Izincazelo zika-Ibn Sirin ukubona isigaba sokubeletha ephusheni

Ukubeletha ngokuhlinzwa kungenye yezinto ezivusa ukwesaba kwabesifazane abaningi, empeleni, uma isimo sidinga ngenxa yobuhlungu abuzwayo ngemva kokuvuka e-anesthetic, kodwa abanye abantu basathanda noma kunjalo, pho kuthiwani uma owesifazane wabona ukuthi ubeletha ngokuhlinzwa ephusheni? Yilokhu esizokwethula khona namuhla mayelana nalokho okuye kwabikwa yizazi zokuchaza amaphupho.

Isigaba sikaKesariya ephusheni

• Isigaba sokubeletha ephusheni sifanekisela ukuhlupheka okukhulu nokukhathala akuzwayo empilweni yakhe yangempela, ikakhulukazi uma ezwa ubuhlungu ngesikhathi.
• Kodwa uma umbono ungowentombazane engakashadi, khona-ke ubonisa ukukhuthazela kwayo ebunzimeni ukuze ifinyelele imigomo yayo, futhi uma ifunda enyuvesi, ihlupheka kakhulu ezifundweni zayo, futhi uma yeqa. isigaba sokufunda futhi wafinyelela eminyakeni yokushada, khona-ke umbono ukhomba ukuthi uhlukumezekile ngokomqondo ngenxa yokubambezeleka komshado wakhe.
• Iphupho lokuhlinzwa kowesifazane ohlukanisile libonisa ukuthi unezinkinga eziningi nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili, futhi angase ahlupheke ngokungawatholi amalungelo akhe angokomthetho ngemva kokuhlukana.
• Ukubona i-cesarean section ephusheni owesifazane oshadile uveza ukungezwani okunzima abhekana nakho nomyeni wakhe, okubangela ubuhlungu obukhulu obungokwengqondo, futhi izingane zingase zihlupheke ngenxa yalezo zingxabano ezibonakala kuzo.
• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesigaba sokubeletha kwentombazane engashadile kuveza ukuthi ubhekene nobunzima obuningi empilweni yakhe, kodwa uzokwazi ukunqoba, ngemva kokwenza imizamo eyengeziwe.

Ukubeletha ephusheni ku-Ibn Sirin noNabulsi

• U-Ibn Sirin uthi ukubeletha, kunoma yikuphi, kumelela owesifazane, empeleni, ukunqoba izinkathazo nezinkinga abhekana nazo ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi uma owesifazane ehlala esimweni sokuzola nomyeni wakhe futhi ebona ukuthi uyapha. ukuzalwa, angase akhulelwe maduzane uma efuna lokhu, kodwa uma enezingane Balindele izindaba ezijabulisayo noma ukufika komuntu ongekho ohambeni.
• Ukuhlinzwa ngokuhlinzwa, ngokombono ka-Ibn Sirin, kubonisa ukuhleleka nokukhululeka uma umboni ezizwa ecindezelekile empeleni, futhi ngokuphambene nalokho uma umboni emi kahle, njengoba umbono ubonisa kuye ukuntula indlela yokuziphilisa kanye nobunzima obungase buholele ekutheni ukulahlekelwa yimali.
• U-Imam Al-Nabulsi uthe lo mbono ubhekisela ekuphendukeni komboni kanye nokushiya kwakhe indlela yokuduka ahamba kuyo isikhathi eside kude nokulalela uNkulunkulu (uMninimandla onke), futhi ukubeletha ngokuhlinzwa kufanekisela ubunzima abhekene nabo. endleleni yokuphenduka kwakhe, noma abangani ababi abafuna ukumenza enze izono eziningi ngenxa yokumenyanya, kanye nesifiso sabo sokumehlisa isithunzi.
• U-Imam Al-Nabulsi uphinde wathi lo mbono ungase ubonise ukwehlukana phakathi kwabashadile, noma phakathi kwentombazane nesoka layo, ngenxa yemikhuba yakhe emibi.
• Lo mbono ungase futhi uveze kumuntu ohlushwa izikweletu ukuthi uyobusiswa ngemali eningi ezomsiza akhokhe isikweletu sakhe futhi akhuphule izinga lempilo yomkhaya wakhe nezingane uma eshadile.
• Kodwa uma wayeyinsizwa engashadile, umbono ubonisa ukuthi uzonikezwa umsebenzi ophakeme ngemva kwesikhathi eside efuna, futhi uzothola intombazane enhle enegama elihle ezoshada nayo.
• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi uhlangana nentombazane ekhulelwe ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke uyintombazane azoshada nayo maduzane, futhi uzoba nomfana omuhle kuye.

  Ukuze ufinyelele incazelo enembe kakhulu yephupho lakho, sesha iwebhusayithi yaseGibhithe ukuze uthole incazelo yamaphupho, ehlanganisa izinkulungwane zezincazelo zezazi zezomthetho ezinkulu zokuhumusha.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesigaba sokuhlinzwa kwabesifazane abangashadile

• Intombazane ebona lo mbono empeleni ihlushwa izenzakalo ezimbi, kodwa uma izibona ikhombisa izimpawu zokukhulelwa ephusheni, abahlaziyi bathi umbono ukhomba ukulunga nokuzinikela kwayo.
• Uma ebona ukuthi ubeletha ngokuhlinzwa, uzobhekana nezinkinga eziningi endleleni yekusasa lakhe, futhi angase ahlushwe abantu ababi abambopha uzungu bamfake enkingeni, kodwa anqobe. zonke lezi zinto ezimbi futhi ziphila esimweni sokuzinza ngemva kwenkathazo.
• Intombazane ebona ukuthi uzala ngokwemvelo ephusheni layo kusho ukuthi maduzane uzoba nomyeni omuhle, futhi uzozala abafana namantombazane kuye, futhi impilo yakhe izoba ezolile futhi izinzile.
• Isigaba sokubeletha ephusheni lowesifazane ongashadile siveza isimo sakhe esibi esingokwengqondo, okungenzeka kube umphumela wokucindezela komndeni kuye ukuba ashade nomuntu ongafuni ukuzihlanganisa naye.
• Ngokuqondene no-Al-Nabulsi, uthe ukukhulelwa kwentombazane eyodwa kuwubufakazi bokucindezeleka empeleni, nokuthi kuletha ukudabuka nokucindezeleka kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi isibelethe intombazane, kuyizindaba ezinhle lezi kuyo ukuthi izosheshe ishade, kodwa uma ibelethe ingane enesifo esithile noma ukukhubazeka emzimbeni wayo, khona-ke ihlukunyezwa. ukukhuluma kwabantu ngaye nokungcolisa isithunzi sakhe, noma ukuthi uhlangene nomuntu owaziwa ngesithunzi esibi nokuziphatha okubi, ahlushwa naye izinhlupheko emva kokushada kwakhe naye.
• Uma intombazane engashadile inengane enhle ephusheni layo, khona-ke izoba nomyeni omuhle futhi omuhle, ozophila naye impilo ejabulisayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesigaba sokubeletha kowesifazane oshadile

• Owesifazane oshadile onezingane futhi engafuni okwengeziwe, ukumbona kubonisa ukuthi uzothola izindaba ezinhle maduze, noma ukuthi umuntu othandekayo uzobuya ekuhambeni ngokushesha, futhi lokhu kuzobangela injabulo yawo wonke amalungu omndeni.
• Kodwa uma ayelindele ukukhulelwa ngemva kwesikhathi somshado wakhe, khona-ke umbono uyizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuba awuthole ngemva kokukhathala nesikhathi eside sokuya kodokotela.
• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesigaba sokuhlinzwa kowesifazane oshadile kanye nokuzalwa kwakhe kowesifazane, njengoba ethola ukuzinza nenjabulo eyengeziwe nomyeni wakhe, kodwa ngemva kwesikhathi sokungaboni ngaso linye esiphela ngokungenelela kwezihlobo ezihlakaniphile, ngemva kwalokho ukuphila kwakhe nomkakhe. umyeni wakhe ehlisa umoya.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi uhlushwa ubuhlungu ngesikhathi ebeletha, khona-ke ubhekana nenhlekelele enkulu ekuphileni kwakhe noma ukulahlekelwa umuntu othandekayo kuye, noma ukuphila kwakhe komshado kungase kube sengozini futhi kusondele ukuhlukana.
• Ngokuvamile, isigaba sokubeletha ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kanye nobuhlungu abuzwayo bubonisa izinkinga nezinkathazo eziqongelela owesifazane, okwenza angabekezeleleki futhi ezwa isidingo sosizo lwabangane abathile noma izihlobo.
• Ngokuqondene nokuhunyushwa kwephupho lokuhlinzwa kowesifazane ongashadile, kuyinkomba yokuthi ubhekana nokukhathazeka nosizi olwengeziwe empilweni yakhe ngenxa yezinkinga ezisendleleni yakhe, futhi izinkinga zingase zibangelwa ukungafuni kwakhe ukushada ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho okubi akuthola kwabanye abangane abashadile.
• Ukuchazwa kwesigaba sokuhlinzwa ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile ongakhulelwe kuyizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuthi ukhulelwe ingane enhle ezoshintsha impilo yakhe ngemva kwesikhathi eside sezingxabano zomshado, nokuthi kuyoba isizathu. ngezimo zakhe ezinhle nomyeni wakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesigaba sokubeletha kowesifazane okhulelwe

• Owesifazane okhulelwe empeleni ukhathazeke kakhulu ngempilo yakhe kanye nesimo somntwana ohlala esibelethweni sakhe, futhi ukubona kwakhe kungase kube umphumela wokugcina leyo micabango evusa ukwesaba nokwesaba embungwini wakhe, okuholele ekutheni atolike. kubo ngesimo sephupho ephusheni.
• Abanye bebethi ukubona owesifazane okhulelwe ebeletha ngokuhlinzwa uzwakalisa ukuhlupheka okukhulu ngenxa yobuhlungu bokukhulelwa, okumenza esabe ukuthi uzolahlekelwa umbungu kodwa empeleni uyakhathala ngesikhathi ebeletha, kodwa udlula ngokuthula futhi unobuhle obuhle. ingane.
• Kodwa uma owesifazane engazange ezwe ubuhlungu ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakhe ephusheni, khona-ke empeleni uzozala ngokwemvelo futhi ngeke ezwe ubuhlungu, futhi uzojabulela impilo echichimayo nempilo enhle, futhi uzoqinisekiswa ngomntwana wakhe, okuzobe isizathu senjabulo yawo wonke umuntu nokusondelana ngokwengqondo phakathi kwabashadile.
• Incazelo yephupho lokubeletha ngokuhlinzwa kowesifazane okhulelwe, ngokusho kwabanye abahumushi, ukuqeda ubuhlungu bakhe abuzwa isikhathi eside ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
• Owesifazane okhulelwe angase akhononde ngomyeni wakhe kwezinye izinto ezibonakalayo, njengoba ukuphila kwakhe kungase kube kuncane futhi akanelisekile ngokuphila kwakhe naye futhi unomuzwa wokuthi akakwazi ukuqhubeka nokuphila kwakhe kulesi simo, ngakho ephusheni lakhe uthola kuba nzima ngesikhathi sokubeletha.
• Ukubona ukuhlinzwa ephusheni kowesifazane okhulelwe ngokujwayelekile kuwuphawu lokuthi wanelisekile ngesimo sakhe nokuthi uNkulunkulu nguyena odala ngokusuka ezeni futhi uyakwazi ukuguqula isimo sibe ngcono ngemvume yakhe, ngakho-ke kumele abe nesineke futhi afune umvuzo.

Isigaba sikaKesariya ephusheni kumuntu

Uma indoda ibona ephusheni ukuthi ithwele isibeletho esiswini ebuthongweni bakhe, khona-ke leli phupho liphakamisa ukukhathazeka okukhulu kuye, futhi limenza acabange ngencazelo yephupho, futhi empeleni abahumushi babona ukuthi lithwala okuhlukile. izincazelo.

• Umuntu obonakala ekhulelwe ephusheni empeleni uhlushwa izinkathazo eziningi nosizi ngenxa yemithwalo yempilo enqwabelene emahlombe akhe.
• Uma ebona ukuthi akabuzwanga ubuhlungu ngesikhathi ebeletha, khona-ke umbono ubonisa ukuthi wanqoba ubunzima obufike ngendlela yakhe ngaphandle kokudinga usizo lwanoma ubani, nokuthi ukuphila kwakhe kuyobuswa ubuhle obuchichimayo esikhathini esizayo sokuphila kwakhe. .
• Kodwa uma indoda ibona ukuthi umkakhe nguye obonakala ekhulelwe ephusheni lakhe, futhi empeleni akanjalo, khona-ke lokhu kuyizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuthi izinkathazo zakhe zizophela maduze uma zihlobene nemali, nokuthi uzothola inala yokuziphilisa esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.

Uphawu lwesigaba sokuhlinzwa ephusheni

Ukubeletha ngokuhlinzwa kunezinkomba ezimbalwa ephusheni lomuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi owesilisa noma owesifazane, futhi lezi zinkomba zifinyezwa kanje:

• Kufanekisela ubunzima lowo obonayo adlula kubo empilweni yakhe nokuthi akakwazi ukubuthwala, kodwa maduze buzohlakazeka kuye.
• Entombazaneni engashadile, kukhomba ukuthi ibhekene nenkinga enkulu empilweni yayo futhi izama ukufihlela wonke umuntu, kodwa ngeke ikwazi ukubhekana nayo yodwa.
• Intombazane oyibona ephusheni layo kungenzeka yenze isono esikhulu esithinta impilo yayo elandelayo nomyeni wayo.
• Ingxenye yokuhlinzwa, ephumela entombazaneni enhle ephusheni, iwuphawu lwenjabulo nenjabulo enkulu ekuphileni komboni.Ngokuqondene nokuzalwa komntwana wesilisa, kubonisa ukukhathazeka okukhulu okuhlupha umboni, futhi angase aveze izinkinga zezimali abhekene nazo.
• Ukuzalwa kwengane ebukekayo kowesifazane ongashadile kukhomba ukuthi maduze uzoshada nensizwa ebonakala ngobuhle, ubuhle nokuziphatha okuhle. ehambisana nayo, okumenza abe nezinkinga eziningi nabazali abanqabayo lokhu kuxhunywa.
• Ukubeletha ngokuhlinzwa kowesifazane ongenandoda, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumfelokazi noma ohlukanisile, kuwuphawu lwamandla obuntu bakhe kanye nekhono lakhe lokunqoba ubunzima nezinkinga ahlangabezana nazo.
• Umbono uwuphawu lwesimo esibi esingokwengqondo sombukeli, ukucindezeleka nokudabuka okumenza akhethe ukuhlala kude nabanye.