UNkulunkulu anibusise ekuseni, bothisha bami abahlonishwayo nozakwethu abahloniphekile.Namhlanje sikhethele ukusakazwa kwesikole mayelana nokuziphatha, noma okukhulu nakakhulu.Lezimilo zimayelana nokuhlonipha abazali, futhi kungenye yezenzo ezinkulu kakhulu ezibonisa ukuziphatha okuhle.
Abazali banenzuzo enkulu kubantwana babo, futhi yibo abadela isikhathi esiningi, umzamo, nemali futhi benza konke ababengakwenza ukuze bakukhulise, bakunakekele futhi bakwenze ube umuntu omuhle emphakathini.
Isingeniso somsakazo mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali
Ukuba nesibopho kubazali kungesinye sezenzo ezibaluleke kakhulu umuntu asondela ngazo eNkosini yakhe futhi afune ngayo iPharadesi laKhe, ukwaneliseka Kwakhe kanye nempumelelo Yakhe empilweni nasemizamweni yakhe.
UNkulunkulu uye wahlanganisa emavesini aKhe anqumayo phakathi kokukhulekela okubaluleke kakhulu, okuwukukhonza uNkulunkulu oyedwa nokuhlonipha abazali, okubonisa umvuzo omkhulu walo msebenzi, lapho umuntu ezama ukubuyisela ingxenye yomusa wabo kuye ngokubanakekela ekuziphatheni kwabo. ubuthakathaka njengoba bemnakekela ebuthakathakeni bakhe.
Isingeniso somsakazo wesikole mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali
Ukuphatha kwenu okuhle abantwana benu ababili kanye nomusa nenjabulo yabo kuyobuyela kini ngobuhle obuchichimayo, futhi ngisho nalabo abashonelwe umzali oyedwa noma bobabili, uNkulunkulu umnikeze ithuba lokubahlonipha ngezipho eziqhubekayo nangemithandazo yokuthethelelwa. , nokwenza izenzo ezithile zokukhulekela egameni labo.
UNkulunkulu wenza ukuba yindodana elungile kwaba ngenye yezenzo ezinhle umuntu azishiya ngemuva emhlabeni emva kokufa kwakhe, njengoba kwasho isiThunywa sika Allah: “Lapho indodana ka-Adamu ifa, ubuhle bayo. izenzo zinqunyiwe kuye ngaphandle kwezintathu: umnikelo oqhubekayo, ulwazi oluzuzisayo, noma ingane elungile ethandazelayo.” kuye. ibhalwe nguMuslim"
Isingeniso somsakazo wesikole mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali bezingane
Mfowethu othandekayo, ezikhathini eziningi abantwana banomuzwa wokuthi abazali bayabacisha ngezicelo zabo nesifiso sabo sokuzilungisa nokuzibophezela kwabo, kodwa kufanele wazi ukuthi abazali bafuna ukukwenza ube ngcono kunabo, nokuthi baphakathi kwabo. abantu ababukhali kakhulu ngentshisekelo yakho, nokuthi bafuna kuphela konke okuhle, injabulo nenqubekela phambili empilweni yakho ngenxa yakho.
Ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi uhambisana nezwi likaAllah (oPhezukonke): “Futhi iNkosi yakho imise ukuthi ungakhonzi omunye ngaphandle Kwayo, futhi ube nomusa kubazali, oyedwa noma bobabili, ngakho-ke ungasho zwi kubazali bakhe. ungabathethisi, kodwa khuluma nabo ngenhlonipho.”
Isigaba esivela kwi-Holy Quran mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali
Ukukhuluma ngokuziphatha okuhle nokwethula ukusakazwa okuphelele kwesikole ngokuhlonipha abazali bomuntu kudinga ukuthi sikhulume ngokuhlonipha abazali bomuntu, lowomvuzo omkhulu uNkulunkulu ayala ngawo eNcwadini Yakhe eNgcwele, lapho Athi (oPhezukonke): “Futhi Sayala umuntu umphefumulo wakhe. abazali: Kimi nabazali bakho lapho siya khona."
Khuluma ngokuhlonipha abazali bomsakazo
Wathi uMprofethi ukuthula kube kuye): "Noma ngubani ongathanda ukuthi impilo yakhe inwetshwe futhi nokudla kwakhe kwandiswe, makahloniphe abazali bakhe futhi asekele izibopho zakhe zokuzalana.”
Esandleni sika-Abu Hurairah, kwangathi uNkulunkulu angajabula ngaye, owathi: “Kwafika umuntu esiThunyweni sikaNkulunkulu, kwangathi imikhuleko nokuthula kukaMvelinqangi kube phezu kwakhe, wathi: “O siThunywa sikaAllah, ofaneleka kakhulu abantu? Wathi: “Unyoko.” Wathi: “Ubani-ke? Wathi: Khona-ke unyoko, wathi: Khona-ke ubani? Wathi: “Khona unyoko.” Wathi: “Ubani-ke? Wathi: Khona-ke uyihlo.
Futhi ngegunya lika-Al-Muqdam ibn Ma’ad, kudidekile, ukuthi isiThunywa sika Allah – imikhuleko kaMvelinqangi nokuthula kube phezu kwakhe- sathi: “UAllah Uyakuyala nomndeni wakho – uNkulunkulu muhle.
Igama elimayelana nokuhlonipha abazali ngomsakazo wesikole
Emsakazweni omnandi omayelana nokuhlonipha abazali, inkulumo ayipheli ngalomsebenzi othandwa uMdali, ngaphandle kwakhe umphakathi ngeke uqonde.Ukuhlonipha abazali kuyithuba lakho mfowethu mfundi, dadewethu ofundayo.Kumele ulibambe. ukujabulisa uNkulunkulu (uMninimandla onke Nobukhosi) umvuzo omkhulu kwelizayo.
Njengoba impilo ingaqondile ngaphandle kokuba omdala ehawukele omncane, futhi omncane ahloniphe omdala, umusa kubazali nokubanakekela kuyimbuyiselo yengxenye yomusa wabo ekukunakekeleni usemncane futhi uncamela indodakazi yakho. induduzo phezu kokunethezeka kwabo.
Lithini igama lasekuseni lokuhlonipha abazali?
Kwangathi u-Allah angakubusisa ekuseni, othisha bami abahloniphekile kanye nabafowethu abathandekayo. Ukuhlonipha okukhulu kungenye yezimiso zokuziphatha ezihloniphekile eziphakamisa isikhundla sakho, ngakho-ke ingasaphathwa uma lo muntu omkhulu enodumo olukhulu kuwe! Ucabangani uma kungumzali oyedwa noma bobabili, futhi banelungelo lokuzala, ukufundisa, ukubheka ukunethezeka kwakho nokufeza izimfuno nezidingo zakho!
Enkulumweni yasekuseni yokuhlonipha abazali emsakazweni wesikole, kumele sikugcizelele ukuthi uNkulunkulu wenze ukuhlonipha abazali kwaba yisenzo esikhulu kunazo zonke emva kokukhonza uNkulunkulu oyedwa, futhi wenzele abazali abahloniphekile umvuzo omkhulu kulo mhlaba naLizayo.
Umsakazo wesikole okhuluma ngokuhlonipha abazali usulungile
Mfundi othandekayo, ukungalaleli abazali kungesinye sezono ezinkulu umuntu azojeziswa ngazo kulo mhlaba ngaphambi kweLizayo, futhi ukubahlonipha kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokusondela kuNkulunkulu.
Ngisho ne-jihad ngenxa kaNkulunkulu, uNkulunkulu ayenza ngesinye sezenzo ezinkulu kakhulu, uMprofethi oNgcwele wamnika ukunakekela kukamama osekhulile, ongathola kuphela le ndodana ukuthi imnakekele.
Qiniseka ukuthi ujabulisa abazali bakho ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ungakugqugquzeli ulaka lwabo, ukuphila kuyoba kuhle kuwe futhi uNkulunkulu uyojabula ngawe.
Uhlelo lomsakazo olumayelana nokuhlonipha abazali
Intshisekelo yenkolo ekukhuliseni umSulumane ukuze ahloniphe abazali bakhe yinto eqondisa ukuphila, futhi umphakathi uwumphakathi onempilo nolungile.
Imibuzo nezimpendulo mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali emsakazweni wesikole
Umama washona, ngamenzela ingubo ukuthi athandaze, pho umvuzo uyafinyelela kuye?؟
Ingubo, uma nenza kuyo indawo yokukhuleka futhi niyifake e-mosque njengomnikelo oqhubekayo, umvuzo walokho uyafinyelela kuyo.
Kuvumelekile yini ukuthi ubaba ashaye kanzima indodana?
Ngokuvumelana kwezazi zezomthetho, akuvumelekile ukuthi ubaba ashaye indodana yakhe kanzima.Isiyalo nesiyalo asimvumeli ukuthi ashaye indodana yakhe ngale ndlela.
Akuvumelekile ukuthi indodana ishaye uyise iphindisele, njengoba lokhu kuvela ekungalalelini okukhulu kakhulu, kodwa kufanele izivikele futhi igweme ukulimala ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukubusa ekuhlonipheni abazali ngomsakazo wesikole
Ngiyafunga! Uma nikhulumela phansi kuye, nimphakele ukudla, wayengena ePharadesi, njengoba wayengeke agweme izono ezinkulu.
Inhliziyo kamama iwumgodi ojulile oyohlala uthola ukuthethelelwa.
Ndodana, abazali bayiminyango emibili yobuhle evulekile kuwe, ngakho-ke sebenzisa ithuba ngaphambi kokuba bavale, futhi wazi ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi hlobo luni lomusa owenzayo kubazali bakho, ngeke ubuyisele noma yimuphi umusa wabo kuwe.
UNkulunkulu uyosheshisa ukufa kwenceku, uma ingalaleli abazali bayo, Uyosheshisa isijeziso sayo, futhi uNkulunkulu uyokwandisa ukuphila kwenceku uma ilungile, andise ukulunga nobuhle.
Ubumama buyipharadesi elibuthakathaka, ngoba ukungalaleli kwendodana kungase kubangele ukuba izisole, ukugula kwendodana kungayiguqula ibe usizi, nokufa kwendodana kuyoyiphonsa esihogweni.
Uzizwele ukuhlonipha abazali bomsakazo wesikole
Kusho u-Imam Shafi'i:
Lalela uNkulunkulu njengokuyala kwakhe...ugcwalise inhliziyo yakho ngobuhlakani.
Futhi ulalele uyihlo, ngokuba wa...wakukhulisa kusukela usemncane.
Imbongi uKhalil Mutran uthi:
Kufanele uhloniphe abazali bobabili ... futhi uhloniphe labo abaseduze nabakude
Kuyini osizini lokuqhekeka kwesibindi... Njengosizi lukababa ngengane
Phakathi kwezisho zembongi u-al-Ma'ari:
Ukuphila kudlule, ngakho hlonipha abazali bakho ngakho ... Futhi umama ufaneleka kakhulu ukuhlonishwa nomusa
Ngokusho kwakhe, ukukhulelwa nokuncelisa ibele kumenza alutheke...Zimbili izinto ngobuhle ezinikezwe wonke umuntu.
Indaba emayelana nokuhlonipha abazali ngomsakazo wesikole
Izifundo nezindaba ezibonisa ubuhle bokuhlonipha abazali, nokuthi lo msebenzi omuhle ungakusindisa kanjani empilweni yakho ezinkingeni eziningi nezingibe, kuhlanganise nale ndaba ethakazelisayo ethi:
Kwakukhona abantu abathathu ogwadule lapho izulu lalina khona, ngakho laba abathathu babalekela emhumeni entabeni. Kwathi besenjalo, kwawa idwala elikhulu lavala umhume phezu kwabo.
Futhi omunye wabo wathi: Yilowo nalowo kithi makakhuleke kuNkulunkulu, simnxuse ngesenzo esihle asenzileyo ukuze asisize sidudule idwala ukuze siphume.
Owokuqala wathi unabazali asebekhulile, uma esenga ubisi wayebaphuzisa, wabe esephuzisa izingane zakhe nomkakhe ngobisi, kwathi ngolunye usuku wabafica belele, wema emakhanda abo ngobisi. baze bavuka ngoba enyanya ukuphuzisa izingane zakhe kuqala yize bezincenga.
Wayesekhuleka kuNkulunkulu ukuthi uma ekwenzile lokho, efuna intando kaNkulunkulu, enze umhume wabo ube banzi kubo, idwala lavuleka ukuze baphunyuke emhumeni.
Indaba yokungalaleli kwabazali umsakazo wesikole
Njengoba nje kunezindaba eziningi nezifundo mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali bomuntu, ziningi futhi izindaba zokungalaleli, ikakhulukazi ezinsukwini zethu, kuhlanganise nale ndaba:
Ngesikhathi indoda ishayela imoto yayo nomkayo nezingane eduze nolwandle, yathola isalukazi sihlezi sodwa phakathi kwamabili, yasibuza ukuthi yenzeni? Nokuthi uyaludinga yini usizo?
Isalukazi sithe silinde indodana yaso eyabe isimtshela ukuthi izobuya izomthatha, akakholwanga lo mlisa walinda ihora lonke eduze kwakhe ukuze abone ukuthi akekho yini ozobuya azoyilanda ekhaya.
Kwathi kungavelanga muntu, wabuyela kuye, wamtshela ukuthi indodana yakhe ishiye nephepha kuye ukuze alethule kunoma ubani ombuza ngayo, walifunda leli phepha, futhi uma libhalwe kulo, “Otholayo lona wesifazane, makamyise ekhaya labalupheleyo.
Le ndaba ebuhlungu ingenye yezindaba zokungalaleli umnikazi wayo ongeke aphumelele empilweni yakhe futhi uzothola impatho efanayo ezinganeni zakhe esikhathini esizayo lapho esekhulile.
Ubuwazi ngomsakazo wesikole wabazali
Esigabeni esithi Ingabe uyazi ngomsakazo wesikole mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali, sethula kuwe isethi yolwazi oluthakazelisayo mayelana nomvuzo wokuhlonipha abazali, nokubaluleka kwalo msebenzi omkhulu ezimpilweni zethu:
Ukulalela abazali kungenye yezenzo ezithandwa kakhulu kuNkulunkulu ngemva kokuhlanganiswa!
Ukulalela abazali kwandisa ukuphila futhi kuletha ukuziphilisa!
Abazali bahlale beyisibonelo esihle kubantu abaningi emhlabeni jikelele!
Ukuhlonipha abazali akugcini ngokufa kwabo, njengoba ningaqhubeka nokwenza lomsebenzi omkhulu ngokunikela ngomusa egameni labo futhi nibabize!
Umusa nempatho enhle kuyizindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokukhuluma nabazali ukuze uthole ukwaneliseka kwabo nokwaneliseka koMusa Kakhulu!
UNkulunkulu uvuza olungile kubazali bakhe ekuphileni kwakhe ngokuchichima ukudla nokulunga kwabantwana bakhe kuye!
Isiphetho sokusakazwa mayelana nokuhlonipha abazali bomuntu
Ekupheleni kokusakazwa kokuhlonipha abazali, sithandaza kuNkulunkulu (swt) ukuba asenze abalungile kubazali bethu, futhi asisize sibalalele futhi sithole ukuvunyelwa kwabo.
Abazali yibona abafaneleka kakhulu ukuba nenkampani yethu, njengoba benikeza izingane zabo okuningi ukuze bazibone zisesimweni esihle kakhulu, futhi bangase badele izinto eziningi ezidingekayo ukuze banakekele izidingo zezingane zabo hhayi ukuze bazizwe befushane noma abaswele.
Ubaba nomama bawumthombo wolwazi, ukuziphatha, nezisekelo zemfundo ezigxiliswe ezinganeni futhi ziyisisekelo nomthombo wokuqala.
Khumbula njalo - mfundi othandekayo, mfundi othandekayo - ukuthi ukuhlonipha abazali bakho kuyamjabulisa uNkulunkulu futhi kungenye yezenzo ezinkulu eziqinisekisa impumelelo empilweni yakho.
