Ukubekezelelana kungenye yezimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu umuntu angaba nazo.” UNkulunkulu wakuthola ezinhliziyweni ezinhle ukuthethelela abantu, ukuthethelela amaphutha, ukweqa imizwa yenzondo nokuziphindiselela.
Umuntu obekezelayo ngumuntu onezindaba ezibalulekile ezimkhathazayo, ngakho akagcini kuwo wonke amazwi nezenzo ezingasho lutho, futhi akanayo intukuthelo ngezinto ezingasho lutho. kufanele athole indlela yokuzivikela ekulimazeni abanye.
Isingeniso sokusakazwa komsakazo mayelana nokubekezelelana
Ukubekezelelana kusho ukuvala amehlo amaphutha nokushiyeka kwabantu bese uvala akusho ukuba buthakathaka nokwamukela ukuthukwa.
Esethulweni somsakazo esikhuluma ngokubekezelelana nokuxolelana, sichaza ukuthi umuntu obekezelayo ufunela abantu izaba futhi uyabazisa izimo ababhekene nazo ngaphandle kokuthola ubuthaka noma ubudedengu kuye nalabo abaphikelela ngokumcasula.
Futhi izikhungo eziningi eziphathelene nempilo yengqondo nokuphepha seziqeqeshe abantu ukuba bazindle futhi bazilolonge i-yoga ukuze basuse imizwa engemihle njengentukuthelo nesifiso sokuziphindiselela futhi zikufundise ukulawula intukuthelo yakho ukuze uvikele ukuphepha kwakho ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba.
Isingeniso somsakazo wesikole mayelana nokubekezelelana
Ukubekezelelana kuyisici sabantu abahloniphekile, futhi izithunywa zasinika izibonelo ezimangalisayo ngalabo abalinyazwayo, ngakho abazange babuyisele isijeziso esinzima kubo lapho uNkulunkulu ebanika amandla kanye nemiyalezo yabo emhlabeni, ikakhulukazi lapho labo ababuya sebephendukile futhi bakholwa izigijimi zabaprofethi.
Intethelelo ingelinye lamagama amahle kaNkulunkulu abantu abathanda ukuwabiza.Ukuthethelela nokubekezelelana kuphakathi kwezimfanelo ezinhle ezibonisa imiphefumulo emikhulu.
Igama elimayelana nokubekezelelana komsakazo wesikole
Ukubekezelelana kwenkolo yamaSulumane kwaba yisizathu sokusabalala kwayo kuzo zonke izingxenye zomhlaba ngesikhathi sesiThunywa nabaHlengi.
Kunamavesi amaningi nama-hadith akhuthaza abantu ukuthi bathethelele futhi baxolele umenzi wobubi uma ehoxisa ukona kwakhe.
Umsakazo okhuluma ngokubekezelelana kwesigaba sokuqala
Mfundi othandekayo, ukuziphatha okuhle kakhulu okungaqoqa abangani eduze kwakho futhi kubenze basondele kuwe, bakuthande, ukubabekezelela, ukwamukela izaba zabo, nokungaphenduli ekuhlukunyezweni ngokuhlukumeza.
Ukuziphatha okubekezelelana ngaphandle kobuthakathaka noma ukunganaki emalungelweni kuwukuziphatha okusabalalisa uthando nokubambisana, nokwenza umphakathi uncike komunye nomunye futhi ube nobuzalwane.
Kubekezelele ukushiyeka kwabanye futhi ubathethelele, ikakhulukazi labo osondelene nabo abakuthandayo njengabazali bakho, othisha bakho nabangani bakho.
Umsakazo wesikole mayelana nokubekezelelana
Ukuthethelela kungesinye sezizathu zenjabulo yangaphakathi, isiqinisekiso kanye nokuthula kwengqondo, futhi kufeza ukulinganisela kuwe.Imizwa yenzondo nesifiso sokuziphindiselela yenza umzimba ukhiqize izinhlanganisela ezizilimaza wona ngokwawo ngaphambi kokuba zilimaze abanye.
Imibono yomsakazo mayelana nokubekezelelana
U-Allah Udumisile izinceku zaKhe ezifunela abanye izaba futhi ezicindezela intukuthelo yazo futhi zixolele abantu, futhi Ubenzele umvuzo omkhulu, kulo mhlaba kanye nakwelizayo.
Enye yezindaba ezinhle kakhulu ezikhulunywa yiKur’an eNgcwele mayelana nentethelelo ukuthethelelwa komProfethi kaNkulunkulu, uJosefa, kubafowabo ngemva kokuba bemphonse emthonjeni ngenxa yomona wothando lukayise ngaye.
Kunalokho, uNkulunkulu wasitshela eNcwadini Yakhe ukuthi impendulo Yakhe kubo yayiwukuthi:
Kanjalo nendaba yomProfethi oNgcwele uMuhammad (ube phezu kwakhe umkhuleko nokulethwa okuphelele) ngemva kokunqotshwa kweMecca, lapho ethi kubantu bakhe ababemlimaza futhi bamphoqa ukuba afuduke ezweni lakubo: “Hambani, ngoba mahhala.”
Uhlelo lomsakazo mayelana nokubekezelelana
Umngane wami ongumfundi / umngane wami ongumfundi, Inzondo kanye nesifiso sokuziphindiselela ngumlilo oshisa labo abawubhula ngaphakathi kuye ngaphambi kokuba uqede labo abambangela ukuba afune ukuziphindiselela.
Ukubekezelelana kuyisizathu esikhulu sokuletha injabulo nokuthula ekuphileni kwakho, futhi akusho ukuthi kufanele uvumele ukuxhashazwa okuqhubekayo ngamabomu.
Futhi esikhathini esidlule, babethi, ungabi lukhuni, futhi uphuke, noma uthambe, futhi ucindezele, kodwa ubekezele futhi ube nomusa.
Isigaba se-Holy Qur'an yomsakazo wesikole mayelana nokubekezelelana
UNkulunkulu usifundisa ukubekezelelana futhi uphakamisa isimo sokubekezela emavesini amaningi okukhumbula okuhlakaniphile, futhi ekusakazweni ngomusa nokubekezelelana sisho amanye ala mavesi anqumayo.
UNkulunkulu USomandla wathi: “Thatha intethelelo, yala isiko, futhi ufulathele abangenalwazi.”
Njengoba uSomandla asho: “Abaningi kubantu beNcwadi babefisa ukunibuyisela ekukholweni emva kokukholwa kwenu, ngenxa yomona ovela kubo ngemva kokuba senibathengisile, futhi nithethelele kuze kube uAllah Alethe umyalo waKhe. Ngempela uAllah Unamandla phezu kwakho konke. izinto.”
Njengoba Yena (Ukhazinyulisiwe futhi Uphakeme Makabe NgaYe) Asho: “Futhi makungabikho phakathi kwenu labo abangcono futhi abakwaziyo ukunikeza izihlobo, abampofu nabafudukayo endleleni kaNkulunkulu, futhi mababe nomusa nomusa. ” Nithanda ukuthi uAllah Uyanithethelela, futhi uAllah Uyathethelela, Unomusa.”
Futhi uAllah (oPhezukonke) wathi: “Abalungile nababi abalingani, ngaphandle kwalabo ababekezelayo, futhi akukho noyedwa owamukelayo ngaphandle kwenhlanhla enkulu.
Futhi uNkulunkulu (oPhezukonke) wathi: “Nakulowo obekezelayo futhi athethelele.
Isigaba se-hadith ehloniphekile yomsakazo wesikole mayelana nokubekezelelana
IsiThunywa sikaMvelinqangi (uNkulunkulu angasibusisa futhi asinike ukuthula) sabeka isibonelo esiphezulu futhi wasibekela isibonelo sokuthethelela nokubekezelelana.Phakathi kwama-hadith ahloniphekile lapho isiThunywa sikaMvelinqangi sanxusa khona intethelelo nokubekezelelana yilezi ezilandelayo:
IsiThunywa sikaAllah (ukuthula kube kuye) sathi: “Ningazondani, ningafelani umona, ningaphendukeli omunye komunye, ningadubani, futhi yibani izinceku zikaNkulunkulu njengabafowabo. Akuvumelekile ukuthi umSulumane alahle umfowabo isikhathi esingaphezu kwezinsuku ezintathu.” Ilandiswa ngu-Al-Bukhari
Wathi (kwangathi imikhuleko kaAllah nokuthula makube kuye) wathi: “Mesabeni uNkulunkulu nomaphi lapho enikhona, futhi nilandele isenzo esibi ngesenzo esihle sokusisusa, futhi niphathe abantu ngokuziphatha okuhle.” Ilandiswa ngu-Al-Tirmidhi
U-Abu Hurairah (uNkulunkulu angajabula ngaye) ngokulandisa koMprofethi (ukuthula nezibusiso zika Allah kube kuye) ukuthi wathi: “Uthando alunciphi emcebweni, futhi uNkulunkulu akendisi isigqila ngokuxolela ngaphandle udumo, futhi akekho ozithoba kuNkulunkulu ngaphandle kokuthi uNkulunkulu amphakamise.” Ilandiswa nguMuslim
U-Al-Tabarani ulandise ngegunya lika-Ubadah ukuthi wathi: IsiThunywa sikaAllah (uMvelinqangi) sathi: “Ngeke nginazise ngalokho uNkulunkulu ahlonipha ngakho isakhiwo futhi akhuphule izinga na? Bathi: “Yebo, siThunywa sikaAllah.” Wathi: “Uphupha labo abangenalwazi ngawe, futhi uthethelela labo abakonile, futhi unikeza labo ababekunqabele, futhi uhlobanisa nabakunqamulayo. icishiwe.”
Ukuhlakanipha mayelana nokubekezelela umsakazo wesikole
Ukubekezelelana kungezinye zezinto ezinhle ezifiswa izazi nongoti bokuthuthukiswa kwabantu ukuze ube nempilo enhle ngokwengqondo ngaphambi kwanoma ubani omunye. Nazi izisho ezidumile mayelana nokuthethelela nokubekezelelana:
- Isazi esaziwayo sokuthuthukiswa kwabantu, u-Ibrahim al-Feki, sithi ngokubekezelela: “Umuntu onenhliziyo embi kumuntu yilowo othukuthele futhi aziphindiselele futhi ajezise, kuyilapho isimo sangempela somuntu siwukuhlanzeka, ukuzibekezelela; ukuthula, nokubekezelelana nabanye.”
- Mayelana no-Imam Ali bin Abi Talib, uthi: “Abahlakaniphe kunabo bonke abantu yibo abaxolelwa kakhulu abantu.”
- Uthi futhi: “Uma uthola amandla phezu kwesitha sakho, sixolele njengokubonga ngokuthi ukwazile ukusinqoba.”
- Nelson Mandela wathi, “Abanesibindi abesabi ukuxolela ukuze kube nokuthula.”
- UNehru uthi, "Yimiphefumulo emikhulu kuphela ekwazi ukuthethelela."
- Esisho esihlekisayo sikaMilton Berle: “Umfazi omuhle yilowo ohlale ethethelela umyeni wakhe, kuyilapho kunguye onephutha.”
Inkondlo emayelana nokubekezelelana emsakazweni wesikole
Abantu bayakubona ukubaluleka kokudala ukubekezelelana okuphakeme ngemva kokuhlupheka kwempindiselo nokuziphindiselela.Izimpi nezimpi kuwo wonke umlando kwakuyizimbangela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuphindisela, impindiselo nenzondo, kanye nokuntuleka kwezimiso zokuziphatha zokubekezelelana nokuthethelela.
Ziningi izincwadi, izinkondlo kanye nokulandisa okukhuthaza ukubekezelelana futhi kukhuphule izinga labantu abathokozela lobu buhle obukhulu nobubalulekile.Ezinye zezinkondlo ezikhuthaza ukubekezelelana zihlanganisa lezi ezilandelayo:
- Imbongi u-Osama bin Manfath uthe:
Uma abalingana nabo belimaza inhliziyo yami... ngizobekezela ukona futhi ngihoxe
Futhi ngaya kubo nginobuso obuhle... sengathi angizwanga futhi angizange ngibone
- Imam Shafi'i wathi:
Lapho ngixolela futhi ngingambambele muntu amagqubu... ngazikhulula ekukhathazekeni kobutha
Ngibingelele isitha sami uma ngisibona...ukuxosha okubi kimi ngokubingelela
Futhi abantu bakhombisa indoda ezondwa kakhulu... kube sengathi inhliziyo yami igcwele uthando
Abantu bayisifo futhi umuthi wabantu wukusondelana kwabo... Ekuthatheni kwabo umhlalaphansi uthando luyanqamuka
- Abu Al-Atahiya wathi:
Mngani wami uma omunye nomunye wenu engaxoleli...uyakhubeka umfowabo nihlukane nobabili
Ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho, uma bengazange bakuvumele... Akuthandeki kakhulu ukuthi bazondane
Isoka lami liwumnyango wobuhle ukuthi bahlangane bobabili... Njengoba umnyango wetekisi uwukuthi bayaphikisana
- U-Alkrezi uthi:
Ngizozibophezela ekuthetheleleni zonke izoni...noma amacala emaningi
Abantu bamunye kuphela kwabathathu... bahloniphekile, bahloniphekile, futhi bayisaga esiphikisayo
Ngokuqondene nalowo ongaphezulu kwami: Ngiyawazi umusa wakhe... futhi ngilandele iqiniso kuwo, futhi iqiniso liyadingeka
Ngokuqondene nowangaphansi kwami: uma ethi ngithule ngokuthi ... impendulo yakhe ngengozi yami, futhi uma esolwa.
Futhi onjengami: uma eshelela noma eshelela... wamukelekile, ngoba ukubekezela kungumahluleli wokulunga.
Indaba emfushane mayelana nokubekezelelana komsakazo wesikole
Ukuze sethule ukusakazwa okuphelele kokubekezelelana, sikukhumbuza indaba emnandi, bangane bami babafundi, mayelana nokubekezelelana:
Kuthiwa abangane ababili babehamba ogwadule, futhi babephakathi kwabantu abaqotho nabanothando kakhulu nabangane abaphana kunabo bonke ababenabo omunye nomunye. Bathe besahamba kwasuka ingxabano phakathi kwabo kwagcina ngokuthi omunye ashaye omunye ngempama, wacasuka, engafuni ukulahlekelwa umngane wakhe, wabhala esihlabathini. "Namuhla umngani wami omkhulu ungishaye ngempama."
Ngakusasa, ngesikhathi behamba, lo muntu oshaywe ngempama wawela olwandle olusheshayo, ngakho umngane wakhe wanamathela kuye futhi wenqaba ukumshiya ukuze afe futhi wakwazi nokumkhipha esihlabathini esimanzi.
Lapho indoda eshaywe ngempama izizwa ilondekile futhi ibamba umoya, yabhala etsheni: “Namuhla umngane wami omkhulu usindise ukuphila kwami.”
Umngane wamangala futhi wambuza: “Kungani ubhala icala lami esihlabathini, futhi ulobe umusa wami edwaleni?”
Umngane waphendula: Lapho abangani abathandekayo besiphatha kabi, kufanele sikubhale esihlabathini ukuhlukunyezwa kwabo, ukuze kufike imimoya yokuthethelela futhi ikuqede futhi ikusule.
Isiphetho mayelana nokubekezelelana komsakazo wesikole
Umngane wami womfundi/umngane wami womfundi, ekupheleni komsakazo wesikole okhuluma ngokubekezelelana, sithanda ukugcizelela ukuthi ukubekezelelana kuwuphawu lwabahlonishwayo, imiphefumulo emikhulu, abanesikhala sokuzethemba sokuthethelela amaphutha futhi bashalazele izenzo ezimbi. .
Umuntu ophanayo ngempela yilowo owazisayo ukushiyeka kwabanye futhi angaphindiseli okubi ngokufanayo, futhi njengoba uGandhi asho: “Iso ngeso lenza izwe libe ngaboni.”
Ukuthethelela kunenzuzo ekuthuleni kwakho okungokwengqondo nomzimba, futhi umuntu oqondile nguye ongaxosha imizwa yenzondo nentukuthelo kuye futhi alondoloze ukuthula kwangaphakathi.
Umuntu onamandla nguyena kuphela okwaziyo ukubekela eceleni imizwa yenzondo futhi adlule kuyo, akhumbule okuhle ngaphambi kokubi, alondoloze uthando kwabanye, futhi angakhathazeki ngokuziphindiselela.
Futhi uma umuntu ecabanga ngezimo zomhlaba, wayethola ukuthi imvelo iphindisela kumcindezeli ukuze azuze ukulingana, nokuthi umenzi wobubi uyawuthola umvuzo wakhe ngandlela thize, futhi umzuzi naye uyawuthola umvuzo wokulunga kwakhe, noma ngabe lokho. ibambezelekile isikhathi esithile.Kwanele ukuthi ugcine ubumsulwa bakho kanye nokuthula kwengqondo futhi wenqabe imizwa yentukuthelo nenzondo.
