Imiphefumulo egcwele uthando iyigugu eliyivelakancane.Ubunzima bempilo bushiya uphawu ezinhliziyweni zabo, bubize unya nonya.Abajabuli ngokutshiyoza kwezinyoni, noma ubukhazikhazi bezimbali, futhi abujatshuliswa ubuhle. olwandle namagagasi alo athambileyo, futhi abawazi umusa, ubungane nokubekezelelana.
Isihloko sesingeniso mayelana nothando
Noma nini lapho umuntu ekhuphuka ngokomoya, uthando lungena kuye konke, lube umthombo wothando nokuthula, asakaze amaphunga othando lwakhe kubantu, amatshe, izihlahla, nezilwane, futhi aphuphume kubo ngesihe, ukulunga, nobubele.
Umlobi uMustafa Lutfi al-Manfaluti uthi: “Akukho okuhle ekuphileni ukuthi umuntu uphila ngaphandle kwenhliziyo, futhi akukho okuhle enhliziyweni eshaya ngaphandle kothando.”
Isihloko ngothando
Uthando aluwona nje umuzwa abantu abawuzwayo, kodwa yizenzo ezihumusha lo muzwa, imizwa ewuqinisekisayo, futhi ijulise umthelela wawo, futhi ngaphandle uma umuntu ethanda akwenzayo, futhi ethanda labo asebenzelana nabo, nalabo azihlanganisa nabo. empilweni yakhe, akakwazi ukuzuza inqubekelaphambili ebalulekile ezingeni elingokoqobo noma lomuntu.Ngothando, yonke into iyenzeka, futhi yonke into yinhle kakhulu futhi inenani eliphakeme.
Yiziphi izinzuzo zothando?
Uthando yilo oluxhumanisa umuntu neNkosi yakhe, isiThunywa saKhe, kanye nenkolo yakhe, lumenze abe ngumuntu ongcono olwela ukuthuthukisa izenzo zakhe kanye nezenzo zakhe, eneliseke ngoMdali wakhe.
Uthando lubophezela umama kosanda kuzalwa, ngakho-ke akayitholi induduzo yakhe ngaphandle kokunethezeka kwakhe, futhi umthonya phezu kwakhe, impilo yakhe, nezifiso zakhe, futhi akaboni muntu okhona obaluleke kakhulu kunaye.
Uthando lubophela umntwana kunina, ngakho umbona emuhle futhi enomusa kunabo bonke abantu, futhi luhlanganisa ingane noyise, ngakho umbona njengomuntu omkhulu kunabo bonke, futhi uxhumanisa umuntu nezwe lakubo, ngakho-ke umbona njengempucuko emangalisa kakhulu, eyiqiniso kakhulu, futhi ejulile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhamba kude kangakanani noma ukude nezwe lakubo.
Futhi uthando luhlanganisa zonke izincazelo zokudela abanye, ukubekezelelana, ububele, uthando, ubuzalwane, ukuzidela, ukuthula nokuhlalisana.Inhliziyo yesithandwa ikhanya futhi igcwele ubuhle, njengoba uMustafa Sadiq Al-Rafi'i ethi: “Udumo malube Kuwe. O Nkulunkulu, kulapho-ke ebuyela ekuhlubukeni nasekomeni kwakhe, ngakho-ke iyini injabulo yokuthola ukuhloba okuphuthumayo, noma usizi ukulahlekelwa yikho, futhi umuthi uwukuhlakanipha kuphela okuvela Kuwe kuya ezincekwini zaKho, uzifundisa ukuthi ukuphila, injabulo namandla. azikho emhlabeni ngaphandle kwento eyodwa ewubusha benhliziyo.
Isihloko esiveza uthando phakathi kwabantu
Ukusabalala kothando nokuthula phakathi kwabantu kudinga ukusabalalisa okuhle nomusa phakathi kwabo, ngoba inzondo idla amandla abo amaningi, futhi imosha isikhathi, imizwa, namandla kulokho okungenalusizo, kodwa kunalokho ibalimaza ngezindlela eziningi. .
Lapho umuntu ezonda, emagqubu futhi ecasuka, umzimba wakhe ukhiqiza amakhemikhali athinta inhliziyo, akhuphule umfutho wegazi, futhi angabangela izifo eziningi.
Enzondoni, amacebo ayakhula, amaqhinga ayabhebhetheka, amalungelo ayalahleka, njengoba ivula iminyango yobubi.
Isihloko esimayelana nothando nokubekezelelana
Uma nithanda futhi nithethelela, nidlula konke okubi nokulimazayo, futhi umuntu obekezelayo ulindele umusa ovela eNkosini yezinceku.” U-Allah Ubatusile labo abaseNcwadini Yakhe Ehlakaniphile, wathi: “Labo abachitha ebuhleni nasebubini. abavala intukuthelo futhi bathethelele abantu, futhi uNkulunkulu uthanda abenza okuhle.”
Incazelo yothando
Uthando luwumuzwa onamandla okwenza umuntu athande omunye ngaphezu kwakhe, afune ubuhle nenjabulo yakhe, asebenzele okuhle kuye, futhi alwele ukumenza abe ngcono, adlula amagqubu, ukuzithanda, nobutha.
Izinhlobo zothando phakathi kwabantu
Olunye lwezinhlobo zothando uthando ngoNkulunkulu nakuNkulunkulu uSomandla, lapho abantu bebekezelela, bexhawulana, futhi babambisane ekulungeni nasesisa, nothando ngesiThunywa ngokulingisa isiqondiso saso kanye nokwenza ngokuvumelana neSunnah yaso, nothando lomndeni kanye nokulunga. abangani, nothando lwabantu bonke, nothando ngezidalwa zikaNkulunkulu.
Ukuthinta uthando kumuntu ngamunye nasemphakathini
Uthando lomuntu kwabanye lubuyela kuye ngothando nangenjabulo, ngoba uthando luyathelelana, futhi lungahlangatshezwana nothando olunjengaye kuphela, futhi lapho uthanda kakhulu abantu, izilwane, izitshalo nezinto, yilapho unakekela kakhulu futhi uzinake, bese uthola ukuthi bashintsha isithakazelo sakho ngesithakazelo, ngoba umuntu ngokwemvelo uthanda labo abamthandayo, futhi isilwane sivame ukuzwelana naye Futhi isitshalo siyakhula siqhakaze futhi sikuthele izithelo zaso. uma uyinika uthando nokunaka.
Ngisho nezinto zakho zizoba ngcono uma uziphethe ngothando nangokuzinakekela, ungazinaki, ungazichithi, futhi uthando oluhlala enhliziyweni lukhipha ukukhanya kwalo ebusweni.
U-Mustafa Sadiq Al-Rafei uthi: “Yonke intokozo yothando, futhi into emangalisayo kakhulu ngemilingo yalo, ukuthi ayisivumeli ukuba siphile kulokho okusizungezile emhlabeni, kodwa kumuntu omuhle ongenalutho ngaphandle izincazelo zobuntu bethu obuhle kuphela, bese uthando lusixhumanisa ebuhleni bothandiweyo nobuhle bendawo yonke, futhi ludalele thina Kulokhu kuphila komuntu okulinganiselwe, amahora angafi aphezulu, umthandi uzwa ukuthi kuyena amandla okugcwalisa. lo mkhathi ngokusemandleni awo.”
Isihloko esimayelana nothando ebuKristwini
Uthando ebuKristwini umoya wenkolo, futhi kungawo lapho umuntu angakhululwa kukho konke okubi, futhi ngothando umuntu afinyelele uNkulunkulu, amazi futhi amkhonze ngokukhonza Kwakhe kweqiniso, futhi uthando lwaluwumthetho obaluleke kakhulu UKristu kubalandeli bakhe, njengoba abayala ukuba bathande bonke abantu ngisho nezitha zabo.
U-Elia Abu Madi uthi:
Umphefumulo lapho uthando lungakhanyi** ngumphefumulo owawungazi ukuthi usho ukuthini
Mina, ngothando, ngizé kimi futhi ngothando, ngiye ngamazi uNkulunkulu
Khuluma ngothando
Uthando lweqiniso luyizinga elifinyelelwa nguNkulunkulu kuphela omnike ukuvuthwa nokuqonda okukhulu ngokuphila, ngakho uyazi ukuthi akukho lutho kulomhlaba olufanelwe ukuzondwa, nokuthi umuntu ophishekela inzondo nenzondo njengokuziphatha nokuqiniseka ekuphileni kwakhe. , uzilimaza yena ngaphezu kokulimaza abanye.
Uthando luwukugxila kwesintu kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, futhi ezikhathini zangaphambi kobuSulumane, ama-Arabhu ayegubha uthando futhi alunikeze amagama amqondofana amaningi ngokwezinga lawo, futhi phakathi kwalawa mazwi amqondofana: uthando, ukubekezela, ukuzulazula, inkanuko, uthando, nobuntandane.
Futhi kwakukhona uthando lwentombi olungenalo inkanuko, futhi kuthiwa luvela esizweni sakwa-Athra, izimbongi zaso zalubabaza lolu hlobo olumsulwa lothando olungabonakali, olungokomoya olungenamgomo ngaphandle kothando.
I-Islam yafika nomlayezo wothando nokuthula phakathi kwabantu, ngakho-ke iMuslim alikholwa kuze kube yilapho lithanda abantu futhi lithandele lokho elikuthanda lona ngokuhle, futhi lithande uMdali walo, futhi uNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke wenze umusa izinceku zaKhe ngokutshala uthando olumsulwa. nothando ezinhliziyweni zabo, futhi Wathi eNcwadini yaKhe eNgcwele: “Futhi khumbulani umusa kaNkulunkulu phezu kwenu lapho nisenezitha, wabe esehlanganisa izinhliziyo zenu, futhi ngomusa waKhe senaba ngabazalwane.”
Futhi uthando luwukupheleliswa komuntu ngezinga eliphezulu futhi eliphakeme kakhulu.” U-Al-Jahiz uthi: “Umthandi wokupheleliswa kufanele azijwayeze ukuthanda abantu, ukuba nomusa kubo, ukuba nomusa kubo, nokuba nesihawu nomusa kubo. Kubo, okungamandla engqondo, futhi ngalowo kuphefumula umuntu waba umuntu.
Futhi uthando luqala ngokunamathela, khona-ke inhliziyo ifuna labo abanamathele kubo, futhi ifune ukusondela kubo, khona-ke umuntu uba yisithulu, athatheke othandweni, futhi anikeze othandekayo wakhe ukuthula kothando, futhi amshise ngaye, kuze kufike kuye udaba lothando nobuntandane, bese kuba ukuzinikela nobungane, okungamazinga aphezulu othando.
Isihloko sokuphetha ngothando
Uthando luyinjabulo yeqiniso, ngakho yiba umthwali wenjabulo futhi uziqeqeshe ukuba ubekezele futhi uthande zonke izidalwa zikaNkulunkulu, futhi uyothola kuwe isiqiniseko esingedlulwa yinoma yini ngobuhle nobuhle bayo, futhi ukumamatheka okumsulwa kuyodonswa. ebusweni bakho obuphuma enhliziyweni yakho enothando, futhi umkhathi uyokuphendula ngokuvumelana okungafinyelelwa abantu abanenhliziyo ehlanzekile kuphela.Bachichima lo mhlaba ngothando, ukuthula nobuhle.
