futhi bakhathalele izinto ezingenanzuzo ngakho-ke bazomosha isikhathi nempilo yabo ngaphandle kokuzuza lutho oluwusizo, bese beza emhlabeni futhi bawushiye ngaphandle kokushiya umkhondo oyingqayizivele ngaphakathi kwawo.

Okwesithathu: Njengoba singase sibhekane nezinkinga ezinzima ezimpilweni zethu, kumele sikwazi ukuzixazulula ukuze zingasiphazamisi ezimpilweni zethu, kodwa lowo ophuphayo ebona ukuthi udlala futhi ujabule notamatisi ebuthongweni ngaphandle kokuthakazelisa uyobe omunye wabantu abesaba ukubhekana nezinkinga nokuzibalekela, futhi lo mlingiswa ubizwa ngokuthi isidlaliso esaziwayo kwezesayensi, okungukuthi (ubuntu obungalungile), futhi lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi akanawo amandla amenza umnikazi wesikhundla esifanele nesinqumo empilweni yakhe.

• Umboni angase aphuphe inhlabathi igcwele imbewu katamatisi ngesikhathi ehamba phezu kwayo, njengoba lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uzophila umzabalazo omkhulu naye, futhi le ndaba izoholela ekuphazamisekeni okukhulu kwengqondo azobhekana nakho maduze. .

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana notamatisi ephusheni labesifazane abangashadile

• Utamatisi obonakala ubolile ephusheni.Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebonakala ngesikhathi ewathenga, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi uzohlala emshadweni nobudlelwane bomshado obungaphumeleli.
• Isithelo esihle sikatamatisi, uma sibonakala entombazaneni engashadile ephusheni, sibonisa insizwa enhle ezoba ngumyeni wayo.
• Uma intombazane engashadile ithenga utamatisi ngobuningi, lokhu kuwuphawu lwenjabulo nenjabulo.
• Abahumushi bathe uma utamatisi uvela ngobuningi ephusheni lowesifazane ongayedwana, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uzothola ukuhlonishwa nokubongwa kwabaseduze kwakhe, inqobo nje uma besanda, azi ukuthi le nhlonipho azoyithola. izoba ngenxa yezindlela zokuziphatha ezimbalwa azozenza empilweni evukayo, okuyilezi ezilandelayo:

Angase abe ngenye yamantombazane ahlonishwayo adumile phakathi komkhaya, abangane, nomakhelwane ngobumsulwa bawo nesizotha.

Mhlawumbe uzohlonishwa ngabantu ngenxa yokunakekela kwakhe okukhulu ukusiza abanye nokupha abaswele imali ngokusemandleni akhe.

Uma wayengomunye wamantombazane aphumelele empilweni yakhe, wayethola ukubongwa kwabaseduze kwakhe, noma ngabe uphumelele emsebenzini wakhe noma ezifundweni zakhe, kuye ngokuthi uvuka kanjani.

• Futhi, inani elikhulu lamatamatisi ephusheni lentombazane lisho ukuthi lizungezwe inqwaba yezinsizwa ezimbheka ngokumncoma futhi zifuna ukuzihlanganisa naye.
• Uma ebona ukuthi welula isandla sakhe wathatha kutamatisi wadla kuwo, khona-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi enye yalezi zinsizwa izomncenga ukuba ashade naye, futhi mhlawumbe umshado osemthethweni phakathi kwabo uzokwenzeka maduze.
• Kodwa uma ebona ukuthi ubheka utamatisi ephusheni lakhe ngaphandle kokuwadla, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ngeke angene ebuhlotsheni bothando nanoma ubani, futhi ngezikhathi ezithile angase aqaphe omunye wabo ngaphandle kokuxhumana phakathi. bona.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana notamatisi wowesifazane oshadile

• Omunye wabahumushi uthe utamatisi ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile awuchazwa kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngendlela yokuthi omunye wabesifazane abalandise iphupho lakhe wathi, "Ngabona ukuthi ngiphethe isikhwama esinezinhlamvu eziyisithupha zikatamatisi."

Wawuphendula umhumushi wathi maduze nje uzothwala usizi enhliziyweni yakho kanti isibalo samatamatisi ayisithupha owabona ephusheni sisho ukuthi izinkinga ezizokudalela usizi zizokufikela ezihlotsheni zakho.

• Ngakho-ke, kufanele sigcizelele iphuzu elibalulekile, okungukuthi ukuchazwa kwesimboli ngezinye izikhathi kungase kube kuhle, kodwa kunezingxabano eziningana, uma kubonakala ephusheni, kuyoba kubi.
• Izikhulu zibonise ukuthi utamatisi obomvu ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile angase abe phakathi kwezinkomba ezimbi futhi abonise izimpawu ezintathu:

Okokuqala: Ubunzima bomnotho lowo umbonisi ozobuzwa maduzane, futhi akungabazeki ukuthi lolu daba luzomthinta kabi yena nabantwana bakhe.Ukubekezela kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokunqoba lezi zimo ngempumelelo.

okwesibili: Uzobhekana nezingcindezi ezibuhlungu ohlangothini lwakhe lochwepheshe, futhi lokhu kungase kubangele ukudideka kwakhe okukhulu, okuzomcindezela ukuba enze iphutha emsebenzini futhi athole umkhiqizo omncane kunangaphambili.

Okwesithathu: Njengoba imithwalo yendlu miningi futhi ingapheli, umphuphi uzozizwa ecindezelekile kakhulu ekhaya, okuzobangela ukukhathala kwakhe futhi kususe umuzwa wakhe wenjabulo ekuphileni kwakhe, ngoba ngaso sonke isikhathi uzobe ematasa ngokuhlanza, ukupheka, ukukhulisa. izingane, neminye imisebenzi eminingi yasekhaya.

Ukwazi ukuthi zonke izimpawu ezimbi zangaphambilini zizophila ngumphuphi okwesikhashana futhi zizonyamalala ngokushesha ngaphandle kokushiya imiphumela emibi kakhulu empilweni yakhe.

• Uma umphuphi edla utamatisi obomvu noma oluhlaza ephusheni lakhe, uzophila izinsuku ezijabulisayo ngenkathi ephapheme, futhi lokhu kuzomenza athole ingxenye enkulu yokunethezeka kwengqondo, ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba.
• Ukuthenga owesifazane oshadile ephusheni lakhe inani likatamatisi owonakele kuyinkomba yokuthi uzobhekana nemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi elandelanayo nemithwalo, futhi kuyodingeka ayithwale yonke ngaphandle kokunganaki, futhi lokhu kuzomenza akhathazeke futhi acindezeleke ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenxa yokwesaba. ukuthi uzobe enganakwa ngokungenhloso kunoma yimiphi imisebenzi ephathiswe yona, futhi uzoba yisisulu sokukhathala nokukhathala ngokomzimba.

  Faka iwebhusayithi yaseGibhithe ukuze uthole incazelo yamaphupho evela kwa-Google, futhi uzothola zonke izincazelo zamaphupho ozifunayo.

Utamatisi ephusheni owesifazane okhulelwe

• Utamatisi ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe ubonisa izimpawu ezinhlanu ezibalulekile, futhi zimi kanje:

Okokuqala: Uma umbala katamatisi ubomvu, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi ukhulelwe wesilisa.

okwesibili: Uma utamatisi ubuluhlaza, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzoba nentombazane.

Okwesithathu: Utamatisi obomvu futhi uveza ukuhleleka kokubeletha kwakhe enganeni yakhe, ngisho noma isezinyangeni zokuqala, ngakho iphupho liyamqinisekisa ukuthi konke okusele kokukhulelwa kuyoba lula, uNkulunkulu ethanda, futhi ngeke azizwe ubuthakathaka noma izinhlungu ezingazelelwe ezimbangela ubuhlungu nokushuba.

Okwesine: Uma utamatisi ubusha, khona-ke lesi sigameko siyisingathekiso sokuphepha komzimba wakhe kunoma yiziphi izifo, futhi uzojabulela impilo engokwengqondo eqinile, futhi lokhu kuyadingeka kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.

Okwesihlanu: Le ntokazi ekhulelwe ezibukelayo, yathanda uhlamvu lukatamatisi yaqala yawudla yajabulela ubumnandi bayo obuhle, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi le ntokazi izohlonishwa uNkulunkulu ngendodana ebukekayo eyojabulisa abayibonayo, futhi uNkulunkulu. uPhezukonke futhi Wazi Konke.

Ngoba isimo esibi esingokwengqondo singase sibangele umonakalo omkhulu kumntwana ongakazalwa, futhi angase afinyelele eqophelweni lokuqunjelwa esibelethweni sikanina, bese efa, futhi angase achayeke ekulimaleni noma ekufeni.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana notamatisi kumuntu

• Umuntu ovela ephusheni, njengokungathi uphatha utamatisi futhi ewuphonsa ezandleni zakhe, ungumuntu ongajabuleli ngisho nencane izinga lomthwalo wemfanelo futhi ubonakala ngobudedengu futhi akanyakazi ukwenza umsebenzi noma ukuqeda noma yimuphi umsebenzi. imisebenzi edingekayo kuye.
• Ukushaya omunye umuntu ngamatamatisi ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokungqubuzana okufushane nokungaqondi kahle.
• Indoda enikeza umkayo utamatisi ingase ithole isikhundla esiphakeme ebhizinisini layo.
• Ukukha utamatisi kuwuphawu lwenhlanhla kanye nokwenza lula komgwaqo.
• Ukutshala utamatisi kuhle kuzo zonke izinhlangothi, futhi ukuvuna utamatisi kuyinzuzo enkulu futhi esheshayo kumboni.

Ukunquma utamatisi ephusheni

• Lesi sigameko ephusheni sahunyushwa ngabahumushi ngezincazelo ezingezinhle neziqondile, kanje:

uphawu olunegethivu: Yilowo mboni Umuntu obudedengu Lokhu budedengu kuzoba yingozi kuye ngokulandelayo:

Kuzomfaka isandla Izinkathazo eziningi Ngabantu, ngoba uzokhipha izahlulelo ezingafanele ngabantu, futhi lokhu kuzoba umphumela wokuntula kwakhe isineke ekutadisheni izimo ngokujulile.

Umuntu obudedengu uhlezi emthola ekhetha izinqumo ezingalungile Futhi wenza ubungane nabantu abangabufanele ubungane futhi abangathembekile, futhi wonke lawa maphutha azomenza abe isehluleki empilweni yakhe, ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi akhethe okuthile okungalungile maduzane futhi kuzomdalela ubuhlungu azohlala nabo isikhathi eside. isikhathi.

Isibonelo, mhlawumbe umphuphi osheshayo uhlotshaniswa nentombazane engamfanele, futhi kamuva uzothola ukuthi ubuntu bakhe bugcwele amaphutha amakhulu, futhi lapho ehlukana naye. Uzozwa ubuhlunguAkungabazeki ukuthi impilo igcwele izimo lapho umuntu edinga ukubekezela ukuze angalinyazwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngakho-ke ukuhlukaniswa kwalo mbono kuzoba ngaphansi kwesihloko. Imibono yokuxwayisa Futhi umboni kufanele amiselele lesi sici esibi ngesiwusizo ukuze ajabulele ukuphila kwakhe futhi angaphinde alahlekelwe.

Uphawu oluhle: Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni isidlo esinamatamatisi aqoshiwe, noma ebona ukuthi wayewasika, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uzothola ukuphepha, ngoba izimo ezimbi empilweni yakhe zizophenduka ngokushesha zibe ngcono.

• Sebenzisa ummese ukusika utamatisi: Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi utamatisi ungenye yezinhlobo zemifino, kodwa empeleni ziwela ngaphansi kwesihloko sezithelo, ngakho-ke abahumushi bathi uma umphuphi esika izithelo (zazo zonke izinhlobo) esebenzisa ummese ephusheni, umbono uzosho ukuthi uzophila ngokunethezeka nengcebo.
• Futhi, uphawu lomphuphi osika ukudla ngommese ephusheni lubonisa ukuthi ungumuntu wezenhlalakahle futhi uthanda ukuxhumana nabantu, futhi angase abonisane nabo kwezinye izindaba zokuphila kwakhe futhi afune usizo kubo ekugcwalisekeni kwakhe. izidingo.
• Abahumushi abaningi bachaza ukuthi ukubona umphuphi esika isithelo sikatamatisi ephusheni esebenzisa ummese kubonisa ukuthi uzobe ezimisele ukufeza ubulungisa futhi abuyisele amalungelo awo wonke umuntu ophucwe ilungelo lakhe ngokungabi nabulungisa nokunyundela, nokuthi umboni maduzane uzofunda ubudlelwano bakhe nabantu abaningi futhi uzobuhlunga futhi ababekele imingcele.Wayethandana nentombazane, futhi waba nomuzwa wokuthi lobo budlelwane buzoholela ebubini kuphela.Uzobuqeda maduze, futhi qeda ngokushesha, ngaphambi kokuba udaba lukhule futhi nobukhulu bokulahlekelwa bukhule.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nejusi yetamatisi ephusheni

• Incazelo yokubona ijusi katamatisi ayihlukani nesithelo sikatamatisi ngokwawo, okusho ukuthi iphupho liyoba mnandi uma ijusi isanda futhi ukunambitheka kungabi muncu noma kumuncu, kodwa uma kunambitha okungamukeleki, umbono uzobe ungamukeleki.
• Abanye abahlaziyi bathi ukuhunyushwa kwaleli phupho kuhlobene eduze nesici senhlalakahle somboni, okusho ukuthi ubunzima obuningi empilweni yakhe buzoshabalala, futhi lokhu kusiza nokukhululeka kuzobonisa kahle ubuhlobo bakhe nabo bonke abamzungezile:

Ubuhlobo bakhe nomndeni wakhe buyoba ngcono, futhi uma exabene nomunye wabo, ingxabano izophela ngokubuyisana nokwaneliseka.

Utamatisi obolile ephusheni

• Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi ephusheni udla utamatisi obolile, obolile, lokhu kuwuphawu lwezimpawu ezimbalwa ezingezinhle:

okokuqala: Umphuphi uzowela ebubini, futhi njengoba igama elithi (okubi) liyigama elihlanganisa izimo eziningi ezimbi lapho umphuphi angase awe khona, khona-ke sizosho amacala amaningana aveza lesi sibonakaliso:

Mhlawumbe umphuphi ulahlekelwa ukuncintisana nabalingani bakhe.

Isithunzi somphuphi singase sonakaliswe phakathi kwabantu, futhi ngaleyo ndlela uyophila izinsuku lapho ezizwa enamahloni futhi ephukile.

Mhlawumbe lobu bubi bubonisa ukufa kwabathandekayo noma ukuhamba kude nabo ngandlela-thile, njengokuhamba ngaphandle kokubuya, futhi indlu yomphuphi ingase ichithwe ngesehlukaniso noma ukukhashelwa. Zonke lezi zimo ziwela ngaphansi kwesihloko sobubi nokulimaza umphuphi empilweni yakhe maduze.

Okwesibili: Utamatisi obolile ephusheni ubhekisela kubhadi, futhi ishwa lingase livele empilweni yomphuphi ngendlela yokulahlekelwa yithuba lomsebenzi wegolide esandleni sakhe, noma angase ashade maduzane futhi athole ukuthi umuntu ayehlotshaniswa naye mubi. kuwo wonke amazinga, ngakho-ke uzochaza inhlanhla yakhe emshadweni njengembi kakhulu.

Okwesithathu: Umbono ubonisa ukuthi kukhona into umphuphi ayenayo ngaphambili futhi azolahlekelwa maduzane.

Ukubonakaliswa kokulahlekelwa kungase kuboniswe kulokhu okulandelayo: noma ukulahlekelwa umuntu, umsebenzi, impahla ephathekayo efana nobucwebe kanye nezindawo ezithengiswayo, noma ukulahlekelwa isimiso, ngakho-ke ukulahlekelwa kuyoba ukuziphatha, hhayi okubambekayo, kodwa okubambekayo futhi okucatshangwayo. ngokuziphatha.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana notamatisi oluhlaza

• Kuyaziwa ukuthi ukuphila kunezimo ezidabukisayo nezijabulisayo, futhi u-Ibn Sirin no-Al-Nabulsi bathi uma umphuphi ebona utamatisi oluhlaza ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uzobhekana nezimo eziningi ezidabukisayo ekuqaleni kokuphila kwakhe bese emva kwalokho. uyozizwa ekhathele futhi ehlupheka ngenxa yazo, kodwa izimo zizoshintsha kanye naye futhi athole ukuthi usizi Lwakhe lwaphenduka injabulo, ngakho-ke uyophila entokozweni ngemva kokuphila iminyaka eminingi ngokukhathazeka nosizi.Kuze kube yilapho le ncazelo icaca, sizochaza amacala amaningana aphathelene naye:

Icala lokuqala: Uma umphuphi enephrojekthi yebhizinisi yangasese futhi elahlekelwe kuyo iminyaka eminingi kuze kube yilapho eseseduze nephuzu lokulahlekelwa ithemba nokuphelelwa ithemba, kodwa umbono wakhe wamatamatisi aluhlaza ephusheni lakhe uzomtshela ukuthi yonke iminyaka yokulahlekelwa ukuthi ahluphekile uzonxeshezelwa nguNkulunkulu ngeminyaka engenakubalwa yenzuzo nemali maduze.

Icala lesibili: Uma umphuphi ekhathele ekuphileni kwakhe komshado futhi ehlala nomyeni wakhe iminyaka eminingi yosizi nokuhlupheka, khona-ke leli phupho limtshela ukuthi uNkulunkulu uzoqondisa umyeni wakhe eqinisweni futhi amenze amphathe kahle, futhi ngaleyo ndlela uyobe esethole impumuzo. nenduduzo ngemva kweminyaka eminingi yobunzima nokululazeka.

Icala lesithathu: Uma umphuphi engomunye wabantu abasha abanenkinga yokungasebenzi futhi elangazelela ithuba lomsebenzi, futhi iminyaka eminingi ehlushwa ukufuna umkhakha ofanelekayo omenza athole iholo, noma ngabe kulula, kodwa kuzokwenza. ubalulekile ekuhlangabezaneni nezidingo zakhe eziyisisekelo, khona-ke iphupho lakhe likatamatisi oluhlaza libonisa impumuzo uNkulunkulu azomnika yona futhi uzomenza athole ithuba Umsebenzi owukhipha ekuphelelweni umsebenzi ukuze ube yingxenye yabasebenzi.

Icala lesine: Mhlawumbe iphupho lowesifazane oyinyumba yalo mbono limtshela ukuthi uNkulunkulu uzokhulula usizi lwakhe futhi yonke iminyaka yokuhlupheka ayephila kuyo ngenxa yokungabi nabantwana iyophenduka injabulo nentokozo ngemva kokuzwa izindaba zokuthi ukhulelwe futhi uzoba umama. ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa sezidlule.

Icala lesihlanu: Umuntu onesifiso sokuvelela angase aphuphe lo mbono, futhi kuyoba yizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuthi iminyaka yokubekezela nokububula izothweswa umqhele wempumelelo futhi ngokushesha impumuzo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana notamatisi obomvu

• Uma umphuphi esebenzisa utamatisi obomvu ekuphekeni futhi epheka, lo mbono usho izimpawu ezintathu ezinhle:

Okokuqala: Kukhona iphrojekthi noma umnyakazo omusha Uyacabanga ngakho futhi uzokusebenzisa maduze, futhi uyophumelela kukho, uNkulunkulu ethanda.

okwesibili: Kusho ukuthi ophuphile unalo inhloso enhleLesi sibonakaliso siwukupheka utamatisi omusha kuphela.

Okwesithathu: Kunabantu abaningi abathola ukuziphilisa ngemva kokukhathala nokuhlupheka, kanti abanye abantu bakuthola kalula futhi ngaphandle komzamo, kodwa leli phupho libonisa ukuthi umphuphi uzothola. isabelo sakhe senhlanhla emhlabeni ngaphandle kokuhlupheka.

• Uma umphuphi esebenzisa utamatisi obomvu ukwenza isidlo sesaladi ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi ungumuntu ozimisele ukuvuselela impilo yakhe, futhi lokhu kuzobonakala emabhizinisini amaningi angowawo, okusho ukuthi uzokwenza. iqhaza emisebenzini engaphezu kweyodwa ukuze angazizwa enesithukuthezi, ngaphezu kwalokho usebenzisa inombolo enkulu Ezemidlalo nemisebenzi ejabulisayo.

Iphupho liphinde liveze ukuthi uzoqhuba inqwaba yezingxoxo ezihlonishwayo nabantu abasha empilweni evukayo maduze.

• Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi umi ngaphakathi kwensimu enhle etshalwe ngenani elikhulu lamatamatisi, khona-ke leli phupho liyathembisa futhi libonisa ukudla okuzofika kumphuphi ngokuzumayo ngaphandle kokuhlela kusengaphambili.

Utamatisi ephusheni yizindaba ezinhle

• Ukuphupha utamatisi kunezinhlobo eziningi nezimo ezahlukene, mhlawumbe lowo ophuphayo uphupha ephethe isithelo esisodwa sikatamatisi, futhi angabona ikheji eligcwele utamatisi. , inqobo nje uma iyadliwa futhi ayinaso isikhunta noma izikelemu.
• Futhi, omunye wabahumushi ubeka incazelo enhle yokubukeka kwamatamatisi amasha ephusheni, futhi bathi umphuphi unobuntu obuhle futhi ubonakala ngezimfanelo ezine ezitusekayo, futhi yilezi ezilandelayo:

Okokuqala:Umuntu onethemba Lesi sici sibaluleke kakhulu ukuze umuntu anqobe izinkinga zokuphila kwakhe, futhi ukuba nethemba kuyisizathu esinamandla sokuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo.

okwesibili: Umehluko phakathi komuntu ovelele ozokwenza uphawu empilweni yakhe nomuntu ojwayelekile ongacabangi ukufeza noma yimuphi umgomo oyingqayizivele empilweni yakhe isifiso sokuvelelaNgakho-ke, utamatisi onempilo, uma umphuphi ewubona ebuthongweni bakhe, wawuyoba uphawu lokuthi ungumuntu onolwazi futhi ufisa ukushintsha ukuphila kwakhe kube ngcono, futhi uyokwazi ukwenza kanjalo esikhathini esizayo, uNkulunkulu ethanda.

Okwesithathu: ukwazi hlela isikhathi sakhe Ukuzihlela ngokunembile izinto eziza kuqala ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi lesi sici sizomqhubezela ekubeni enze kahle nempumelelo.

Okwesine: Angaphuma kalula enkingeni ngoba yena Iphethwe kahle Akayitholi ngokwesaba okukhulu nokwesaba okukhulu, kodwa kunalokho ucabanga ukuyixazulula ngokuthula, futhi lesi sici sizonciphisa ubukhulu bokulahlekelwa empilweni yakhe ngokujwayelekile, ngokungafani nomuntu ozidlayo obhekana nezimo zokuphila ngokungahleliwe ngakho-ke uzothola ukulahlekelwa. kuzo zonke izinyathelo zokuphila kwakhe.

• Uma umphuphi ebuza mayelana nencazelo ye-tomato unamathisele ephusheni? Impendulo izobe ithembisa futhi ikhomba ukuthi uzokwazi ukuphuma ezinkingeni zakhe futhi ekugcineni athole isisombululo esifanele kuzo ngemuva kwesikhathi eside.

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Kucashunwe ku-:
1- Incwadi ethi Muntakhab al-Kalam fi Tafsir al-Ahlam, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, uhlelo lukaDar al-Ma'rifah, Beirut 2000.
2- Isichazamazwi Sokuhunyushwa Kwamaphupho, i-Ibn Sirin, ihlelwe ngu-Basil Braidi, uhlelo lwe-Al-Safa Library, Abu Dhabi 2008.