Umsakazo wesikole okhuluma ngobaba uhlukene futhi ukhuluma ngobaba emsakazweni wesikole

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Ukuba ngubaba kuwumthwalo omkhulu, njengoba ubaba eyinsika yomndeni, futhi uthwala imisebenzi eminingi, nguye ovikela umndeni wakhe, futhi nguye osebenza ukuze anakekele izidingo zamalungu omndeni futhi agxilise okuhle. amanani kuzo.

Esikhathini lapho abantu abaningi bedela imithwalo yabo yemfanelo, ukuba ubaba weqiniso kuyimali eyingqayizivele efanelekela ukwazisa nokuhlonishwa, njengoba enakekela izingane, ukuze zithembele kubo futhi bazisekele ekuphileni, futhi ukuba khona kwakhe okusebenzayo kungagwema. ezinkingeni eziningi.

UNkulunkulu utuse umuntu kubazali bakhe, futhi wamnxusa ukuba abaphathe kahle, angazami ukubathukuthelisa, ababekezelele futhi angabahawukeli, abanakekele ekugugeni kwabo, futhi abanxusele. ngisho nangemva kokufa kwabo, futhi ubaba uyena ofaneleka kunabo bonke ubungane benu ngemva kukanina, njengoba kwatusa isiThunywa sikaAllah (uNkulunkulu ambusise futhi asinike ukuthula).

Futhi ubaba, uNkulunkulu wamenza isizathu sokuba khona kwakho empilweni, futhi kufanele asebenze kanzima futhi alwele ukuzuza izinga lokuphila elamukelekayo kuwe nomndeni wonke, futhi akunikeze ukusekela ngokwezimali nangokwengqondo, nokuphila. okuhlangenwe nakho okungase kukuzuzise ekuphileni kwakho nasekusasa lakho.

Ubaba oyiqondayo incazelo yokuba ubaba unethonya elikhulu ekulolongeni ubuntu bezingane zakhe, eqinisa ubuthakathaka bazo, nasekuthuthukiseni amakhono abo nekhono lokusungula izinto.

Esethulweni somsakazo wesikole okhuluma ngobaba kufanele ubonge ukuba khona kukayihlo empilweni yakho, njengoba ubaba wangempela engamandla angokwengqondo okwenza umntwana abe nomuzwa wokuthi ukhona ongayivikela ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi. ukuthi unomuntu athembele kuye kuzo zonke izinkinga angase abhekane nazo kuze kube yilapho ebuya ngamandla futhi ekwazi ukuzivikela futhi abhekane nempilo Yedwa, njengetshwele elifunda ukundiza, lazi ukuthi kukhona ozolibamba uma liqala ukuzama ukundiza. ukundiza akuphumeleli, futhi ngeke amvumele awe aze aphinde azame, aqinise amaphiko akhe, futhi ekugcineni akwazi ukuthembela kuye.

Isigaba se-Holy Qur'an yomsakazo wesikole kubaba

UNkulunkulu (Udumo malube Kuye) usiyalile ukuthi sinakekele abazali, sibahloniphe, sibahloniphe kuzo zonke izimo, futhi noma ubaba engalaleli lokho akusho ukuthi uyamthuka noma uyamcasula, njengoyise wezingane. Umphrofethi u-Ibrahim (ukuthula kube kuye) wakwenza lapho ebiza uyise ukuba akhonze uNkulunkulu yedwa futhi alahle ukukhonza izithombe, wayeba mnene kuye, embiza ngenxa yokwesaba ulaka loMdali, okuyilokho uNkulunkulu (oPhezukonke) akushoyo. e-Surat Maryam:

Wathi uMninimandla Onke: “Awu baba, kungani ukhonza lokho okungezwayo nokungaboniyo futhi okungakuzuzi ngalutho, uyindlela eqondileyo * Oh, Baba, ungamkhulekeli uSathane, ngoba uSathane wayengalaleli uSomusa.

Uze ambonise ukumesaba kwakhe kanye nomusa wakhe kuye, njengasezwini lakhe (uSomandla) eSurat Maryam:

Wathi (uMninimandla Onke): “Oh, baba wami, ngesaba ukuthi kungenzeka ukwehlele isijeziso esivela kuSomandla, ukuze ube ngumlindi kaSathane.

Mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali ebudaleni, uSomandla uthi ku-Surat Al-Isra: “Omunye noma bobabili baguga kanye nawe, ngakho-ke ungasho 'f' kubo, futhi ungabathethisi. izwi * Futhi wehlisele kubo uphiko lokuzithoba ngenxa yomusa futhi uthi: “Nkosi yami, bahawukele njengoba bangikhulisa ngisemncane.”

Futhi (uMninimandla Onke) wathi kuSurah S: “Futhi Sasiyala umuntu ukuba enze okuhle kubazali bakhe, unina wamzala kanzima, wamthwala futhi wamlumula izinyanga ezingamashumi amathathu, kwaze kwaba yilapho esekhulile, Kwathi eminyakeni engamashumi amane, wathi: “Nkosi yami, ngivumele ngibonge umusa waKho ongiphe wona kanye nabazali bami, futhi ngenze ukulunga okumthokozisayo, futhi ungilungisele ngenzalo yami ukuze ngiphenduke. wena, nami ngingomunye wamaMuslim.”

Khuluma ngobaba womsakazo wesikole

IsiThunywa (ukuthula kube kuye) sancoma ukuhlonipha abazali bomuntu, kunalokho wakhetha i-jihad ngenxa kaNkulunkulu, naphakathi kwama-hadith okukhulunywa ngawo lokhu:

Ngegunya lika-Abdullah bin Masoud (uNkulunkulu angajabula ngaye), wathi: Ngabuza uMprofethi (ukuthula nezibusiso zika-Allah kube phezu kwakhe) ukuthi yisiphi isenzo esithandeka kakhulu kuNkulunkulu na? Wathi: “Umthandazo ngesikhathi.” Wathi: “Khona-ke?” Wathi: “Abazali abaseduze.” Wathi: “Khona-ke yini?” I-Jihad ngenxa ka-Allah yathi"

Esandleni sika-Abdullah bin Amr bin Al-Aas, kwangathi uNkulunkulu angajabula ngaye, wathi: “Kwafika indoda kuMprofethi kaNkulunkulu, kwangathi imikhuleko kaMvelinqangi nokuthula makube kuye, yathi: “Ngenza isifungo kuwe ngokufuduka. kanye ne-jihad. ngifuna umvuzo kuNkulunkulu.
Wathi: “Ukhona kubazali bakho ophilayo?” Wathi: “Yebo, kodwa kokubili.” Wathi: “Nifuna umvuzo ovela kuNkulunkulu na?” Wathi: Yebo.
Wathi: “Buyela kubazali bakho futhi uhlalisane kahle nabo.”
Ilandiswa nguBukhari noMuslim.

Ukuhlakanipha ngobaba

Wazalwa engenayise, eyintandane, ezalwa engenanina, intandane ephelele. NjengoFinn

Ayikho indawo lapho ingane ilala ngokuphepha njengekamelo likayise. UFrederick Novalis

Kuwumuthi omnandi ukukhuza kukababa, ukukhuza kwakhe kudlula ubumunyu bakhe. - Demophilius

Ongakwazi ukufeza umsebenzi wokuba ubaba akanalo ilungelo lokushada nokuba nabantwana. - UJean-Jacques Rousseau

Umama uthanda ngenhliziyo yakhe yonke, kanti ubaba uthanda ngamandla akhe onke. - Madame de Boarne

Ubaba oyedwa ungcono kunabafundisi abayishumi. - UJean-Jacques Rousseau

Siyazi ukubaluleka kukasawoti uma silahlekelwa, nenani likababa uma efile. Isaga samaNdiya

Konke kuthengwa, ngaphandle kukababa nomama. Isaga samaNdiya

Ubaba kuphela ongenamona ngendodana yakhe ngethalente layo. - Goethe

Ubaba unakekela izingane eziyishumi, kodwa izingane eziyishumi azikwazi ukumnakekela. - Isaga sesiNgisi

Umama uthanda ngesisa, kanti ubaba uthanda ngokuhlakanipha. Isaga sesiNtaliyane

Izingane zingazalwa zinenhlonipho ukube abazali bazo. -Goethe

Ukuba umzali akumvikeli ubaba nomama ekuqambeni amanga, ukuganga nokukhohlisa. - Taha Hussien

Ayikho into ethambile njengamazwi kababa encoma indodana yakhe. - Menander

Thanda uyihlo uma elungile, futhi uma engeyena, mbekezelele. - Publilius Syrus

Ubaba uyawafihla amaphutha endodana yakhe, futhi indodana ifihla amaphutha kayise. - Confucius

Igama elithi baba alisho ukuba nezingane, wonke umuntu angaba nezingane, kodwa igama elithi ubaba lisho ikhono lokunakekela izingane. - UMalcom X

Isixuku ngokwemvelo siwubuqaba, futhi ngokushesha nje lapho usinikeza inkululeko ethile, sishintsha sibe isiphithiphithi. Abanamandla bayabusa njalo ababuthakathaka bayazithoba, yingakho ubaba ephumelela ukukhulisa indodana yakhe encane, ahluleke ukukhulisa indodana yakhe enkulu. - UTheodor Herzl

Ubaba wayehlale engifundisa ukuthi lapho usiza abanye, uNkulunkulu uyokunika okuphindwe kabili, futhi yilokhu okwenzeka ngempela kimi lapho ngisiza abanye abantu abaswele, uNkulunkulu wangisiza kakhulu. - UCristiano Ronaldo

Ubaba wayehlale engitshela ukuthi ngithanda ibhola ukudlula ukudlala ibhola: kusukela ngiseyingane encane, bengihlale nginekhono kulo, ngisika ifenisha endlini, yindlela engilibona ngayo ibhola - elijabulisayo nelinamandla - futhi kungaphezu kwami, kuvela ezicini zebhola laseBrazil. - Neymar

Inkondlo ngobaba yomsakazo wesikole

Uma engasekho inhloko yabantu basekhaya...abantu babonakala sebeqhelelene nabo

• Abu Tammam

Ukulunga kobubaba akukuvimbeli ekwenzeni... ukwakheka kwakho kube okunye ngaphandle kwalokho abakwenzile

Awuyithandi impilo abayitholile... evela kuhulumeni nemali abayiqoqile

• Ahmad Shawqi

Ubingelela ngezenzo ezinhle... izenzo zikayise, u-Al-Halal

Njenge-rose, amanzi ayo ayafiphala... Iphunga elimnandi alipheli

• Umqhubi oyimfihlo

Futhi unike uyihlo ingxenye, efile futhi ephila...

Ngithi kini ama-slippers uma nginitshela ukuthi ngithwele ... futhi ngincelisa iminyaka emibili futhi ngizala ngokugcwele

Futhi wakunika umzamo wahlangana nawe ngentokozo... Futhi wagona wahogela njengoba nje wagona noma wahogela.

• Abu Al-Ala Al-Maari

Lalela uNkulunkulu njengokuyala kwakhe... futhi ugcwalise inhliziyo yakho ngokuqapha

Futhi ulalele uyihlo, ngoba ... ukukhulisile kusukela usemncane

• al-Emam Al Shafi

Izwi ngobuhle bukababa

Ubaba ngesinye sezizathu zokuba khona kwakho empilweni, futhi imizwa yokuba ngubaba oqotho kuzo zonke izidalwa, idinga ukuthi ubaba abe ngumalusi wezingane zakhe, umvikeli wazo, futhi azondle ubukhona bazo baze bakhule futhi babe. bakwazi ukuzinakekela, futhi basungule eyabo imindeni.

Ubaba uwela phezu komthwalo wokukhulisa izingane ngokubambisana nomama, ukuzifundisa nokuzenza zifanelekele ukubhekana nomphakathi nempilo, nokugxilisa izindinganiso zobuntu eziphusile.

Ubaba unendima enkulu empilweni yezingane zakhe.Ubaba omuhle udala izizukulwane eziqinile, ezinempilo, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ezikwazi ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo.Ubaba omubi angaba ubuhlungu obungokwengqondo kanye nenkinga eshiya umthelela ocacile. emiphefumulweni yabantwana bakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangakanani.

Uyazi ngoFr

Ubaba nomama bodwa yibona abanikela ngaphandle kokulinda ukuthi izingane zabo zibuyise umusa.

Intandane ayikwazi ukunxephezela ngokulahlekelwa kwayo, noma ngabe ababeyinakekela banesisa futhi benesisa kangakanani, ayikho into okuthiwa ubaba nomama.

Ngubaba okwazi ukuqoqela umndeni eduze kwakhe ngothando nokupha, nokuqina nalabo abaphambuka emithethweni.

Ucwaningo lwakamuva lubonisa ukuthi akuyena umama kuphela oshintsha amazinga e-hormone ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kodwa futhi ubaba.

Ukwesaba umthwalo wokunakekela ingane kuhlanganyelwa ubaba nomama, hhayi umama yedwa.

Ubaba okahle yilowo ohlanganyela nonina umthwalo wokukhulisa nokufundisa izingane.

Ubaba okahle yilowo owenza umkhaya wakhe ujabule futhi ujabule.

Ubaba okahle yilowo oqondisa futhi eluleka izingane zakhe.

Ukuthi ubaba kufanele ahlanganyele nezingane zakhe emisebenzini ehlukahlukene ukuze aqinise izibopho zomkhaya phakathi kwakhe nazo.

Ubaba okahle akahlukanisi phakathi kwezingane zakhe ngesisekelo sempumelelo, ukuma, amandla, noma okunye ukungafani, kodwa uzinikeza ukunakwa, ukunakekelwa, nothando ezibafanele, futhi ulungile phakathi kwazo.

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Ekuphetheni kohlelo lomsakazo olumayelana nobaba, sithanda ukusho ukuthi ububaba ngenye yezincazelo ezimangalisayo zobuntu.Uphawu lobubaba ukunakekela, ukuvikelwa, nokusekela.Uyisibopho, umfundisi, futhi ungowokuqala. uthisha. Ubaba okahle udinga imfundo nokuqwashisa kusukela esemncane. Indodana ethola ukusekelwa kuyise kanye nekhono lokuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo ikhuliswa ngendlela efanayo. Futhi isebenza ukusabalalisa izindinganiso ezifanayo ezinhliziyweni zayo. izingane futhi uzikhulise ngendlela efanayo.

Kungumsebenzi wenu kuyihlo, odela induduzo yakhe ngenxa yenu, asebenze kanzima, aninike lokho yena ngokwakhe akuntulayo, ukumdumisa, ukumlalela, nokuzama ukumthokozisa.

Ubaba owazi incazelo yangempela yobubaba uyazondla izingane zakhe kuzo zonke izimo zazo uma nje engakwazi, futhi kumelwe umsekele futhi umnakekele lapho eguga, iqolo lakhe ligoba, namakhono akhe ayancipha.

Futhi qinisekisani ukuthi ukuhlonipha abazali kungezinye zezinto ezithandwa nguMvelinqangi nesiThunywa saKhe, futhi Ubuyisela kini empilweni yenu nasezinganeni zenu ngobuhle bonke, futhi njengoba nilalela abazali benu futhi nifuna ukwamukelwa yibo, abantwana benu bayokwenza lokho. ukulalela futhi ufune ukwamukelwa nguwe, futhi njengoba ubanakekela lapho usugugile, abantwana bakho bayokunakekela lapho usumdala.

Futhi ubaba kumele asize izingane zakhe ukuba zimhloniphe, ngokungabaphathisi lokho abangakwazi ukukuthwala, futhi abanikeze isivikelo nokusekelwa, futhi kulokhu isiThunywa sikaAllah (ukuthula nezibusiso zikaMvelinqangi makube phezu kwakhe) sathi: “ Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angaba nomusa enkolweni futhi asize indodana yabo ukuba ihloniphe.” Wayesethi (ukuthula nezibusiso zika Allah kube kuye) wathi: “Sizani abantwana benu balunge.