Izincazelo ezingu-20 ezibaluleke kakhulu zokubona ithuna ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

Rehab Saleh
2024-04-15T15:45:15+02:00
Ukuhunyushwa amaphupho
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Umbono wethuna ephusheni

Esimweni sokuchazwa kwephupho, iphupho mayelana namathuna lingase lifanekisela iziphambeko ekuziphatheni noma ukuzama ukugwema imingcele ekhona, okungase kuholele ekubhekaneni nezijeziso noma izinselele ezinzima.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwakha ithuna elihle ephusheni kungase kubonise isifiso somuntu sokudala nokumisa ikhaya elizinzile nelithokomele ngokoqobo lapho ethola khona ukuthula nenduduzo.

Ukuhamba eduze kwamathuna kungase kubonise isigaba sethemba lapho umuntu ethola khona ukuthula kwengqondo futhi asuse izinkathazo nezinkinga ezimsindayo.
Uma ephusheni umuntu ehambisa ukudla neziphuzo kwabasweleyo eduze kwamathuna, lokhu kungase kubonise ukubaluleka kokwenza umsebenzi wokusiza abantulayo kanye nokwabelana nabanye ngalokho anakho, ikakhulukazi ukuxhumanisa izibopho zomndeni nokubonisa umusa kwabampofu kanye abaswele.

Lapho umuntu ebona ithuna elivulekile futhi ethatha isinyathelo sokuqala sokuligcwalisa ephusheni, lokhu kungahunyushwa njengophawu lokuvuselela amandla okuphila nokuthuthukisa impilo nokuphila kahle.
Ukungena ethuneni kubonisa ukubhekana nobunzima nezinselele ezinzima ezingase zithinte inkambo yokuphila komuntu.

Amaphupho lapho amalangabi avela khona ephuma ethuneni angase abe yisixwayiso noma inkomba yokuthi izenzo nokuziphatha okungenzeka ukuthi kubhekene nezijeziso kufanele kuhlolwe kabusha.
Nakuba iphupho lokugeza ithuna lingahunyushwa njengophawu lokuhlanza umphefumulo nokulwela ukuphila okugcwele ukuzola nokuhlanzeka, kude namaphutha nezono.
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Ukuhunyushwa kokubona ithuna ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

Ucwaningo lwakamuva emkhakheni wokuhumusha amaphupho lubonisa ukuthi ukubonakala kwamathuna emaphusheni kungase kuthwale izincazelo eziningi ezincike kumongo wombono.
Kukholelwa ukuthi ukubona ithuna kungase kuzwakalise ukwesaba into engaziwa, izixwayiso zobunzima obuzayo, noma ngisho nokulahlekelwa abathandekayo.
Ngokwesibonelo, uma ithuna lomntwana livela ephusheni, kuthiwa lokhu kungase kubikezele ukuzalwa okuyinselele komphuphi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ithuna elivulekile libonakala njengophawu lokuhlupheka okujulile nokudabuka okukhulu, kuyilapho ithuna elimhlophe lingase lifanekisela ukulahlekelwa umngane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lokhu kulahlekelwa kungenxa yokuhlukana noma ukufa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubona ithuna elihlotshiswe ngezimbali nohlaza kubhekwa njengesibonakaliso esihle esikhuthaza ithemba emphefumulweni, okuphawula ukuphela kwenkathi yokudabuka kanye nokuqala kwempilo entsha egcwele injabulo nokuchuma.

Futhi, ukuya ethuneni lothile ephusheni kungabonisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukulahlekelwa izibusiso noma ukulahlekelwa ngokwezimali noma kwezenhlalo.
Ukuma ethuneni kukhombisa izinselelo ezinkulu umphuphi angase abhekane nazo empilweni yakhe.

Uma umuntu ezibona engcwatshwa ethuneni engafanga, lokhu kuhunyushwa ngokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uhlushwa yingcindezi noma ubhekene nezikhathi ezinzima.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuphuma ethuneni ephusheni kuthembisa izindaba ezinhle ukuthi izimo zizoba ngcono, nokuthi umphuphi uzonqoba ubunzima nosizi.
Ngokuqondene nokuphupha ukumba ithuna, kukholelwa ukuthi kungase kubonise ukubandakanyeka esimweni esiyinkimbinkimbi noma ubuhlobo.

Ekuphetheni, ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho kuhlala kuyinkambu ephethe imibono eminingi nezincazelo, futhi kuhlale kululeka ukucabanga ngomongo ogcwele wephupho kanye nesimo sengqondo somphuphi lapho sifuna izincazelo zalo.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona ithuna ephusheni labesifazane abangashadile

Iphupho ngethuna lentombazane engashadile libonisa ukuthi ubhekene nesikhathi esinzima esigcwele izinselele, kuhlanganise nobunzima mayelana nomshado.
Kodwa-ke, uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ithuna ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokubhekana nobunzima ebuhlotsheni bomshado, futhi ngezinye izikhathi, kungase kubonise izinkinga ezihlobene nokuzala.

Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ithuna elivulekile, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lwezinkinga ezithile zempilo angase abhekane nazo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma efakaza ephusheni lakhe ingane ephuma ethuneni, lokhu kungaba izindaba ezinhle zokukhulelwa maduzane.

Kuwesifazane okhulelwe, ukubona ithuna ephusheni kuthwala izincazelo ezinhle, okulindelwe ukuzalwa kwemvelo nokulula.
Inqubo yokumba ithuna ifanekisela ukuthola izinto ezinhle, kuyilapho ukungcwatshwa kubonisa ukunqoba ubunzima kanye nokushabalala kokukhathazeka.
Ukuzulazula phakathi kwamathuna kuwuphawu lokuphepha nesivikelo, futhi ukuma ethuneni kunezindaba ezinhle zokugcwaliseka kwesifiso osekunesikhathi eside silindelwe.
Ekugcineni, ukushiya ithuna ephusheni kubonisa ubuhle nezibusiso, kuyilapho ukungena kulo kungase kusho ukuqala kwesigaba esisha ekuphileni.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona ithuna ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile

Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ithuna ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa isixwayiso sokuthi kungenzeka ukuhlukana nomyeni wakhe.
Uma ebona ukuthi umbela umyeni wakhe ithuna, lokho kungase kubonise ukuthi umyeni uzosuka kude naye noma amshiye.

Futhi, ukubona umyeni engcwatshwa ephusheni kungase kubonise ukungakwazi ukuba nezingane kuye.
Ukuphupha ithuna elivulekile kukhombisa ubungozi bomfazi ongenwa ukugula.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi kukhona ingane ephuma ethuneni elivulekile, lokhu kubhekwa njengezindaba ezinhle zokufika komntwana omusha nokukhulelwa kwakhe esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona ithuna ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe

Emaphusheni abesifazane abakhulelwe, isithombe sethuna sinezincazelo eziningi ezinhle.
Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ithuna ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa isipiliyoni sokuzalwa esilula ngaphandle kwezinkinga.
Uma ezibona emba ithuna, lokhu kubikezela ukuza kwezibusiso, injabulo, kanye nenala yokuziphilisa ekuphileni kwakhe.

Ngokunjalo, ukubhidliza noma ukugcwalisa ithuna kuveza ubunzima bakhe bokunqoba kanye nokuqeda izinkathazo nosizi empilweni yakhe.
Ukuhamba phakathi kwamathuna kukhombisa isimo sokuphepha nokuthula ohlangabezana nakho.
Uma ema phambi kwethuna ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi izifiso nezifiso zakhe ezinkulu zizofezeka.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ezibona ephuma ethuneni, lokhu kumemezela ukuthi uyozuza ubuhle, izibusiso, nenala yokuziphilisa ekuphileni kwakhe.
Nokho, uma engena ethuneni, lokhu kubonisa ukuqala kwesigaba esisha esigcwele injabulo nobuhle obuchichimayo.

 Incazelo yokubona amathuna ephusheni owesifazane ohlukanisile

Lapho owesifazane ohlukanisile ephupha amathuna, lokhu kubonisa iqembu lezincazelo ezahlukene nezincazelo.
Uma engena emathuneni abese ephuma ngokushesha, lokhu kungase kuchazwe ngokungazuzi kwakhe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambili.
Ngokuqondene nokuvakashela amathuna, kungase kube inkomba yemizwa yokudabuka nokucindezeleka.
Uma eshiya amathuna, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuqala kwesigaba esisha esibonakala ngenkululeko nokuzimela.

Uma ephupha elele emathuneni ebusuku, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uyochayeka ekumangaleleni okungamanga, kuyilapho ukulala emathuneni emini kuletha izindaba ezinhle zenduduzo nokuthula.

Ukuhamba phakathi kwamathuna ephusheni kungase kubonise ubunzima angase abhekane nabo ekuvuseleleni impilo yakhe yomshado, futhi ukuhlala emathuneni kungase kubonise izinselele ezinkulu ezimvimbela ekufezeni amaphupho akhe.

Ukuphupha amathuna ngaphakathi endlini kuhunyushwa njengokubhekana nokungalungi, kanti ukuphupha amathuna amaningi kuveza izinkinga ezinkulu nezinsizi.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona amathuna ephusheni kumuntu

Ezweni lamaphupho, ukubona amathuna kuthwala izincazelo eziningi kanye nemiyalezo ehluka ngokuya ngemininingwane yephupho.
Lapho indoda izithola ingaphakathi kwezindonga zamathuna, izindla noma izithobile, lokhu kungase kubonise isimo sokuhlonipha nokuhlonipha ekuphileni kwayo.
Ukuvakashela amathuna kuveza ukuhambisana kwakhe nezimiso zenkolo nokuzibophezela ezintweni ezinhle.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ezithola ehamba emathuneni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi usenqobe uvivinyo noma impilo yakhe yathuthuka.

Ukulala emathuneni kubonisa ukuthi umuntu udebeselela izibopho zakhe ezingokomoya, kuyilapho ukulala ethuneni elivulekile kungase kuhunyushwe njengophawu oluhle oluya ezinguqukweni ezijabulisayo kanye nezenzakalo ezijabulisayo ezinjengomshado.
Ukuhamba phakathi kwamathuna kungahunyushwa njengophawu lokulwela ukuzithuthukisa kanye nokufisa ukuphila okulungile.

Ukudla emathuneni kubonakala, ngokombono wephupho, njengophawu lokuzuza ukuphila okusemthethweni kanye nesibusiso lapho.
Komunye umongo, ukubona amathuna ngaphakathi endlini kungase kubonise izingcindezi zezimali noma ubunzima obubhekene nomphuphi ekuphileni kwakhe.
Mayelana nokumba amathuna, kufanekisela ukuhileleka ezindabeni ezisontekile noma ukuzifaka engozini yokungena emikhakheni emisha.

Wonke amaphupho aqukethe izintshumayelo nezimpawu ezingaba semqoka ohambweni lomuntu olungokomoya noma lwasemhlabeni.

Ebona elele ethuneni ephusheni

Ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho ahlobene namathuna kwisayensi yokuchazwa kwephupho kubonisa izincazelo ezahlukene nezincazelo kuye ngokuthi imininingwane yephupho.
Ngokwesibonelo, uma umuntu ezibona engena ethuneni kungase kube uphawu lwezinguquko ezinkulu ekuphileni kwakhe noma isexwayiso sokuthi isigaba esinzima sisondela.
Uma uthenga ithuna ngaphandle kokungena kulo, umbono ungase ufanekisele ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo noma umshado.

Komunye umongo, ukulala ethuneni ephusheni kungase kubonise ukukhohlwa noma ukunganaki emthandazweni nasekunxuseleni oshonile, noma kungase kube isimemo kumuntu obukele ukuba abuyekeze izenzo zakhe nobuhlobo bakhe nabanye, ikakhulukazi uma kukhona amalungelo okuziphatha noma izinto ezibonakalayo. ekweleta umufi.
Ukulala ngaphakathi kwethuna elivulekile kuhunyushwa njengophawu lokulahlekelwa inkululeko noma ukubhekana nobunzima obufana nejele, kuyilapho ukulala ethuneni elivaliwe kumelela imizwa yokudabuka nezinkinga zomndeni ezinzima.

Noma ubani ozibona ephila ngaphakathi ethuneni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uyaliqaphela iqiniso futhi akalisebenzisi ngokoqobo, futhi umbono lapho umuntu ebonakala efile ngaphakathi ethuneni ubonisa isidingo esiphuthumayo sokuphenduka futhi abuyele endleleni efanele.
Ukuhlala ethuneni kungase kube uphawu lokwesaba kanye nesizungu ezinseleleni ezinkulu zokuphila.

Lezi zincazelo ziphethe izigijimi zokuziphatha nezixwayiso okufanele umuntu azilalele, ezilungiselela ukubhekana nempilo ngendlela engokoqobo kanye nokholo ekushintsheni kube ngcono.

Ithini incazelo yethuna elivulekile ephusheni

Ezincazelweni ezihlobene nokubona ithuna elivulekile ephusheni, kuboniswa ukuhlukahluka kwezincazelo nemiyalezo ekhishwe kuleli phupho.
Ukubona ithuna elivulekile kukhombisa ukuthi kungenzeka ulahlekelwe noma uvaleliswe umuntu osondelene naye empeleni, okuhlanganisa izikhathi zoshintsho olukhulu empilweni yomuntu siqu.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lo mbono, uma ithuna liqukethe izinto ezinokubukeka okukhangayo noma okumangalisayo, kungase kumemezele ukufika kobuhle, izibusiso, noshintsho oluhle empilweni yomphuphi.
Ngokuphambene, kubantu abagulayo, ukubona ithuna elivulekile kungase kubonise izinselele ezengeziwe noma impilo ewohlokayo.
Lezi zincazelo zinikeza umbono ophelele wokuthi izimpawu zethu zamaphupho zingaqondwa kanjani ngezindlela ezahlukene kuye ngemininingwane yephupho kanye nomongo walo.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona ithuna ephusheni ngokusho kuka-Imam Nabulsi

Uma insizwa iphupha igubha ithuna, ngokuvamile lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi umshado wayo ususondele.
Uma uphupha ukumba ithuna ngaphandle kwezindonga, lokhu kungase kuqondwe njengophawu lokudlulela ekuphileni kwangemva kokufa.
Ukuphupha umuntu emba ithuna phakathi kweqembu lamathuna awaziyo kukhomba ukwembula amaqiniso, kuyilapho ukumba phakathi kwamathuna angaziwa kukhomba ukulahlekelwa nokulahlekelwa.

Ukuchazwa kombono womuntu omba amathuna kuncike emsebenzini wakhe noma esimweni sakhe. Uma engumfundi wolwazi, iphupho libonisa ukuphishekela kwakhe ulwazi kanye nokuqoqwa kwesayensi.
Uma umphuphi ecebile, lokhu kubonisa ukuqoqwa nokwanda kwemali empilweni yakhe.
Ukuvakashela amathuna ephusheni kungase kusho ukuvakashela umuntu oboshiwe noma kube uphawu lokuhamba nokugcwaliseka kwezifiso zomuntu siqu ekuphileni.

Ukucekela phansi ithuna ngephupho

Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ucekela phansi ithuna, lokhu akuhambisani kahle, njengoba lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi umuntu uzobhekana nezinselele ezinzima nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene.

Indlu ingase ibhekane nobunzima, njengokucekelwa phansi, nokudabuka kungase kukhuphuke phakathi kwezindonga zayo.
Futhi, ubuhlobo nomkami bungathinteka kabi, njengoba ithuba lokungavumelani nezingxabano phakathi kwabo landa ngemva kokubona leli phupho.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nethuna elibanzi

Emaphusheni, ukubona ithuna elibanzi kungaba nezincazelo eziningi.
Uma umuntu ezibona ephambi kwethuna elikhulu futhi ebhekene nezikhathi ezinzima noma ehlushwa ukugula, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ubhekene nezinselele ezinkulu noma ngisho nokufa, uNkulunkulu makube kude.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umuntu ephila ukuphila okukude nezimfundiso zenkolo futhi ezibona ephambi kwethuna elibanzi, kufanele lokhu akuthathe njengophawu lokuphenduka, ayeke ukuziphatha okubi, futhi azame ukulungisa inkambo yokuphila kwakhe. .
Lolu shintsho olungcono lungaba ukhiye wokuzizwa uqinisekisiwe futhi uzuze impilo enokuthula nezinzile.

Ukubona kumbiwa amathuna kuvuleka amathuna ngephupho

Ekuchazeni amaphupho, ukukhipha amathuna kungathwala izincazelo eziningana ezihluka ngokuya ngalokho okutholakala ngaphakathi kwethuna.
Uma umphuphi ezibona ephusheni emba ithuna ukuze athole umuntu ongcwatshwe ephila, lokhu kubonisa umzamo owakhayo nemigomo emihle nebusisiwe futhi engaletha inzuzo nokuhlakanipha kumphuphi.
Ngokuphambene, uma ukumba kugcina kutholwa umuntu ofile, lokhu kungase kubonise izifiso ezingenanzuzo enhle.

Ukubona umuntu ophilayo ekhishwa ethuneni lakhe ephusheni kunezindaba ezinhle zokuthola ilungelo elilahlekile noma ithemba elivuselelwe kokuthile okwakucatshangwa ukuthi kulahlekile.
Ukuthola isidumbu noma ukuhlala ngaphakathi kwethuna elaziwayo ephusheni kungase kufanekisele umzamo womphuphi ekunakekeleni umuntu ogulayo noma isimo esinzima okukholelwa ukuthi asinalo ithemba lokuthuthukiswa.

Umbono wokukhipha ithuna elingaziwa futhi kutholwe umuntu ofile ngaphakathi kulo uhunyushwa njengenkomba yokubhekana nobuzenzisi noma ukungakholwa, kuyilapho umbono wokukhipha amathuna nokwebiwa okungaphakathi kwawo uzwakalisa ukweqa komphuphi ezintweni ezinqatshelwe.

Uma umphuphi ezama ukumba ithuna ephusheni futhi engakwazi, lo mbono ungase ube yisixwayiso ngokumelene nokuzama ukwenza iphutha nokuphenduka kulo.
Ukukhipha ithuna lomuntu olungileyo noma umprofethi kuthathwa ephusheni njengophawu lokusabalalisa ulwazi nemithetho yakhe phakathi kwabantu.

USheikh Al-Nabulsi uthi ukukhipha amathuna kungase kusho ukulandela ezinyathelweni zabangasekho noma ukufuna ukuqonda impilo nezimfundiso zakhe.
Ikakhulukazi, ukukhipha ithuna loMprofethi uMuhammad, ukuthula nezibusiso zika Nkulunkulu kube kuye, kuhunyushwa njengokulwela ukuqonda iSunnah yakhe nokwenza okuthile ngayo, kodwa ukufinyelela nokuphula amathambo kuthathwa njengesenzo esikhomba ukuhlubuka nokuduka.
Noma ubani omba ithuna lomuntu ongakholwa noma osungula izinto ezintsha ephusheni ubonisa ukuthambekela kwakhe ekulandeleni indlela engeyona elungile nelungile, ikakhulukazi uma umphumela kuwukutholakala kwesidumbu esikhohlakele noma into esolekayo.

Ithini incazelo yokubeka amanzi ethuneni ephusheni?

Ukuthululela amanzi emathuneni ephusheni kungase kubonise izenzo ezinhle umuntu azenzayo ukuze kuzuze abafileyo, njengokubathandazela nokunikela izipho egameni labo.

Lesi senzo singabuye siveze izimo zengqondo nezingcindezi umuntu abhekana nazo empilweni yakhe.

Ukumba ithuna ngephupho

Ephusheni, ukumba ithuna kungase kubonise ushintsho oluhle nokwamukela izenzakalo ezijabulisayo maduze.
Lesi senzo ngokuvamile sibhekwa njengesibikezelo esihle, futhi singabonisa intuthuko ejabulisayo njengomshado womuntu ongashadile.
Ngezinye izikhathi, ukukhipha umuntu ophilayo ethuneni ephusheni kungase kufanekisele ukubhekana nokuxazulula izinkinga noma izinselele ezidlule.

Ukwesaba ithuna ephusheni

Uma uphupha ithuna futhi uzizwa wesaba ukulibona kanye nesijeziso esingase lisilethe, lokhu kungaba uphawu oluhle uma ukuziphatha kwakho kokuvuka kubonakala ngobuhle nokuguqulwa, futhi ugwema izenzo ezingalungile nezithiyo.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi ufuna ubuhle empilweni yakho futhi ucela isiqondiso nomusa kuNkulunkulu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ukwesaba ithuna kuhambisana nokuqaphela kwakho izenzo zakho ezimbi ekuphileni, khona-ke lokhu kuwubizo oluvela kwabahlakaniphile kanye nezifundiswa ukulungisa indlela yempilo yakho futhi udlulele ekwenzeni okuhle futhi ugweme ububi nobubi. ububi, ukuze kuzuzwe ibhalansi nokuthula kwangaphakathi.

Ekhipha abafileyo ethuneni ngephupho

Ukubona umuntu ofile evuka ethuneni lakhe ephusheni kubonisa ukudalula izinto ezifihliwe ezingabangela ukukhathazeka nokungezwani kumphuphi.

Uma oshonile ebonakala evuka ethuneni egoqwe ngendwangu yakhe futhi ophuphayo ebhekene nenkathi yokucindezeleka kwengqondo noma ukungezwani, khona-ke lo mbono ungase umemezele ukuphela kwaleyo nkathi enzima, njengoba ukukhathazeka nokungezwani kuyothathelwa indawo ukuqinisekiswa nokuzola.

Ekhipha ithuna ngephupho

Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuphupha ngokumba amathuna kungase kubonise okuhle nezinye izikhathi ezimbi, njengoba ukuphupha ngokumba ithuna lomuntu ongaziwa kungase kubonise ukuhileleka ezimweni eziyingozi noma ezimbi ngenxa yokulandela umuntu ongafanele.

Lo mbono ungase ufanekise ukuwela ogibeni lokukhohlisa nokuzilimaza ngenxa yethonya lalowo muntu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukumba amathuna emaphusheni kungase kufanekisele ukuphumelela nokufinyelela imigomo, ikakhulukazi uma umphuphi ethola okuthile okubalulekile ethuneni.

Ukubona ukuvakashela amathuna ephusheni

Ekuchazeni amaphupho, ukuvakashela amathuna kuthwala izincazelo eziningi ezihluka kuye ngemininingwane yephupho.
Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uvakashela amathuna, lokhu kungase kubonise isifiso sakhe sokuxhumana nabafile noma ukulandela indlela yomuntu ongcwatshwe lapho.
Iphupho lingase futhi libonise isimo esinzima sezezimali lowo ophuphayo abhekene naso noma isidingo sakhe sokufuna usizo lwezezimali kwabanye.

Ngokuphathelene nokuphindaphinda u-Al-Fatihah ethuneni ephusheni, kufanekisela ukugcwaliseka kwesifiso esinzima ngemva komzamo.
Ukuthandaza ethuneni elingaziwa kumelela isiqalo esisha namathuba angase avele phambi komphuphi, kuyilapho ukuthandaza ethuneni elaziwayo kuveza isidingo sokuba umphuphi akhumbule abafileyo ngomthandazo noma isisa.

Ukuvakashela ithuna labazali bakhe ngamaphupho kubonisa ukulangazelela kanye nesidingo sokubathandazela, nezincazelo ezibonisa ukulunga nokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu noma isifiso sokuthethelelwa nokwaneliseka.

Ukuvakashela ithuna loMprofethi uMuhammad, sengathi uNkulunkulu ambusise futhi amnike ukuthula, ephusheni kuthathwa njengophawu lokulandela iSunnah yakhe, futhi kungaba yinkomba yokwamukela ukunxusa noma ukwenza iHajj noma Umrah Futhi, ukuvakashela amathuna abangcwele kanye nabantu abalungile bafanekisela ukulandela indlela yabo yomoya nokukhumbula izimpilo zabo ezinephunga elimnandi.

Ukuchazwa kokungena emathuneni nokungawaboni amathuna kungaveza lowo ophuphayo evakashela abagulayo noma ebanakekela, futhi ukufuna ithuna ephusheni kungase kubonise umuzwa wokungafaneleki ekwenzeni ukukhulekela noma ukuthandazela abafileyo, ikakhulukazi uma ukucinga ithuna eliseduze ngaphandle kokulithola, njengoba kungase kubonise ukunganaki ukuxhumana kwesibeletho.

Ukuma phambi kwethuna elingaziwa kungase kubonise ukubhekana nezinsolo noma okuhlangenwe nakho okunzima, futhi kungase kube ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso somphuphi sokuqeda izinkumbulo ezibuhlungu noma isigaba esinzima ekuphileni kwakhe.

Ukuzibona uhamba emathuneni ngephupho

Ukuzibona uhamba emathuneni ngesikhathi sephupho kungase kube nezincazelo eziningi ezihluka kuye ngemininingwane yombono.
Lapho uhamba phakathi kwamathuna, ikakhulukazi ebusuku, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuhlanganyela ezintweni ezinqatshelwe noma ukuthatha indlela engafanele.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhamba phakathi kwamathuna emini kungase kufanekisele ukuphaphama okungokomoya noma ukubuya engqondweni ngemva kokulahlekelwa inkathi ethile.

Ngokuqondene nomuzwa wokwesaba lapho uhamba emathuneni, ubonisa ukucwiliswa ekujabuleleni kwaleli zwe nokugwema ukucabanga ngokuphila kwangemva kokufa.
Umbono wokuhamba ungafake zicathulo noma unyawo olulodwa emathuneni uqukethe okushiwo ukudabuka nokulahlekelwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukulahlekelwa umuntu othandekayo noma ukulahlekelwa ingxenye yempilo yakho noma isimo sakho.

Ukuhamba wedwa emathuneni kungase kubonise umuzwa wesizungu noma kungase kubonise uhambo olude noluyinselele, kuyilapho ukuhamba nomuntu oshonile kungase kube inkomba yokucabanga ngokufa noma isixwayiso sokuphela kwesigaba sokuphila.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokungena emathuneni

Izincazelo zokubona amathuna emaphusheni ziyahlukahluka kuye ngesimo somuntu kanye nesikhundla sakhe ngaphakathi kwephupho.
Uma othile evakashela amathuna ngenkathi ehlushwa ukugula empeleni, iphupho lingabonisa ukufa kwakhe ngenxa yalesi sifo.

Uma umuntu eya emathuneni esesimweni sokuzithoba, noma efunda iKur’an noma ethandaza, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi uhlangana nabantu abalungile noma abalungile.
Ngenkathi bengena emathuneni ngenkathi behleka noma behamba nabafile kuveza ukubandakanyeka komuntu ezenzweni ezingezinhle noma ukuqhelelana kwakhe nenkolo.

Ukuzibona ungena futhi ushiya amathuna kubonisa ukunqoba isikhathi esinzima noma ubunzima empilweni yomphuphi.
Ukungena emathuneni ngaphandle kokuwashiya kungase kubonise ukuphela kwesiteji empilweni yomuntu noma ukusondela kokufa komuntu.

Uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi wangena emathuneni futhi akazange athole amathuna lapho, lokhu kungase kusho ukuvakashela umuntu ogulayo noma esibhedlela ngokushesha.
Ukufuna ithuna emathuneni ngesikhathi sephupho kungase kubonise umuzwa wokuntuleka ekukhulekeleni noma isidingo sokuthandazela abafileyo.

Incazelo yokubona ephuma emathuneni ngephupho

Ekuhunyushweni kwephupho, umuntu ozibona ephuma emathuneni ubonisa izimpawu ezihlukahlukene ezinhle ezihlobene nempilo yomuntu kanye nezinkolelo zakhe.
Lapho umuntu ephupha ukuthi uhamba emathuneni ngaphandle kokwesaba, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi uzophila isikhathi eside.
Nokho, uma eyishiya ngenkathi egcwele ukwesaba, kodwa ezizwa ekhululekile ngemva kwalokho, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi udlule esigabeni esinzima futhi wathola ukuqinisekiswa.
Ukukhala ngenkathi ushiya amathuna ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuzisola nesifiso sokuphenduka ngenxa yamaphutha noma izono.

Uma umphuphi ehambisana lapho ephuma emathuneni ngumuntu oshonile amaziyo, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuvuselelwa kokholo nokubuyela endleleni efanele.
Ngokuqondene nokuphuma nomuntu ongaziwa, iphupho lingase libonise ukubaluleka kokulunga nokuzinikela ekuphileni komphuphi.

Izincazelo zibuye zihumushe iphupho lokuphunyuka emathuneni njengobufakazi bokwesaba ukubhekana noma ukujeziswa, ikakhulukazi uma ukuphunyuka kwenzeka ebusuku, njengoba kungase kuzwakale ukuhlala esimweni sokuduka noma ukunganaki kweqiniso.

Lezi zincazelo zigcizelela izincazelo ezahlukene kanye nezimpawu ukuthi ukubona amathuna emaphusheni kungathwala, njengoba kukholelwa ukuthi yonke imininingwane encane ingase ithwale incazelo ebalulekile efanelwe ukucatshangelwa nokucatshangelwa.

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