umlutha wothando
Uthando luyisisekelo sempilo futhi akekho ongaphila ngaphandle kwalo, sonke siwela kulokho ugibe Futhi bambiza kanjena ngoba owela othandweni uyayisula ingqondo yakhe acabange ngenhliziyo kuphela, futhi imizwa kuphela enesibopho kuzo zonke izinqumo zakhe azithathayo phakathi nenkathi yobudlelwano, futhi ngaleyo ndlela kumphoqe ukuthi athathe izinqumo ezingalungile ngoba usewukhansele ngokuphelele umqondo wakhe waqala ukwenza izinto abengakaze acabange ukuthi angazenza futhi ubuhlobo buqala Buya ngokuya bushuba aze afinyelele esigabeni sokulutheka, ngoba usejwayele izilinganiso zothando nsuku zonke, futhi akakwazi. ayeke ngokuphelele, futhi kuhlale kugxilile engqondweni yakhe ukuthi impilo yakhe ixhumene nempilo yalowo amthandayo, futhi akekho okwazi ukuphila ngaphandle komunye, futhi ngalo mbono, usefinyelele esigabeni sokuba umlutha futhi. sizokukhombisa izimpawu zokuthi uthando seluphenduke umlutha onamandla kunezidakamizwa.
Izimpawu eziyi-10 uma uzenza, yazi ukuthi usufinyelele esigabeni sokulutheka kothandiweyo wakho
1- Ukuphelezela omunye uhhafu wakho yonke indawo, okwenza kungenzeki ukuhlala kude naye, ungabanaki abangani bakho nempilo yakho yangasese, ungacabangi ngomsebenzi wakho, nokudebeselela konke obukubheka njengokubalulekile ngaphambi kokungena ebudlelwaneni.
2- Ukulahlekelwa ukulawula isifiso sakho sokubona othandekayo wakho, njengoba ungathanda ukuhlangana naye ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngisho nangezikhathi ezingafanele, ngaphandle kokubeka izinsuku eziqondile zenhlolokhono.
3- Yenza umzamo omkhulu futhi uzame ukuthola inani elikhulu lemali yokuthenga izipho ezibalulekile futhi uzinikeze umlingani wakho futhi uzame ukumjabulisa ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene.
4- Uma ufinyelele esigabeni sokudabuka nokudangala ngezikhathi lapho ungakwazanga ukuhlangana nothandiweyo wakho, yazi ukuthi usufinyelele esigabeni sokuba umlutha ngoba injabulo nenjabulo kunemithombo eminingi empilweni yawo wonke umuntu futhi akunciki koyedwa. umuntu empilweni yakho.
5- Ukwakheka kokuthatheka ngokuhlukana emqondweni wakho.Lokhu kuzoba yimbangela enkulu yokwethuka nezinkinga empilweni yakho, ngenxa yokwesaba ukwehlukana noma nini.Lokhu futhi kuwumlutha.
6- Ukuvumelana nothandiweyo wakho kukho konke akushoyo futhi uyeke izimiso, umlingiswa, nemikhuba yakho ukuze uthole lokho, njengoba lokhu kuthathwa njengenkomba eqinile yokulutheka kothandiweyo wakho.
I-7- Ukuthatheka nokucabanga okuluthayo ekuzameni ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi enye ingxenye yakho iyakuthanda njengoba ucabanga futhi ayikukhohlisi futhi ikuthophe ngokusekelwe ekuphenduleni noma emazwini akhe ngakuwe.
8- Ukubona kwakho ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukuhlalisana noma ukujwayelana neqiniso uma isithandwa sakho sikushiya noma nini nokuthi umhlaba ngawe ubona lowo omthandayo kuphela kuwo.
9- Umuzwa wakho wokuthi impilo yakho ngeke ibe nancazelo ngaphandle kwalowo omthandayo, nokuthi uzozonda wena uma isithandwa sakho sikude nawe.
10- Zama njalo ukuvusa ingxabano ezingxoxweni, ukhombise ukuthi unamandla phambi kwalowo omthandayo, ungene enkingeni ukuze udonse amehlo othandiweyo wakho.
